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the honest answer (if you want to change anything about your behavior) is to do it anyways and focus on letting the actions foster more pleasant feelings. Orgasm is a great way to get rid of that stressed out emotional stuff. He may understand the why of it but probably won't understand why you won't work through it, if that makes sense. That's super frustrating for a partner!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 05:57 PM
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What does your SO say about it? You two have a plan together, which is one aspect of your post that you didn't talk about - if you asked him, what would he say?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 02:50 PM
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but I don't want to ask on RPW, as I don't want women's advice on what we should do you did ask though, and we did tell you! You seem to be more interested in male attention than how to be a better partner or even wife material. A great place to start strengthening your relationship is to stop attention seeking from men on the internet. You aren't fooling anyone
/r/askTRP26/02/16 02:36 PM
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That made my teeth itch >< !!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 12:56 AM
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How much is too much? When the eyes glaze over like a tasty doughnut and the interaction turns into "mmhmm, yes, i see, oh, hmmmm, mmmhmm." only you can know what "too much" looks like on your man, we can't possibly know. But they don't have the capacity to hear our every little thought. Figure it out personally, ask him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 02:02 PM
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He sounds like he has a lot to recover from and throwing a new kid into a new relationship at that age is super scary. Its fine to want these things and to talk about them, but honestly, you can gauge how much he really wants this by the actions HE is taking RIGHT NOW to make that happen. How invested are you in this picture (new marriage and new baby)? Because you may not get what you want. How much time have you spent researching pregnancy and child rearing at this late state in the game? Are …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 01:57 PM
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it's great you found something you like that is also positive and good for you to replace the drinking. It's hard to get rid of old stuff with no new stuff to replace it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 01:12 AM
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Phantom didn't endorse any sites though..She wrote a generalized recommendation of navigating online dating.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 06:06 PM
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um this is getting weird. I'm not reaching either, I'm sitting in chat looking at the actual words of the person you tagged. You are intelligent and I think you can understand that calling your opinion/experience/advice "The RPW Guide" is officiating it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 05:21 PM
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There is nothing that makes having a tinder profile the superior strategy for women with RPW goals. I never said it was. I have just been asked about it a few times and thought it would be helpful to those who wanted the info. You did though, you posted your guide as The RPW Guide. And then used mod posts (without them saying ok) to back up your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 05:12 PM
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Thank you for the distinction.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 05:01 PM
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NO. I am saying that future men/dates may judge the activity negatively and not date you again. If we are encouraging women to make good choices with their dating activities, to protect themselves from players, ONS, high N-counts, and to protect their OWN image as they continue to date - having a guide to navigating an ap that most of society judges as hookup.......can you see what I'm saying. Is this your opinion as an endorsed member or some collaboration with RPW's users and mods?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:54 PM
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You're entitled to your opinion, I met my husband on POF, but our first date and the process of getting together isn't one that I would advertise as RPW or recommend to any woman of any age. Just because it works for some doesn't mean it's something to endorse. And there's nothing in the guide on how to deal with the fallout and judgement of being a female who uses TindR to find LTR/MArriage.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:34 PM
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So your "caveat" is edit: ok ladies I see I got some people in a tizzie here. I will add a caveat then IF YOU GO ON TINDR JUST KNOW THAT IT IS PRIMARILY USED AS A HOOKUP APP. THEREFORE REALIZE THAT IT IS PROBABLY NOT YOUR BEST BET. Then why is there an "RPW GUIDE".
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:28 PM
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I think encouraging an RPW guide to any of the sites or aps is a bad idea. i'm not just hating on Tindr. There should be some excerpt in the guide on dealing with the negative connotation of being on these sites. Reality is, right now, most men will judge a female negatively because it's Tindr.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:16 PM
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I'm pretty uncomfortable with this post. I don't believe "RPW" and "guide to Tindr" go well together. I would certainly discourage any woman seeking advice here from using Tindr.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:00 PM
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last word
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 06:41 PM
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you are hamster incarnate and the fact that you don't know it solidifies it to be absolutely true. Do you know the definition of hamstering?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 05:10 PM
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most people view making a statement and being countered with "No I don't" as an argument.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:11 PM
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An after thought here Now would be a good time to throw yourself on your sword and apologize profusely for doubting him. Seriously. You have planted a seed already that will only grow resentment and unspoken anger and he will not forget this any time soon.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 03:30 PM
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of course I said I'd support him no matter what, it's his decision, but it does impact us all. I said I knew he'd be able to find great new work, and that thanks to him, we have savings to live off while he looks. I'd be happy to look for work from home or to go back to work, if necessary. I said I would be willing to move somewhere cheaper. The important thing is being together, it doesnt matter where we live! If you're willing to do all this other stuff to be supportive and it doesn't even mat…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 03:17 PM
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i don't see why you're here. All you do is argue and your comments and submissions are full of dishonesty. If you aren't being honest, people will call you on it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 02:25 PM
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I think you should focus on honesty more, you seem to have to backpeddle, correct, explain, etc every statement and you are starting to build a history of lies. Maybe just hush a bit and read more and talk shit less?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 01:58 PM
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dude took a xanax and let his thoughts run and guess what happened....he thought about what dudes think about sex with lots of variety. Women either naively or selfishly use that against them which is why they don't say it unless they are all jelloed from alcohol or xanax or w/e pill they just ate to continue to tolerate you (not you just you all in general). Women: tell me what you really think Men: hold on let me get a pill.....ok "X,Y,Z"
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 06:00 PM
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RPW is not likely going to support "investigating polyamory" and that's terrible advice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:16 PM
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Never take a Xanax conversation seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:07 PM
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First things first, NO SPYING. Just don't. You're all over his stuff, looking through convos - If this is the level of trust you have for each other, then it's probably time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:02 PM
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Well ok "FAIR".... Are you dumping them because they have a quality YOU don't like and don't want or Are you dumping them because you read something on the internet and people think it's bad therefore you think it's bad. If the latter is true, it would be pretty silly to be concerned with what's fair to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:58 PM
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BINGO BABY
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 06:53 PM
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I understand what you're trying to ask and also saying that your wording is asking something different. Your posting is bait but if it wasn't, I'd say that dumping someone for a reason you care enough to lose them over is probably just a matter of telling someone exactly why. Or don't. Other than "being nice", you are severing from them for a reason so either just walk away or state it plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:46 PM
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Why should anyone continue to take your posting seriously as you continue to anything but devolve into this weird convo. I'm not attacking you, and I would be happy to take your posting seriously but you aren't taking it seriously. Just another leading post meant to cause arguments that don't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:37 PM
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And why is it a mod's job to make you make sense either??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:35 PM
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No I'm not the only person. Read all of the replies. I'm not going to trouble anyone but you to ask you to make a simple correction that actually shows what you mean to say. If you can't see this, I don't care to try to make you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:33 PM
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Can you edit your post then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:28 PM
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^ THIS OP is confusing two subs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:26 PM
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Then can you explain what you mean by Blue Pill Compliant? Because the way you have it worded sounds like you're saying in order to be compliant with TBP, you'd have to dump your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:23 PM
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How about you answer my questions? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:19 PM
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I don't have a reason to report you and I commented because you opened a discussion on a debate forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 06:15 PM
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I'm sort of confused here. So let's say I want to be blue pill compliant and dump my SO for sleeping with "a lot" of people. are you saying TBP would expect you to? Also, I don't really see what's here to discuss by way of what you've presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 05:51 PM
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I see by your edited info, you are male. Have you considered a forum with men (who are fathers)? Also, just because a guy your daughter is boinking looks similar to you (from your stressed out perspective), doesn't mean she into daddy fantasy or that it even needs to be "psychologisted". Unless, of course, you're boinking her too and are now jealous. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 05:02 PM
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If you want advice on your situation, you need to include the details (in detail) as there is no one "RPW Answer" for an event that has so many variables.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 04:41 PM
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Are you posing this topic in hopes of getting help making a decision or is it more like a poll of stories?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 04:36 PM
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i think we're even on the verge of marriage equality, coming soon marry your pet!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 02:54 PM
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puppies are awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 02:43 PM
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He's off to do something that's important and something you can be proud of so take this opportunity to make him proud and secure also. Focus is everything!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 11:48 PM
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Being a good girlfriend has a smalll bit to do with sex and gifts, but mostly it's about character, loyalty, and team work. Gifts and sex are appeasements when you don't have character or loyalty, or are not trustworthy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 02:00 AM
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Try to read it with the understanding that I am more blunt and direct than most and that while it feels like an attack, I really don't waste the gentle stuff on anyone who doesn't actually seem to want to do something about what they've come here asking help with. :) I'm sorry I was rude, and I'm glad you're still here!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:46 PM
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This was an EXCELLENT field report to read! I think you really had the epiphany needed to facilitate and hold onto change! Keep on with that honest self-scrutiny.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:38 PM
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if you are genuinely interested in a positive outcome for your relationship, maybe you could read back through the comments that made you mad or that you responded to defensively and try to look at what people are saying. Change and growth are all about looking at yourself and your own faults and patterns and getting rid of what doesn't work or making amends for what you have messed up on.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 09:22 PM
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I love him and I'm so thankful for having future in laws that are like family, while so many girls are stuck with MIL that hate them. Take it from a fool like me, PLENTY of in-laws start out warm like family but can be swayed into hating you based on YOUR behavior. The "Evil MIL" card is played over and over and sometimes it's very clear that it's deserved and EARNED. Maybe you aren't the person who would intentionally do anything to cause a rift like that, but some of your writing indicates a r…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 08:36 PM
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You actually did make the parents part of this, you listed them as your concern in your post about mothering, First paragraph, last sentences
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:34 PM
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I'm not going to list your osts, comments, or the replies - you can find those in your comment history. As for past waters - that was literally last week. Those past waters are still warm.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:50 PM
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If you are sincerely trying to make things work with him as a team and a partner, you may want to reread some of your previous posts and the responses people at RPW have given you. While you are saying you respect him you are also saying other things that point out you don't.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 06:18 PM
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you're bored because you aren't attracted to him and don't have any respect or common goal to work towards. Having a relationship with someone because their parents are supporting you/ giving you a place to live isn't anything we can help you with.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 05:41 PM
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Addiction isn't a valid "excuse" for anything. It may explain painful actions and choices, but it's never an excuse. Every one of us has used some thing at some time to sooth, cover, mask, escape. Addicted is a state of being, and can be changed and arrested at any time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 04:55 PM
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Smile A LOT, at EVERYONE! And honestly, there's no correct # of friends or acquaintances to have, it's about genuine interest and common ground.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 01:36 AM
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I am constantly reminding myself that it's ok to trust my husband's lead, even after it doesn't work the way he wanted it or i wanted it. Submitting to my husband is a daily (and sometimes hourly) practice for me. I came from a place where I literally had to take care of every detail in order to survive. It is really challenging to remember where I am now, not to operate in the past, and to practice obedience because I believe in it. I believe that part of my role as a wife involves obedience, a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 11:40 PM
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Thanks Camille :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 11:24 PM
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Thanks LR, glad you are back too
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 11:23 PM
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thanks for your thoughts. It's hard work, but I'm here and I'm trying. Trying isn't really the word though, more like, I'm doing because everything I care about depends on it. Even the difficult family situation and watching most of the same neglect still happening, I'm constantly vigilant that I just stay out of it all. Mostly I'm grateful for the second chance to be the woman and wife that I wanted to be all along. We had that for a long time, I just lost my shit and made a mess and then could…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 11:23 PM
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aw man, you made me cry. Thank you LoT i hope it helps someone who is like me or in that same hopeless situation to find a way to claim their mistakes and keep on growing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 10:37 PM
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Well my heart goes out to anyone who's hoping for that call. I honestly had to give up trying to do the right thing because i wanted him to see it, and just start doing it because it was right. I had given up the hope that he would call. A week later the phone rang. I'm still terrified to look at self, i still want to knee-jerk respond. I don't even think I get much credit for not doing it, I really haven't changed much, I'm just STFU more. And it's working.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 10:18 PM
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It really is in your best interest to seek this advice from other men. Not that some of us may not also have the same answers as TRP, but we can't tell you how to "man" and if she isn't here seeking this from us, we can't help her either.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 09:28 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 08:04 PM
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I'm super hard on myself, often setting standards that I can't possibly achieve. I try to mantra the idea of "good enough" and give myself a break. I don't mean good enough in the sense that half assed is sufficient, but good enough as in not perfectionism in a way that drives me insane.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 02:51 PM
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Just cuntpunch her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 02:27 PM
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No need to feel foolish. An outside perspective is usually helpful when I'm upset about something and usually I am over reacting or reading more into a situation than what really is. You can't really afford hurt feelings because you like cats and he thinks they're gross. These are preferences people have. AND you knew he was allergic when you got them, you chose them knowing his position and now you are feeling personally wounded that he still doesn't like them/ is allergic to them. I would sugg…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 05:57 PM
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My advice to you is to stop taking everything personally. If he calls cats disgusting, how does that translate into something about you? Why does it "sting" that he finds cats gross? Why would he ask your opinion about fixing up a house you don't live in, and aren't planning to move to? He has an outburst about being a parent when you suggested he's the dad of the house. His response probably had nothing to do with you two having kids as much as he's just frustrated over his decisions/room mates…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 05:21 PM
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Choosing to be icky but expecting special attention is an unkind test of your commitment. Well put!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:53 PM
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We are not married but we are commited and have plans for the future. I can't just walk away because his parents are supporting me a lot and it would be so inconsiderate to leave him when they accepted me into their house as family. He should dump you on your ass at the curb. He's your "SO and we're in this together" - Except you are only with him because his parents are supporting you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 03:59 PM
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He feels (and is) trapped and you've got one foot out the door. You aren't married so you are already just "co-parenting". What's to stay together for?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 09:01 PM
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RPW teaches us how to maximize our femininity and desirability so men decide to marry and start families with us, fulfilling our purpose as women. Fulfilling our purpose as women, eh? My problem is that I agree in principle with the men who are opposed to marriage for it being a raw deal on their end. It is. And I have a hard time going "EXCEPT I'm going to try to snag one anyway who hasn't learned better because fuck everyone else it's all about me." That's got nothing to do with marriage or RP…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 02:20 PM
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Now that I've read his "updates" - I'm sorry you wasted your time writing out sooooooo many words over a troll post..lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 08:20 PM
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I don't really see what there is to discuss here. She cares more about money than him and demands he bring her more of it NOW if he wants the chance at pie after dinner? I'm pretty sure the correct answer here is exactly what trp is saying, although seriously, any man should know this is futile even if he never heard of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 07:53 PM
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you would disown your own blood? wow, that's really something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 03:30 PM
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I gave my son TRP related reading materials. Suddenly he stopped putting up with teenage girlfriend backstabbing bullshit drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 03:25 PM
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frying vegetables isn't going to help his digestion issues.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 03:23 PM
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fair enough, your explanation here definitely adds to the posting.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 03:15 PM
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hahahahah
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 03:14 PM
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if he doesnt like them, stop tricking him into eating them. He's not a child, he's an adult who can choose to eat what he wants. You want to deep fry them to make him eat them because you are concerned for his health, eh? Go back to the drawing board , you are missing something by a mile.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 03:03 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:16 AM
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You didn't actually avoid the responding jabs...lol To me, a relationship (of any kind) requires kindness and patience to get through rough times. It's certainly called for in the bedroom. Having said that, fixing your bedroom problems is very different than negotiating responsibilities and use of time. It requires a different hand, a softer hand if you're female. If there are attraction issues, being hard and angry isn't going to make his penis happy to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:01 AM
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I don't think coffeedynamics said or described anything of the sort. You can take it to the extreme to try to discredit it, but that doesn't make it what she said. Ironically, you are spinning fantasy here, not her lol It's cool though, familiar territory with the blue agenda...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:47 AM
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That's awful advice. It's a real life relationship, not a romance novel. Yeah, it's a real life relationship and romance is definitely needed. Expecting him to get subtle hints from your constant positivity won't be helpful to either of you. It won't? Will his annoyance at being talked to negatively, blamed, and told how to behave rekindle the fires?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:07 AM
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starvation is still a very real thing in the west. i am an idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 03:58 PM
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You really do have to choose what kind of day you are going to have. You don't really just always wake up in a bad mood, you are choosing it. Wake up, choose to be pleasant, and stick to it. I really hate the phrase "fake it til you make it", but it does apply and it does work. Practice it until it's more natural.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 02:50 PM
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Get a healthy diet and an exercise routine. Make sure you build a life of value to yourself and to a prospective partner.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 05:55 PM
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pull the plug. walk away!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 05:35 PM
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We aren't going to tell you how to LEAD him, obviously he's trying to LEAD YOU. Are you letting him? If not, why not?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 05:24 PM
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Have you asked him why he's worried about all the things he's "nagging" you about? Also, I don't understand this portion of your posting. "but some specifics I don't know how to lead with." "I'm not asking for opinions about my relationship, but instead advice on how to lead with the above issue." Are you asking how to lead him? or how to break the line of questioning?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 05:22 PM
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bonus, you can be licked !
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 03:06 PM
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heya! Ditto!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 10:54 PM
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haha love you sister!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 06:30 PM
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I literally fell asleep in my coffee reading this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 05:24 PM
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That "comic" perfectly sums up the relationship dynamic I watched growing up. My father commuted 4 hours round trip to work 10-12 daily. He was met at the door with everything that went wrong with her day (mostly me) and what (in detail) he should do about it. Nagging, dictating, withholding affection, bullying -all daily bullshit my dad had to go through. They are still married and she has changed a lot. He has too. I visited last year for a few weeks and it was interesting to watch the dynamic…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 01:55 PM
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I always encourage true personal growth and change. This is not that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 03:54 PM
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All I hear is you patting yourself on the back for figuring out how to word things so you get what you want. No where in here is anything about accepting your man for who and what he is. And is your name seriously a play on cock carousel?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 03:17 PM
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What is the project you are doing? Other than the small info you included already, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 03:27 PM
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Stop controlling immediately - just hush when you feel it coming on. Worry about your own self-improvement ONLY. You have plenty to work on, we all do. Make time to clean something. He's just as busy as you if you take the time to consider and respect his schedule. Exercise and stop worrying about him exercising. Compliment more, stop and consider everything he's doing and celebrate that effort. Random acts of surprise sex more. Nuff said about that one. In general, focus on you, improve yoursel…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 02:03 PM
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You should have titled your post "The How Do I Bag A Perfect Sperm Donor For My Life Plan Thread"
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 01:21 PM
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Here's one :)~ He Hit Me (It Felt Like A Kiss) /s
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 03:58 AM
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golf clap to you sister, that was hilarious!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/15 03:15 AM
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trollin' trollin' trollin' le cute
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 09:58 PM
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Take this time to work on yourself. That's all you can do.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 03:46 PM
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Hi, yeah I'm sure it's embarrassing for all parties involved. Shit happens. I'm not sure this question really needs to be entertained on our sub but thank you anyways. Have a nice day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 03:14 PM
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haha yeah blech!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 05:02 PM
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You could tell her to eat a bowl of dicks :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 03:58 PM
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You don't see posts about what your man does for you mostly because we are about improving ourselves, focusing on what we can change, and how we can be better women in our relationships. If you get rid of your selfishness and focus on being the best woman you can be, you will look back at this posting and laugh. Best wishes to you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 03:49 PM
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Abuse is never okay and should never be given a second chance. yes and well said!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 03:31 PM
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My short term goal is to pause before speaking. I'm a very blunt person and it comes across aggressively instead of assertively. I'm trying to be helpful and I'm actually offending with my tone. The smile thing is sorta a fake it til you make it thing and that's fine but it's super hard to actually do. Good luck with your efforts!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 01:20 PM
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I understand what you and your boyfriend are going through. My husband was chronically ill and went through hell trying to accept his condition and the limitations that came along with it. It's hard to be a man and face the reality of losing the strengths and talents you hold dear. The VERY things that define you as a man. Your job is to observe and adjust. If your cheerfulness is fake-ish, it will only piss him off. If you are genuinely cheerful, continue to be so, but tone it down a notch. Thi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 03:42 PM
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If this man has half a brain, he will NEVER take you back.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 04:26 PM
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I am so happy for you! I wish you both a happy journey in your marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 01:24 PM
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This post stinks of hysteria.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 02:35 PM
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Please leave some commentary on why you chose this article for our sub. I will approve the thread once you've done so. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 02:00 PM
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Stop using Tinder if you don't want the "hook-up" pressure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 01:52 PM
1

