The more I think about it the more I think I wouldn't want to date most men either...If wasca woman or even if I was gay..

I have few friends I actually always had more female friends than make friends ascI don't get a long with many men..

The main reason is jealousy,men have always been jealous of me and that creates toxicity...Men like to compete and measure themselves against other men so interactions with mrn always turn into swinging d!ck contest.Women aren't jealous of me they usual don't like me because I don't simp thus I'm useless to them...that's actually easier to deal with than the constant competition a lot of men perceive they are on with each other.

I recently had to confront a man,I new he was jealous but in an emotional outburst and childish tirade he In a way confirmed this...but to make things worst he claimed that I'm the one competing with and jealous of him.

Now this was a bit shocking the fact that he believes this.When you do any comparison of our lives...there's nothing for me to be jealous of and competition wise where in two diffrent leagues playing a diffrent game. One issue is he thinks his opinion is the only one that's rite...evenn when I present him with facts data and his own life experiences show him the contrary he doubles down.

I said it's selfish to have kids you can't afford and aren't prepared for..he said" it's not selfish it's love". Whatever the hell that means ..he said he didn't have money when he had kids and look at how they turned out...this made my brain hurt because he recently told me one kid dropped out of school and the other one doesn't talk to him.

This got me thinking if women are dealing with men like this man,emotional,effeminate,illogical and dillusional men,I can see why they either choose to be single or only focus on top men to at least make enduring him worth while.

If this man was a multimillionaire that could put me on the fast track to succes sure I might tolerate his crap but he's a broke balding pot bellied middle aged baby daddy ...and he's not the only man I've run into like this...I've experienced many. I think if a woman dated a man like this once she would be damaged for life.

So just like I have few male friends and avoid most men I think women have a valid reason to do so aswell.