I have a perfect relationship in everything except for the fact that I know my boyfriend is ashamed by the fact that I am a bit overweight. I tried working out every day but that didn't work, I know it's calories in, calories out. I know I eat whatever I burn.

It hurts when he comments on how I am obsessed with food, when we go out, he is very tall and lanky, he will often not want me to get portions as big as his, and I know that I shouldn't, but it's hard when the food is right there in front of you. As well as always having a lot of food around the house because he eats a lot and doesn't gain a pound. He will often confiscate food I am eating which makes me feel like garbage but I know that I am big, I see it in pictures. But to be fair I did share with him how much I'd like to lose weight so he is helping me.

I used to be able to eat what I want but with age it went away. It also doesn't help when I try to fast in the morning and then for lunch I cannot stop eating because of how hungry I am.

I already lost 30 pounds over the last year but hit a plateau now for almost a year. I was wondering if anybody can share any healthy routines or strategies they developed.