First of all I'm a man, and I don't care ''hypergamy'', I'm a 20 year old guy, I'm ugly, poor, etc doesn't matter I did find good persons when I learn to not care about outside looks.

You know what, me living my life in a way without caring out-side look actually helped me to find really beatifull persons inside and outside, my outside was ugly and I was poor but I learned to be a good person and I was nice to everyone, to me; everyone deservess my niceness until they prove it otherwise.

Dating & relationships are not that hard when you understand everyone is just a human being and when you treat everyone as human beings also remember relationships are very serius things so if you can't get into it maybe you're not just ''ready'', take some mental health help these doctors can help you if your brain is in a state that can change, sadly not every brain can change for better in current age but maybe in future, humans don't have godly technology & medicine to fix all kind of broken brains.

All this money talks & beuty talks etc sh*t is product of capitalism, capitalism advertised some looks as beatifull to make people buy beuty products in order to look like these out-looks and made people get surgery to look like that advertised out-look, I see humans created bad gender balance and I see ignorance.

Why do men like every women and expect women to like every men? Cuz this is just how capitalism & capitalists controlled humans.

Men say women find men easier while men find women harder, like you know heterosexual women still find other men right? Lots of men you call ugly poor right now are in relationship, look at couple in your country, do you think every couples are created by perfect people? No!

And probably 60-70-80% of dating app users are men, so when there is 1 million men in one dating app and when 100.000 women in that app, you know it's not gonna be very healthy match-system, like your chances of finding some-one like you gonna be very hard, remember finding some-one like us is the key of most relationships.

Society sexualised women too much therefore men bother women too much so women obviusly doesn't stay in dating apps therefore majority of dating app users are men(if only humans learned to be kind & nice to each other without gender this wouldn't happen), if only genders were civilised and treated each other as human beings rather than some forcefully created st*pid gender roles(you can't choose which gender you're gonna born into so just because you born into a one gender there shouldn't be anything forced to you, men are not wallets and women are not sex slaves!

Humans can't choose which gender or body or beuty they born into, so the best thing to do is seeing everyone as a human being, no matter their gender, no matter how they look, when you see everyone as a human being & a individual with emotions & etc, you'll understand that capitalism is making you lose your self control, capitalism is making you very horny, capitalism manipulates and controls you, capitalism is creating unequality among genders, so it creates conflicts, and capitalism always makes profit from conflicts, society loses capitalism & capitalists win.

I think society sexualised women too much, advertised women beuty too much, and manipulated humans brains to think like only women are beatifull, but no! Everyone is beatifull, no matter what! Well, to me everyone is beatifull as long as they are a good person, I don't care if they have dick or pussy.

So society needs to make men handsome & beatifull too, stop with this masculen & feminen thing, just be a good human & person!

Nobody borns with a beuty standart.

Humans find things beatifull when they learn to find that thing beatifull, and I think this is supported by science. https://youtu.be/Wgt8QUHQjw8

I mean come on, without learning you don't even know which food is healthy and which food is unhealthy you would eat foods randomly and you probably wouldn't even understand your body very well, you would feel the pain and say ''blue food bad'' then continue to eat other bad foods cuz you simply would have not a strong guide, the reason humans survived this long in this world is that they created strong guides, so if humans get lost a lot without a strong guide, this just shows humans were lucky to start creating guides in first place, so as we failed we created stronger guides that helped us survive, and humans just don't have many strong guides on relationship subjects so people like Andrew Tate are just messing with your mind, cuz he's like a fastfood, easy to eat, but unhealthy, he's just very loud, his voice reaches people that actually need mental help and not some unhealthy opinions.

Society advartises things to control you, make you think like color red is the best color so you spend money to buy that color, you go to surgery and make your skin color is red!

It's all because capitalism allowing manipulative & unhealthy advertising.

Society needs positive & healthy advertising, humanity need good strong guides, but sadly bad politicians doesn't allow that...