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Red Pill Theoryakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 05:10 AM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:15 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:23 PM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:16 PM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 09:26 PM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:23 AM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:30 AM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 01:12 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 12:58 AM
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akatsukirp/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:15 PM
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Red Pill Theoryakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 07:13 PM
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Red Pill Theoryakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 08:16 PM
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akatsukirp/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:53 PM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 03:55 AM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:32 AM
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akatsukirp/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:03 AM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:27 PM
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Field Reportakatsukirp/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 12:14 AM
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6.5 seemed right. The point of this post was on how to get a number in a way which sets you up to contact later, meet and fuck. It's basic I know but a lot of guys fuck these initial interactions up. There's always a pizza, or "our flight's delayed", or "hi" doesn't matter as long as you get talking.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:35 PM
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Bro, I've been there, with a depressive GF. You can't fix her, it doesn't get better. You're settling for an "ok relationship" and her body. You've lost abundance mentality, and you probably aren't taking great care of yourself because you have become codependent with her. You already broke up once, learn to let go and know that life get's better. No more rationalizing shit, time to move on.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:49 PM
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Although you're right that women sometimes just want to dump about something and not have a guy try to fix it. There's way more going on, more red flags on both sides. Not just some isolated conversation.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:58 AM
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That relationship needs to end. You don't have the tools and experience yet. I would break it off, ghost, and go into monk mode.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 12:44 AM
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Less behaving like her girlfriend, she's being really disrespectful. She's lost tingles, break it off, ghost and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 12:41 AM
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Why are you dumpster diving for women from your past? Forget these girls and go game new ones. It's easier to game girls you don't have history with.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:30 PM
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You're here. You care. Use tinder to build confidence and keep day gaming, cold approaching women. You may strike out with a lot but keep yourself emotion free and learn as much as you can. Read the side bar. If you want better advice you need to post in detail your approaches ie "field report"
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:16 PM
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This is a good test of having healthy boundaries. You can also go with a "bring me lunch, do my dishes and we will talk about it". She'll find some other person to dump on. Agree on ghost. These women are a waste of time.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:07 PM
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One thing to add. All her texts and calls, even though they say, "asshole", "I want to be with you" may be untrue. She feels bad and will say anything to get him to reply so she can feel better. A couple of plates have done this to me when they break. Takes like 2 months until the messages end, receiving less as time goes on.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:01 PM
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Story time. There was this hb7 sjw that I met through a mutual friend. I see her at trivia the next week and had a good time eating her fries and bantering. She called me an asshole with a huge grin. So I ask her out to take it to the next level. It went so bad, every escalation was batted away, and finally at the end of the night her bro was coming to town and wanted to have him hang with me and not her...the next 2 weeks she invited me to a few things, she was interested but so ackward. I kept…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:47 PM
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When a girl likes you she doesn't confuse you, it's clear. When women are lukewarm, confusing, it's really a no.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 03:02 AM
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I've had girls send me the merry xmas text, not because they want to fuck me but because it self validates them that they aren't bitches.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:25 AM
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You're daydreaming up a scenario in which she likes you because you like her. Sorry bro she's not into you that way. A girl who falls asleep on me is a hard next. You're young, lots of girls ahead!
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:24 AM
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Balance in all things bro. If I wasn't so sick I wouldn't be online so much atm. One thing that helps is to see the net as a resource you use, vs a universe you get sucked into.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:26 AM
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Holy fuck. Care about what others think about you much? If you're into her proceed, if you think you're history with her is going to keep you from approaching and closing like usual. Bail and game other girls.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:23 AM
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Women after 30 find a guy that loves them so much!
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:20 AM
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Who knew the rp teaches math? Awesome.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 10:01 PM
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You're so fucked. She's a bartender that means she has game. Everything you've done has been bp. It's about her. When does she get off work, a secret for her, I'm going to wait around for you, etc. Best case scenario go shoot the shit with the roommate. Escalate and fuck her. Then surprise! Ok here's what I would do. "There is no secret, just taking a survey if girls like them ;)". Then go silent, not ghost you fool, play it chill then meet her at this party and escalate.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:58 PM
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This is a good approach which I use. "Limited time offer" the fact that you're leaving the area at some point makes girls more comfortable. I can fuck him like crazy and then he's gone. No pressure
/r/askTRP22/12/17 08:45 PM
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I would run if you have more options. However, if she's been a good plate otherwise, this is her "crazy" way of opening up communication. Treat her like a kid who just wants attention. Tease her, don't be an emotional tampon and resume fucking.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:22 PM
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Be sure to share on clitter. Thanks for the post OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:18 PM
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Talk to her throughout the holidays if you want to be girlfriends. You're a busy guy during the holidays. Hit her up when she's in school with you, setup a meet, go from there.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:04 PM
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There is so much fail in this post. Quit using Craigslist to meet girls and focus on improving yourself. You're trading one addiction for another.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:37 PM
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One strike too many.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:31 PM
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If she's sending you naked selfies from the bathroom of her parents house on xmas eve...Sure man, but sexting ie role playing a sexual act via text where she finally orgasms or you spent way too much time doing it, hell no. That's validation. Tease a bit and that's it. You want to build sexual tension so that after the holidays she's wound up and begging for your cock. You're a valuable man right? You don't have time to be sexting a plate all throughout the holidays. Oh and she's a plate.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 05:23 PM
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especially if you've been talking to her for like three weeks before even meeting up. This is the root cause of the crappy night. It would have taken expert game and a high SMV to turn it around. I've been there too man. I talked to this girl for weeks, sent pics back and forth, she was always fun, responsive, etc. I traveled to her and we were going to hang out on her house boat for 3 days, we meet up and it goes so wrong. A day later she gave me the "I need someone more dominant". Which is BS.…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:13 PM
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Well people are wrong. Farmer's markets are a gold mine, there are cute single women out, opening them up is cake "wow you have to try this pesto, or bread, or whatever", "hey where did you get that scarf? oh cool, I'm candid_account". Lots of travelers too. Once you get good you could be meeting them during the day and fucking them that night. Don't follow them around the entire farmer's market like a puppy. If you do hit it off, treat it like a first date and start escalating, but have somewhe…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 04:52 PM
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Imo not a shit test. Her body language/actions were saying she wasn't attracted to him. He kept pushing. She finally had to spell it out for him verbally.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 09:04 AM
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Ouch bro. One thing to point out. Even before the date you were already off to a bad start. "This girl I've been talking to for weeks before we meet"... logistics only before the first meet up, no talking. Keep at it man, this is how you learn.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 08:29 AM
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1) you have to deal with bots that take up 5 minutes of your day, big deal. They are easy to spot. 2) You're matching with trash, why is that? 3) Of course they matter online, online is pure vanity. All they have to go off us is what you look like and what your pics say about you. Maybe women aren't willing to tell you that you're a 6 or 7, or maybe your game is strong offline and you carry yourself better. 4) that's for each person to decide, I like to change my focus if I feel burnt out on one…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:11 AM
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Did you just hamster your way out of online dating? I've seen a lot of these posts lately, offline is better, I'm not in the top 10% so fuck online, etc The fact is, if you want to improve your reach and up the odds in your sexual strategy, do it all. Don't limit yourself, online dating takes basically zero effort these days. Look at it as a pie chart: Online (Tinder, bumble, whatever) Offline (bars, libraries, farmer's markets, climbing gym meetups, yoga, etc). Hone your game in each of these a…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:46 AM
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No this is the BP way, wait for the opportunity, care about her feelings, and ask her out. This is all over investing. Then you're the creepy dude waiting to talk to a cashier. If she's into you she'll give you her number and you go from there like any other girl.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:39 PM
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I disagree, your playing a long game with condoms, maybe she'll be there next time, maybe she'll have time to talk, whatever = over investing. If she's dropping IOIs, get the number, then treat like any other girl. Simple.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:37 PM
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I agree that most of the time people are being nice because that's part of the job. However if she's eye fucking you, lights up when she sees you, twirls her hair and makes it a point to touch you when she doesn't display this behavior to other customers, it's worth a shot. I've closed cashiers but it's rare. Get the number fast, have.her write it down on a piece of paper. I made this mistake once "I'll grab her number next time" never saw her again.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:54 PM
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You're over thinking this one. Do what's comfortable to you, keep escalating.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:47 PM
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This is a chance to be mysterious, don't become chat buddies. The part that was butthurt was the "take care"
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:44 PM
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Coffee shops work just fine. Just pick ones that are cozier vs industrial complex warehouse. I always go for the couch, knees are already touching and putting your hand on her leg is natural from there. The key to any place is don't stay long and don't get lured into talking too much or the boring af "how many bros and sis do you have?" Blah blah. Aim for later in the day/evening. It never works because it feels weird to you. You aren't comfortable there.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:16 PM
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Didn't even read your post. Kick her out and move on.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:14 PM
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I once had a woman text me that her, her husband and kids were going to be at the days inn near me and to come fuck her while her husband and kids were playing in the pool. You would not believe how much this big tittied fat girl bitched about their being no chemistry with her husband yet she fucked regularly on the side. No I didn't hit it. All of you who keep finding gems on these other subreddits can at least PM the OP about the TRP. I only found this place after a girl left "The Game" by Nei…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 02:48 AM
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If you fail in ghosting her and validate her. You prove that she's in control of the frame. Who gives a shit about one girl? Go game others. If she were sorry she would have reached out and apologized for being a bitch. Only in that case would I proceed. Point is she needs to open you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:43 PM
