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Thoughts on this? (https://www.instagram.com/p/CMQCiTlBZ3g/)

shankhisnun

March 11, 2021

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Title	Thoughts on this? (https://www.instagram.com/p/CMQCiTlBZ3g/)
Author	shankhisnun
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	March 11, 2021 6:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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[–]Dogrose22 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Dogrose22 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]frankdiddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Yes the term purely exists just to show how societal “be a man” actually impacts men and in turn can make things worse for them. thats how i always interpreted it as well.

I had an ex (highschool era) who was bullied by another guy because my ex had only slept with one person. Honestly this guy bullying him was a classic tool, and only did so to make himself feel better. However his taunts in turn made the ex feel like shit and then left to sleep with other people to make themself feel better and fit in. I would say thats a notion of toxic masculinity because “what dude you didnt bang every chick youve become friends with???” Mentality. Its like a male is kinda asserting his alpha dominancy over the other. I hope that makes sense

To your last paragraph, that is all stereotyping. I mean, i agree with which you say all traits are seen in people. Others are just very quick to stereotype. I have a female friend who was annoyed about somsthing my current SO said and she called him a dumb white male and i told her to calm her frustration out and to speak to me when shes not being a child. Some people just constantly hear this man hatred talk and apply it to every person that fits the category... exactly like racism. You cant judge a person without actually getting to know them

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