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Is this behavior toxic?

firewatchersdaughter

April 29, 2019
1 upvotes
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Title Is this behavior toxic?
Author

firewatchersdaughter

Upvotes 1
Comments 20
Date April 29, 2019 4:13 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/birazz/is_this_behavior_toxic/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/is-this-behavior-toxic.256009
https://theredarchive.com/post/256009
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Comments

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

what is even happening there?

[–]firewatchersdaughter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

The woman is oogling and possibly objectifying the athlete. The post made the front page of reddit, and I was curious about a purple pill perspective.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

you understand that "toxic masculinity" is a ostensibly pervasive cultural phenomenon, not something that individuals engage in

[–]firewatchersdaughter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Cultural phenomena are quantized in the behavior of individuals. You cannot have a cultural phenomenon without unique distinct individual behavior appearing somewhere.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Do you understand that the concept of toxic masculinity does not exist outside of feminism and leftist circles. You are guys' obsession with it is baffling to me why don't you just be conservatives. There's an entire conservative universe in which this kind of feminism is never discussed and has no influence

[–]firewatchersdaughter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

You do realize that you can’t just ignore everything right? Outside influences will influence you, like it or not. If you don’t resist or build an opposing discussion, it will overpower you. Feminist viewpoints are very influential in our world and are literally rewriting our justice system, our education materials, and workplace policies and even advertisements. It is critical for there to be an opposing viewpoint. Who do you think is going to provide that viewpoint?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Well I mean yes you can. I am 50 years old and I have been on various forms of the right for my entire life and I have completely ignored feminism and leftism and everything related to it for my entire l Life You can absolutely live your entire life without paying one particle attention to the concept of toxic masculinity I promise you

[–]firewatchersdaughter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

It was literally forced upon me at the workplace as a part of a harassment seminar. There is no ignoring that. It will continue to become more pervasive.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

So what kind of white collar liberal college educated work place do you work in? You chose to be part of the corporation white collar liberal structure you didn't have to be there's millions of people who are truck drivers and plumbers and hvac repair people who never come into any contact with feminism. You want all of the benefits of white liberal white collar culture without having to pay the price for it. The price of that easy lead culture. Elite culture is feminism and liberalism

[–]firewatchersdaughter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

I’m an electrical engineer. I have an aptitude towards math and design.

Your argument that you have to pay the price of just taking whatever bullshit you’re fed unopposed is the most spineless argument I’ve ever heard.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You can oppose it all you want just like anybody can oppose any corporate culture that they want, but you will pay the price for a. There has always been a corporate culture of some kind or another since white collar jobs existed and people who go against that corporate culture lose. You want to be a masculine man? Go drive a truck

[–]firewatchersdaughter1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

People who go against corporate culture individually lose. How do you think feminism began taking over and influencing corporate culture? It started out as a series of conversations that got louder and louder until they had power. So it starts here. You start by having discussions. Why are you opposed to having this viewpoint voiced?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

By action of the federal government with its addition of sex to its interpretation of the 1964 civil rights act and the creation of the eeoc

Where did you get the idea I was opposed to it? I am not opposed to it I think it is disgusting to watch men fret so much about Internet feminist nonsense. Toxic masculinity has no bearing on your life. You're issues at work are based in employment law sexual harassment law and it the EEOC. They are not based in toxic masculinity and Internet feminism. Don't hear the concentration on Internet feminist buzzwords will not help you. Why don't you start a campaign to change federal law, like feminists Did. Oh yes I forgot every man on the Internet will now tell me that men are incapable of forming movements to get legislation passed lol

[–]firewatchersdaughter1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

And how do you think that got passed? It started with discussion that became loud and powerful. That is how you fight organisations. So again, why are you opposed to having this discussion voiced?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Where have I indicated I was opposed to in? I literally just the answered you. You are voicing objections at Internet feminist memes. You are not voicing objections against the actual legislation and government action that is causing you to be subjected to feminism in the workplace. Because that would actually be hard and require you all doing something. But MRa's are the worst form of female brained leftist type of men who are full of hypo agency and woe is me attitude superior

[–]firewatchersdaughter1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If you are not opposed to it, then will you let the post past the filter and be posted to the sub?

Fighting against specifics of legislation comes later in a movement. “First you’ve got to get mad!” https://youtu.be/1KvZI8BsSxw

It is shared emotion that builds support. Feminists didn’t start out by making legal arguments. They started out by being upset.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Do you think I am a mod?

[–]firewatchersdaughter1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I thought so since you were the only one I can communicate with, and was informed my post had been filtered until it is approved. In the past that entailed having a conversation on the filtered post with a mod.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Nope

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