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Yea be prepared to eject from that job. He might go beta bitch on you and become passive aggressive, an enemy and/or fire your ass
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:39 PM
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I wouldn't let you fire her if you don't have actual evidence of her negligence. Company comes first before you. Goto HR and say "what do I have to do to document this." Then you meet with the 2 bosses with proof. suggest transfer, If one of them is fucking her (bp) she will get transferred
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:36 PM
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Before doing anything I would put some space between you and this girl. Things can get boring seeing her that often and texting every day. If you still want to open things up and fuck younger girls...go forth and slay.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 08:08 PM
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How often do you see this girl?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 03:19 AM
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We've all felt the pain/regret of not going for the kiss, the escalation, whatever. One of the biggest lessons and the biggest bang for your buck is to not over think these, endlessly worrying about what you did wrong or how it happened. Next time with a different girl, remember the pain you felt this time and just fucking kiss her. It will be easier with someone you don't have history with. Also, for both sexes there's an escalation window. If you go on a date and spend 5 hours with a chick non…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:08 PM
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Few things I've learned from being with women 30+. 1) there's a higher chance for the "oops I'm pregnant" 2) they won't immediately have sex with you because they see you as a provider option, want you to work for it and lock you down 3) comments like "guy's aren't gentlemen anymore, don't open the car door, take me to dinner, are stuck in peter pan syndrome, etc" 4) they do make great lays when they weaponize sex as a way to get what they want, many BPs fail here. The sex though always comes at…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 04:54 PM
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I have a rare eye condition and could go blind. It motivates me to be healthy, travel and see/experience as much as I can. When they first told me it hit me so hard. A support group or friends you can rely on are great. Keeping it bottled up can make things more stressful. Wishing you the best.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:56 AM
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Why did you let her hit you twice? You need to examine the reasons you haven't already ejected and put up with the verbal/physical abuse.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:34 AM
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Yes! Goto all the job fairs, talk to professors, etc. I fucked this one up years ago and ended up sending close to 2500 resumes with no success. I then had to work a shit tech support job and IT support for a year before I got a real job.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 01:39 AM
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Use a condom. Single moms will promise to be exclusive and be into raw sex. At the same time they are fucking other guys. Single moms are never worth it, plenty of single girls with no kids to game.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 04:28 AM
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If you're obese focus on your health first. If overweight sure start gaming girls but you're mission of health comes first. Don't fall off the wagon for some girl.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 01:45 AM
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Sure the sex can be great, however it's never worth it. Once upon a time I got involved with a hot single mom who would do all the things a woman had never done for me, endless sex, she'd dress super sexy, etc. Reeled me right in and manipulated me easy. Once she felt the heat that I was going to end it she went off birth control and tried to lock me down. Thankfully she miscarried and in her drunk stupor showed it to me. I ran.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 01:40 AM
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Thanks for the information. Yesterday evening I did 8 minutes of stationary bike and had to push myself. After that I was all dizzy and stupid. I'm going to take it easier, continuing to eat well and like you said balance out my activity.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:30 PM
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You can always hang out with a friend till 10pm, smash pussy at 11pm. or whatever works for you. If you're spinning that many plates you can easily put one on hold and tell her it'll have to wait. Creating that space with your plate, where you aren't seeing her as often, or have other things going on can make the next session even better.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:03 AM
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You can't let go of the past then you aren't living fully in the present. Practicing mindfulness will help. You're self confidence/respect is in the toilet, one way to increase it is to find a hobbie, sport, cycling, lifting, whatever, and get good at it, see yourself improve and enjoy it. Later you could take it up a level by meeting other people who enjoy your thing. Therapist isn't a bad idea. Fuck the past, it's already gone. And if you do meet girls from your past you are thinking about gam…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:35 AM
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How often are you seeing your plates? If you're seeing one every other week you should be fine. Balance in all things.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:21 AM
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First off always go dutch and don't be buying plates dinners or lunch. You're going for coffee, or drinks, not to get all bloated and bogged down by stuffing yourself. Depending on where you live there's tons of shit to for free. Go for a hike, bike ride, farmers market, etc. For example, you meet at a coffee place, get something cheap, chat for a bit then suggest you go for a walk, do not stay in the same place long. Tip: if you do get caught in line with her, get in front of her slightly to th…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:16 AM
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I've done this. I show up early, have a coffee, sit on the couch. She walks in, say hi, then she goes and orders something while I keep chilling on the couch reading whatever till she's back. Works great.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:15 AM
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This is sound advice. Once you live your fantasy it ceases being one and no longer takes up space in your brain.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:18 PM
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For a lot of us in our 20s women had the upper hand, you could say they were the alphas, now in our 30s (or earlier for you lucky shits) we have the upper hand. We need to start a marketing campaign to save our brothers. "Do you live with a woman who feels like your roommate?" "Do you wake up next to a woman but can't remember when the last time you had sex was?" "Are you married with a wife who lives in her own place you pay for?"
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:55 PM
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Don't get frustrated, just don't read them. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:45 AM
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Q: How can I be friendzoned into being one of her girlfriends? A: text like a girl
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:16 AM
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She's trying to bring you into her frame. Betafi you. Agree with the other dude. Just ignore the shit she said and carry on. Girls say so much shit and we as men try to really listen, but in the end they just want your time and the content isn't as important. She can sniff your self-improvement and is starting to worry. So she's doubling down on locking you down. Look up DEER. This will help as well.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:30 PM
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Nice FR. Girls visiting places make great lays. They are already under less pressure because they know they will be gone soon.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 10:10 PM
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No, she needs to take it out of his pants and see for herself
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:59 PM
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Hopefully he's not rubbing their feet. You'd be surprised at how many girls will ask a BP to massage her. Sliding scale, the older the easier. They have less options, time, more experience so they will just go for it. They also tend to lead so men who aren't good at that end up getting laid. If you aren't lifting, do that and keep gaining more experience.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:11 PM
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Here's a bit of a roadmap. you meet her at the bookstore, let's chill sometime, exchange numbers, she gives you hers, you text her back, "cool, got it -Chaddeus_Rex" 24+ hours later, "Hey, later today I'm going to go check out the new exhibit at the museum, come with" she says yes, then you meet there, you escalate and then you go somewhere else, grab a coffee, whatever, start escalating, isolate, go show her your cool whatever back at your place (don't offer tea and conversation), keep escalati…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:02 PM
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At least he's getting dates Hell no, wasting all that time, getting dates and then giving a hot girl a foot rub because you can't score is actually a big problem. Instead of spending time taking care of yourself, school work, health, improving yourself, etc, it's pissed away on some girl. Older women are easier to game. Girls in college who have so many things going on, their courses, guys, parties, etc. girls see me as 'weird' that I don't text Nah, what you are learning is to be upfront, and h…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:28 PM
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A guy who fails on Tinder can close consistently in person several times a week because more things than looks go into game in person than on Tinder. This thinking is flawed from a sexual strategy pov. Saying that a guy may not be hot enough, or not part of the 10%, so therefore he should resort to day game exclusively so he can use his gaming super powers to get laid. Tinder, bumble, the bar, meetups, etc are just other ways to meet people. You're expanding your reach. Sure in a small town wher…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:53 AM
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Our definition for fat chicks must be way different haha. I'm talking chubby bitches not land whales.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:58 PM
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She paid for your drinks and is apologizing?! Get her over to your place now. Show her your guitar and start escalating!! For the next girl, you failed in getting butthurt that you thought you weren't going to get laid when it was going well.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:34 PM
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Notice how you see fat chicks with good looking guys. How often do you see the reverse?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:31 PM
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Disagree. Tinder can help guys gain confidence and escalate easier since they know she's on tinder to get laid. It's gaming on easy mode. Day/night game is great too.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:29 PM
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First off, if you're thinking you will spend money on tinder girls your thinking is flawed. Don't spend money, don't buy them shit, go Dutch. No dinner dates. You have to make the time and effort to learn something new, that's life. Get some experience under your belt and you'll start same day f closing in no time.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:26 PM
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A pitfal to add: there is a window of opportunity, if it's small and you don't act/lead because you thought she was already into you, thus you relax knowing it will happen later, then bam, she goes cold.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:56 PM
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Happens to all of us. I used to take my mistakes way too hard and thus sabotage my time and energy, replaying the entire event endlessly. The world keeps spinning, abundance mentality. Next time a girl just happens to back into you somewhere, you know what's up. Game on.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:49 PM
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One thing to note for those of you saying: "why not just use this as an opportunity to reinforce boundaries and then go back to business as usual". The issue I see is she already brought up kids. I wouldn't continue fucking this woman after that. She may try to me lock me down with a "I'm pregnant".
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 08:33 PM
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Just saw Berserk 2016, riddled with BP themes. A poor prostitute madame who cares about her girls; guys putting their lives on the line to save them. Sure the main theme and character Gatsu, who is pursuing his mission of revenge relentlessly, is more RP. It's a spectrum. Most anime, even awesome ones like Berserk have a good bit of BP going on.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:52 PM
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right, but say she's not a time waster and genuinely interested at first, but you start sending "good morning beautiful" texts. Not going to go well.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:43 PM
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A few things. if you're at a bar and you end up sitting across from a girl, fix the situation ASAP, this killed me once where reaching across the table or with my feet was awkward. DON'T cuddle, just don't. It dries them up and propels you to the friend zone sounds like you could have been more forward actually, put your hand on her pussy "what are your expectations for the night" response - you look at her grin and go for it Don't talk shit out "I want to fuck you", like it's your word smithing…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:04 AM
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Don't say "Sorry" you did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:54 AM
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Nono, "try" implies pressure and not easy = something princess isn't interested in.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:53 AM
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This is one of the best ways to dry up her pussy. Chat with her non stop till the big date. Texting = logistics only
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:52 AM
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bro the fuck, the fact that she's saying this shit means she's worried, ie she's in your frame. Her IQ isn't what's messing with her mind, it's her hamster, and she's being a manipulative cunt. Don't let her win. LIFT.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:46 AM
2