what?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:48 PM
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yeah cause getting married TOTALLY means he's going to be financially responsible.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 11:55 PM
3

excellent advice
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 03:08 PM
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I think you should get used to the idea of being a single mom. You made a poor choice in getting pregnant so early in a relationship. He's showing you with his actions that he doesn't love you and doesn't plan to be a stable force in your life or for the baby.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 02:44 PM
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Just roll with it. You acknowledge that his rough time at work can knock his confidence, but you aren't seeing that your reaction to his method of asking for release will also knock his confidence. Decide to be attracted to him in his good times and through his struggles. edit: Stop making him ask for it and start initiating things yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 02:25 PM
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tintedlipbalm did not remove his/her comment, I did. And again, it would be best to let the mods handle it. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 02:46 PM
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Hi u/lisasucks I understand your irritation at the above comment but it would be better to let the mods know by reporting it instead of firing back. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 02:43 PM
1

Sometimes I juggles watermelons with two hands tied behind my back I know i know, sexy as hell
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 01:01 PM
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What people do with their own bodies is their business. Just a personal opinion. RPW doesn't focus on things like this, rather we focus on self-improvement in relation to being a good partner to your man.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 12:51 PM
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You can't give up. try again and keep standing up for yourself until you get the help you need. I would suggest that if your partner doesn't know this is happening to you with sex, you tell him honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 03:13 PM
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That would depend on the underlying reasons you DON't enjoy it. I can't answer that part unless you are willing to talk about the reason(s) you don't. If you could share why you don't enjoy sex, it would really help all of us understand and give useful feedback.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 12:06 PM
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I also think he's starting to catch on, even though I put a lot of work into hiding it. Have you considered putting "lots of work" into learning how to enjoy it? If you're going to expend so much energy, why not towards a real solution? I'm guessing he knows you're faking it and it's hurting him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 11:53 AM
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I just wanted to say that I enjoyed your post very much.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 02:04 PM
1

I banned you anyways, you know, because it's christmas!
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/14 02:19 PM
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thats because it's illegal to punch em in the jaw in the states.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 05:07 PM
1

It's not bad, it's just not true. Now you know a little more about RPW :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 02:31 PM
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The point of saying that was to say it. We get a lot of comments on our sub and other subs about our "50's housewife approach". I didn't say it meanly, rudely, didn't attack you as a person. Be honest, your post was removed and you felt misunderstood. YOU got rude. Not me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 02:26 PM
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I'm not being rude to you. There was a note in the posting link option explaining this. Now that I've checked, it's not there. We had a thread about it also. It's no big deal, just use an archival site and resubmit. As for your attitude - you are out of line. I was in no way rude or unwelcoming. Your response is enough to get you banned so knock it off.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 02:15 PM
5

Or what if she's batshit crazy and sits online all day making up stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 01:59 PM
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please use an archival system (like archive.today) when linking. We are not 50's housewives, btw.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:48 PM
1

What she's saying might seem emotional to you, but I'd wager you feel that because she's hit the nail on the head here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 05:04 PM
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That actually made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 11:05 PM
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You are blatantly lying. No one threatened your life. You were not doxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 10:32 PM
8

You weren't doxxed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 10:24 PM
10

You make up great stories
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 10:17 PM
6

I would just drop it. They aren't your kids. There's nothing stopping you from having children together, regardless of the paternity of the two he supports already.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:27 PM
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Your parents don't understand. You can politely and simply say "thanks for your concern but this is my life and you don't get a vote".
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 08:21 PM
15

good food and good sex :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:47 PM
2

Excellent choice!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:44 PM
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RPW is not about "not stepping on your partner's toes". It's about focusing on self-improvement daily and learning how to live in harmony with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:02 PM
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http://1-ps.googleusercontent.com/xk/7dezjtgDnp8D9iA0tdUFESs7mw/www.messynessychic.com/static.messynessychic.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/509x820xsuffrage1.jpeg.pagespeed.ic.hYqsImcSXcJqHQ91L6r7.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 07:13 PM
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no
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 12:23 PM
4

It's been two months, you aren't losing anything but your dignity at this point. Leave him and don't look back.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 05:49 PM
3

Did you tell him YOU didn't want a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 04:37 PM
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Break it off and don't contact him again if you don't want to be a plate. He's made it very clear by his actions that he doesn't plan to commit.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 12:23 PM
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If you like us and would like to stick around - please stop for a minute and consider you just got here and are still learning. Several of your comments and your first submission were removed because your content goes against ours.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 03:29 PM
4

!!! Welcome!!!!!! (very nice to see you here) Thanks for taking time to respond with your thoughts and clarifications.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 02:46 PM
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There, there, kitten. Wipe those tears away and have a mug of cocoa and come sit on your Wise, Old Uncle Mistral's lap while he explains it to you. i just threw up in my mouth a little
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 04:51 PM
2

accountable? shit, my hubs does what he wants how he wants when he wants. He don't give two shits about accountable.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 03:49 PM
3

I love JudgyBitch! "I love it when this happens: some single guy friend of Mr.JudgyBitch, hungry for some family time, ends up sitting at our dining room table, a plate of something warm and delicious in front of him, children cavorting silly and funny all around, a cat curled up under his feet and a glass of something fortifying at hand. He looks around, sighs, and says, “JudgyBitch, why aren’t there more of you?” The truth is there ARE lots of women like me: women who value home and family mor…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 02:41 PM
1

Congrats on your upcoming bundle!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 08:42 PM
2

Smile and say no thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 05:38 PM
6

