Another HuffingtonPost article bashing and labeling men as cheaters.

MaunaLoona · 2012-08-02T05:54:26+00:00

Article has no substance.

Men she knows cheated on their wives. The sky is falling.

NiggerJew944 · 2012-08-02T14:29:02+00:00

How can a man who always preached to his children the values of integrity suddenly lie and cheat on their mother? How can a man who values self-control suddenly lose control, have multiple affairs and go on spending sprees that take the family into bankruptcy? How can a man who teaches his kids the values of marriage and the sanctity of living together only after marriage, suddenly move in with his girlfriend and her kids much to the detriment of his own children?

I don't think it's all that shocking. You have two conflicting ideals here. On the one side, you have the socially enforced ideal of the honorable man, who faithfully provided for his wife and kids over a lifetime, never complains, is a pillar of his community and is indebted to no one. The other ideal is the more base desire to have fun with your life, enjoy the time you have, don't waste resources on other people who don't appreciate you etc. Basically the life of the free spirit who does what he wants.

Men are guided down the path of the first ideal since they are born and its common throughout history. The first ideal is suppose to come with the benefits of wielding influence in your community, having a stable life and a loving home. Of course, most of modern society has nothing but contempt for all things male, and those payoffs aren't insured. If a man makes the sacrifices necessary for family, job, community and honor only to be bitten in the ass later when he realizes that nobody appreciates him, he has no authority, and his life sucks, of course he is going to abandon all responsibility. It's not temporary insanity, it's the only logical choice.

irishsnowday · 2012-08-03T03:52:46+00:00

That's funny, because more than 2/3s of divorces are filled by women, yet only 27% of divorce cases involve any sort of infidelity or adultery.

So what's really going on? Why are women choosing to separate their families when only a small percentage is because of infidelity?

And why is alimony given to those who separate for reasons other than infidelity, or true proven abuse? The term male disposability comes to mind.

JesusSaidSo · 2012-08-02T17:59:54+00:00

I don't see how this article bashes men and labels them as cheaters. Please don't be an overly offended pussy. Let "feminists" play that card.

This writer has very valid points about hipocrisy. Show me the male bashing and labeling.

Title	Another HuffingtonPost article bashing and labeling men as cheaters.
Author	ryuh90
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Date	August 2, 2012 5:39 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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