I used to laugh that I was a retard for not knowing when a girl was into me but gay guys...you always know when they are hitting on you. Agree with the other poster, just thank them and move on. I had this one guy who wouldn't shut up, with him I had to be more stern "I'm not gay, never going to happen, stop it". That's only happened ONCE.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:41 AM
1

You're in the honey moon period. Enjoy it, don't become dependent on her and make sure to still have things that you do and enjoy without her. You just don't want to be in a place where the relationship takes a toll on you and she's intertwined in your life (ex: moved in with you). Doesn't sound like you want to fuck other girls, you can still have abundance mentality by talking to other girls and expanding your social circle.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:39 AM
6

It's hard because you want to give them what you got, that curious spark to learn new things, try shit, not sweat the small stuff, the adventurous spirit, the fact that there's always something to do. However you know you can't cure someone, they either find their way or get picked up by the garbage truck. You wrestle with the image of what they used to be like with how they are now. It's sad, and unfortunately not uncommon. One thing that has served me well "the soul knows how to heal itself, t…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:12 AM
2

a nice thought however I don't recommend doing this when you're in a country you don't know, with no support, living in the same neighborhood as the pimp. Plus any good pimp knows you get that cash then and there. He's paying her to "not have sex with other guys", which let's be real you think she's going to stop with other paying customers? she might just cut out the shitty ones, and paying him for "the right to fuck your girl". She's already moved in with him.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:25 PM
2

I had a thing for Asian women as a kid because they were so rare where I lived and the anime factor, but I've never met one I've wanted to fuck, go figure.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:27 AM
5

Ok, pick some of your favorite anime and watch it with a critical eye, don't just zone out. Are their white knight characters that bend over backwards and wait forever for a kiss? Are women unicorns in the show? What themes are subconsciously entering your mind? Sure not ALL anime is BP, but a ton are. I'm referring to the BP ones.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:25 AM
3

I don't think you understand how plates and promotion works. Look that up.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 02:16 AM
1

Get ahead of it when they will see it. Like before takin your shirt off or if she sees you in shirt that's shows it. "Oh btw my arm looks like this not a problem" she may ask, tell her, be positive, then spin the conversation in another direction. If you don't make it a big deal it isn't.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:02 PM
3

Yea you've gained some, better get on that before it adds up!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 06:01 PM
5

When a girl hear's your sick, goes and gets soup, tries to make it up a snowy hill, can't, borrows some guy's truck to make it up the hill. She likes you.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:47 PM
2

Nice work. What I have found key at concerts is there's a moment when she's going to leave for a a while. Don't follow her like a puppy. You're there for the concert not her.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:20 PM
7

Says the single mom with a post history that includes all porn sites should end with .cum.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:14 PM
0

She's not using you. You are letting yourself be used. Next time no single mommies or moving in.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:48 PM
5

Part of the redpill is self improvement and getting whatever a guy wants out of life. If that's sluts, virtuous or not, excellent
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:44 PM
-1

I do tell them lets be friends when I'm gaming them to be my orbiters who cook, clean, shop for me etc. You can see it in their eyes, the hope you will appreciate it all and get naked with them. But I'm just not into them.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:38 AM
1

4pm nighttime? You must be far north. 3pm here. So far this month: meniscus tweak (blew out knee earlier this year), never pain flare up (gone), back spasm (almost gone), and I just got mono haha. Fuck man, so I do what I can, read, meditate, etc. I'm not depressed at all, I'm just tired.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:31 AM
2

Right on. Thanks for the update.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:14 PM
2

Why not?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:12 PM
7

Go for it. Escalate but don't be surprised if you become the sexless innkeeper. If it was me I would have said something like, "have something sexy to wear of you stay with me?" Depending on how she responds you know what's up. Give us an update.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:14 AM
-5

One caveat to this is if you don't stay hard after going down on her and using your fingers I would suggest get your cock in her fast and start fucking. You can always finish her off after you orgasm if she doesn't. 69 can get me hard but sometimes oral between her legs with her laying back doesn't keep me hard and I don't bounce back as hard.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:08 AM
5

Sure man. Next time this happens to you write a field report about how waiting got you laid that day.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:33 PM
1

Seriously calling the cops is a good idea.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:16 PM
21

Upvoted cause pet pig haha. Unless she makes it up to you, and hard. Next.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:13 PM
1

Hell no. If he waits he's already communicated that she's the prize ie in her frame.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:12 PM
1

Agreed. I had a ltr with a lawyer, and have fucked physicists. Not worth it. This one phd girl would always humblebrag she had a 130iq. Yet worked at a sports store, probably to get betas to show her how to climb. I never told her my iq was higher. Maybe I should have haha.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:07 PM
3

Pay half attention. I used to try and remember all the shit they would say thinking that later the girl would fall harder for me because "omg you remember that?!". It doesn't work that way and me saying " oh you told me that? Huh" gets me laid without having to remember useless info. Also don't let a girl verbal dump on you, you have shit to do. Fuck the t.v. show friends for their bp brainwashing.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:00 PM
1

I gained niche tech expertise in the medical field. Not a lot of people with my experience. It also helps that in my 20s I varied my experience by working for small and large companies alike. Nowadays anyone can work remotely. We had mom's keying data on their PCs in the early 2000s, you can also teach English virtually, math, etc. If you put it out there the universe provides (abundance mentality)
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 05:02 PM
1

Recovering from abuse is a long road. Better to do it now while you're 20 than later when you're 30/40/etc. Time doesn't exactly heal abuse like the slogan "time heals everything" would have you believe. Keep posting man. This was an appropriate asktrp question. Yes to the therapist, my dad was also a rager, is yours an alcoholic? If so look into a program called AlAnon. Can google online forums too.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 01:58 AM
1

Congrats and keep up the good work. I love to travel and that's what landed me in the trp. Live it up. I can work from anywhere in the world and have done so all over. People ask me if I'm lonely or miss not having a ltr. Fuck no, I'm living my dreams, on my terms.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:59 PM
1

It shows you are dependent on her to be interesting, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 12:13 PM
0

Alright good on you for being willing to learn. Now read the sidebar before you do anything else and have fun trying new things.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:40 PM
3

Why did you not apply the trp rules to this girl from the beginning, middle and end? Meditate on that. Read, lift, lay off the blue pill music etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:30 PM
1

These work but not optimal. I want to see what you're about = her frame. When are you free = her frame. Try this, I like to avoid weekends. "Hey I'm going to grab a drink before I head off to an event. " if it's a same day pick up "yea I will be free at 6 or so. There's this great place I'm going to go for a short hike, come with"
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:25 PM
2

It's not about her friends. It's just her woman's mind spinning. Goto 4:40 in this video. https://youtu.be/UOT1P6SY9PQ
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 06:47 AM
6

I was 20 or so. She was the free spirit of my mom's circle of friends. Runner, climber, etc definitely part of the social elite in my town.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:35 AM
13

In what universe are rich elite women not fucking Chad? My rich friend's mom would tell my mom in front of me she was looking forward to getting fucked no strings.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:57 AM
1

It was a really remote area, no hotels. Which reminds me while I was visiting a girl with roomates we got a hotel room so we could fuck uninterrupted. Having a nice pad available is key.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 01:07 AM
1

Thanks man, I was clear with her that I wouldn't be coming back down south for 6 months and she'd have to come up here if she wanted to meet up. Totally, once it took me 3 days to respond she was like wtf, maybe I can't keep him on the back burner.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 01:02 AM
1

I did escalate and have my fingers in her pussy at one point, I did get some LMR however didn't push past that. That's why I'm in monk mode, to be able to fuck girls in a single person sleeping bag, no tent, at below freezing temps.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 01:01 AM
1

