Dealing with simps (as answers on my previous post one of the biggest roadblock MRAs have is simps, so what to do or deal with them?)

My_name_sucks64564 · 2022-12-04T03:14:41+00:00

Make them feel more welcome with us instead of against us. Alot of threads regarding mens rights devolve into "women this, women that".

Start talking to other men, i saw a video before today where 15 men say that they have no one to turn to when they need to talk. Start being that guy they can turn to.

bloodfuel · 2022-12-04T03:50:18+00:00

Empower them to the point that they don't value women's validation. The reason simps are the way they are is because men as a group value validation from women. Once they realize they don't need a woman for their life to be fulfilling and that they don't need validation from women to be proud of themselves they will stop simping. We need a men's empowerment movement. Men need to gain some dignity and self-respect.

WeEatBabies · 2022-12-04T16:05:44+00:00

You don't!

You let them get married and have kids and the family court system will deal with them!

Dronterz · 2022-12-04T18:26:04+00:00

I think simping stems from not viewing women as entire human beings and only seeing them as something to lust over. Probably due to their lack of experience with women. This causes them to be blind to women's abuse. Pretty similar to "girls only like assholes".

I think a good thing with feminism is that a lot of them push for women to be viewed as regular people, which I agree with. But of course, many also push for being viewed as superior to men...

I think that if simps can get past the idealization/pedestalization of women because of physical attraction, we wouldn't have this problem. But a lot of guys lack options/experience and are desperate for love and affection. So they just cling to whatever idea they have of their crush, instead of understanding that she's just a person with flaws like anyone else.

One solution could be that every simp becomes super attractive and is overflowing with options. That way they can meet more women and see how multifaceted they are and finally understand that they are just like us. But this seems unlikely...

Another solution would be to go through some sort of trauma, or perhaps witness their crush hurt someone they care about. But I don't like this option 😕

Title	Dealing with simps (as answers on my previous post one of the biggest roadblock MRAs have is simps, so what to do or deal with them?)
Author	My_name_sucks64564
Upvotes	48
Comments	10
Date	December 4, 2022 3:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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