I recently came to this conclusion, which may or may not help men swallow the red pill:
Despite what they may be claiming, a woman's temple is not her vagina.
It is in no way sacred to a woman. I have the feeling that a lot of blue pillers feel that the vagina is some supreme degree of intimacy and some holy place.
IT IS NOT. To a woman, her vagina is a tool, her main tool, to get an ego boost from being able to pull emotions (pleasure/orgasm) out of a man she deems superior to her.
The pleasure women get from sex is tied to their ego: "I was able to get that extremely confident, extremely framed guy off! I must be super special!" and their vagina is just a hole they use to that end. It could be her mouth, her ass, the vagina is just a tool like any other parts of her body she can use to get some validation from a man.
Being desirable to women, thus means, you have be the sturdy (mentally, physically if possible), confident, framed guy that is HARD TO GET. Be playful with her, to lead her on, make her think she has a shot at nailing a prize like you but it will be hard work and then keep leading her on, that will work up her ego and thus her sexy self.
Once you have nailed her (this part is difficult because post orgasm emotions tend to be harder to frame) tell her you had a good time but leave it at that; keep her guessing at how good it actually was and if you could get better somewhere else.
EDIT: about intimacy, there is no real supreme level of intimacy with women, sadly. women are extremely good at compartementalizing (and you should learn to do that too if you want to keep your frame steady) and chances are you'll never see the whole picture of who she truly is.
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