I'm not saying every issue a women experiences, is self inflicted, but sometimes it is. About month or two ago, I saw trend about 'decentering' men, which is apparently about how a lot of women, or women friend circles tend to only talk about their dating lives, or their experiences with men, so women should shift their attention, and interests to be more general ,or about other topics, but isn't his just how normal humans should behave? No one is forcing these women to talk about men, so why is this a "trend". Tiktok feminists echo chambers like to contradict themselves, so much, as they go from "men don't usually have any interesting hobbies" (note I remember this from a tiktok post about girl talking about her boyfriends multiple hobbies, then a comment talking about "how did you find this man .... they don't usually have interesting hobbies") to "men talk about their hobbies, and interests rather than just women", why is their this fixation on blaming the patriarchy, and men for things they set themselves up too?