Interesting Tinder experiment: 26M (attractive dude) vs 38F (unattractive women + 7 kids)

OnVerraB1 · 2026-05-29T19:16:39+00:00

This post as nothing to do with men’s rights. Please delete this. Posts that are about how difficult it is to get pussy, wether it’s right or wrong, only stains our image and the image of the sub, so please stop making us look like incels.

With that being said, that’s men’s fault tbh. Stop swiping right on literally anything because you’re desperate. If women didn’t have everyone at their feet it wouldn’t be nearly as difficult to get a girlfriend and they wouldn’t act entitled. Have standards and stick to it (for them but also for yourself).

With that being said (again), it’s funny when women say "the bar is in hell" when even attractive men are so desperate that they are willing to swipe right on this.

VineyardsVinesGoth · 2026-05-29T19:19:12+00:00

Maybe he is attractive, but he looks like a jerk. He looks very self obsessed. I think a lot of women would swipe left for this exact reason.

Just because a man swiped yes on a woman does does not mean he wants a relationship with her. These men probably swiped because they thought she'd be an east lay?

The app companies are toxic but I think maybe men could benefit from actually being more selective on dating aps and swipe on fewer women?

not_the_troll · 2026-05-29T19:23:05+00:00

Nah man you're not cooked. Because I'm a 30 something conventionally unattractive short balding man with an average dad bod and I've had pretty good luck on dating apps. Not that I get solid 10s for matches but they have all been a consistent 7-9. The vibes and setting of your pictures matter more than your own physical looks. You have to stand out from the pool somehow to grab her attention. Maybe I don't get 100+ matches but I close on almost all the matches I've had. Women don't close on all their matches because they leave that up to the guy and the guy usually fucks up somewhere between matching and meeting. When women ARE looking to close, she will end up in your bed pretty quickly bypassing several stages of the online dating process.

Then there's the texting game. You don't have to mislead or lie about yourself in it either. So long as you have an interesting life that keeps you occupied outside of work in a fulfilling way, there are ways to repackage that and present it as sexy and desirable. While looks are important to women, it matters considerably less to them than men. For them looks is a proxy for other qualities they are trying to sus out. What men consider attractive in another man is rarely looked at the same way by women. And if a woman went for a guy purely based on his looks, she isn't looking for anything beyond a handful of hookups and will ditch him just as quickly as she picked him.

Title	Interesting Tinder experiment: 26M (attractive dude) vs 38F (unattractive women + 7 kids)
Author	Secret_Bug_9795
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	May 29, 2026 6:48 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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