It's in the air all around her. The olfactory signals emanating from women raise testosterone levels, and make them appear more attractive. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1474704916643328

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2221618913601407

This is a hidden weapon in her armoury. A Venus Fly Trap, where 5 seconds of pleasure might lead to 18 years of indentured labour. When a woman suddenly appears 3x more attractive, this is equivalent to getting a man drunk... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNn-6FzTimY

So, there are serious ramifications for men's rights, including questions about free will and volition.

If there are any qualms, simply thinking about Child Support should have the required counter-aphrodisiac effect.