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A bad lock is opened by many keys. A good key opens many locks. We've all heard the analogy, what say you?

CircleJerkAmbassador
May 31, 2013
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Title A bad lock is opened by many keys. A good key opens many locks. We've all heard the analogy, what say you?
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CircleJerkAmbassador
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Date May 31, 2013 2:37 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
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One of my favorite pick ups.

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March 21, 2012
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Many high value guys will still bang low value chicks. They just won't put any effort into them usually.

Basically, keep lying about how many guys you've been with. we don't want to hear the truth. ever. a high number pushs guys away.

[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why does a high number push guys away? If I had a dick, I'd do the same thing. I don't see what gender has to do with it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think it is a hindbrain response.

Think about it. in an evolutionary sense, would you have an incentive to not pair bond with a woman that is promiscuous? you have an incentive to have sex with her, but to invest in her long term? Not so much. How could you know if the children she bears is yours? not investing in "sluts" I think is a solid evolutionary strategy. fuck em, but don't put any effort into them.

[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well why do you think its so difficult to donate sperm? I choose what traits I like in a partner. If you aren't tall enough. I wouldn't bat an eye. Fat? Eww. A jerk? Why would I want to spread that mentality around.

I just think I can be alpha too without the context of gender.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women often are the choosers, but that paradigm flips once men and women enter their 30's. a 30 year old man has the potential for a greater SMV(sexual market value) then a 30 year old woman. At that point, each year his value will grow (better job, better social skills, better fitness) as long as he cultivates those things of course. where a woman's will inevitably dwindle, sometimes to nothingness (or sometimes they're bangable til 50, but that's the exception not the rule, and even then you'd still probably want to bang the younger version of the woman).

So yea, you are currently the chooser. but it does not last forever.

[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because women with higher numbers have a harder time forming the emotional bonds that lead to quality LTRs.

Of course, it could be the other way around too: women who lack the ability to form said bonds are more promiscuous. Either way, they are not the women you want to stick with long term.

[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not super attractive, but I think I've got a lot of game and have gotten with many dudes waay outside of my league.

Not sure if this is an example of sophism or tabula rasa thinking, but in either case:

Guys don't pick mates the same way you do. Hypergamy is a female thing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

It fucks with their confidence. The more dudes you've been with before, the more likely it is that you've been with someone with a bigger dick or someone who was a better lay. You might even be thinking of that person while fucking us. Personally, I don't give a fuck so long as you're not carrying herps.

[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Well thinking I care about dick size is kinda beta to me. Most guys just sound inconfident and its a real turn off. You can be a Babe Ruth, but batting average is what counts. Honestly I think a lot of people here don't have confidence based on what they talk about.

[–][deleted] 4 points4 points4 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Depends on what mood I'm into. Real life ain't porn you know.

[–][deleted] 3 points3 points3 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well yeah. Never have I really wanted some baseball bat railing. It kind of makes me giggle when a dude goes straight for the full monty. Honestly, I assume a guy is a virgin if they brag about cocky size. Same guys who just try to pound away. Maybe it works for you, but mostly I just laugh it off with my girlfriends the next morning.

[–]kukul 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

So say I'm a lady who just likes sex

I wrote a post on that.

[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Need for validation. Unwillingness to commit. Primal instinct?

I dunno that you could distinguish the philosophy of the red pill from those tenants. Just saying.

[–]kukul 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not exactly, but even if, so what?

We don't preach equality and altruism here.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Modredpillschool -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

but I think I've got a lot of game and have gotten with many dudes waay outside of my league.

And they stayed for the relationship, right?

[–]CircleJerkAmbassador[S] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, and...? Most of the time I just like a good fuck and never call back. Funny how much you get "plz respond" from dudes. And then the guys who I don't have to deal with again are far better. I like you types. I never have to deal with the "why won't you answer me?" While I have to explain that they suck in bed.

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