I pay full child support. My ex wife claims both chilren until the age of 18. Now the courts want me to pay Medical, dental , and vision.. My ex covers the Medical, dental, and vision through her Oklahoma based job (I live in WI). She asked the child support division to stop this order, but they said it was court imposed and they can't do anything about it? I am at a loss and about to see my paycheck destroyed to the point I can't live. What are my options??