Here's a 4 minutes video of quotes from Esther Vilar, who wrote The Manipulated Man. Here is one of the quotes first.

Men have been trained and conditioned by women not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs into becoming their slaves. If a young man gets married starts a family and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. While the other type of man living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself sleeping where and when he wants and facing women when he meets her on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves is rejected by Society.

And the video

https://youtu.be/SxUJQOV9MD4?si=VaIClWItpSHpG4Vw