Our flirty lines are non-verbal! I always pinch his butt and he shoots love bullets at me with his hand.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 11:25 PM
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ok - then show him you like him very much by not hiding him in the dark.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 02:45 PM
5

you said you felt burdened by him. Move on then.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 02:30 PM
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So you like the way he treats you but not enough to include him in your social life. I wonder why he thinks that's a sign of something :scratcheshead" If you're wanting to keep this guy because he's "superior to your ex" and not because he totally turns you on and is good to you then yes you should take a breather and let this one go.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 02:12 PM
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I wouldn't date a guy who kept other girls in the loop. If this bothers you about him and he wont stop, maybe its' time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 12:03 PM
2

Wonderful work! Thank you for posting this!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 03:38 PM
4

You asked how to help her maintain frame and now you don't want to do that. OK - good luck with it all
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 03:11 PM
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She's going to have to work on a tougher chin. The world is full of bitches and while you can't stop them, you can certainly banish them from existence in your world. I'm at a great place in life where other people's shit is finally not ruining my every damned day. It took being hurt enough and strong enough to say Fuck that No thanks. Continue to remind her of her goals and successes and don't engage her in rants or complaining continually. If you can actually help her, it's by doing that. Forc…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 02:27 PM
3

So some men approach women with game and they are wrong because "genuine" men have a harder time? My only point is that women who still have it enough to get catcalled -and that annoys them- will hit the wall and be sad that they are off the radar to a large portion of men. hot/cold and burqas have nothing to do with what I said.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 01:13 PM
2

? Listen, yeah catcalling can confuse and make someone uncomfortable. It may even be annoying to pretty women, I get that. I'm sure some guys take it too far to be funny or are angry at rejection. If we argue that all men should stop doing this to all women immediately, based only on women who don't welcome it, we leave out the large portion of men and women it worked for and their right to enjoy game.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 12:36 PM
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I didn't say rude to little old ladies - i said NOT NOTICE post-wall. Women will bitch when they're noticed and bitch when they become invisible.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 11:25 AM
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yes evil bad men who compliment strangers should be sent home for a tune up. OK sure. I invite the same woman to return to the streets post-wall and make a video about how men are assholes who only want young pretty things and how unfairly old women are being treated because they're old. No matter what - women don't like what men do/don't do and it's of course always on the men.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 11:05 AM
2

Satellite internet and youtube is good enough for me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 04:12 PM
1

'nuff said. you get what you get.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 03:51 PM
1

I don't have iTunes now :shrug:
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 03:50 PM
4

Does your type of insurance come into play here with how receptive his doctors are to pain management ? I hope not. It happens. Pain pill addiction has everyone micromanaging pain med patients and it's stupid. There are plenty of statistics about actual pain and it's treatment with narcotics and the end result is usually "dependence" rather than addicted. Not the same thing. /rant over. As far as helping him without babying him, it's a great sign of your character that you are thinking in these …
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 03:07 PM
1

never mind my questions
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 02:50 PM
1

you have the cooking and sex part down but you don't say much about your attitude. How's your side of the street when it comes to being respectful?
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 02:48 PM
3

The post doesn't break any rules and he is welcome to post this here. If you read the article, you'll see that it absolutely fits here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 12:50 PM
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you're 20 and you have your whole life in front of you. Take some time to get over your hurt feelings so you aren't bringing baggage into a new relationship. You'll be fine, stick to your guns and keep moving.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 12:43 PM
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If this is has become acceptable then I'm out. I want to live in a cabin in the middle of nowhere so I don't have to listen to this shit. <end rant> I'm with ya --can't wait to be in the woods away from society
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 11:42 AM
1

/r/theredpill
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 08:47 PM
1

bye!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 01:35 AM
3

yay!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 11:50 PM
10

I'm adding this to our sidebar's insightful field reports! Thank you for taking the time to report back!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 11:21 PM
1

I can scarcely believe that that hot piece of ass is one of our mods, lucky us.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 09:12 PM
1

huh?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 08:55 PM
11

To be fair - sushi and a large penis sounds enticing to me too :)~
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 05:36 PM
18

don't drink.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 03:26 PM
2

Welcome to the sub!
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 03:21 PM
1

shine your unicorn horn brighter I guess. If that doesn't work, duct tape and a creepy get away van :shrug:
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 02:17 PM
1

/r/theredpill
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 04:28 PM
2

C-sections take time to heal. Exercise and be patient and things will come around. Part of having children is accepting that your body will change and while you can get back into shape, you may not be able to be 100% as was before. You aren't fat or lazy, you seem to be doing pretty well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 02:57 PM
1

Please use http://archive.today/ to post links to websites. We don't want to drive traffic to their sites. You are welcome to repost this using the link provided.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 01:54 PM
1

please message the mods with the user ID.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 12:24 AM
2

I used to but then I quit working at his request and now I'm a homemaker. I know lots of men who bring home $$$ but can't change a tire or start a fire and certainly wouldn't want to hike and forage mushrooms and plants. To me, that kind of guy is not worth the money he makes. I realize I'm an outlier amongst most women. RP ideals in my marriage are about looking for ways to improve myself, my home and family, and my marriage. That means celebrating his work and complimenting in a supporting rol…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 01:13 PM
1

Well sarcasm won't get you anywhere so why even go there?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:55 PM
1

In the same way you have to deal with your ex -apparently he does to in order to handle the dog situation. If he thinks you aren't going to "get it" and over react, then he's less likely to let you know about it or get your input. And you ARE over reacting and he is right. I'm leaving the kid stuff alone. Are you open to any of his input on the kids/ex or do you always shut him down and do your own thing?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 06:56 PM
2

perhaps she missed your point after you called her an SJW and told her to get lost.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 04:56 PM
1

Why are you even on TRP giving advice?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:04 PM
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If you read something he didn't mean for you to read - you should drop it from your mind completely. Those were his private thoughts and you invaded them. Now you're in anguish because of your own actions. He's not doing or saying anything that's wrong. He's just being male.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 03:15 PM
2

This is you , isn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 02:46 PM
3

What is the meaning of life?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 02:37 PM
1

Of course he wants to know if you are open to sex. This is all normal dating stuff- and part of "online dating" (whatever that means) it seems like most of your posts are full of suspicion and fear about men and sex. Getting into a "serious long term relationship" means you're going to talk about sex and compatibility so whatever hang ups and resentments you have about men and dating, you need to get rid of. You're getting in your own way and pushing men away.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 02:22 PM
2

Who were you trying to endorse and I will fix it :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 01:09 PM
1

Are his injuries temporary glitches that will improve? Are you staying because you're concerned with your age and goals for having children?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:37 PM
1

Women are suckers for a sappy sob story you so jaded
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 06:41 PM
4

Oh please. no points earned, when you fucking love someone you love them. Do you have any concept of what it takes as a human being to take care of someone with severe disabilities? The effort and thoughtfulness that goes into being more physically able than your man, yet never making him feel less than or mothered? It's a fine line and my hat's off to any couple in a situation like this where they actually make it together and make each other's lives better too..
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 05:02 PM
1

He's saying that Moms are sacrificing earning potential to stay home for a while. He's advocating better day care so Moms can work/not lose their wages.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 10:16 PM
1

You are welcome to post this to the men's sub /r/TheRedPill or to /asktrp. You will get better advice there. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 02:38 PM
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it isn't something special you'd do for a man because you want him. It is most certainly something special I'd do for a man I want. Simple as that. Is there no sensible reason why my money/my efforts won't quickly go towards him screwing some other girl? Yes? Well I'll be keeping my resources then. Don't be an accessory to your own dreadgaming, it is really really dumb. There is a sensible reason your money and efforts wouldn't be wasted - it's called vetting a good man. If you're worried about …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 03:47 PM
6

We can already tell from the posts on the #nonothingnovember sub what the most common man things are Weed and masturbation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 02:59 PM
3

Well there's a difference between budgeting and taking over his money. I still ask my husband before making purchases, things outside groceries and supplies. I don't tell him what to buy or not buy either. To me, that would be taking over his money. It's good you're trying to flesh this stuff out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 12:00 AM
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No, I don't live in the south but I know what you're saying.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 11:51 PM
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It really depends on what the two of you decide each other's responsibilities are. My husband expected me to make budgets and delegate what money paid which bills, etc. Cleaning and cooking were expected too, which I think is reasonable. Have the two of you talked about this stuff or are you able to read what he expects from you? That's the important part.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:39 PM
1

Has this been the norm for you for the entire time? You knew each other for 8 years before you married, did you have attraction issues then too? Why do you think you are having this difficulty? Are you distracted with his level of enjoyment and doubting yourself? Sorry, just trying to understand a little better.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:05 PM
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I always said I'd live with my husband under a bridge if that's what it would take to stay together. Money is nice, but it ain't everything.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 08:49 PM
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what the fuck this is is several moderators hearing what you're saying and correcting you with what it appropriate advice for this sub. We have been pretty neutral other than to warn you to scale back your tone. You asked to be banned and so you are.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:44 PM
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Who doesn't value intimacy in marriage, I hope you're not suggesting that's the case for HHL. You'd be talking out your ass. Who said they were going to ban you. Knock it off =/= a ban. What will get you banned is arguing like an ass with Mods after we corrected you and asked you to scale your tone back. What you are preaching is the opposite of what we preach at RPW. If you're going to come play here, keep it helpful and in the same direction as our goals please. That's in the sidebar. Welcome …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:38 PM
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No, that's not my advice. You're being an ass. Knock it off.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:33 PM
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Scale back your snarky misinformed tone, or be gone with ya. We don't only benefit financially. That's absurd and rude to suggest. You seem jaded and that's fine, but don't spew your bullshit here. We are pro-marriage here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:29 PM
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You aren't on TRP - you're at RPW, for one thing. Secondly, you are repeating what you've read vs offering actual experience - and that makes a big difference. It's a good idea for husbands with children to have a woman that can be a SAHM. It's good for the kids, the further success of the husband, the stability of the home life, etc. Alimony isn't as prevalent as you make it sound. Trust is a major benefit between people who marry. Many women do not rake men over the coals. I never have and wou…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:23 PM
4

Have you ever been married, divorced, or had to pay alimony?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:16 PM
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How does that work (across the board) for SAHM's who don't bring money to the table, rather they work on their home and children as a contribution to the success and stability of the marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 05:09 PM
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While I agree with most of what you are saying, I don't agree with keeping finances separate after marriage. At least not as the rule across the board. It just doesn't work that way in every situation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 04:36 PM
1

That was pretty funny :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 01:43 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgNV3FbottE#t=43
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 03:37 PM
4

Nice humblebrag. I can guarantee you that your deadlifting talents aren't going to be what a woman notices and decides to get to know you for. Please clarify - you notice "hate for short men" by whom? Comments from guys or from girls or from both?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 02:11 PM
2

What you are doing (riding the CC) is 100% opposite from what we encourage women to do at RPW. Our message is to preserve your N count, vet men well for LTR's, and work on being more natural counterparts to men. Can you see why we wouldn't encourage your post on our sub?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 12:44 AM
1

Sorry but we aren't going to post this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 11:23 PM
2

I agree and how you're acting during this hardship is not getting either of you closer to healing. You being hard and unbending is going to drive her right out the door or into a hospital. You have a responsibility to get her help and stop whining about messes. She's not a robot.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 10:45 PM
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You say you've made her feel safe and cared for but you've also mentioned you just want to slap her. Now is the time for compassion and strength. It sounds like you are in over your head and that means it's time to seek an outside source. Get her to a doctor and a grief counselor. She's lost her hope and she can't pull herself out of it and fighting about her housework failures will only make her off herself or pack a bag. You don't want those things right? If you want to salvage this and show h…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 10:43 PM
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Well done.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 07:42 PM
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Nice read, I really appreciate you sharing this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 03:28 PM
3

I'm confused about the time line here, were you having sex before a month ago?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 02:10 PM
2

So glad you see improvements already! Keep working at it! Welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 01:59 PM
3

Let's get this back on topic. You said : It's been a long time since women were protected from anything. Your argument may have held water back in the days of neighboring tribes stealing each other's women, but in the west, in the 21st century? You're talking out your hat. You are wrong about that and one of many examples of women BEING protected is evidenced by what happens with them in a court of law. It's part of the equation and yes there are seriously awful things that happen to women, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 01:30 AM
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OK how about this https://www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS526US526&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=false+rape+accusations&safe=off&tbm=nws https://www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS526US526&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=false+domestic+violence+accusations&safe=off&tbm=nws It's not that I don't have the guts, it's just that three names doesn't erase the hundreds of false accusations and tactics pulled by women to strip men of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:52 AM
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I'm not going to argue or debate with you babyguineapig. You've already proven to me that your methods are dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:58 PM
1

http://www.healthline.com/health-news/tech-researchers-make-sperm-and-eggs-from-adult-skin-cells-082613
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 10:51 PM
1

ectogenesis. It's not that far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 10:43 PM
2

And soon, we won't need women's wombs to produce more humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 09:39 PM
2

Women have all the favor of the courts and are frequently sided with over men, especially in DV/custody cases. All the troubles in those courts is because women's rights are protected over mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:10 PM
3