Yea I want to leave the door open but I'm not going to be texting her all the time and providing validation.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:29 AM
3

This is awesome however in her case being a hippie granola mystic chick it's not the best response.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:29 AM
2

Sure, totally possible. Why text fucking paragraphs? Also does ASD even kick in without having had sex? I was leaning towards this...In other words I'm not a slut, I'm off the CC and want a relationship.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:27 AM
1

She's a hippie granola girl. Yea I'm leaning towards not responding. Usually when I start to get wall texts, it does't stop at 1.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:25 AM
0

well my back was pretty jacked so I did like the massages. We were camping in single digits (F). If I was back at my place of course.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:23 AM
1

I get the impression that the "ultimatum" part of it bothered you. I've been there too thinking, fuck this plate's not worth the BS via text, but then again they'll say anything right? One girl started with the "I want to stay over so we can pair bond", and the "I don't want you fucking other girls". I could see her getting attached in a bad way, so I ghosted her after bad behavior on our last fuck. So IMO if she's not escalating the crazy with her actions, then treat this as any other stupid sh…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:26 AM
3

Don't ghost. Just relax and don't be a thirsty mofo. Don't reply right away. Let her text you. Bring her back to your frame. Don't hang out when SHE wants to chill, you initiate and hang when it's good for you. And go for the goods immediately, no talking, escalate, turn her on, it's sex. If she runs away then soft next if she's in your circle/school...
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:46 AM
3

You're way too invested in her. Put her on the back burner and spin more plates. She may break because she already sees herself as your gf. Plates are like paychecks, see them once every 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:44 PM
23

You're at the crossroads. Is he going to be my source of validation or is he someone who wants to fuck me with no pressure on me. Ignore a bit, and then use plausible deniability to get her to your place. Escalate, push pull, defeat lmr. Don't take forever, she walks in that door you start kissing her. No more walking her home or back to campus chatting like girlfriends. You have shit to do. Think of it this way. "Hey come check out my ..." her "sure ok!" She knows what you want. So act as if yo…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:09 PM
3

How often are you seeing them? This could be because you're seeing them too often. Also have them do shit for you.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:02 PM
1

That's awesome. Ive heard of guys having to get surgery to remove the excess. I'm moisturizing while I lose some weight.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 01:07 AM
13

Women don't friendzone guys. Guys friendzone themselves. Wrong. I've had women friendzone me even when I have made it clear my intent is to get her naked. She still talks to me because she thinks maintaining contact will lead to her having non sexual adventure. The friendzone is a category both men and women use to label a non sexual relationship where one person could extract resources and not sex (and one of the 2 wants sex). If you argue that labels don't exist as social constructs to make se…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:29 PM
1

This is powerful. I've seen a girl get kicked out of her apartment because her bf was bringing his other gf (from another state) to live with him for a while. This girl was counting down the days till the other gf would leave and she could move back in. Quoting "he doesn't know how to handle it, he's so confused".
/r/askTRP25/04/17 05:02 PM
3

This one's important. I was seeing a plate 2x a week which was TOO much. once every 2 weeks seems to be the sweet spot.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 05:00 PM
1

Sure do this with other girls. If they are in a group it may pique interest in the girls you aren't cold reading. For the ones you like, you are using cold reading to start kino, remember to escalate. Escalate like your life depends on it, push pull, have fun, don't be needy and keep going for it.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:58 PM
1

Thanks for the insight. I was thinking this is her way of gaining​ closure, I hadn't taken it to the value level. I've had girls tell me what nice clothes I have, because I'm high value like that haha.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 06:23 PM
7

This. I posted about a girl who was trying to put me into orbit who then proceeded to grill me with a friend of hers on how I had made her feel bad, and I didn't say anything nice about her. Lots of people on here replied I was fucking up and not passing her shit test. She's a narcissist looking for her supply of feel good. She was definitely trying to shame me in a public place. Hard next these women, they are toxic and it is not your responsibility to fix them. It can be hard because these wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:09 PM
1

Agree. These women in my experience will also try to get back in your good graces and will do anything you ask. However there's still that recurring instability that's a huge turn off. I recently hard nexted one and her latest text (#34? without a reply), something like "thank you for helping me heal a part of myself".
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:07 PM
5

The difference for me is there are women who want to you to pass their shit tests, fuck them and be the man. There are women who want to shame you, mess with you, extract your resources and will not fuck you or consider you the man. Identifying which one is which is part of game.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:40 PM
1

Good point​. Thinking once you get the car and the house the pussy will come is not the right attitude. It's living by your own terms and kicking ass that does. Having frame. For example you work seasonally​ to afford going on epic adventures.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:45 PM
1

Haha. Then how is it that I have had tinder weekend "dates" when I'm traveling? I like keeping plates to weekdays. Who cares what she says, if she's interested she'll go for it.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:39 PM
1

You aren't responsible for the shit hand dealt to you as a kid, however you are now responsible for turning it around. It may take a long time to undo mental damage, conditioning. It won't happen overnight. It does get better if you want it to, it's going to take all your time and energy, monk mode. A lot of the guys on here have been in similar positions as you are, and they are now better, spinning plates and living a more fulfilling life. Therapy, getting outside (hiking for example), are som…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 07:11 PM
3

So a few things you did wrong: talking, wtf would you talk about being fwb? just fuck, meet up fuck again you entered her frame, her house, you helping her cook, her movie, her ex, etc You have pretty good self awareness. If it were me I would ignore for a bit and wait till she comes around and then lead the encounter, meet up with her again and escalate fast, as in. She walks through that door you start making out, she might put up some resistance, don't talk about relationships, your friends, …
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:46 PM
2

Agree, always be escalating, however the "sex window" changes. For example: Short window: you meet a girl at a bar but you fail to escalate immediately, you won't see or hear from her again even if you got her number thinking you would hook up later Medium window: you both plan to hang out, you have opportunities to escalate, if you don't your window gets smaller, and may not be there on a subsequent date. Large window: you're both hanging out, you aren't escalating and the girl is willing to wa…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 12:44 AM
1

When recovering from surgery that limits your physical activity be sure to reduce your calories, calorie count, and eat the best you can. Weight can sneak up on you so easily. I gained 8 lbs last time. Why do you need TRT injections?
/r/askTRP18/04/17 12:37 AM
2

Get the fuck out. You need to leave that shitty environment and start fending for yourself. Find a way out, a way to continue your studies, live on your own and support yourself.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:27 PM
2

Not pointless, it cuts to the chase. I value my time and I lead. I know the truth, they are on tinder, ignore what they say. Sure they can ask me and I'll say something like "living in the moment and meeting cool people.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:15 PM
2

I unfortunately know a lot of women who would be furious/not go on a second date because of it. This is what women say not what they do, if you had a good time with her, escalated, etc. She will continue to see you. If they are "furious" about it they are looking for some sucker to pay for more shit and see you as a beta provider.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:06 PM
3

I do a hybrid as has been mentioned. 1 matched, say hi "blah blah where's that picture taken?" or "what's best in life?" 2 her "oh this that and the other" 3 me "ah, what are you looking out of tinder?" 4 her "oh to find my soul mate, or just friends, or meet new people" (girls will rarely say to fuck, they will say something that doesn't make them come across as a slut/ASD) remember she's on tinder... 5 me "sounds good, seems like I would enjoy meeting you, what's your number? I have some time …
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:52 PM
2

Go dutch as much as possible. Never pay. If she wants to pay for you cool, offer to pay her half and if she says "No my treat" cool. Avoid situations like "oh you paid last time, I got this time" I'm going to repeat this. Never take her out and pay for everything.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:42 PM
1

It's a fine line though, if he doesn't keep frame it's now her frame. Next time I would sleep with her and kick her out. I've had girls try to upgrade to sleepovers, I let it happen on a rare occasion to keep them hooked.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:43 PM
13

This is fucking key right here. If you try to relate to her, because you have a dog, you both have similar hobbies, etc. It kills mystery, enters her frame, etc. If you meet a girl who watches some obscure movie few people have seen don't mention it, if she later finds out because you skillfully drop a hint after fucking her, her mind will be blown.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:45 PM
2

for me video games became work. Games nowadays require a huge amount of effort to play 100%. So have fun doing other things and get outside.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:34 PM
3

This AND she messaged you first, act swiftly and decisively.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:56 PM
1

You make a really good point. Replying to her question is entering her frame. The hey im going to x come with is a good option if I wanted to pursue this girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:51 AM
1

Thanks. Would you continue to ghost or reply with a "thanks and best of luck". As of today not interested in her hitting me up later.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:17 AM
1

I just matched with a horse girl/vet tech. I'm going to try this theory out.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:18 AM
3

If you're in an environment that is driving you to suicide, your having suicidal thoughts and fantasizing about how your would do it. Please get some help. Reach out to friends or family you can trust, or call a local suicide hotline. Your local hospital can help. It gets better. /r/SuicideWatch/
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:52 AM
1

Sounds like you didn't like being strung along. Hard nexting and going no contact for me is absolutely no contact, as in they are gone forever. In the last 30 days you've had a chance to see things more clearly and move on, don't relapse by letting her into your life. Keep soldiering on.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:49 AM
4

