I get tired of post like this basically saying it’s mens fault relationships fail. Men should become more feminine. It basically ignores why a man would be less likely to talk to other people about their issues. Most will ignore, not care, some will call you sensitive, even annoying. And most common will use a man’s vulnerability against them. All this while blaming men and their “toxic masculinity” to why we aren’t “vulnerably” all while ignoring the fact that men nowadays are far more accepting and vulnerable compared to previous generations. But then they complain that men aren’t the same, that we aren’t real men. And mock male celebrities that do cry or show vulnerability.
All this to say it’s basically a lose lose situation. And it’s always the guys fault, never considering what did she do that lead to him not wanting to tell her, or how are men treated which is why we know people don’t care. Even my partner gets anxiety when I stress over things, she’s more understanding than most but I know the rare moments that I stress will stress her out. Overall are stoic and I’m tired of men being told to be something their not. It’d be different if the message was it’s okay for men to be vulnerable or beneficial for men to be vulnerable.
In truth it’s not, there’s studies that show when men cry or show vulnerability it greatly affects how a girl will view you. As well as the largest factor in divorce is financial. Which shows that men worrying about money or earning less does affect the relationship, and increase the odds of divorce. Sure it sounds nice to be able to be vulnerable, but men don’t let their emotions control them. If you do need someone to talk to or vent to just message me. I hope the best for all the men that have to deal with a world that blames them for all the bad things that occur.
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