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xInMyDreams · 2014-08-24T10:02:16+00:00

Stop thinking about your depression and what is wrong. Just stop, it won't help anything and only going make what really matters worse and bring you down more. You said he spoils you and treats you well. Do the same thing for him. Buy something nice for him. Instead of thinking of what is wrong, think about what you can do to make things better. Just even the littlest things can help, take him out to a restaurant to show you appreciate him and what he does for you. Tell him that and make sure he knows that. Be positive, don't let depression win. It's not easy to overcome, I know, but you have to keep trying to make life better. If you need to talk to someone when you feel down again, I'm here. You can PM me anytime.

MrsKittenHeel · 2014-08-24T11:41:58+00:00

Talking to other people about their day/life always helps me.

I have panic / anxiety disorder. Concentrate on them not you.

TempestTcup · 2014-08-24T12:00:20+00:00

First, you need to call your therapist and let them know you are having suicidal thoughts; this is very serious and could be an effect of your medicine. You need to do this immediately!

I apologize, but I had to remove your post. This is way above and beyond our level of advice given and not really anything we can help you with. This is a serious medical condition that you need to take care of right now with a qualified doctor.

I am going to suggest that you try taking omega-3 fish oil though; not for this particular problem, but because it is a mood enhancer. Make sure you are eating plenty of good saturated fats like KerryGold butter, because it will help stabilize your moods. If I don't get enough saturated fats in my system I get very manic depressive, and this goes a long way towards keeping me on an even keel.

That being said, when you get over this bad period, you need to start taking charge of your life. Start doing little things that you can be proud of even if it is something small like a needlepoint sampler or writing a short story. You need to pull yourself out of this and distract yourself from wallowing in this feeling. Start a blog, scrub your bathroom, listen to fun, upbeat music, dance. Do something, anything to distract yourself.

Exercise, although probably the last thing you want to do right now, is a good way to lift spirits. Take a hike or a long, brisk walk, do some squats, lift some weights. Buy a hula hoop and hula to some loud music. The main thing you want to do here is get moving and get your blood flowing. The last thing you should do is be a couch potato right now.

HappyWifeLife · 2014-08-24T12:09:47+00:00

You have put the man you love in the position to care-take instead of be with and love. This is unsettling for your partner, I promise you. You need to get a professional and get busy on yourself. I hate to say this but you may have damaged the relationship enough that he does not want you anymore. Can you blame him? Think carefully about what you may have "promised" him in the beginning - how does it line up with what you have delivered? It's a hard place to be for both of you. I've been there myself.

Rock bottom for you would be death. You aren't there YET. Stop digging and start crawling. Seriously.

Title	Long post...
Author	Pandora023
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	August 24, 2014 9:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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