Welcome to RPW. I'm so glad you have found some good orderly direction here. It's not too late!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 01:30 PM
2

Cute! I liked all the photos. I think the message is still practical in today's time too. I wish I had a boudoir. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 01:20 PM
1

Please take time to read our sidebar and information. Your post is rude and uninformed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 12:59 PM
2

She never claimed to be dating an RP man. Most of us aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 12:48 PM
2

oh dear god. It's really no different than kids packing guns and participating in hardcore gang/drug movies or 6 year olds cast in horror flicks/scary movies. It all sucks. I can't even imagine the type of mom that thought "yes, this is a great idea for my kid"....just hell no.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 04:50 PM
0

Don't be a dick. FleetingWish is not a troll. You fucking potty mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 12:01 AM
1

Hockey team fundraiser sounds "rowdy" to me. If you find this to be the case, don't get caught up in it and act like one of the guys. Don't forget to play your girl game mentally. Hope you have fun.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/14 11:48 PM
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2416088/Transgender-German-man-Europe-baby-boy-following-home-birth.html
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:28 PM
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I was great at baby-making but now I'm old and have been retired to "steady cumdumpster/head sock washer. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:24 PM
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So what would you have her do? Be miserable for the rest of her life? From the sound of it, her husband isn't a beta bucks. She said that he INSPIRED HER to change. She found a good man that made her want to improve herself. The typical reformed slut story is a slut hits the wall at 30 and settles. She met her husband at 23. She still had enough years in her to slut around, but she wisened up. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 08:06 PM
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I think you've said your piece already and as a friend you might just want to let your message be a living example and not risk damaging your friendship. My two cents :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 07:58 PM
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you seem pretty theatrical about all of this which indicates you're still holding yourself to the victim identity. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:56 PM
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And that's fine. I think you are missing an integral part of healing and letting go and staying grounded in reality by refusing to accept that your choices and lack of experience led you down a shit road that you eventually decided was nothing that you wanted. When we only choose to see one side of a partnership's troubles, we are hampering forward progress. It's a dishonesty that many people struggle with, not just DV's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:15 PM
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You aren't responding very honestly with me. I continue to repeat that I DO NOT blame one party 100% in these situations. It's a mix of two people struggling and fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:48 PM
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Sister, you got to roll with the punches in life and accept what you learn about yourself and others as it comes along. Please hear me when I say I never mean you had it coming and it's all your fault. I keep trying to say to you that it takes two to get there and it isn't just black and white, one lane to pick as you put it. I fucked up with several men because I was young and had no good role models and I had a penchant for adventure/thrill seeking that put me in contact with people I wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:47 PM
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My personal take is - If my husband can't be vulnerable or fallible in front of me, what good am I to him. He really doesn't whine about much and I don't call his talking things out with me whining like a beta. TRP has several messages about this and they directly relate to what men are looking for as for as commitment/LTR/marriage. It's been suggested several times on RPW that "husband material" is a balance of beta and alpha traits, with less alpha more beta. My husband definitely resembles a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 07:11 PM
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It certainly works on me. Nothing pulls my head out of my ass faster than the old man ignoring my antics and walking the fuck out for like 5 hours- just long enough for me to start getting desperate to apologize and adjust my bullshit and work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 06:03 PM
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lol @ posting a title like that and then telling women who respond to it that their very response means they are wrong. Dorky shit dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:19 PM
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haha
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 05:03 PM
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Maybe you could explain what you DO feel the word feminine means then because that part is so far missing from this thread. I can't really respond well without knowing your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:01 PM
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Sorry to get in the middle of you two but your questions sparked me. You describe yourself as "feminine" and from what I can tell that is not defined by you personally It is though, in part. For me, choosing to work towards being more feminine is about two things. Educated choices. Searching and trying new methods (especially if my own ideas aren't working) in order to better understand how my partnership's goals are effected negatively and positively by my ideas and behaviors. I need research a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:31 PM
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This article is full of shit man blaming man bashing misunderstanding and mis-characterization.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 03:55 PM
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Lesson learned right? Possessive and controlling are traits that carry bigger implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:31 PM
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Who said a man was a plan? You like to put words in my mouth and assume things I don't mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 02:36 PM
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It is acceptable to make mistakes and if you marry an asshole -you share the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 02:35 PM
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I'm sorry you had to learn some hard lessons the hard way. In hindsight, I know nothing I ever did would have ever been good enough. He left a trail of broken, vulnerable pretty young things through university, before finally being expelled for plagurism. Did you know this about him before you decided to settle with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:00 AM
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so you chose to buy stock in what the only people who didn't challenge you to look for you part in it said. You learned nothing about your behaviors and the instigation of his anger by your actions? You weren't wrong? I fear the consequences of a betrayal like yours - letting a friend of your husbands get a peek at your goods - that would be a serious matter in my home and I would never betray the trust with my husband in that manner and especially not with one of his friends. I care about prese…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:24 AM
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i just googled bone broth and different pho recipes and blended up my own thing based on the spices I liked most. The key is the broth and fresh ingredients, that's about all I can say after only making it one time at home. It's so worth it though, all those jalapenos and ohhhh the ginger spicy broth!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 03:58 AM
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I reject the word "survivor" honestly but I do understand why it's important to identify as one for a time. A realistic amount of time while they are exploring what they've been through, looking for ways to change themselves so they don't have to repeat it again, and forgiving their partner for what they've been through. So your next statement about my leadership capacity being "disturbing" - well yeah you inserted things I don't believe so that's pretty much not worth addressing. I don't at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:46 AM
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I would usually say that his having a female friend that close was a bad idea or an invitation to hurt feelings and jealousy but you've sort of changed my mind on that. assuming he's so dumb that he's not going to pick up on the fact that you're trying to manipulate him into putting this woman in her place (below you-- and let's be real, this is the actual crux of the issue) are all first mate faux pas. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 01:59 AM
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sniffle thanks
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 01:20 AM
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See now that's why I chose to marry my husband, because I knew what the worst of him was already. I waited until I was confident. I really don't believe your opinion that it's common. I'll tell you why too. I've participated in victim impact panels for several types of "abuse survivors" (as they call themselves) and I can't recall any testimony over those four years that matches what you're describing. The women I listened to talked about signs they either or ignored, misinterpreted, or thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 01:20 AM
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My hubs barked at me to get busier - haha Pho N/a Packing up our camper to go stay on our property for a few weeks
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 10:33 PM
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I think what you're suggesting is pretty rare. I have heard time and time again from women who did suffer actual abuse that looking back they should have seen it coming and that there were signs of it everywhere but they were too stubborn and in love to take stock. Presenting the minority in abuse as the majority in abuse does not prove your point better. what if what if what if.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:29 PM
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My point is that we don't need to force it. And yes, I comply with his requests. If I've spent the day barfing or something, he's not going to ask for sex because he's not a selfish ding dong. And neither am I. The consideration in our marriage comes BEFORE the request. Just to make sure I understood you correctly I looked up the definition of bodily autonomy. Bodily autonomy Bodily autonomy means a person has control over who or what uses their body, for what, and for how long. Its why you can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 08:23 PM
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:)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 08:10 PM
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And my belief is that through marriage I GAVE my body to my husband. And he gave his to me. I trust him completely never to harm or take advantage of that. There's nothing to take advantage of anyways - We love sex with each other and it's comforting for both of us to have no weird fears of rejection to worry about. He can ask and do what he likes to me and me to him. We don't force sex when we are sick or beat each other up to get what we want. There is no bodily autonomy for us - we gave that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 08:02 PM
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hhaha
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 07:36 PM
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Grab the duct tape and the turkey carver. simple :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 07:21 PM
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Yeah, I'm older (39).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 03:20 PM
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I'm motivated by my goals, which are shared goals with my husband. I am learning about subsistence living, homesteading, gardening, raising animals for meat and dairy. I'm also a soap maker. When fall comes around I'm out in the woods collecting edible mushrooms and plants for the table. I'm not religious. My ethics are about honor, loyalty, earning your keep, working hard, etc. I take people on an individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 03:14 PM
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pretty dishonest of you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 01:55 PM
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That's why you are careful to vet a man before you marry him and produce children with him. If he's the kind of man who'd do what you just mentioned, while I feel badly for them, I also hold them accountable to their choices and their mistakes. You do what you have to and you take responsibility for your part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 01:37 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 01:35 PM
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i literally snickered when I read that - such fluffy BS that has nothing to do with the subject at hand. If you're so compassionate, how come you spend all this time bashing women on RPW for their ideas and strategies? Me thinks you make shit up to sound good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 12:18 AM
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Sure you're allowed to make mistakes - the point is to own them and not blame it all on the other person. That's the heart of RPW, identifying what's dirty on your side of the street and cleaning the bullshit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 12:16 AM
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example please
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:30 PM
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I'm confused. You're proposing an argument NOT based on your views? Why would I respond to that? I'm also confused by your statement If it WERE a counterpart to TRP, I would expect to see posts about being a woman without a man living up to her "feminine potential." You would see posts about how women make better nurses and teachers, and how to be a person of good guidance to younger women. And you would see posts about what things women are GOOD at, instead of what men are better at. We exist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 07:24 PM
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you might want to let John Stewart know about this and maybe Stephen Colbert and Bill MAher etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:18 PM
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So let me get this straight - you aren't particularly religious yet you get all upset about someone joking about old age sins? You are only making yourself look sillier here. You misunderstood and over-reacted to a joke made by a clever person. And saying that humor is a sign that you've run out of argument is stupid too. Ever watch politically charged comedy shows? Those people kill it winning arguments and changing minds with humor. It's a sign of intelligence and grounding to use humor in deb…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:14 PM
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If you actually took the time to read what RPW really say - you'd never come to this conclusion. Your tactics are dishonest and ignorant and you continue to be ignorant. We encourage women to make good choices about relationships - to choose a man that wouldn't be that way. We say it every week. We also say if you married an asshole and then had kids with him -you made your own bed and no one feels sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:08 PM
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haha - just ignore her honest testimony. My relationship isn't like that either. Maybe you watch too much LifeTime movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:05 PM
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Actually -thanks for pointing her to even more resources that line up with RPW's message. We're finally getting to you :) P.s. you should actually read what RPW DOES say to "terpers" reading over their shoulder. Again, you misrepresent us out of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:45 PM
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hahahahaha! with friends like these.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:38 PM
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Dude it was a funny haha not some religious persecution. She's not even religious - just a funny lady. I think you're clutching your bible too hard. relax and try to hear what she is saying with her humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:04 PM
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Cute how you started splitting hairs and misunderstanding light-hearted responses! great argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 04:47 PM
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well played!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 04:27 PM
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Do you believe that housewives AREN'T living up to their full potential? I think that's false. I'm beat by the end of the day and satisfied with my efforts. My life is fulfilling and complete because I AM living up to my full potential - being a rock for my family and helping us towards our goals. I don't have training wheels on and you are coloring the Captain/first officer dynamic in a false light.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 04:09 PM
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if my marriage ended? I guess I would go back to admin work and try to get on with life without my best friend. I think you're inserting a "truth" about RPW's that isn't true. We don't claim that no woman is happy who doesn't follow our beliefs. We say that when men and women understand their core nature and follow a system that hinges around that, they can find true happiness. I know I have said several times to people posting on our forum that it's cool if our beliefs aren't their beliefs. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:58 PM
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Dang I wish my hubs WOULD stuff an apple in my mouth and beat me with his love stick. He's a little shier than that though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:42 PM
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what's so hard to understand about making an identity for yourself that revolves around your marriage? My hubs IS my life and I'm pretty happy with that choice. He's great and deserves a partnership that helps him reach his goals in life. In return, I get an amazing man who lets nothing stop us from having the life we really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:39 PM
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My hub's is anti-social and so am I. We like people's pets though ;) I guess it really hinges on what you value in life - social graces or an ability to navigate challenges and exceed in your adventures. That's my H, never met a problem he couldn't solve with a little elbow grease and a great mind. I'm glad he's not social - I don't want that life. I want to live in the woods and chop wood and study fungus and make yummy meals and wash his underwear. That makes him very high value to me because …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 03:35 PM
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I object to the trolling and the scouring of our threads for "nuggets of outrage" followed by wacky posts that totally misrepresent RPW and the actual comments being made. It's like they skim with their emotions and red flag words JUMP out at them and they scurry over to their sub to make things into what they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:21 PM
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I got to know my hubs for 5 years before we were married. We never really discussed what we felt we were "entitled to" before getting hitched. It was really worked out non-verbally through action. He works hard and does well to take care of his family and I in return try to match his efforts with my tasks and nurturing. I disagree that husbands aren't entitled to sex with their wives. I was given the gift of his exclusivity and I honor that by meeting his needs. It's not some weird tit-for-tat s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:12 PM
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Nope, not taken too far. It's total shit advice. RPW's message is don't be a cock tease, communicate effectively, have good boundaries and a sense of orderly direction. What you said is - be a cock tease, don't talk about it until it's almost too late, leave it to the cards on how it plays out. Not RPW advice in any way. Yes, the worst advice I've read all day.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:44 PM
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wow worst advice I've heard all day. Get down to the panties before you say no? That's just retarded. That's a good way to get forced into finishing or have sex out of guilt and cry rape. That's pretty much cock-teasing and expecting a guy to just throw on the brakes when shit is hot and heavy. Good way to set a guy up for failure and false allegations.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:29 PM
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I hope you find some peace and stability within yourself or you are going to wreck every last good thing in your life. Ask yourself what the hell is going on with you that the goodness in your life just isn't good enough. When you have an answer and a clear direction towards change, that's when you will find peace and happiness with what you have.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 09:26 PM
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Yeah- you're off base. Helping your man by cleaning and taking care of things for him demonstrates GOOD qualities that men are most likely looking for. It's helpful, thoughtful, respectful, nurturing. I don't see how you can call it disrespectful or counter-productive.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 04:49 PM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 11:55 PM
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Well you seem to have a handle on things already - just make sure to love all over him if he does feel guilty and move on quickly. No worries
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 08:12 PM
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Quite honestly - my hubs never remembers my Bday and we've been together almost 7 years. Once on my 35th - he got me a card addressed "OldBat" hahaha What this really amounts to is don't sweat the small stuff. Maybe he doesn't value celebrating like that or maybe he does other things for you that are kind and useful that you could decide makes up for this issue? I'm only speaking as a person who doesn't value BDay and Valentines :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 07:59 PM
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I get their point and TBH - both look haggardly to me. Sigh -old age - I fear you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 09:46 PM
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ah ok ty
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:50 PM
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that we're seen as the more accessible side of TRP to beta men. Hmmm, I'm not understanding you here. What?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:41 PM
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Maybe it was a slow day and they felt like having some fun?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 07:07 PM
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ooo big man let it go once -blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 06:41 PM
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My husband has two close male friends, one we see almost daily and the other at least once a week. I have grown to like these guys and they frequently share dinners with us and join us on hikes and camping trips. I consider them friends, and good friends at that. They're the kind of people I find to be brotherly and reliable. I trust them. I give them my trust because they have earned it by never crossing the line with me. We laugh and argue, same as family does, but at the end of the day they k…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 05:34 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 08:02 PM
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That's women for you - every little ugly detail. Why would you expect anything better.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 04:58 PM
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And while men would prefer to advance the relationship only as much needed as to have optimal sex, women benefit most from a scenario that would strengthen his bond to her or giving herself an out and not wasting anymore time with someone who wasn't going to progress the relationship at the rate she wants. I don't know that I agree with your statement about men only wanting to advance the relationship as much as need for optimal sex. That hasn't really been my experience anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:50 AM
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you both seem like my kind of people too. My hubs is a freaking McGyver with anything and I have never once worried that he couldn't handle a situation. More important to me than money or social status.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 01:38 AM
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You should just go fuck yourself :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 06:34 PM
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you have time for badgering - you have time to read the side bar.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 06:10 PM
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That seems like a topic to discuss BEFORE you commit in a relationship. There is zero chance I would ever have to deal with this but if it came up the answer would be no.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 01:56 PM
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lol @ "shame"
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 01:10 PM
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I call bullshit. Serious post partum depression doesn't look like new mommies laying around playing video games. This is clearly getting too comfortable allowing your partner to do all the cooking, cleaning, making money, and child care. Too many of you nutball head fixers are allowing shit to get out of hand by inventing labels, treatments, and pills instead of encouraging people to become better people through action.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 01:01 AM
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Sure or just on TRP itself, there are men in LTR's who can step up to help you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 12:19 AM
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You have a lazy, spoiled brat on your hands. She is always going to use an excuse or be a pansy as long as you continue to allow her to.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 12:18 AM
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You should really be asking our men's forum for guidance with this, so please repost this on TRP's forum? She is doing nothing and changing nothing and disrespecting you because there are no CONSEQUENCES for her bad behavior. Learn about dread game and start kicking that proverbial ass into shape. There is no other option.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 12:13 AM
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yeah sure - it's called Pull Your Head Out of Your ASS-itis. You don't need a pill for that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 11:14 PM
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thanks <3
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:35 PM
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wow, great stuff. I could definitely use the reminder about not making him suffer in order to preserve my well being. I'm glad you two are closer and happier.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:12 PM
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I like that - a game on easy mode. Well put! Best wishes to you and your new relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:07 PM
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So true about not criticizing or complaining strengthening the possibility of your husband sharing his true intentions without fear! Thanks for the reminder!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:06 PM
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Glad to hear!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:00 PM
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We are planning a huge move too! Leaving family and friends behind and moving out fairly remotely to homestead. I really have to shift my mindset, and get prepared for a different lifestyle than what living close to a city brings. I need to start watching for ways to assist my hubs with this new lifestyle and bring my own talents to the table in a different way than I have ever had the opportunity to do. It's exciting now that my feet are planted firmly! And thanks for that sunscreen tip - good …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 08:59 PM
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I had some help re-examining myself lately and it really showed me that I was still trying to control everything around me. I hadn't stopped doing it, I had gotten better at it! eek! I was never a typical nagging wife, even my husband brags about that BUT I discovered I do it stealthily, ninja style which has the same effect and most likely worse because he isn't aware of it happening. Man so true! I can really identify with this as a behavior that sneaks in on both of us. Thanks. And thanks for…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 08:57 PM
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lol @ "a real man would" My hubs would abhor having to comfort me and remind me I am secure all the time- he views that as my work to do as an adult and member of his team. I guess that makes him fake :shrug:
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 08:47 PM
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Good stuff - cleaning out the car or cleaning up the junk out of my hubs's workshop is pretty much the only thank you's my husband responds to. He is never motivated or satiated with tangible gifts. He feels appreciated by being take care of BACK, of course along with being thanked and respected in return for taking care of me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 07:53 PM
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while she talks about good stuff - she admits to doing the opposite. That really takes away from the strength of the message she's trying to get out there. Shame.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 07:49 PM
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haha yeah! nice one
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 06:31 PM
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Jesus- whatifwhatifwhatifwhatifwhatifwhatifwhatif Sounds like you need some REAL problems or something.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 01:24 PM
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That may be your reason and that's fine but it's hardly the only reason or even the most valid one.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 09:19 PM
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The researchers posit that obese girls just don’t have the social skills that non-obese girls do, and that — not their weight — is what causes the differences, and they aim to prove it scientifically. wut? I can tell them for free what the problem is, jesus christ
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 02:59 PM
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I don't mean to be rude but you've written a bunch of words that contain almost no details and leaves nothing to work with. Why did your other relationships end? Are you keeping in shape? Just how badly do you need the last word? I'm grasping at straws here
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 02:49 PM
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Maybe you could practice noticing when he's giving you attention and less about what your needs are and whether they are getting met. Do you have hobbies or activities that you enjoy? That always helps me with loneliness and boredom.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 02:58 AM
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New, only 3 months in. Does he even love me? Maybe you could slow yourself down a little? Three months and busy schedules is all about getting to know someone. You may be moving too fast and being too clingy - just a thought.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 02:42 AM
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Dude - Married with Children - Duh
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 01:42 AM
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Unfortunately catcalling is not illegal yet, but feminists are working day and night in order to ensure that it will soon be classed as “vocal rape,” “honk rape” (not to be confused with “honky rape,” the rape of stereotypical whites), and “thinking-sexual-thoughts-about-woman-walking-by rape.” I LOL'd
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 01:39 AM
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Listen, her post isn't about being beat down with punches, it's all about growing pains. I will never encourage a woman to break up a family unit over that. Clearly you have less of a "stick-to" on this matter and that's fine, it's just shit advice to give a woman clearly looking to stay together.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 03:02 AM
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Well maybe I am the weirdo here but having a child with a man that you like and are just struggling to grow up with means you stick it out and be unselfish to your husband and your child.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 02:55 AM
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I wouldn't recommend abandoning someone she clearly feels loyal too (and has a child with).
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 02:46 AM
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Hey - just want to encourage you to keep it together and keep putting one foot in front of the other. You two have some things working against you but you have some admirable qualities too. Stick together and keep working and try to do things with love in your heart. I admire you and hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 02:43 AM
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Don't start making excuses now. Pick something and work on it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 08:55 PM
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You've listed all the ways you take care of him yet the only thing you gave him credit for was an internet bill? Is that really all he's doing? This entire thing reads like a bitch-fest, to be honest. You've dominated the relationship by making all his choices for him. Is he happy this way or is he going along to get along? Have you asked him what he wants? You've listed several things about yourself you could improve - cooking, cleaning, being less controlling. Why don't you start by working on…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 01:44 PM
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You had a first date with a guy twenty days ago too?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:38 AM
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You have said it is not a major issue, just an annoyance; so don't MAKE it a big deal. This falls WELL into the category of 'don't sweat the small stuff' and well into the realm of something you can adjust your attitude about (and that far more easily than you can adjust his behaviour and with more positive consequences). ♀
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 11:26 PM
5