Ignore but don't be a dick. She says hi, say hi, You aren't butthurt you just aren't going to give her any more time and energy. Don't do her homework or help her.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:45 AM
1

Good to know. Was having sex 2x a week.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:46 AM
1

Btw I noticed the post read like this happened on one night. It was separate ocassions. Fixed.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:56 PM
3

Good concise summary on shit tests. I'm just used to girls fucking fast, not trying to put me into orbit and a week later throwing a volley of shit tests at me. Her feels changed and I was put off.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:01 PM
4

We ended up at the same place later with mutual friends. After her little "grill" session I left to go talk to others. I've bailed, just curious as I've never had some girl be so blatant about asking for compliments and what not.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:55 PM
3

I hear you however do you think there was a good chance of actually fucking her, in other words she was previously trying to sling me into orbit, what are the chances a girl will change her mind? My experience says next to none, but the super validation seeking behavior makes me wonder about this case.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:44 PM
3

She kept pushing for the squishy non backhanded compliment. So do you think she changed her tune and could have been down to fuck or was she just seeking orbiter type validation?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:58 PM
6

I handled it like shit tests however she wouldn't let up. She kept pushing for me to fold and validate her. The way I see it is she wasn't interested in me but wanted to "win".
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:45 PM
3

I've had a girl try to talk me into sleepovers because sleeping together would "release chemicals and make us bond". Don't go BP on her. This is dangerous territory. If you start taking her on dates for pussy you enter her frame and create a contract. Ignore her for a few days and she'll come around. When she does, fuck her and then kick her out. Do not walk her home. Keep frame and give her no indication you are bf material.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:38 AM
4

Dont set yourself up as the provider. Also if you stay anywhere long term in central america, wrap your dick up tight and be careful of women saying you got them pregnant. They will get white knights or family to kick your ass into doing the "right" thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:03 AM
2

He said central america, its different than south america. And location doesn't matter here.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:59 AM
12

Good stuff here. Also bring them back to the present. When they are blabbing away they aren't present but in some alternate world where you don't exist. For example, her blabbing "oh my friend has a room for me and lets me drive her second car" me interjecting "wait where does your friend live? Im going to go meet her and get in on that sweet deal, no more room and car for you. Haha"
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 03:54 AM
1

This is what I would do: 1 - Since you have 0 experience think about the goal, your goal is to have sex so you need to do things you've never done before. The end goal isn't to go back to your dorm and say "wow I had such a nice conversation, I had fun", it's "wow I made out, she sucked my cock, we had sex". You need to learn to escalate, search /r/theredpill and /r/asktrp. Also look up some body language posts and IOIs (indicators of interest) learn to read when a girl is into you. 2 - in this …
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:44 PM
3

stay strong don't respond. If this is you're only chance to hang out with your friends, or they are cool with telling her to fuck off, go hang out. She's going to try and corner you to get some closure if she shows up and maybe be a drama queen. Does a cheater deserve closure? No. She knows what she did. You on the other hand are anti drama, cool, collected, keep frame and move on.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:44 PM
6

This. Why haven't you fucked her yet? If she gives you IOIs you isolate, escalate and fuck. Give it one more go, isolate and escalate like a pro and if it doesn't work out move on. She may have already put you in the orbiter category because you failed to escalate.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:37 PM
3

Sounds like these plates were going to break anyhow. Focus on what you can: SMV, fuck them better, be more mysterious, leave them wanting more. I have plates that text me way more than I text them, they WANT to see me. Keep texting to logistics, sometimes a plate texts me and I don't answer for a day or 2, I generally only respond to logistics, not, "omg you wouldn't believe my roomate".
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:34 PM
4

Go dutch, be like "oh I love karting, let's do it" vs "I want to take you out on a formal date". Don't set yourself up as the provider.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:32 PM
2

this. be the teacher she'll never forget
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:53 AM
3

one thing to note. always be escalating and looking for the green light, in other words "is she ready to have sex?". If it's on the first date cool, it could happen later that day or it could also happen on the second date. You're looking for the window (opportunity), if it's a green light say at the end of your date and you bail, it may not be a green light later.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:17 AM
1

Ironically the more we latch on to/pedestalize women the larger the wedge between our fathers.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:58 PM
8

Why don't you track these girls down and tell them I was eavesdropping. They might just have sex with you for saving their honor.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 02:53 PM
2

looked to me like she got interested once he came over and we started talking, her body language became more positive towards me after that. He was there briefly on his way to work. yea I hear you, how do you define higher class women?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 09:17 PM
51

They do sell hope. And like a good salesman they aren't butthurt when you say no, they don't even remember it, they just move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 09:01 PM
81

haha. I once had a girl say "I'm sunday fundaying so hard, and since you aren't around can you buy me a pizza and have Dominos deliver it to me?" fuck no. Be the receiver of pizzas, in college I had a girl send me a pizza while she was away =).
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 08:43 PM
3

I've noticed women prefer it when guys don't let them blab and put them to work doing something for them. It's unreal how having them do something for you increases their attraction and investment in you.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 08:36 PM
5

The anger phase usually comes from having bad experiences​ with girls. For example you orbited for years showering her with gifts and attention and never got anywhere while she fucks guys who are "assholes". Sounds like you arrived here pretty early and haven't racked up too many encounters with girls that would have frustrated the shit out of you. Take it as a blessing and keep on improving.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:22 AM
1

Coffee shops (sit and read), art gallery, market, meetup.com, yes go-to a yoga studio, cafes, bar etc. Don't forget to practice cold approaches. Make it a game like "today I have to say hi to everyone" "im going to invite every girl i meet to join for an activity later."
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:18 AM
2

Been there​ done that. If they really want your help and are ready to change they will come around, ask for advice and do the work. Tell them you're open to helping but they have to take you up on it. Don't try to change them. If you feel yourself getting annoyed that they aren't getting it you need to take the focus from them back to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:12 AM
1

I caught myself doing this for a split second, in my head "I'm on crutches, new women I approach won't want anything sexual", fuck that. I'm having fun with it "oh have you ever been on crutches?" and we start talking. My only responsibility is "is she into me?" and "is she available?".
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:06 PM
2

If you like the outdoors (skiing, hiking, biking) SLC is a good place. Tons of tech jobs and girls (inc mormon girls who fuck). If you can take a job abroad that would be cool too, especially if you don't have any travel or world experience under your belt.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:20 PM
5

Soft next. You don't have to notify them "hey let's not be friends". Just let it naturally sort itself out.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:17 PM
5

I'm going to emphasize public. Don't do it in private where it might lead to sex.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:02 PM
2

Exactly, I know down to my bones from experience this isn't BS. Women's ASD is so hard they will deny respect for players/alphas with words. A girl once couldn't tell me "I like having sex with him" she had to say "we were saving each others lives, of course I had sex with him", and why was I having this conversation with her to begin with? yea.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:59 PM
56

This guy had his wife checking his bank account. Never give anyone access to our knowledge of your assets.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:42 AM
21

Spending less time with your friends and no longer doing the things you love because you are now in a LTR. Letting your GF make decisions and rules from anything to what you're doing that night to your facial hair.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:26 AM
7

Man I hear you but you still kinda hope he wakes up before he hits a hard rock bottom. It will be his health or he'll find his GF cheating or she'll dump his ass once he can't provide squat.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 11:40 PM
3

Good job man. You would not believe how many guys stay stuck in this situation for months and even years.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 07:06 PM
3

Bring them one step further into your frame.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:35 PM
5

Bingo. The trick is figuring out which ones are really into you or not and available. Some can change their minds but in my experience it takes a long time and most times not worth it. In terms of availability. She may like you but she isn't available because of X. For example​ she's dealing with the death of a family member, or some crazy project at work.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:43 PM
2

You nailed it. #1 I'm not going to give her anymore time. I felt her out and this isn't a good start. Some girls make it into my followup category. She didn't. #2 not butthurt, more like efficiency. I'll read the rest of your post later.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:59 PM
12

Part of the shit test. Bf and then she went to say "best friend"
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:17 AM
15

She didn't suggest an alternate time. exactly, these days if a girl says, "oh im not available tuesday", i don't text back, sometimes they come back with "I'm free wed at 9pm". and I just picked up an HB8 law student at the cafe I'm chilling at vs going out with the tinder girl.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 02:15 AM
2

As a guitarist (used to play lead/vocals in a few bands). Tell girls you want to show them your guitar (plausible deniability) once you get them back to your place don't actually start playing for them. Show it to them and start making out. Years ago I would play girls entire songs and never made a move. Escalate and make a move, don't actually sit down and play on and on. If they insist, things are going well and you're just testing them to see if their ready to get down, play with them next to…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:44 AM
1

I used to date women with kids because they are easy, and try to tie you down with sex, cooking meals, etc. It's gaming on easy mode but they will try to get you involved with their kids and what not. This wasn't me being alpha, this was me as a beta getting out played by women. I don't get involved with women with kids anymore, with better game and SMV single girls with no kids are np.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:33 AM
1

