I am recovering from a 16 year relationship. During that time, I was exposed to all sorts of emotional, mental, financial, and sexual abuse and manipulation. Thankfully, the marriage ended, and I want nothing more to cut her completely out of my life. However, we have two children whom I love and adore to the end of the world; I will protect them and be there for them with every fibre of my being. I insisted on a minimum of shared access (and was only willing to take full access so she can do whatever she needs to do with her life; whether it's saving baby seals, or shooting heroin in an alley...I don't care).

Two years after the separation, and she still continues to try to abuse me, through underhanded manipulation, making false accusations about me, and generally trying to bully me and attack me every chance she can get.

I need this to be over; but I refuse to walk away from my kids. What support services can I turn to, as a man who is continuing to suffer abuse?