Throwaway account for this reason:
I'm just going to give you the quick rundown of what's going on. Girl A and me have been messing around (no sex, no kissing. More of a emotional relationship than anything) at work, it's been going on for a couple of years. We talk about having sex but something always comes up when we plan it.
During this time, I text Girl B (another co worker) a dick pic and she text me vag shots. were both adults (?) This has NOTHING to do with work, it was done outside of work.
so...
I'm off work for a few months because of my foot. During this time Girl A tells me that Girl B has been talking about me and showing people my dick pic. Girl A says don't say anything to Girl B because, "you will look dumb", "It's no big deal, just stop sending her pics" "If it comes back to me, I will go to management" (What she's talking about is, If it comes back to Girl A, that I told Girl B she (Girl A) told me)
I confront Girl B, she denies it and says, "I would never do anything like that. Why would I tell anyone when you have vag shots and could show people those". Someway I believe Girl B.
So I get back to work after being gone 3 months, Girl A doesn't talk to me at all. I text and email her 4 or 5 times asking her, "What's up?" "I didn't put your name out there" "Can I talk to you?" Nothing. No response, no fuck off, no, leave me alone...nothing....
Then one day, my "manager" comes in with Girl A and says, " Girl A came to me and said you're bothering her at work and on the outside. It has to stop right now. From this point on, don't look, talk or have anything to do with her at all"
1) She NEVER told me to stop or I would of. 2) we haven't talked for over 2 months 3) I have email records, phone/text records of my activity and it shows no calls or texts to her (except the 4 or 5 that I did do)
I feel like the biggest POS on earth. Like I did something wrong. I talked to my manager and told him, " I would of stopped and not talked to her if she would of told me too". "I would never put my job, my livelihood and my family at risk"
what can/should I do?
I really don't want to move units because I have a really kick back job, but I don't want to get "in trouble" with her for no reason.
Edit: fixed some things Edit: Fixed more things.
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