this
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 10:45 PM
2

Well, you have what your mom says and now you have what SAHM's say - and as a stay at home mom, I have to tell you it really irritates me to hear women repeating "you must be lazy". Especially unmarried women who have no children and no honest idea how unlazy and unselfish you have to be to be good at it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 09:53 PM
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haha
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 09:12 PM
10

Shit happens?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 08:48 PM
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When the measure of your success is a private matter and not a social one, that's when I think true happiness and success happens. I measure my own success in a life that I've chosen by how happy my family is and how well their needs are met. I fall short on the mark plenty but never give up and always look for ways to love more and be more help to. That's , I guess, where I find my piece of mind (feeling of success).
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 07:24 PM
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Are you attracted to this guy at all? It sounds to me like you aren't really. On the one hand you say his actions are turning you off but then you say these have been the happiest two months of your life. Sounds pretty indecisive to me. You're right that you can only change yourself. What's the real harm in letting him take good care of you? Does he not measure up to your idea of an Alpha based on what you've read or do these "nice things" he does for you really make you upset? I have a feeling …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 01:00 PM
1

There are kids involved. Plus, for 30 years she contributed to his problem too. She should take responsibility for her part in this mess and continue to support and stay with.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 07:29 PM
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You will never help him change by using guilt and shame. That will only drive him further down. You are going to have to figure out a way to be truly loving and supportive. You can't just decide for another person that a lifetime of unhealthy practices is now over. You certainly shouldn't break up your children's family life because you aren't getting what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 07:00 PM
2

Congrats!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 03:05 PM
1

Why would you think you look like a lazy gold digger for being a stay at home mom. Is this cultural? I've just never met a person who actually said out loud what you are saying.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 04:47 AM
1

I did ask. I said "Are you saying XYZ, please clarify" and you responded by saying the exact same thing you'd already said.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 08:19 PM
1

I myself have lived with several men who never really said I love you - unless they felt guilted into it. It is far less assuring and calming to hear those words as your force them out of his mouth. Look seriously for his language of love. If he's loving you without words there will be evidence of it somewhere. Take an honest look. If you seriously don't find it, then I would say don't waste your time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 01:48 AM
0

well said
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 01:30 AM
8

You deserve your SO to read this and dump you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 04:00 PM
4

hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 01:53 AM
7

lol -write the company then and ask them to include a "Men get Raped Too" pair
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 10:37 PM
4

haha those would make a nice gag gift
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 09:50 PM
10

I have my own demons as do the rest of us. Welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 06:04 PM
14

Please don't stop here on his account. We value your story for it's honesty and humility and frankness. Usually we have to struggle through comment history(if they even have one) to put together all the pieces you put together for us. Don't sweat it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 05:39 PM
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My consent during sex would be ambiguous and sometimes I would use this to my advantage, painting myself as a victim of unwanted advances if I was caught cheating. Men were disposable, I figured I might as well throw them under the bus. My behaviour, I realize (even then I knew on one level or another), was despicable and I am regretful.* I actually missed this part of your thread when I read it through the first time. I can't tell you how deeply disturbing this character flaw of yours is. I hop…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:59 PM
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We are willing to listen to the story from a prospective that she made huge mistakes and is finally learning to be a better woman. We are all about change here and have no expectation that perfect Unicorns Only will be posting here. In fact we tend to shred the ego of those perfect Unicorns. I understand what you are saying but you are missing that she changed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:45 PM
1

It would have been more beneficial to you to have explained yourself a little better than just repeating the same thing you already said. I was asking you to clarify IN CASE I was reading you wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:41 PM
1

I like how you use the rules of the forum to control the message - while in a thread asking why someone uses the rules of the forum to control the message
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 03:43 PM
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It has already been stated by TempestTCup that the advice can be used anywhere - all it takes is an interested party who finds that it works in their life. We are trying to a lay a good platform for that structure and it requires that we correct or remove what doesn't strengthen that platform. It very simple to understand why we don't put up with opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 03:19 PM
1

I asked you to clarify what you meant and all you said was the same thing. I was asking you if you thought this way or it was others perceiving you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 02:07 PM
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So you ARE saying that SAHM are lazy gold diggers. I find that pretty insulting as a SAHM who runs her ass off day and night to take care of a family.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 09:25 PM
3

