Actually nice guys or those guys who always remain busy in improving their lives or career, don't have enough time to fcuk these girls before marriage. So, they will get used stuff at marriage but are paying high cost of sexuality. Like me, i have no time to meet new girls or do these kind of stuff, so i was thinking when i will get married she will enjoy all the benefits of hard work i did in my youth. I will not reveal her to how much I earn and enjoy all the money benefits by myself.