1. https://www.oudersvannu.nl/forums/onderwerp/besnijdenis-puberzonen/ Jolante: Dear fellow forum members, I would like your advice for a dilemma. Last week, one of our 11-year-old twin sons was circumcised in Amsterdam because he had constant inflammation of his glans. Because we made the decision ourselves that we would like to have him circumcised, nothing is paid by the insurance. According to the insurance, it was a circumcision for hygienic/cosmetic reasons because the inflammations were the result of a reason that we prefer not to say. Our son has hardly had any pain, last Thursday we removed the clamp and it is already almost healed. The result is already very nice. Our boy can no longer do the thing that caused his glans to become so inflamed and he already feels a lot better. Since the result is so good, my husband and I have decided to have the rest of our boys in the house circumcised as well. We contacted the clinic and decided to have this done during the summer holidays because of school. Today we went for a consultation and Jason can also do it with a clip and in the same way as with his twin brother. This clamping method is not suitable for our 10-year-old son Tim, as it is for our 15-year-old Bruce and my husband. The doctor recommend that we do this with the free hand method, which involves a number of choices and a number of other things to do as well.
  2. We've already decided that all three will be circumcised tight and low because the clinic is just doing this surgery. With our twins, the clamp also automatically cut their frenulum. Is it advisable to do this for the rest as well? I am in favor of it myself, because everyone has the same thing. What we also run into is that both Tim and Bruce are not allowed to have pubic hair by the doctor. So this has to be shaved away, but as a mother I don't like doing this, but my boys have no experience with it. What will be the best way to do this. Finally, Bruce told the doctor that he didn't want to be circumcised. The doctor has talked to him well and explained very calmly that it is more hygienic and more beautiful and that almost half his school class has been circumcised, but we notice that he is still very scared. So I have the following questions: # Whether or not to cut the frenulum. The doctor says that he cannot make a choice for us. # How to shave pubic hair Bruce and Tim. Doctor recommends I do that… # How to reassure Bruce? Maybe get Bruce circumcised as soon as the doctor says. Thanks for your input. A Dutch bitch got her son cut for faux health reasons after she discovered her 11-year-old son masturbating, and then wants to mutilate her other sons too, even a 15-year-old that says he doesn't want it. The doctor lied that half the kids in his class are cut!