Getting to ‘No’

DavidByron2 · 2014-12-11T21:36:58+00:00

Just another woman making a false rape accusation.

I am certain he thought he was, as we used to say back then, a totally decent guy

Well then it wasn't fucking rape was it? You can't have it both ways. That statement is this false rape accuser saying that a reasonable person wouldn't have known she was saying no. But somehow she wants it to be rape anyway even though she admits she didn't say no in a way that a reasonable person could have realized -- because men have to be bloody psychic or something. Or more likely because she wants her little rape narrative but she doesn't want to accuse the individual man concerned. She wants to be raped. she wants to have that feminist victim cred but at the same time she wants it without being too much of an asshole to the "rapist" she's lying about.

If someone was assaulting ME and I was saying no and struggling then sure as fuck I wouldn't say the person assaulting me was being decent.

Just another false rape accuser.

DavidByron2 · 2014-12-11T21:42:37+00:00

This is not the legal definition of rape. It's feminist bullshit.

By the legal definition, what happened the night of the red cup was sexual assault: I said no. He pressured me, until, under the influence, I stopped resisting

you saying "no" doesn't count if you say "no" in a way that a reasonable person can't understand
pressure to have sex isn't rape.
drunk sex isn't rape

xNOM · 2014-12-11T20:46:26+00:00

Couldn't really find the right flair. Kind of an emotional piece about how a lot of this unwanted college sex comes about? Female hypoagency...

Cassius666 · 2014-12-12T00:53:22+00:00

So you would rather get sexed when you dont want to than say no? I am sorry but thats BS with a lot of llhit in between.

aesopstortoise · 2014-12-11T22:25:33+00:00

Interesting article. She appears to still be confused as to how to classify what happened and I can see why. What puzzles me, and I don't mean I don't believe her, is that she did not have a strong enough boundary in her own mind to feel okay about literally screaming at him. It wasn't just the drink, I have been paralytic but would still take a swipe at anyone that tried to have sex with me against my will.

What is happening, in the minds of both the man and the woman, when the man pressures the woman and she finally allows, acquiesces, to unwanted sex that she will later deeply regret, and how can this be avoided? She isn't calling it rape and I won't, but it would have been better if it hadn't happened. I feel that the truth may be too uncomfortable for many to face, and has more to do with our animal past than our civilised present. Alcohol doesn't cause this, it accentuates and accelerates it.

jdtroughton · 2014-12-12T02:12:58+00:00

Wrong sub.

Title	Getting to ‘No’
Author	xNOM
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	December 11, 2014 8:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2p0arl/getting_to_no/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/getting-to-no.992229 https://theredarchive.com/post/992229

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