This happened to me yesterday. Girl said 'i don't think I'm going to be down anytime soon. Sorry I ruined your night" me "hardly" her "glad to hear it mine feels pretty ruined." I have not and won't text first.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 09:13 PM
10

Keep strong. Absolutely no contact.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 09:03 PM
1

updated.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:46 AM
-2

Yes there is one Chad out there fucking all these women and I found him... This person is a Chad, ie he embodies what a "Chad" is...
/r/askTRP22/03/17 03:35 AM
7

day game is one aspect of it, try online, parties, volunteer work on the weekends, whatever. one of the things that clicked for me is putting my time and energy into me and meeting new women. I used to keep a running list of the girls I was interested. The problem was that list wasn't changing month to month. Now it changes week to week.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:13 AM
4

I would add that there are times when your body and mind just need to rest. Taking a break is ok, it's balance that makes the most progress, not extremes.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:09 AM
6

I drink rarely. Here's what I do. first off realize that if you're sober and everyone else is drunk you are going to feel isolated and have a bad time. So go out with people who don't get plastered, meet girls at Farmer's markets in the am, etc. If you do go out have a drink, nurse that bitch. I have one buddy is who always tossing me beers to the point I'm not even done with one and I have one waiting. Hold you're ground and have a good time. your real friends won't give a damn. Drop friends th…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:33 AM
1

Read the side bar. All those links to the top right.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:32 AM
1

One of my plates is currently trying to bait me into the "talk" by telling me she will send me an email with all these positive things, I just have to read it, absord and respond whenever. I haven't replied yet.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:00 AM
1

I've met the most sugar daddy searching hos at charity events. They dress in little baby doll dresses and can be seen talking to the ugliest of dudes as long as they are wearing an expensive outfit.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 07:51 PM
3

Make it a goal to go out and meet more women. Once you have good options you won't feel it so much. Also don't forget she's not a unicorn, just another girl. Keep it strictly professional.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:34 PM
5

Yoga class (at a studio, in the park, etc). meetup.com can work in some areas. Part time job, volunteer, etc
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:31 PM
10

If you meet a red pill man say goodbye to your virginity. This isn't a problem. I like a girl with some sexual experience as being sexual is part of the human experience between a man and woman. For a LTR I would prefer a woman with a low N count, not a virgin. Depends on the guy. Why do you want to stay a virgin? to help you secure a great guy in marriage? If you meet a guy and it feels right go for it. Have fun and explore all aspects of relationships, it's how we learn and become the best ver…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:27 AM
1

I went with a hybrid of sorts. Take a look at the update in the main post.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:04 AM
2

Then I think you did fine. For some reason she dried up. She needs to be punished for pulling that shit. I would ignore for a bit see what she comes back with.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:13 AM
1

She could have been on her period and just wanted to please you with a blow job.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:54 AM
1

Nope. Most of them think you are clueless or not interested. To get rejected you have to put yourself out there. If a girl hits on you and you say no, she'll feel rejected. Women are so sacred of rejection they will rarely make a move overtly. They will act covertly in ways there hamster will make them feel better if it doesn't go their way. Btw who cares if they feel rejected if you're not interested, dont try to be that nice guy.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:50 AM
0

(Irrelevant Since you updated your post to include more details).
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:43 AM
2

As to why they go silent? Because you either messed up or they have nothing to gain from you.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:36 AM
2

Easy DGAF about girls you aren't pursuing. For the ones you like, why are you not escalating? Have fun, be hot, escalate and don't say stupid shit. Yes if you don't escalate women friend zone you and look at you in a non sexual way.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:31 AM
1

Sure just don't be in the same category as those dudes
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:27 AM
2

also I've met girls who say "he was my rock" and refer to a BB who took care of everything for her when she was in a rut. So don't be squishy rock save a ho.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:08 PM
6

I've been in a LTR with a 9. High maintenance and she was always getting hit on. In other words she was constantly being tempted and had lots of branch swinging opportunities. Next time I'm with a 9 I'm plating her.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:06 PM
1

On the days that matter keep it really simple, it could be your time, a small gift, don't give her something really expensive or tons of gifts. keep it mysterious, keep it simple and make sure she earns it not just because she gave you someone expensive months ago.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:35 PM
1

Putting a reward date out there would have worked, however I didn't think of that under pressure to get her to leave before plate 2 showed back up. At this point it may be tricky to spin her need to talk into a reward date as she imposed "rules" (her words) on how our next meetup is to be like (which I still haven't responded to). I don't want to reinforce this behavior. I'm going to be out of town for a few days so there will be some space naturally .
/r/askTRP12/03/17 10:52 PM
1

If work isn't providing an entry to a social circle I would look things up like couch surfing meetups, meetup.com, Facebook groups, salsa classes, etc.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:08 PM
68

Had a shot to have sex with a girl, was too inexperienced so didn't do it. Ended up giving her a massage and later that night she fucked a guy while I slept 2 doors down with my headphones on. Oh the hard lessons. We all start somewhere, have to keep on improving.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:06 PM
3

Thanks, I haven't replied. The emotional tampon part hit home. At some point in person she's going to ask me if the other girl stayed over. How do you handle plates asking this? ignore, fog, agree and amplify?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:57 PM
1

My last ex did this. Definitely NO contact. Even a shred of contact (for example, if you unblock her on facebook - and she notices) will reinforce her behavior. My ex was fucking other guys while she wouldn't quit texting, messaging, calling. She just can't believe I broke up with her. Her texts ranged from nasty, lovey, to come fuck me before I blocked her.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:49 PM
1

This has happened to me too and I fucked it up. She had been sending me naked pics etc. And just like you I started talking, waiting for the right moment. Later I went to make out and she kept her lips shut, dried up. Learn from this and never make the same mistake again. The girl I speak of landed me in trp.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:27 AM
1

The 2 girls don't know each other, and I haven't told them about each other. One of them already tried to cock block me at a bar once so I would expect this kind of behavior. I'll give it a go with #3 (isolate) and see how it goes. What I see happening is the 2 plates will stick around after the party dies down...I'm going to go for the threesome...wow I'm not even worried about hurting their feelings...it's like I care because I want them to experience something beautiful.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 08:23 PM
1

There are plenty of good looking bp guys that dont get it. Whining that this post is useless because you consider yourself to not look a certain way is the problem. Change what you can. Op gives a great tool to waste less time (ie knowing when a girl is into you without having to invest time/emotion). Now you can focus on you and girls who actually want to have sex with you, for whatever reasons.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:09 AM
6

Reading in between the lines here it's about becoming "active" vs "passive" in your encounters with women. If you're active you are: leading the encounter paying attention vs blathering on and on (use your brain cycles wisely) slowing your conversation down, so you can give your brain a chance to process being engaged in the MIDDLE of the encounter, not just focused on the beginning and end Women really want a "man with a plan", with you leading they can relax and enjoy the story unfolding, it j…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:01 PM
3

You strike me as being codependent. Your clearly spend a lot of time thinking, talking and acting in relation to K. Your relationship with K is blue pill emotional GF. You're hung up on her BS. Your time is more valuable than that.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:49 AM
3

your weight won't help things I disagree. I've lost a good bit of weight and at varying lbs lost: -10 ugos start to notice me -20 6-7s start to notice me -30 6-7s start to hit on me, 8's start to notice It's not the end all be all but it helps, OP is already ahead because the fatter you are the better game you need
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:04 AM
0

There were some iois and we're cool. I've met girls that have hang ups kissing and after you've had sex all of the sudden they are into it.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:18 AM
1

Go do shit. Examples: volunteer, get a fun part-time job, workout, etc
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:58 AM
4

I wouldnt say its fucked. Just don't rely on it 100 percent. Theres a million reasons that have nothing to do with you on why a girl doesnt reply. However if you arent meeting anyone you would fuck, time to review your profile and chat habits. Search trp plenty of topics to read.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:55 AM
3

Creative and awesome.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:40 AM
2

This is "frame" time to work on it. You found the rp at 20?! Lucky bastard.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:12 AM
1

First off be your best. Second don't decide if a woman finds you attractive or not. Let her decide, for whatever reason if shes into you, great. If shes not, meet someone who is. Ive seen hot women be into all sorts of guys.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:09 AM
1

If you're out at say a bar and there's touching, kissing, etc and you make a move for your place or hers. It's on, you both know what's up, green light, go for it hard.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:04 AM
1

What may work for you is to find something you enjoy. Say you like to ski, so to get better at it you take classes, strength train, etc. You won't always feel motivated however you keep at it because you enjoy skiing. In your case I would go for a social activity. Improving on something you enjoy, seeing the results of your effort, experiencing the "high", makes things not feel blah.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:40 AM
9

It helps but she still needs to get a feeling you will fuck her brains out. Have frame, look good, be fun and comfortable in your own skin.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:49 AM
1

It's also about style not how much you spend. Wear something appropriate but still stands out some way. I find a lot of good stuff on eBay or a thrift store.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:00 PM
1

I get it. I'm using Rollo's definition.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:15 AM
-4

Nah. Plates are about options.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:34 PM
1

