I have seen a lot of exchanges recently that go something like this:

Based man: Society is unfair and biased against men. Bad male behavior is punished while bad female behavior is celebrated. Misogyny isn't allowed but misandry is.

Low IQ woman/cuck: That's not true. Look at what Andrew Tate supporters and redpill/incel forums say about women! People just suck in general, both men and women.

What the low IQ woman/cuck misses is that there's a big difference here. Incels are a fringe group that has zero cultural or social power, while radical feminist ideology is entrenched in every facet of mainstream society, from academia to corporations to the government. Saying anything that's remotely critical of women will have you canceled, ostracized, fired, and more. Meanwhile you can hate on men all you want, and you'll get a resounding chorus of "yass kween slaay".

There is a plethora of evidence supporting this. Today, the axiom that modern feminism rests on is that men as a class collectively oppress women as a class. Radical feminists believe that this oppression far supersedes all other oppression, while intersectional feminists believe that it is comparable in some ways. Regardless, both types of feminists use this idea to 1) excuse any misandry against men because "it's not systemic", and 2) dismiss all male problems by blaming it on the "patriarchy".

Now here are some concrete examples about how anti-male sexism and anti-female sexism is treated. The feminist professor Mary Koss claimed that force penetration is not rape, and made large-scale, systematic efforts to erase male victims of sexual assault. She is still a renowned and celebrated professor. A German professor denied an Indian male student an internship on the basis of "the rape culture in India", and nothing happened to her. More recently, a feminist professor at a prominent university wrote an article titled "Why can’t we hate men?", and faced zero repercussions for it.

Meanwhile, male Nobel Prize winner Time Hunt made a small joke about women, and he had his entire career ruined: he was forced to resign, was stripped of his honors, and his entire life's work was now for nothing. Not only was this reaction entirely disproportionate, it turned out that his remarks were decidedly not sexist- he was making a self-deprecating joke that got taken out of context.

This is the world we live in folks.

The fundamental difference between anti-male sexism and anti-female sexism is that the former is relegated to the dark corners of the internet and shunned from the mainstream, while the latter is accepted in the mainstream and adopted by the most powerful figures/institutions. They are in no way comparable in scale and impact.