In general, I feel like my opinion on this topic is being seen as evil in society. Let me ask you this: In the '60s, when a girl and a boy in their teens fell in love in rural Virginia, did the girl need the boy to have a certain job, have a certain level of confidence, or pay for her expenses? No, they fell in love because when they were around each other, they felt a warm feeling. Don’t get too scientific. Society likes to make me feel like I’m a loser and behind on things. But what does being a strong provider man actually get most men? Nothing… oftentimes their women don’t even desire them and maybe never did; they were just the best available option at the time?