Long story short in 2005 had a 1 night stand,woman contacted me 5 years later in 2010,saying she had a child she thinks its mine,isnt 100% sure but is ''99.8%'' sure,i told her i think shes wrong, woman disappears untill 2012,contacts me with some wierd story about being with a man who wants to adopt,no one knows about me and thats that (whole time i'm thinking theres never been dna,how can you assume i agree i'm the father)

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Woman disappears for 8 years untill dec 2019,where she contacts me,and says man didnt adopt,kid is 14 now and i need to start ''being in her life''...._..When i responded with ''if shes mine,i'm not sure how or if i would want to bond witha stranger 4 years from adulthood''......__...__........__she goes mental says shes filing for paternity and getting ''14 years retroactive support''...._...__. Also stated shes had my address for 14 years could have filed for paternity anytime she wanted,but didn't...._._.....__.....Does all this seem strange?.._..._.I cant imagine any woman,waiting 14 years to collect a check if they were 100% sure,tho stranger things have happened

My lawyer scoffs at her asking for 14 years back,considering she had my addres chose not to file,could have walked into aog office any time to file but didn't...._.He is pretty confident no judge in our county would even consider that and i'll just pay moving forward assuming child is mine,no matter if there 14 yrs old or not..._.._...i just gcant accept any woman would wait 14 years unless they had doubts,what do you guys think?