I just wish people didn't treat me like I'm a monster just because of my gender. I wish I could get approached & complimented as women do.

Why does It feel like i need to be a super tall handsome dude with a Ten-pack muscled body, strong jawline, unlimited charisma, wit, competency, wealth etc. Just to get the same amount of attention as the pretty girl in school? And even then most of the attention would be from other men, because any half decent looking women are way too arrogant