Are you saying SAHM's are lazy gold diggers? Are you even a mom? Please explain your comment better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 08:07 PM
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You have to decide where your convictions lie. Do you want to be that stability and comfort for your family or does what other people think matter more than the love of your life? This is simple really. Decide.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 04:14 PM
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I can only reply to you as a married woman. I would never give my all to a man who would not give it in return to me. We teach our ladies that they are to serve their men and in return receive stability and commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 09:35 PM
2

to be fair -this thread is about marriage and commitment between two people. How can you possibly lend to this given your current status?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 04:20 PM
2

IF the issue was the fetish - she would be writing to us about how to overcome her lack of interest in his fetish. She clearly stated that this was an issue of trust because of what he read on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 04:17 PM
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I seriously doubt that the fetish is the main reason.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 01:11 PM
10

Refusing to marry is punishing one woman for what all women are chastised for.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 01:06 PM
1

how long are you going to continue arguing? Why not do some reading and find ways to identify with what so many of us are telling you? Do you not understand where you are?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 10:50 PM
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well sorry sweety - but we talk a lot about the nature of men and women here and it won't do you any good to go against it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:50 PM
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it's fine to generalize. He's not saying anything you won't find said on our brother sub TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:46 PM
2

No one has forbidden the topic - the OP got her panties in a wad and has deliberately misunderstood the conversation she mentioned.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:38 PM
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because a few people have an irrational fear of this subreddit losing focus. Be sure to thank your mods for keeping this subreddit in focus. You have no idea the crap the gets yanked EVERY day in order to keep that very focus.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:23 PM
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holy cow lol. wear makeup if you want. My comment about psychological femininity had nothing to do with forbidding the talk of makeup. You seem to have misunderstood and then run with it and are still spinning.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:16 PM
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nah she's a selfish c-word.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 12:49 AM
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christ almighty you have a sick mind. Seriously? are you actually this shallow? How bout grow a character and be a good person and mom and wife and you will have the richest life possible. My gawd I'm so glad I'm old and have a great family.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 01:42 AM
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now you are assuming a lot and are wrong. I dont have short hair or wear ripped up jeans and am not fat.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 03:57 PM
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Make up will never save a relationship. It will never make a good woman of you. It's fluff. period. When you are married and the only woman in a man's life - that's when I will consider your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 03:44 PM
1

The self improvement this sub really focuses on is all inner work - becoming psychologically more feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 01:17 PM
1

get lost
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 12:59 PM
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We really encourage the women not to seek advice from the men and the same of the men.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 01:30 AM
3

I recently learned how to knit from my mother and it has really helped me a lot! I quit smoking after 25 years by knitting! It's helped with my thinking and nervousness and the best part is making cool stuff to wear and trying really hard patterns like lace. I really encourage you to try some sort of craft and good luck with whatever you decide on!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 01:08 AM
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no, we focus on changing and improving ourselves- not putting the responsibility on others.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 10:13 PM
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Eat fruits and veggies I sleep with a wet cloth on my face and feet when it's hot How can you not look cute when you're half nekkid? Stay out of his way when he's cranky and keep bringing him cold drinks hang in there it will be ok
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 08:42 PM
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your post is removed and you are out of here. you took nothing these ladies advised to heart - you just kept spinning your hamster wheel.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:42 PM
1

no one told you to leave him rather we've all told you to pull your head out of your ass. your behavior is disgusting.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:25 PM
1

yes you did. you are embarrassed by how he handles things and you said so very clearly. stop playing games.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:24 PM
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this entire thing made me laugh
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:06 PM
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What part of leave him alone you can't change him do you not understand.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:01 PM
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you can't change him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:54 PM
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the RPW way is to work on yourself and leave him alone. You need to read more on our sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:52 PM
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Maybe I'm just weird but I would always defend my husband over what other people thought - even if he was wrong, I'd still have his back. This is about loyalty.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:45 PM
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Because both. I don't care what other people think.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:29 PM
2

This might not be the most red pill strategy in the world? Then keep it to yourself. This is bad advice and out of place in our sub.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:29 PM
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I have never once felt embarrassed by my husband. You can't change anyone but yourself anyways. If you want to stop being a bitchy judgmental asshole by all means please do so. Shut your mouth is a good place to start. You're not his mother.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:58 PM
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we arent stopping her but we sure arent going to help her either
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:20 PM
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please forward her 'ID through mod mail so we can ban her
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:10 AM
1

if you thought i was rude, you're a little too sensitive.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:31 AM
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move along this thread is closed
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:05 AM
1

she's married 30 years so yeah
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:57 AM
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were you on drugs when you thought up this thread
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 12:53 AM
2

ashglass is not male.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 02:57 PM
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this is not an RPW topic. from the rules New submissions must be related to sexual strategy, events that affect sexual strategy, theories about sexual strategy, or stories confirming (or challenging) current theories of sexual strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 02:27 PM
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you're the chick who was texting dudes behind this guys back....now that i read your comment history. you are getting what you deserve from this guy and it aint respect. you didn't earn his respect - you broke his trust and now you're a plate. congrats
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 02:09 PM
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So you met a guy on a hook up app and are here asking us for advice - on what? how not to be a pump in dump? Seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 01:58 PM
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Why are you even with this loser - he makes you run here and ask these basic common sense questions. He's fucking with your mind and making a joke of you. You just posted asking what to do - stay with him or leave him and you know the consensus was to leave. If you stay you deserve what you get.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 10:18 AM
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This isn't really a topic we cover.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 06:24 PM
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you are here to push your book. stop pm'ing our members. also I asked you to read the side bar as all your questions could be answered there.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 11:35 AM
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side note: maybe you could tie a string around his penis to remind him :0
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 01:56 PM
1

so what you're doing is looking for advice on how to change your man but you're just calling it something else. We declared a moratorium on this type of posting, sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 01:53 PM
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dump this guy and get your emotional being together. you don't want to be a plate.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 11:31 AM
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you're literally banned
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 05:20 PM
2

this aint PPD.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 05:15 PM
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we have a pretty descriptive side bar This is a spot for like-minded Women to objectively and realistically discuss sexual strategy from an anti-feminist, non-feminist, traditionalist and/or evolutionary psychology perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 02:54 PM
3

how bout you tell yourself what to make your sub in your own sub and stop making RPW be what you want it to be.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 01:21 PM
2

How are you relating the right with priests molesting kids? And by the way, that's not my argument - that's what you made up I said because I agreed with this article.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 11:48 AM
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I'm left libertarian and I can accept and identify with what this article is specifically saying. If you want to write an article about how the right does all of the above, go ahead...
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 11:22 AM
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just because you'd like to pretend the left has nothing to do with stuff like this doesn't make it so. Next you'll be asking us to stop talking about feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 01:44 AM
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seriously though, we appreciate that you appreciate us but you're embarrassing yourself. Knock it off.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 11:07 PM
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stop fagging up our forum
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 02:31 PM
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your ID cracked me up
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 01:00 PM
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get over yourself
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 01:11 AM
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congrats then, you've withheld when he wanted it and now he doesn't want you. way to go. hope you're happy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 12:50 AM
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why dont you get a toy and help yourself. vindictive bitch.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 12:01 AM
1

you done lost your mind.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 08:49 PM
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if it were me, i'd drop him like a hot rock. I don't believe for a second he's as serious about you as you are about him.., why else would he be maintaining another "option" while he's with you. One thing I will say, you better look deep and figure out if you are doing anything to him that would drive him to keep up other options. If you find stuff, work on it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 04:26 PM
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we aren't 50's housewifes and stop misrepresenting us. And shame on you RP guys for eating this crap right up. Tell this chick to go back to her kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:42 PM
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hah
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 04:56 PM
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you sound so fucking desparate it makes me actually herf. gross
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:21 PM
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ewww
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:54 PM
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you're going to get some flack. Especially from your parents. It would probably help t o figure out a simple sentence or two that thanks them for their opinions and reiterates your decision to change. Nothing snarky or rude, just 'here's what I'm doing and I thank you for your concern but I'm ok.' You may or may not catch any crap from your friends and family, but don't let them stop you from exploring this. Keep an open mind and heart. Date carefully. Look for leadership from people you can rel…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 11:58 AM
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excellent article Stingray, thanks for posting
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 12:26 PM
1

yep good point
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 11:49 AM
2

Really enjoyed reading this, thank you for posting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 11:22 AM
2

Please read the sidebar and start implementing these ideas immediately. We are going to need way more information from you about the nature of your relationship and your own issues that need improving before we can be effective in our advice to you. I'm removing your post so you can have some time to read and formulate a more descriptive version. See you again , soon! HWL
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 11:20 AM
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I see you posted on /asktrp, glad you did so. I will leave this as is for now as I feel you will be taken care of on asktrp. If you need more help/support please go to TRP as well! We sorta frown on having the women try to teach the men about red pill theory so I'm not going to approve this post here. I promise you will be helped there though. Best of luck to you! HWL
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 10:58 AM
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fixed
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 04:16 PM
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maybe you could point him in the right direction when he complains by asking him what the solution will be. Don't be a bitch about it, just plainly ask. "sorry baby, but what's the solution." Simple and puts the ball squarely in his court.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 04:16 PM
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dang phant, you knocked it out of the ball park............................ ♀
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 04:14 PM
1

so which is it, are you stern or never aggressive. your response is convoluted and contradictory both to yourself and to the ideals of RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 03:30 PM
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you missed the mark by about 1000000000000000000 miles.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 03:21 PM
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:D
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 01:00 PM
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My hubs gets a little annoyed at having to make every decision. It's different for each man. Stop being so impatient , relax, work on yourself. Don't demand anything from him in return. Your journey towards First Officer is about you becoming a better follower, not him becoming a better leader. This is not some made-up fantasy game where you sprinkle magic spells and warthogs turn into dragon slayers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 12:09 PM
1

no. no. no. No conspiracy. She's telling you to ask the men for advice. Which is 100% correct.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 01:04 PM
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My hubs calls me his personal slut. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:35 PM
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You can't make anyone but YOU more RP. Start there, I assure you there's plenty of self-analysis and work to do on yourself that you will be too busy to attempt "changing" him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 10:35 PM
3

INTJ
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 09:11 PM
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this is a feminist free zone thanks
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 06:27 PM
2

fixed
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 01:01 PM
3

wonderful response, thanks so much! Your words ring true and are completely on point. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 12:58 PM
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You are such a welcome addition here, Delph! So glad to read your words and truths. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 03:02 AM
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Welcome to RPW! Thanks for taking the time to write this! Brit
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 11:43 PM
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I have to laugh and your statement about "shaming frenzy". You missed the mark (and point) there but I do agree with the rest of your comment. Try to give our women the same respect here that we actively enforce our women to give to the men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 04:50 PM
1

hahaha no doubt!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 04:27 PM
1

Great article! thanks for sharing it!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 04:07 PM
2

and now you're not here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:52 PM
2

You dropped off a wall of text asking if what you did was right. Now you're received an equally large amount of text outlining what you did as wrong. It's up to you to absorb what's been communicated but all you're doing is fighting it. What exactly did you think we would say?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:47 PM
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I have no questions to ask and you've been given all the attention you are going to get from us. Move along.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:28 PM
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I smell bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:07 PM
1

Either your link didn't work or you need to make more of a statement? Not sure where this is going? Shoot me a message if you need help.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:49 PM
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NO YOU AREN'T WRONG to want to stay and forgive. Just make sure you know you are squarely letting this go.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:27 PM
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ALWAYS forgive if you plan to stay together. Period. Otherwise grudges eat a hole in your soul. Forgive or leave, there are no other options ♀
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:07 PM
4

thanks for your comments.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:20 PM
5

Glad to hear some simple changes on your part have rekindled the romance. Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:41 PM
2

Please take some time to answer these questions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:37 PM
5

how long have you been together? If for only a short time, maybe it's time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 11:56 AM
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lol @ different sets. If you have a bump that hurts, that's sometimes a positive sign. If your bump leaves a dimple when you rotate your arms (stretching your skin), that can be ominous. Get it checked, better to be a silly fear than a mastectomy or death
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:05 AM
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LOL, sorry, I hope our male readers are happily entertained :)~ Have a nurse, doctor, midwife, or women's clinic worker teach you. It's what I did. It's important to your health. Also, there's a ton of information at your fingertips, just Google.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:55 AM
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When you partner with someone, it's usually because they've proven in some way trustworthy. If you're going to force "earning trust", you may be cutting your own leg off. Don't continue dating an untrustworthy man and try to turn him into a Captain. Find a man who does nothing to shake your trust and then just let him be and follow his lead. It's definitely a plunge, but it's worth it if harmony can be achieved on a daily basis.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:52 AM
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It's not that being the female in the relationship is less equitable, it's just that the rewards are not always same. No one's asking women to be doormats to bad leaders, but complimentary to good ones. Your (removed) comment is anti-RP theory and while I appreciate that you kept it respectful and good-intentioned, it's not what we practice here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:44 AM
2

