I'm a girl and so tired of misandrist women and misogynistic men. (sorry if i make any mistakes, english is not my first language) All over social media (and even a few times irl) i see men saying women are inferior, useless, stupid, they deserve to be klled or rped, their only purpose is to be incubators or serve men and so on. Of course reading those things as a woman is frustrating and also scary to see so many men agree with those statements. I feel like it kinda messed up my mental health at some point.

On the other hand, there's all these misandrist women saying that a world without men would be 100% better, that men dont deserve happiness, that male su*cide is good and so on. And they also complain about misogynistic men comments or actions while they are basically doing the same thing! I've also met many girls irl who are always like "i hate men", "men are not ppl", "men dont deserve happiness", "im disgusted by males", and it has become exhausting as well.

This also has led to generalizing genders. ive seen so many men saying that women only care about physical appearance, money and themselves while women say men only care about sex, a nice female body and that they're all cheaters.

I'm in a very healthy and loving relationship but at some point i felt like all these things lowkey affected the way i view my bf. i started wondering if he also thought the same way about women (Like if he also thought that all women are cheaters, gold diggers or that they are only useful for cooking and cleaning) and started worrying that maybe in some years he would cheat on me for a younger/prettier girl. This ended up affecting him as well and i realized how even for girls like me who don't have anything against men end up questioning our own thoughts.

It's honestly so sad to see how all these toxic / hateful comments and how normalized they are is affecting good women's views on men and start taking it out on the men in their lives. In my case i got some psychological help and started working on these thoughts as i didnt want my beautiful relationship to be affected and never want to harm my boyfriend. But i wonder how many women are actually guided into hating men and start being toxic towards them for no reason.

All these social media stuff really got stuck in my head for a while and i want to know you guys opinions on this. i dont use social media that much tbh but these kinda content is literally everywhere now. in any video or post, there's misogynistic or misandrist comments and its tiring and kinda worrying. Also any advice is appreciated.