No, the onus is not on you. Learn abundance mentality for yourself, keep practicing and getting better. This is just the beginning.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:20 PM
1

If a girl is interested she may not give you the best 1st kiss because she's nervous, or inexperienced, whatever. The key is to gauge her interest level overall. Does she text you the next day and say "wow great time", or "let's do that again". Then cool, go out again and escalate. When people want something, they reach out. You could end up hooking up with her but generally that's too much work for someone who hasn't earned it. Time is valuable, game other girls and have fun. Abundance mentalit…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:59 PM
14

Mine was gradual. I was that clueless guy, unaware that women were hitting on me. One time a girl invited me to a hot tub, then a strip club, her place, and finally showed up in her pjs with a pillow at my place to "sleep over". I said "why would you want to sleep here? your house is like right over there..." she sighed, left and started dating some guy right after. So it was gradual: 1) clueless nice guy 2) started having sex fast, but then falling back into nice guy BP (for example, after sex …
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:41 PM
3

Heres what I do. "Hey what's best in life?" Blah blah, "what are you looking for?" Blah blah "I can manage that. What's your number?" If she doesn't reply or continues talking without giving you her number. Bail. If she messages you first. Go straight to "so what are you looking for?"
/r/askTRP02/02/17 12:03 AM
1

"Just for you baby". Btw I had a girl recently call me this however she really wasn't into me physically. More to see if I'd stick around to satisfy some beta orbiter needs. I escalated physically and got nothing. Called me a dick and later started to be more touchy towards me (because she knew she was going to ask me for shit) which I said no. She's calculating. Her words haha. Escalate without strings and see where it takes you.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:54 PM
2

I started there last week. She's been there a month. Think summer camp teacher type job. I met her for the first time yesterday, the above happened in 2 visits to the office space out by 2-3 hours.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:34 AM
1

vigilance of?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 09:30 PM
1

+Power talk. Bring them back to the present and living in the moment.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 09:09 PM
2

So far I ignore those and only reply to logistics texts. I don't play the poetic replies. "...lion..." I got that one already.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:08 PM
1

I did ask her about drugs. Says she used to years ago but not anymore. Acid and what not.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:05 AM
2

I think this is it. I do need to have a talk as in I'm having fun with her but not looking for a relationship. She knows I'm leaving once winter is up. She's already shown signs of jealousy and I can tell she's wondering if there are other women. She'll either dial it back and if not, next. The sex is good but nothing I can't comfortably walk away from.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:03 AM
2

I gave it a shot with Amie. No tingles.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 05:01 PM
-1

I'm guessing here. After her going away party Amie's attitude changed and another girl also Susie's friend quit talking to me.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 05:00 PM
10

One thing I'm learning is say you're not sure if a girl is interested or not because logistically you haven't been able to meet up (on both sides) for say 3 weeks. Red flag. Next and keep it horizontal. If a girl is interested, it will happen and fast.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 02:00 AM
1

Yep, and hell if I'm going to be an orbiter. Dude I fucked up. I was trying to kino across a table. There was lots of space between us that's what I came up with after having touched her hands, etc.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:31 AM
1

Obviously. I was going that route when she hit the brakes.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 05:58 PM
2

I haven't spelled it out or had a talk with her. My actions are in line. It's been about 3 weeks since I met her.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:12 AM
1

Where I live I'm not in the top 20%, I'm working on it though. It's a fairly small town with a lot of athletic, accomplished people. When traveling you look different which separates you from the herd, also the fact that you may be leaving soon can be a turn on for short flings (no fallout). I'm way more attractive away from my home.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:24 AM
2

On a first date go for coffee. Stand in line talk to her and then let her go forward and hang back as she orders. If you're doing something like dinner at some point. When the bill comes wait for her to take her credit card out or say something like "let's split it down the middle" if she calls you a douchebag it could be a shit test, up to you to read the situation. If she's serious and just nasty about it. Hard next.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:38 AM
2

Sounds like she has a drinking problem. This alone would make me next her. That's just way too much to deal with where you have no control. Not your fault she drinks and you can't fix this about her.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:26 PM
2

First off. Spending time proving this to you is pointless. Read up, get out in the world and make up your own mind. She's an hb7, great rack. Whales or ugly girls may cater to you however I don't find them sexually attractive. A lot of girls have daddy issues. And you missed the point. I'm not spending a ton of time orchestrating, convincing, tricking women into sleeping with me. I'm improving myself and learning to relate to women on a different level. I'm making better use of the time I have.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:52 PM
1

Read the side bar and posts. So far I've read no more Mr nice guy, codependent no more, the game, think fast think slow, the sex god method and really breaking down past experiences using a red pill lens. In my case I had moments of red pill behavior before but hadn't been consistent. Exercise, eat right, lots of yoga, relax, take things less seriously, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:43 PM
2

I can totally see this happening. When a woman is in control of her relationship with a blue pill guy, she will do this and lie or not make a big deal of it (because it's not her fault that she was drunk).
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 05:44 PM
1

I didn't believe the entire story, parts sure. As to why she told me this story probably something to do with me talking about how traveling is fun and freeing. hrm... never thought of it as her trying to get me hot or to hit on her ie telling me for that specific reason. if anything she was fantasizing about what she would like to do and I missed an opportunity to push that theme/story vs the other stuff I did.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 01:38 AM
25

Been there done that. Remember how pissed you are, remember her and how you are never going to be that guy again. Get mad, get angry, kill the beta quickly, double tap his ass. Time is the most valuable thing on this earth, respect yourself and your time.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 12:54 AM
2

(and real options, not delude yourself into thinking the girl will bang you) For me this is key, escalate and find out if they are "real"
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 07:00 PM
2

I only have 1 plate right now, however I am out there, going out, meeting more girls, etc. I'm looking forward to plating #2. I have an option for #2 but she's a mess and a little crazy..but man that body... I would rather have high quality plates. Now with the updated definition: I have 4 plates right now, I am out there, going out, meeting more girls, etc. I'm looking forward to fucking more than just 1 of them. I have an option to sleep with #2 but she's a mess and a little crazy, so I haven'…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:48 PM
3

I don't know a book off the top of my head that speaks to this specifically, IE attraction and familiarity with alcoholics. The jist of it is. If you find alcoholics and their behavior "familiar or OK" you may have issues with boundaries, have a history of alcoholism/abuse in your family, or have never had the experience of being involved (not just LTR) with one. There's a lot to it. If you think this might be you talk to a therapist and start researching online. I'm not talking about trying to …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:53 PM
7

Don't date/fuck/be friends with an alcoholic. If you find you are attracted to alcoholics you will benefit from working on why.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:14 PM
1

I can see both sides of the coin. Recently I had this hippie girl pull LMR with the "I'm on my period" statement. It was already 4 am. I had a long drive ahead of me the next day so whatever. She is moving to a town close by and maybe we'll hook up. It wasn't worth it to me to push on. She's still interested from what I can tell. You were annoyed that she put up some token resistance. That's the difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:01 PM
1

Thanks. this makes sense.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:53 AM
1

I hesitate because I want to keep it casual. I've had girls get really entitled and try a power play after doing shit for me. I would recognize it now... I've also been in shitty LTRs where in the beginning it was alright and after that it was just about the bare minimum nuture. (My fault) so I didn't know if there was a specific dynamic going on.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:52 AM
1

On Tinder, get to the, "what's you number?" question fast. If they flake so be it. I've had girls on Tinder try to be my texting buddy while they are watching a boring movie with their friends. I do like the 2/3s rule, text 2 for every 3 of hers. In my case I'm texting less girls, however they are more interested.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 11:24 PM
4

To me the point is that they don't feel obligated (A), that you aren't setting up an implicit contract(B) or just being used(C). A) he's just trying to buy my pussy (bleh) B) if he pays for shit I'm responsible for giving him pussy (bleh) C) I'm just going to see how much free shit I can get out of him (bleh, no respect) I recently had a girl on Tinder who is 200 miles away (I had been in her town last weekend) ask me to buy her pizza over the phone since she was "sunday fundaying so hard". I la…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 11:18 PM
3

She did ask. She also said guys on tinder either want her as a slut or a therapist. She's gained a lot of weight since I last saw her. So no I don't want to fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:37 AM
2

Perhaps not the best post title. Point was I was having someone tell me one thing to my face while her behavior said another.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:58 AM
3

Sure this is possible and that's why I post, to gain perspective. My point was I have a woman who is telling me to my face cheating is the worst. Yet here she is touching me, sitting next to me, flirting, talking sex and telling me her bf is inexperienced and she's not into the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:57 AM
1

