How do you know?

EvilLothar · 2020-10-15T14:55:09+00:00

You know. If she's not expecting you to pay for everything. If she's not spouting feminist crap all the time. If she's not throwing up red flags (high partner count, believes women are oppressed, etc). Does she respect you and your opinion? How is her family? Is her dad in the picture and is he the man of the house? What do you do for a living and does she know about it?

The guys that get raped are the ones who choose to wife up a ho and ignore the massive number of red flags that are waved in front of their faces.

The women that will do this are the one's that don't come from a traditional family and have bought into the western feminist empowered woman bullshit.

beatstorelax · 2020-10-15T17:01:07+00:00

her family... everyone is A LOT more related to family than they think. so, if her sister, mom, aunt etc, is a bitch and no one gives a shit...thats a big red flag

excess_inquisitivity · 2020-10-15T11:00:58+00:00

Mgtow

2020-10-15T05:06:16+00:00

There is no right woman/man and the concept of a family (While there's nothing wrong with it) Is outdated and most people are simply conditioned into believing it's what they want.

But yeah there is no perfect match for us. No matter who we choose they will have pros and cons and there will inevitably be things you work through. Just look for someone who's personality you genuinely like and could stand to be around for 50+ years.

RockmanXX · 2020-10-15T12:10:15+00:00

I mean, you don't need to "marry" to start a family, you can cohabitate and have kids. If she still insists on "marriage" she's obviously having ulterior motives.

tenchineuro · 2020-10-15T15:05:48+00:00

How do we know when we’ve found the right woman to settle down with and start a family?

You don't. That's why the divorce rate is about 50%.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2020-10-15T16:17:31+00:00

You'll know when you use descriptive, non- clickbait titles. ^/s

2020-10-15T08:30:08+00:00

It's been said that men are risk takers. Maybe that's why they end up in unhappy marriages. Its a crap shoot. You've got about a 50/50 chance of making it. Did you ask her dad or mother if you could propose? You should. Their reaction may give you your answer. If they're falling all over themselves, or are relived, then reconsider the whole thing. If they are hesitant, like you're not good enough for her, go for it, if they finally approve.

caem123 · 2020-10-16T13:04:58+00:00

There are real statistics out there in regards to probability of divorce based on certain demographics, behaviors, professions, etc. It's not just '50/50' for all marriages.

An example of some research of divorce based on education/race: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/

divorce rates research based on professions:

https://www.monster.com/career-advice/article/job-divorce-rate-1017

Title	How do you know?
Author	Psiborg0099
Upvotes	13
Comments	14
Date	October 15, 2020 2:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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