This is not good advice for someone who is actively seeking to change faults they clearly see. She should be thinking hard and digging deep to hold onto a guy she clearly enjoys.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:22 AM
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I really identified with your issues with your style of nagging. My husband really hates being asked, having answered, and then being asked again....lol...I don't do it as much anymore, but when I'm being clingy it really comes out. Try to ask honestly motivated questions and accept his responses as truth. He will appreciate not having to over-comfort/assure and you will feel confident you know exactly what he wants. Keep looking for ways to improve and you will improve! Welcome to RPW too.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:17 AM
1

It asks no questions and leaves not much room for commentary? That's sorta blather but w/e.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 09:03 PM
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haha one of our ladies (i assume) reported your comment! I believe that's called irony!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 07:46 PM
0

In with 30 points!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:48 PM
6

While you're standing there, how bout next time you have a concern about content - shoot the mods a message? No need to publicly chastise the creator of this forum for his contributions. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 03:39 PM
2

you knew exactly what you were doing and you were out of line. Discussion closed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:52 PM
2

thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:44 PM
3

You'll be respectful to other users of this sub and let the MODS DO THEIR JOB or you will find yourself not participating on this sub anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:40 PM
1

I have removed your post because you continue to drop off links w/o commentary.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:12 PM
1

The article posted after in this thread is part of that original gathering of videos and articles.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:58 AM
1

You haven't provided a differing opinion, instead you have picked it apart technically. There's a difference.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 12:35 AM
1

I think you've made your point and are no longer actually contributing anything to this thread. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 11:45 PM
1

