“Are we dating the same guy” groups

tilldeathdoiparty · 2026-03-19T00:04:35+00:00

I have had friends posted, they were doing girls dirty, my one buddy panicked at first but now it just helps him slay more… it’s almost like a bad boy prescreening app for him.

The other guy took it really hard, but he was a total douche and couldn’t admit what he was doing was wrong and moved to a new city.

Comprehensive_Baby53 · 2026-03-19T04:39:02+00:00

Can you imagine the anger and claims of "violations" if men did this to women..."OMG I'm calling the police, you posted my photo online, that's a violation you creep!"

offgridfox69 · 2026-03-19T01:43:13+00:00

I know the groups you’re talking about. 2 years ago I was with a 32 year old girl who showed me the groups. I was 29 at the time. It showed me how awful the dating market was. How everyone has second options. How no matter what you do or say the wrong person will share it with everyone. I knew the world was doomed at that point.

jack_frosty21 · 2026-03-18T15:51:30+00:00

what does not taking no for an answer entail?

Truthstudios805 · 2026-03-24T07:50:50+00:00

Haunts me too. Surprised it’s still allowed. I don’t even accept you saying you made some bad decisions - that’s part of life. There is no world where every girl you’ve had the slightest convo with should be allowed to pile-on. If some woman are so that insecure that they need to post someone to a gc with 100k+ viewers for any tea, they shouldn’t be dating

Ok_Split9585 · 2026-03-19T10:53:42+00:00

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Realistic_Lychee_386 · 2026-03-29T03:14:15+00:00

Lol it actually helped me from a huge bullet!! The guy has obsessive tendencies (which I already had a gut feeling because he sent me multiple messages after ending this) and he was abusive and manipulate! My friend used this group and found out he was dating multiple woman and trying to steal their identities!

Admirable_Welcome818 · 2026-04-05T13:56:49+00:00

I honestly wonder if I’m on there. Just based on how things have gone. My last actual relationship was an absolute bummer. Only lasted a month and I dropped her off at her moms and met her family but didn’t stay I wanted to just say hi and dip. Apparently that wasn’t good enough and I embarrassed her which caused her to have anxiety about the relationship and start doubting. Next date I noticed she was off and she cried and freaked out about that. She did compare that to one past relationship just as bad as a guy who allegedly abused her. Which hurt cause I’ve never hit another woman ( excluding sister cause as she says these hands are E rated for everyone). Since then I’ve never had another dating app talk get off the ground and I’m coming close to a year. I regret that relationship cause she was the one I lost my v card to (23 years old too btw). I keep to myself read lift and come off as nerdy. I think she did something online but idk never will know.

Excellent-Noise5323 · 2026-04-08T12:05:35+00:00

I’m late to this but. How do you find out if you’re posted on one? Just find a girl who’s willing to look for you or what? Cuz I’ve been ghosted by 3 people I was talking to lately in the same timespan (mind you I’ve told them all I’m only interested in casual and I don’t have a gf) and im getting an inkling I’ve been posted on one

Over_Soup3322 · 2026-05-21T17:02:46+00:00

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT FOR MEN WHO HAVE BEEN POSTED ON AWDTSG or fear of that happening.

I was successfully able to get my images/post removed from that group. Fortunately, the same photos that were posted had already existed on my personal Facebook profile, which helped me easily establish ownership and expedite the entire process.

My recommendation to all men using dating apps: post the same photos you use on dating apps to your personal Facebook account as well. Even if you don’t want them publicly visible, that’s completely fine ... just set the posts to private. The important part is being able to demonstrate that the images originated from your personal account and that you are the copyright owner.

If your photos are reposted on another Facebook Page by another person without permission, you can submit a copyright claim directly through Facebook using this form: https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/copyrightform

In my case, the post was ultimately removed. The process took about two weeks, although there may have been delays because the form appeared to have technical issues when I initially submitted it.

Novel-Classroom5802 · 2026-07-14T19:07:52+00:00

r/AWDTSGistoxic

Mute_Goma · 2026-03-19T09:19:59+00:00

I like how DatingBloomly actually gets dating moving. Matched someone I was into, set up a meetup easily, and it turned into a hookup that was mutual and a lot of fun.

Tom-Cadillac · 2026-04-30T04:57:06+00:00

I’m looking for guidance on how to address false and defamatory statements made about me across multiple versions of this group.

I understand and respect the original intent of these pages—to help protect women and share legitimate concerns. However, in my case, false claims have been posted that are not based in truth, and I’ve had no opportunity to respond or defend myself.

I’m concerned about the spread of inaccurate information, especially when posts may be made anonymously or without accountability. This can have real consequences for someone’s reputation.

What options are available for having defamatory content removed? Has anyone had success reporting or pursuing action in a situation like this? I’d appreciate any insight or direction on how to handle this appropriately.

Thank you.

Title	“Are we dating the same guy” groups
Author	SeaImpress3374
Upvotes	64
Comments	33
Date	March 18, 2026 3:23 PM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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