Hi ladies! I'm new here! First of all, hope everyone a great and fruitful year ahead that's full of love and passion!

I'm 28 years old, and haven't been in a serious and mutual-contributing relationship since 2012. I started online dating about 2-3 years ago in the hope of expanding my social circle and skills. That was, indeed, useful that I met quite a number of interesting people and I did have a great time with a few of them and some we even remained good friends.

But the problem is, I'm still single now. And I want to have my own family one day, that's my life goal since I was 19.

After uncountable times of failure in dating different guys, I came to realise I might be having problem in approaching to men. I'd be honest in here about how it would usually result- men would flee from me after a couple dates. The pattern would usually be- they got very excited and interested after the first/second date, then things would start going downhill. I came to realise it might be because of how I've been being pretty straightforward most of the time, I do that very much because of my anxiety, I feel more comfortable when I'm upfront and know clearly of what's going on. And because of my flexible work schedule and how much I'm driven by my life-goal, I usually made myself too available for all the men. I responded to calls/messages within seconds, I said yes to mostly all the dates they asked. I knew it's a mistake when I did it, but I couldn't seem to control myself, perhaps the biological urge in mating can explain that part.

But I don't know what to do, I feel that, yes, I got the temporary happiness from time to time. But I seem to be driven farther and farther away from my ultimate goal, my long-term happiness. That's why I think it's time for me to reach out to the Red Pill Women, and hope to get some useful advises if possible. Thank you first for all your advises and attention!