Now let me start by saying there are plenty of men who do not have a lot of sex. That’s not what makes you a loser. What makes you a loser is the fact that you feel like you lost.

When a man shames a woman for her past, most of the time he is just mad because he has little to no sexual experience and feels super angry when he sees all the hot young ladies having sex without him. A higher N count man knows not to LTR a high N count woman but wont shame her at all.

Men who wont ask out girls, have an extreme fear of rejection, have no personality, and don’t take initiative in making their own worldview (prefers to get one from online) are plentiful. These are the loser men im talking about.

These men are stuck in their shells, and often arent even the ugliest men. But by refusing to try their luck with the women they see, they filter themselves out of every woman’s ‘list of options’.

Look at Elliot roger. The boy wasn’t even that bad looking. He could have had a gf. But he was a socially awkward guy who never asked out a girl. And so he got none.

The thing about dating women is that no matter who you are, there will be many women who don’t like you. But men and women only notice how many women DO like you. You need to ask women out to find out if they like you because they wont tell you.

This message is for every guy who is above a 4/10 in looks and feels like they don’t have good luck with women. (If u are below a 4 there is nothing that can be done for you, sorry)

You dont need to be 6ft. You dont need a large income. You dont need a huge dong. U dont need a perfect slimfit body.

If you work out every day, talk to men and women every day, and ask out at least 1 girl per day u will get lucky very soon. You dont even need to ask her on a date, just introduce yourself, ask for her name and tell her she is pretty (establishing romantic interest right away) and any girl who doesnt cut you off right away is a girl who may be interested. Just escalate from there and make it clear your intentions are a relationship or sex not to be friends. If you establish that right away, no more friend zone.

There are literally no consequences for being rejected by a stranger. (That being said dont hit on coworkers or your boss). A lot of guys just need to man up and own the fact that they are interested in women. Ive seen so many guys be too shy to admit they like a women. Like wtf?? Thats the most natural thing ever.

Anyways most women will reject you but i bet most guys here who consider themselves unlucky with women would be more lucky if they just asked out more women. Too many guys take the “ask her for her number and then text her about the homework” approach which will never get a woman into you. She needs to know u want her. And u are messaging her about the social studies homework of course she thinks u only want the homework.

Also you need to learn how to talk to women that you have never met. When most women get a partner, they dont choose someone from their school/work they choose someone they just met. Thats why most women are waiting to “meet the right guy”. Because they haven’t met him yet. And all the women u have met decided they haven’t met him either so they already filtered you out. You have a better chance of becoming another woman’s right guy than changing her mind about you.

TLDR

Most sexually unsuccessful men aren’t unsuccessful because of being too ugly, but because they don’t flirt with new women. Asking out women u know is likely to fail, which is why men cant have crushes instead we just have to be sexually attracted to the next new woman we find.