Its a numbers game. We've heard it all before. You keep approaching. And sooner or later, someone will be into you. Fuck the "ioi's". Fuck the signals. Either she is into you or not into you. If there is a semblance of a chance, you go for it. No exceptions. She looks at you and smile, go for it. She pulls her hair back while talking to you, go for it. She is leaving, go for it. Either she is willing or not willing. We say the world is not black and white, but it is. Face it, either it happens or it doesn't happen. But if you don't bring it up, there will not even be a chance.

Tonight, I met a girl. She is a friend of a friend. She twirled her hair. She was engaged. She didn't reject my touches. I went for it. She answered with her cheek. But guess what. She's one in a thousand. The kiss she rejected isn't the end of the world. We can always blame it on the alcohol (listen to Jamie Foxx).

So go for it. When you FEEL the moment, or if you create the moment (then good for you), you go for it. No matter what. You do it. You find out. Yes or no. The world is not grey. In the end it comes down to a yes or a no. A wise man once said, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take".