Hi, I've been a long time lurker, I did read the sidebar and consider myself as a redpiller.

Enough about me, we need to talk about TRP state of mind.

While I am delighted by some posts that show real tricks, experiences and states of mind, there is a global concensus around women (AWALT) and an easy classification of the women in special cases.

The reality is just more complex than this. What I mean is that women have nothing more special than you, they act and expect different things from a man than what one bluepill guy would expect.

Here, TRP knowledge shines on you, the bluepillers.

Now the real purpose of this post is to explain my concern about this community and hopefully make you think twice about why you are here.

Once you get the knowledge, what is the need to be the new Casanova?

  • 'I banged an HB8, good ass pretty face, she said no, but believe it or not the next minute she was riding my dick'
  • 'She cheated on her 5-year LTR with me during her holidays. AWALT'
  • ...

It's true and it's a good reminder. How can I use this information?

Am I supposed to judge all women like poor individualistic creatures that I should pretend to ignore if I want to bang? Should I try to bang and sexualize with all women for the sake of abundance mentality? Should I hold the frame at all time? Why should I rate women body on a 10-scale? Should I stop trusting women?

I believe there is a fascination over women here. There is something not realized and not said. And I feel a lot of insecurities (obviously, not from the main posters who consistently get 500+ upvotes)

Be yourself, act for you but don't be selfish, share thoughts (even feelings) as long as you are confident and secure, it will be sexy.

So in the end, a woman, a man, are human. Stop sexualizing everything and you will know when you want to have sex with this woman.

Turning plates can be a good exercise, but think about it, do you hide your insecurity into getting as many women as you can? Are you really developing yourself? Can you trust women?

I believe you already know the answers.