So a bit of background as an early teen I was skinny af and a little fat to so skinny fat you could say, never got any attention from girls, I decided to change myself for the better I'm now 5'10 1/3 and 155 lean now I see that girls are talking to me and not the other way around, my friend group has stayed the same and that's probably the only reason I noticed none of them apart from 2 did what I did and now atleast once a month I'll talk to a girl get her number and won't do anything at all, I'll meet up if she wants to at a restaurant but won't eat anything that's outside my diet structure to keep in top shape, I go to the gym EVERYDAY or 6 Days because that's my life now.

Some of the girls (3 of them friends) whose numbers I got got together and point blank asked if I'm gay (No I'm not) and after that was clarified asked me why I did nothing, I didn't know what to say and straight up told them they are not owed attention of any sort. The girl I did like and I felt I had a connection of some sort with said she wasn't ready for a relationship but did mention she would have been with me if not for her problems ( they are genuine and justified in a way ) that kind of broke me from the inside and now I don't even speak to girls all of my time is spent in the gym and I really mean all of it.

My real question is is this normal behaviour?