I have been reading on this subreddit to build yourself up to be a man of value and then acquire women, or that women will magically fall into your lap. I have also studied some Game (I've done many approaches in daygame and nightgame) and there are some things I have trouble reconciling. Why are there men with 'value' such as doctors, lawyers, scientists, bankers, etc that can't get laid or have a fat/ugly wife? What about developing your social skills to be able to attract beautiful women? What about doing approaches and learning Game? I believe this stuff is as equally important as "acquiring muscles, currency and self-respect", as someone put so eloquently.

Personally, I want to experience many different women, but at the same time having having achieved freedom to live my life as I want to.

I am still a young man (21), so I'm wondering how do I attract women wihle I still have no external indicators of success? I started working out, I'm not big yet, but I look fit when my shirt comes off. I also do some kickboxing....