I'm sure all the professional writers on this sub are thanking you right now :) But seriously did you learn anything from the article or was this entire exchange some sort of exercise for you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 09:05 PM
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We don't bash men here period. Please refrain from kicking them out either.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 06:42 PM
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A reader should ALWAYS read more. I don't quite understand your 'argument'?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 06:41 PM
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Maybe instead of telling him to get out, you could have just corrected his theory in a respectful way that garnered more discussion? IDK- telling the guys to get out seems kind of pointless.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 02:57 PM
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You have put the man you love in the position to care-take instead of be with and love. This is unsettling for your partner, I promise you. You need to get a professional and get busy on yourself. I hate to say this but you may have damaged the relationship enough that he does not want you anymore. Can you blame him? Think carefully about what you may have "promised" him in the beginning - how does it line up with what you have delivered? It's a hard place to be for both of you. I've been there …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 12:09 PM
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"The majority of the homeless which are male?" 1.http://www.nhchc.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/June2001HealingHands.pdf 2. http://www.avoiceformen.com/men/mens-issues/is-homelessness-a-mens-issue/ 3.http://www.nationalhomeless.org/factsheets/who.html 4.http://goodmenproject.com/good-feed-blog/why-are-men-more-likely-to-be-homeless/ 5.http://skepticalcubefarm.wordpress.com/2013/07/26/homelessness-gender-and-invisibility/ There are tons of articles and studies that support that men are majority …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 11:52 AM
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This article is long but full of other articles and videos and takes a bit to get through but it's excellent. It looks at Feminism and Men's Rights throughout history. I found this article by this meme and here is a video of Senator Anne Cools further debunking history around these men's rights issues. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W0Op4_5_NOM
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 09:22 PM
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Welcome to the forum! Looking forward to it!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 03:24 PM
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Great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:15 AM
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completed and thanks for taking the time to make the survey, Phantom!
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 12:06 AM
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watch it. only warning.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 09:27 PM
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It’s okay to cry. There’s nothing wrong with crying. There is something wrong when you use your tears as a weapon to try and get something. You cry when you need to make the hard conversations because why? It’s hard? Of course it’s fucking hard! Why start crying unless you wanna put yourself at some sort of emotional advantage—especially when those hard conversations require rational thought. You can’t rationally talk to someone who is acting from an emotional place. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 05:14 PM
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I wouldn't mention it. Just let it go. He was with you , spending time with you. My hubs has accidentally called me everyone else's name (including the dog's) and I know it's just a brain fart. Pick your battles. Don't show him insecurity!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 01:35 PM
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haha @ honk your boob! That really made me laugh!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 01:27 PM
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I'm helping my husband with a diesel conversion for some xtra $$. Then we are thinking of taking another camping trip before the summer is over.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 01:25 PM
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you sound about as awesome a partner as OP
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 08:13 PM
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It's important to remember that men have two states - doing self and resting self. Let him rest and be fine without activity. Men are pushed to "BE" and chided for just "BEING". Don't fall into that thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:17 PM
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You sound like a ball-busting cunt to me. He should dump you and find a good woman.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 12:16 PM
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This Sub Is Not A Sales Pitch
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 11:22 AM
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Your participation on this thread was enjoyable thanks! ♂
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 04:01 PM
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Young women have been duped into thinking that their main focus in life should be "sexual empowerment." What a crock.It's a distraction. It plays on the fears of young women that they won't be loved I've seen plenty of women flock to our door and cry about their looks while rating themselves a 6/9. They contemplate plastic surgery or other alterations and are literally writhing in their seats with self-hate. How the fuck you gonna love a man the right way if you can't see past your own nose? You…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 03:32 PM
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Plenty of us get it here :) I can't count the number of posts left here by members who were thoroughly disgusted by some display of public insult by a woman about her man. It makes my teeth itchy when I see it and I resist the knee-jerk response to let her know what I think of her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 03:17 PM
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My husband has no clue about "pills", but he knows about the nature of men and women and has strong opinions on both.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 01:21 PM
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:)
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 12:42 PM
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swinging is an agreement therefor not cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 12:35 PM
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no sense in sitting around crying and waiting for it to happen. Trust your partner and don't treat him like a cheater unless he does.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 11:52 AM
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Hmm, you're link didn't work?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 05:12 AM
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Great article! There's nothing I find more sizzling about my man than his desire to defend and protect me. It makes putty of me right quick.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 03:03 PM
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done and thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 01:48 PM
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formatting fixed, thanks for the help :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 01:34 PM
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good stuff LR. Just a word of advice on having old BF's as connections on social media....you are just inviting more misunderstanding, suspicion, etc by having them as a contact, public or not. You might want to consider what you care more about - having an extra name on FB or giving your husband a little extra piece of mind and feeling of security. You two already know you are jealous and insecure so try to find ways in your life to cut down the aggravating factors.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 01:51 AM
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It's tough to deal with this kind of person, especially when it's your sister. Does your husband get to witness her behavior or have you talked with him about your struggle? Maybe he has some direction to give too? If you're going to choose to spend time with her you are going to have to either grin and bear it or step up and say NO to her. The only other option is to not see her. Choose, and stick with, the type of attitude it will take to get through this gracefully. My sis and I used to never…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 01:46 AM
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:) it's not my list or dictation, simply copied and pasted from original article.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 06:19 PM
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Please include some text with your thoughts on this article. Then it can be approved Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 06:07 PM
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I think you did well although if it were me, the second "are you sure" question wouldn't have gone over well. My hubs hates repeating himself to assure me. He expects me to ask honest questions and believe the answers to be honest as well. I'm happy for your new relationship and wish you two all the best!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 03:44 PM
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You can change your thinking through action. We can't help how we are wired but we can help how we act.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 03:33 PM
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I really needed this reminder in my life. What about you, ladies?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 01:23 PM
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Stop thinking of this natural inclination as a burden.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 12:48 PM
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he likes you! i hope you go and give it a shot! best of luck!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 09:03 PM
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I hope your wedding is amazing and you feel so excited to commit to this man! I'm sure you will be glowing no matter what your hair looks like! Best of luck to you both!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 04:54 PM
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My fiancé then mentioned that he really likes it when I style my hair down and curled, so I'm very much inclined to just do this. I've always had this elaborate idea that my hair has to be styled differently than normal, so that my wedding hair is "special. I guess in it's simplest form, this boils down to who you are trying to make happy and honor on your wedding day.... Is this all about you or all about him?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 04:42 PM
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You seem to be lost then, this is the RPW forum - where we apply RP theory to relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 03:53 PM
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It's their life and if it's working for them, that's great. It's hard to remember not to give unsolicited advice when you care about someone. RP theory isn't for everyone. It's best to keep that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 02:45 PM
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Marriage/cohabitation isn't meant to be a free or easy ride for men or women. It is meant to be an arrangement whereby two people are willing to put in more, get more work done together and go further together than they do alone. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 11:14 PM
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good grief, why is she even entertaining this guy when she's already moved on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 10:34 PM
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Is this really about a friend or about you?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 10:16 PM
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Next
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 09:15 PM
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http://forgifs.com/gallery/d/137094-4/Kitchen_butt.gif?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:12 PM
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There are no designated male/female chores in my home. If either of us see something that needs to be done, we do it. I have never asked my husband to take out the trash and I've only ever asked him to do something for me if i was absolutely unable to handle it myself. It doesn't sound like you want to be a house wife and if that's true, then I don't know what to tell you. You're going to have to figure out what type of role he expects from you and be willing to adjust your future choice to bett…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 05:13 PM
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the TRP seems to be more about the self improvement than RPW. Sorry but you're wrong. We're all about self-improvement here. Please take some time to read our side bar again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 12:10 PM
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long term chronic pain can ABSOLUTELY kill the sex drive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 11:22 PM
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Hard to speak for him and he suffers quietly more often than not. He's been angry, sad, withdrawn, determined, positive - all rolled into a day sometimes. We take it as it comes.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 09:31 PM
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oh man, so sorry to hear that he's struggling with this. I think continuing to compliment him in the sincere manner that you described is exactly the right thing to do. There may well never be a day that he is free of this and that's ok, you know? My hubs went from strong-like-bull with big barreled chest and arms to underweight with poor muscle tone because of an illness. He became shier about things and I don't blame him. I love him for everything about him, I could(n't) care less about his 'w…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 04:06 PM
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wow, reading this really irritated me. you sound selfish and immature. Grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 02:10 AM
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I'm big on loyalty and critical when I don't observe it others. My husband's family has trouble with loyalty and we all see each other waaaay too much for this to not be an issue. I try to insert examples of loyalty whenever the opportunity arises. Sometimes it's met receptively, sometimes not. My hubs really notices my loyalty because it's foreign to him with his women examples (mothers, grandmothers, aunts,etc).
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 03:11 PM
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Chivalry is not only deservedly dead, but the day is coming when enough men will finally see that a reckoning is long overdue. One of my pet peeves with women is the idea that a "good man" opens every door for you. That you are somehow deserving of this entitlement is ridiculous in my eyes. Men are not your servants, your lapdogs, your caddie or your daddy. Get over yourselves already. Women are just as good as men right? So why can't you open the door for him? Or better yet, just don't pack suc…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 02:57 PM
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First of all, don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. One really frustrated moment on his end does not mean abuse and it does not mean you need to move on. Being in a long term relationship means that when you have a bad day and over react, your partner is going to step back and think about how to be helpful and calming. That really is your role here. You two are still getting to know each other. You just moved in together and there may be some fear or stress there for him,just as there may…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 03:44 PM
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Tighten up YOUR frame and make sure he knows he never has to put you in your place in front of others. This is a two way street.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 02:09 PM
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When I met my husband, I had a career and a house and a really nice car. I gave all of that up to come and be with him and help him through his sickness. I'm the type that's up at 5 am, no matter what, ready to go!!! I spend my first 7 hours of wake time quietly entertaining myself because our home is small and he's a light sleeper. I had to learn to find things to interest me because there's a lot of down time. That's what I suggest to you. Get a new interest. I got online and started studying …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 01:53 PM
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AMEN. My hubs calls me the watchdog, I never let people get away with being a shit to us, about us, and NEVER to him. I've backed a 300lb man into a dumpster defending my stepson and to this day the entire family talks about it with pride. The man was my FIL and he was having a bad day and started screaming and raging AT my stepson. Oh no he didn't. My hubs tells everyone I have bigger balls than all the men in the family put together. My FIL constantly reminds me that because of my courage- he …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 01:39 PM
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The objection to lists is nagging. Sure, making yourself a list is fine but when you start dictating to others, that can become a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 12:54 PM
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It's great that you want to help but may I make a suggestion for future reference? If you decide to do something for him when he's struggling, try not asking him but doing it quietly. Don't be over the top, just sensible. I would skip the shirts unless he really really needs them. You know now that he's uncomfortable with having you "rescue" him. He's looking at this as a man and you are looking at this as in 'someone I love is struggling and I can help'. You're both right! :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:46 PM
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Fantastic post Temp, thanks for putting this together for us. I kept reading and watching and saying "shit! I think like this sometimes!!" I identified with her Day 14 big time. I am always guilty of talking about stuff that bothers me only to complain, not to try something new.... He doesn't get caught up in my moods unless they are happy and upbeat. He almost always has a solution that works and I don't like to think how many times I have straight RUN OVER his ideas in order to continue to be …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:13 PM
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Why not make a thread of your own. Be sure to read the side bar and use this template post to provide all the info needed. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1xk4sa/when_asking_for_advice_answer_these_questions/
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 04:48 PM
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Living together means you better really pay attention, IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 03:09 PM
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Learn to smile! I'm pretty anti-social and I was surprised by just how much my face shows exactly what I'm thinking! Have you ever given any thought to this? It could be a reason you are getting negative feedback. Take that painful critique you received and use it to change. Start paying attention to your thoughts and look for patterns and incorrect thinking. They can't all be bad people, so most of your insecurities about being around people are going to be found false. Yeah, there's assholes i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 02:05 PM
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A big part of why my husband chose me was because we shared common interests. We share the same world views and like to do the same stuff in our free time. He was married before and a big part of that break-up was no common ground on views and interests. It was important to him that I did domesticated things without prompting, had a sexual appetite, and gave him his due respect as leader of our relationship. He figured out that I had all those qualities AND common interests in our dating period …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:31 PM
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I just can't imagine myself not putting in some sort of effort around him. I enjoy looking good for him. But my girl friends make me feel pretty judged for it. One girl (acquaintance) keeps calling me "too high maintenance" and tells me I should just "let him see my bare face and be done with it" and that he should "appreciate my natural beauty". I know this is obviously bp-thinking, but it still aggravates me and makes me wonder if there's a balance. What exactly IS "BP-thinking"?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 02:08 PM
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You shouldn't consider each other friends, and especially not share problems; the man should be emotionally stoic and at most share problems with his friends, lest his wife loses respect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 05:07 PM
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why would anyone direct you not to be polite to men? I think you're over thinking this.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 04:57 PM
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This is really simple. He values my opinions and input because I've proven myself time and time again to really care about and want what's best for our marriage and family. Yes, he is the arbiter and the final say but he almost always considers my opinions and ideas. He married me because he can trust that I will always approach decisions in our family with the same respect and maturity that he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 04:53 PM
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Deciding things together doesn't mean I'm getting my way over his. This is getting tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 04:24 PM
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how is what deciding together? you lost me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 04:13 PM
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I already stated that neither my husband or I participate on TRP in any way at all. I am a member of RPW. Here is what RPW has to say about this issue. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/20328u/how_to_be_a_good_first_mate/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 04:06 PM
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I don't know where you got that from or what it has to do with me and my husband. My husband has a genetic condition that causes him to be sick and in constant pain. I'm the one who takes care of him and am his shoulder to lean on..never once has his illness made me think less of him. My hub has several male friends and he talks to them about stuff all the time. I don't know how you got the idea that because he is my best friend that he doesn't have male friends that he can talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 03:32 PM
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Don't lie around in bed and tell him what to do then! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:21 PM
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This is bad advice.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 02:39 PM
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Amen sister! Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 02:37 PM
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OP, you pretty much know that we won't agree with you holding on to male "friends".
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 02:31 PM
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When I say my husband and I are friends, I don't mean that he's my girlfriend, emotional tampon, or any other form of weirdness. He is my BEST FRIEND. Yes, I am RPW. My husband is not aware and does not care about TRP or labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 02:27 PM
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My marriage sounds lovely but I should change it immediately because you read somewhere that thats not what TRP is? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 01:47 PM
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We don't really save money but we do have a lot of vehicles, RV's, boats, tools, etc. Things that can easily be liquidated and we almost always double our money on the sale!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:47 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 03:22 AM
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My husband and I treat each other like friends and we are family. We talk about everything we do and decide together. We are open about our wants and needs and when one or the other is struggling or has something going on, we talk about that too. It's been a long time since I've had another human being get me like my husband does and he says the same thing about me. We aren't mind readers but if we are paying attention to each other, there's plenty of non-verbal cues that instigate conversation.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 07:04 PM
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I'm not much into 'things' either so my husband usually plans weekend get-a-ways instead. We camp and explore the PNW and it really is a nice way for us to let off some steam and make new memories. We were recently blessed with a sweet grandchild and now are enjoying showing her off everywhere we like to go. Hard to say if that's something you can afford and she will truly like, but it's what makes me feel special and appreciated by my hubs. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 06:41 PM
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Welcome to our forum! The best way to deal with those friends is to live a happy, successful life in front of them, despite their misconceptions! Glad you found us!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 03:30 AM
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oh yes, I agree!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:21 PM
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Hello, Please take some time to read our sidebar's Introduction and Please Read Before Making a Post. If you could use this template and give us more details, that would really help! http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1xk4sa/when_asking_for_advice_answer_these_questions/ Looking forward to your reply
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:54 PM
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Well, here's what I've done in moments I find myself scrambling to regroup and get back on track.. I sat down and made a list of every way I could think of that I'd been wrong, unfair, etc. By each instance I wrote how it had effected him. Then I wrote what was required of me to correct/amend that behavior. Be fearless and searching about yourself and look for ways to correct your thinking and behavior. Leave him be and don't try to push any role at him. Just work on yourself and look for his si…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:43 PM
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Haha me too! I'm like Daaaang, did you see that bootay? haha
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:17 PM
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So your femininity is threatened by a man asking you a question? That's ridiculous on it's face.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:04 PM
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It's not creepy, you're being a weirdo.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:49 PM
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then it's frustrating for us to deal with that and it robs us of our right to be feminine. How does it rob us of our "right to be feminine?" I don't understand what you're saying..
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:49 PM
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I dated a german guy for about a year and he demanded that I stop shaving. He was disgusted by what he called fakeness and vanity. It's really none of our business what others do with their bodies. Why does it bother OP so much?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:58 PM
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Hey there, I removed your post because we would like to keep from bashing other forums on our forum. Others subs do this to us all the time and it's really frustrating to see how our words and ideas get twisted by them. We don't want to do this in return, we'd like to keep some integrity and not invite or harvest trouble. I hope you can understand our reasoning, feel free to shoot the mods a message if you have any questions. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:53 PM
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My hubs looks at dat booty all the time. I have never cared. He sleeps by me every night. He provides for our home every day. There's absolutely NO reason for me to be insecure. And, if I'm honest, dat booty he's looking at is probably a really nice booty so I end up looking too. Pick your battles. Look at the bigger picture!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:36 PM
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In my home, there is no such thing as gender-specific chores lol. I have never once asked my husband to take out the trash. If it needs to be done and I'm the one noticing, I just do it. I don't go out of my way to create things for him to do either. No honey do lists here. I always make sure to take an interest in whatever project he's working on and I thank him daily in some way for his efforts. He's efficient and clever and we've never gone without the basics.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 06:33 PM
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Good post, thanks for bringing it to RPW!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 08:03 PM
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well said Camille! Thanks for your thoughts on this ♀
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 06:20 PM
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Thank you, well put. "When a woman belittles or insults her husband Monday through Thursday, and then on Sunday he completely snaps and yells at her because he's reached his limit and can't take anymore --- that same women may very well turn around and call him a verbal abuser without giving any consideration to how poorly she behaved earlier in the week." ♀
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 06:10 PM
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you brought your story up as a reason for us to accept your point. You told us we don't know the story and you aren't going to tell it. Therefore - your story is invalid as a means to win your argument.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 06:02 PM
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We don't' know your story. Using your story as an argument without telling your story is dumb. You aren't giving MORE credit to your opinion, you're giving less.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:34 PM
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Let me help you out then. It's very obvious that after I removed your "fat acceptance" link, you went on a little snide attack against other's posts. I would suggest you get unconfused quickly or find the door.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:29 PM
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way to miss the forest for the trees.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:19 PM
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And also, I call bullshit. Plenty of women mouth off and act shitty then cry ABUSE when they are met with retaliation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:16 PM
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Telling your husband he's worthless, has a little dick, etc IS ABUSE.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:04 PM
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She doesn't assume anything, she relates behavior many wives do and points to the damage it does to the husband.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 04:45 PM
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Telling women it's their fault WHEN THEY HAVE A PART IN IT is not bad form. The rest of the paragraph you quoted details this exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 04:30 PM
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watch it. only warning.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 04:05 PM
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The emotional safety and peace you crave is well within your reach. Let there be respect in your home and let it begin with you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 03:30 PM
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it appears you do it in your entire life, not just with your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:08 PM
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Try not to confuse what RPW advocates with the hundreds of fashion/cooking spam threads we get weekly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 03:27 PM
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Please add some commentary about why you posted this to our forum. As it stands, it's an article bashing anti-feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 02:07 PM
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I don't believe RPW has a stance on plastic surgery, how long your hair is, what you wear, etc. The more important issues are how you behave in your relationship and how giving you are with your partner. So many women come here to focus on the outsides and not the insides. yawn.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:19 PM
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are you just making up scenarios as you go? Bored?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 02:34 PM
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Yes, I think if you comment and are misunderstood, you could reach out and fix it, get a positive result, and therefore not have wasted time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 07:07 PM
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The real problem is that you aren't attracted to him anymore. If you want to make this work and be effective, maybe you could set aside thinking of his faults and exercise looking for his good qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 06:46 PM
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YOU were banned because you put down someone else's success (and her husband) because in your eyes he was a weak man. Instead of regrouping when the mods pointed out that you had missed the point, you dug down even harder and continued to insult the OP's husband while bragging about your own relationship and concluding yourself superior to the OP. We didn't miss anything, we just waited for you to show your true colors before making a move against you. The very fact that you commented in all 3 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 06:23 PM
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yes, it happens. Yes, if we are wrong, we try to make right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 06:16 PM
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Right - you were NOT reporting by coming to another sub and announcing your ban. Got it. Thank you for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 04:55 PM
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It's weird that you say your comment was innocuous and genuinely not sarcastic but you came here to report the ban instead of messaging the mods to explain the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 04:28 PM
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I really know he loves me when he let's me off my chain to have human food with him. Makes my heart swell!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 03:42 PM
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he's not going to stop what he's doing. You keep harping at him "nicely" and he's going to explode or leave you. If you were picking apart all the things you found wrong with me, I wouldn't want to have sex with you either. just saying.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 12:06 AM
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Be attentive should he bring stuff up but don't pester him to talk. That's about the only part I can think of to add to your plan :) Sounds like you were pretty thoughtful about ways to relax him!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 10:59 PM
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I wouldn't yell or cuss but I honestly wouldn't care if I left him behind on a track In my eyes, this kinda makes you a dick. What's wrong with caring about how your actions effect someone you love and making adjustments in your actions as to not effect them. It's such a selfless and simple thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 05:19 PM
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Forget about him for a second and answer me this Do you have anything to offer his child if he were to ask you to be a part of that child's life. Can you defer to his decisions with regards to dealing with that child and that child's mother? If the answer to either of these is no, then you should leave a father and his child alone and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 04:22 PM
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if you want to submit and the bot is catching it, just shoot a pm to the mods and have them decide to approve or not.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 02:03 PM
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Didn't you just delete a long post about how your man is finally ready for marriage and now you think the grass is greener somewhere else?
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 01:59 PM
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I sacrifice babies by the pale moon light also, I'm left libertarian.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 01:40 AM
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You're here giving women lousy advice. Scallop is right in her comment to you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 08:31 PM
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I don't know what you're saying but what I'm saying is we really don't operate under the notion that you can train a guy to be right for you. That's kind of insulting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 08:01 PM
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consider using red pill woman advice as well as conditioning to train a guy into being right for you. We don't train men here..lol They are either right by your standards or not. Men aren't dogs we teach fetch to.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:49 PM
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So how do I answer this question to a guy that I seriously want to pursue something with? Just tell them what a precious and beautiful (inside and out) unicorn you are and how lucky they are to have found you! Should all work out fine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:45 PM
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There's no way you read and comprehended that article and still thought it was a good idea to post it. Please be more scrutinizing with your future posts.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 11:49 AM
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you could focus on toning ? My husband likes me curvy and "full" too.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:12 AM
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great response, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:07 PM
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ahahahaa! yeah!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:53 PM
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I have to use up twenty five words in order to give you points luv so that is what I'm doing by making sure i've used e nough words in order to be taken seriously so there and thank you and stuff. the end p.s. more words. thanks~ ♀
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:52 PM
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Welcome to our sub :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:11 PM
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She's actually not talking about anything here. You are! All you've said so far about the situation is what he'd doing that YOU find disgusting. This is not a fair representation of their relationship- this is you painting up a picture of someone else's life and asking us to join you in the disgust.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 03:20 PM
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She can't stop him from cheating obviously. She's saying to keep her sexual value high, she must not buck what is legally his right to practice. Makes sense to me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 03:01 PM
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How long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:41 PM
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"so maybe just keep pointing out that his mother is going to mess him up and he needs to get away from her, and then he'll decide to move out on his own." Continuing to point out what he SHOULD do is not letting him come to this decision on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 10:38 PM
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Be supportive of his decisions, no matter what they are, in regards to how he wants to handle things with his parents. If you want to choose a side, choose his and let him make those decisions free of your opinion and influence. This way, if he's happy with what he's chosen he can take credit and if he's unhappy, he has no one to blame. It's difficult not to meddle when you care about someone, trust me i know, I offer this advice as a wife who's previously influenced family decisions and had the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 10:35 PM
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this is NOT RPW advice. Go say this in PPD all you want but not here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 10:29 PM
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I'm confused as to why you are here at RPW. You seem set on being alone and don't really have much positive to say. Can you shed some light on why you participate in this sub yet go against everything this sub is about?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 02:10 PM
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