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[–]violetskies7 6 points7 points8 points (7 children) | Copy Link
why are people in the comments defending the woman by saying “there’s two sides to every story, he could’ve been abusive, etc.”
while that is TRUE, if it was a woman posting, and someone said “well maybe the woman did something to drive him away”, everyone would throw a fit that you’re criticizing someone who just wants to rant.
like, seriously dude. double standards
[–]strawberrytiddy 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Check his comment history. He commented on a post that sounds so.. similar.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
1 hour prior to OP's post she made a post about how he drove away her friends.
He told her to leave on this post https://www.removeddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/o5ts1f/my_husband_is_physically_threatening_emotionally/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Note: I am not assuming her innocence as there is not enough info to make a conclusion. I understand how fucked up it is that people are assuming she is innocent just because she's a woman. I am only posting info relevant to this discussion.
[–]violetskies7 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
sure, i agree that in this specific situation he’s in the wrong. however, people started accusing him before they found any proof and were just making assumptions, and that’s what i take issue with.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that's the fucked up part. People assumed he was abusive just because he's a man.
[–]violetskies7 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
that’s the point i was trying to make.
if someone assumed a woman was abusive, people would go crazy.
[–]omidoggo 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Sarcasm? Or nah cus ure the same person i think u are right?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Not sarcasm.
[–]FoulTarnished124 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Apparently he's abusive...
[–]BornAgainSpecial 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretend you still didn't see the note. Make her do it in person.
[–]DavidByron2 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
it seems the post was a fake?