So I'm not going to do a body, summary, all that other fag shit. If you can't get the simple message being conveyed here, that's on you...

Was reading another thread and something really clicked in my brain, but I didn't want my thoughts to be lost in the sea of bullshit there so am posting it here...

THe discussion at hand here is a woman you're with that claims either to have been raped, or that someone tried to rape her. I want to first and foremost state that rape, in the true sense of the word, is abhorrent, and one of the most vile things a human being can do to another. I state it that way because rape is not always about man perpetrating it on a woman. Anyways, I want to share my experience with women I've been with that have talked about rape to me...

SO a disproportionate number of women I've been with have dropped the rape card on me. Full disclosure, I've only been turned onto this sub and the whole RP ideology very recently. Few months. However, in looking back at my life, I feel I've naturally lived a pretty RP life the whole time. Now I'm not talking about the PUA bullshit that forms a large part of this community. That is putting the pussy on a pedestal to the extreme, but I digress. Conversation for another time. Getting back to the topic, I've had too many women drop the rape thing on me. Thing is, literally every time, it was a 'throw away' comment. Meaning it didn't really make sense in the way they said it, the very blaze way they said it etc. But in evaluating the timing of the comment, it made a lot of sense. It was ALWAYS brought up during a discussion where either the woman was trying to hamster away some other thing that she was caught out in, or trying to elicit sympathy or something else. GAIN being the appropriate word...

So looking back on it through the RP goggles, I'm seeing a lot more clarity. It's the ultimate card they can play. The ace in the hole. It's something that can be used to diffuse situations where they're caught up in bullshit, among a myriad of other things. Refuse sex, back you up into a corner about being too insensitive to what she's been through, all the way up to the ultimate play of the card, claim rape on you.

I'm not going to write some intricate fictional story about how this impacted my life. It hasn't, thankfully. I've had bitches hamster all sorts of shit on me, but once the R word is dropped it's a whole new ball game, I've shut that shit down quickly, and nexted them. However, every lesson you learn doesn't need to be the hard way. Here's the deal. The minute a woman has a 'rape conversation' with you, treat it as the biggest red flag ever. Look at it this way, if she actuall y has been raped, she's pretty damaged goods. If you subscribe to abundance mentality, it's an easy next. If she hasn't but claims to be, or claims someone tried, you're fighting an uphill battle. Once you accept that and move forward in your relationship, whether as a plate, LTR or wife, you are a slave to that card at any time. Whenever she decides to pull it, and to whatever dramatic level she wants to pull it at. Even a simple claim of rape, completely unsubstantiated, will ruin a mans life. Think about it...

Lesson learned: If a woman drops a 'rape' conversation on you, at any stage of your relationship with her, it should be the reddest of red flags, and nothing short of nexting is an option. If you think you can live with that, you're a fool, and she's holding a massive massive thing over your head witch she will inevitably cash out on you. The fact that she's using the rape card means she has full intention of cashing in on it at some point. And the far end of the spectrum of how she can cash that is really really really dangerous...

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