I read comments on both posts and found women asking for low count mostly but men were afraid of being misogynist or whatever this saying it doesn't matter etc

Why?

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sywcyl/men_here_are_always_talking_about_not_wanting_to/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/szohuc/do_you_care_about_a_guys_number_if_so_what_ranges/

Why the disparity? Why are men afraid to not say they prefer low count or vitgin like women? Why are men stigmatized for asking low count partners given they are too