**Not intended as a rage bait*\*

If the reference point is this:
A feminine woman from your mother's generation (80's, 90's). Sexy, nurturing, kind, and confident in her skin

Then there are three different mutations of that femininity that are notable to mention:

1) Aggressive, career-focused, boss-lady type of woman who is argumentative and is adamant on not compromising because that is seen as weak. Essentially she is in constant denunciation of traditional femininity. She tries hard to convince folks she's not masculine but acts like it all the time. She thinks men are insecure and are afraid of her when in reality many are just turned off. Even men more successful than her.

2) Trans groups that are trying to strip femininity down to a collection of different behaviors and functions that can be torn apart and sown together (birther, bleeder, uterus owner, etc.). The most extreme mutation.

3) Lastly you have the uber-feminine women who are constantly in the process of out-feminizing the competition by excessive displays of femininity. Make-up, plastic surgery, tight-fitting clothes and endless selfies promoting their looks (insta-models, E-girls, OF fans)

All of these women have something in common. They give off a palpable deep-seeded insecurity that is just manifesting itself in different ways. You don't notice it until you start putting each type of woman right next to a traditional 70's, 80's woman. They all deeply detest the way their mothers lived. Am I the only one who thinks this?

It's Okay to be traditionally feminine and be comfortable with it. In fact we NEED it. Those women are the only type of women who are typically selected to become mothers and raise the next generation of men AND women.

There is a real crisis of traditional femininity and that needs to be talked about more.