I had a larger post, but I’ve decided to just cut it short with a simple observation.

I have never seen a woman or someone born female and identifying as something else actually taking charge in a relationship. Whenever you aren’t being at the very least 50-50 with them, it feels like they are going through a CPU overload. Like, how can this even happen? Lol.

I have to write first, no matter what is my ideNtiTy, because I have an eggplant and I don’t want to cut it off. I can’t even imaging where people get the money for those surgeries..

I have to entertain, offer, be at their level of income at the very least and ideally be at least 50% more. I have to compete and come up with some pickup lines.

This applies to pretty much everything, not just relationships. They get scared when you expect them to lead or be more dominant, other than bedroom stuff.

Now, I do think that gender isn’t as simple as boy/girl. Medically - it is that simple. But psychology is where it gets more complicated… should you know it, though? Why if it doesn’t make a difference?