I had a girl on Tinder do this recently. We had a great phone call, and we were going to meet up to go skiing. All of the sudden "oh hey I can't because I'm driving 300 miles away" (translation: something better came up, so good she was willing to drive away). She then unmatched me on Tinder. All I said was "k". She's into it. Every message I get is warm and flirty. She's texting me long, warm messages and I'm being neutral. This is a red flag. Whenever girls get too warm and seemingly emotional…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 08:49 PM
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The beauty of the RP is less is more. You have more time for yourself, improve and are getting better results. Follow the 2/3rds rule once you start plating her. The less you text the less invested in it you will be. Let her be the one to initiate the deep conversations (not via text).
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 12:39 PM
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This makes sense. I found it odd that she kept complimenting and paying keen attention to my clothes. Either way she will justify it in a positive light.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:27 PM
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Yea that's what I've been reading. I don't want her to feel "used" and hamster her way out of it. Sounds like in this case next day is the way to go.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:55 PM
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This. I've done both and every single time I don't pay it goes way better. Less pressure, less "provider" vibe. She's investing in the situation, she drove there, spent her time and paid for her drink, she doesn't owe me anything. No covert contract. At one point at the bar she was like "I can't believe this I forgot my wallet" I just looked at her and waited till "oh here it is!". I don't know if that was a test or not. Of course if she had really forgotten her wallet, asked me to pay... I woul…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:07 PM
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This is gold. Use stories...this girl kept asking me direct questions tonight "how many members of my family, etc". I said "let's use stories instead, more fun to infer" and we exchanged stories. Im on my way to her place right now after a drink. It's on. Appreciate the post.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:01 AM
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I would rather be rejected than attempted to be strung along. I'm using my last rejection where I did everything wrong to continue to motivate me. The more I read trp the more I have those epiphanies of where I can improve. Great learning experience. The fact is when you get rejected the woman sees nothing to gain from you: either alpha or beta needs.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:38 AM
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I would go for it if you can stay unattached. Single moms will try hard to please you and will then start to reel you in as a provider by trying to get you to do shit with her and her kids. Don't let it get to that point. Have fun.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 10:18 PM
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Yes this is possible, I'm not proud of it but here goes. This has happened to me 3 times. 1-was on top of her giving her a massage I went to take her panties off and she jumped across the room. I probably could have recovered, didn't. 2-The massage therapist who I didn't even realize I could fuck. I had her naked on a massage table with her bra unhooked. 3-my most recent fuck up that landed me in RP taking this shit seriously. Nothing was working, she wasn't even kissing back but yet somehow end…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:16 PM
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Good post, and I'm angered haha. After reading it just dawned on me that the massage thearpist (this hot hawaiin girl I met months ago, who picked me up cause I didn't have a car with me, who gave me a massage on a saturday night at her office) who massaged me and then I massaged her (unhooked her bra off, etc, she was always compliant telling me we wouldn't do anything) wanted to fuck. FUCKING HELL. I take this with me, I will use this to keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:11 PM
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Good post, and I'm angered haha. After reading it just dawned on me that the massage thearpist (this hot hawaiin girl I met months ago, who picked me up cause I didn't have a car with me, who gave me a massage on a saturday night at her office) who massaged me and then I massaged her (unhooked her bra off, etc, she was always compliant telling me we wouldn't do anything) wanted to fuck. FUCKING HELL. I take this with me, I will use this to keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:11 PM
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Not the case. Hostels have everything especially really cool ones. I've gone out and done fun shit with mixed groups that included people in there 20s and 30s. Airbnbs are better if you are going to be there longer term. I stay in ones with people my age to get an in on the area. Some of the best hostels also have a bar/restaurant. Depends on where you are of course...pick good ones.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:15 AM
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Almost no escalating? Why? Escalating is up to you.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:13 AM
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Different women. That would have been rough.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:20 AM
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Others look away. I don't come off as a psycho who would go complain someone wasnt smiling at me. How often does this actually happen? Enlighten me.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:47 PM
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The only traction I've had with this was with one that was walking out with me through the terminal flirting. We exchanged info, nothing came of it. My uncle had a regular flight he kept taking and seeing the same flight attendant (not the same one I got the info from). He married her. My point of this post was it's good practice. I've only ever picked up one girl on a plane and she was sitting next to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:44 PM
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Sure I was social but nothing materialized. Its harder if you aren't going in the same direction. 3 flights will do that.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:15 AM
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Fucking girl game. Next.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 03:51 AM
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Been there done that. Block her number, block her on Facebook and find some people you can lean on for some support. For my own reasons I put up with a woman like this (alcoholic). The emotional abuse wasn't enough to make me leave (I've since learned) but the moment she got physical I restrained her, the situation calmed down and I ghosted her shortly after. Feel free to message me. I've been no contact for 3 years. She sent hundreds of messages and calls. Never answered one. Best to block beca…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 03:38 AM
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Yea I'm going to tell her no. If she was omg ravage me and ski with me sure. She would let me crash at her place but it's gotten to the point where it's not crashing it's taking advantage.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 02:23 AM
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Listen to your gut. You know something is wrong. She's "so perfect"? You are in the wrong mindset. She's in control not you...think about it. You're already starting your perfect marriage the wrong way. Save yourself some pain.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 07:11 PM
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My buddy is so whipped his wife determines the length he can have on his beard.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:48 PM
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She answers with a cheek you go in for a neck kiss or something. Just because she presented her cheek doesn't mean she's not into you. Keep escalating. The cheek isn't a hard no.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:43 PM
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Btw I fixed my post. These are 2 separate girls. Girl B I hung out with once before but didn go for it. Stayed friendly.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 05:28 PM
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I travel 8 months out of the year and ended up working near her. I go for it all. Girls I meet on location, ones who travel to meet me and others like this one that happen to be close to a place I've wanted to travel to. My previous experience was with a different girl where I fucked up by just going to see her ... Oh this post might make it sound like the 2 girls above are the same one. Not the case fixing it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 05:24 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. She hadn't turned me down before. I just never went for it the first time we spent time together. I did get that feeling during the trip. That if she had been a totally new girl things would have gone better. Either way history between us dampened things.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 12:37 AM
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Thanks. It hadn't occurred to me that not asking her out could be a good thing. Of course I would have to go for it on the next round if I saw her again. I've heard of this guy from an alpha widow who is great at bringing them into his frame. This guy has people inc the girl come help him get product ready to ship for him when he gets a big order. He gets a beer keg they have a work party. He pays them and fucks her later.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:53 PM
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Red flag "attached and taking care of her" that sounds like enabling and that's a dark road you don't want to go down. I would research that if I were you.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:07 AM
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Some of the best sex I've had was with a milf. Then shit got sticky with her wanting me to meet her kids and stuff. If you can keep it separate then have fun. Get her to come to you. My milf was separated and a few months later officially divorced.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:06 AM
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I met a guy who lived in the same apartment complex as me years ago who was fucking his neighbor's wife and bought a gun because the husband kept threatening him. It escalated and he killed the husband. His lawyer got him off on manslaughter i believe. His lawyer also got me out of a 152mph speeding ticket.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:01 AM
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You're 22? No rush right? Dude. Go live and savor life. I got wrapped up in a LTR when I was 23. What happened? I quit traveling, moved in with my gf who started getting depression while I enabled her behaviour. Then it took a year once all shit hit rock bottom to recover. I'm not saying this is going to happen to you but the key point is to keep your sense of self intact. Keep taking care of yourself and that involves living your dreams. Go backpacking in the Himalayas, go play rugby in Europe,…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 03:42 AM
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Thanks man. I'm going to bail on the married girl. Plenty of non married women.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 03:26 AM
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Here's where I fucked up. I had weaved an excellent story btw. I encountered last minute resistance (never been hit with it so hard) and was too inexperienced to handle it. See this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4atux3/plausible_deniability_let_her_have_her_story/ The next day she seriously shit tested me while I was washing the dishes after she made lunch "I don't know your dish washing style but don't waste water" oh and she was mad at some point. as /u/Archwinger puts it:…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 02:02 AM
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For me a way to not crave affection is to give yourself affection. Whatever works for you. For me it's to go skiing, cycling, buy myself a new jacket, hang out with a buddy, get a massage, etc. You don't have to fuck them if you don't want to. You're evaluating them as well.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:22 AM
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Can confirm, this works.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:17 AM
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I've been reading up a lot on this because I just relapsed with oneitis recently and like 3 days later a (A) plate showed up at my place. (B) My confidence got a big boost. The same confidence that girls like in me to begin with. A Then B Go back to A, repeat If you have past experiences with other girls tap into that. Keep working on yourself. I used to use the "that bitch crazy" as a way to move on. Don't do it, calmly accept it for what it is and move on, this will help. like /u/auvergnat sai…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 01:43 AM
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This is sobering thanks. I'm still up for the challenge to flip the dynamic if she shows up. No more BP anything.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:38 PM
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Thanks. Throughout my interactions with this girl I definitely thought of her playing a game, ie. "girl game" as you put it. Yea at this point I'm not reaching out. If I feel like it will do it, if not I won't. We both travel and if she does show up she would be staying at my place (doesn't live here). Any advice on how to smash and bail in this case? If she did show up I'm escalating fast, and if nothing happens then she can go on her way.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:36 PM
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Thanks. I'm going to go look up comfort tests. We don't live in the same town. So I may be seeing her in a month or so. Will have the "what was that?" phone conversation if we plan on meeting up. I travel a lot and she's able to join me so that's a big plus, hasn't pulled any shit, smart, attractive. There are other plates.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:32 AM
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