We hear it alllll the time:

'My ex was abusive!'

'My husband is an abuser!'

'Omg like I don't know why he's being sooo abusive to meeeee.'

This is bullshit.

'Abuse' is whatever the Feminine Imperative defines as denying the woman control of the frame.  A man is deemed abusive because he puts his needs before the poosay, calls a woman on her shit, gets her to invest first to earn his, or simply discards her into indifference for bitchy manipulative tactics in her post-wall slag state.

Any time a woman claims a man is abusive should be scrutinized to the highest degree and branded a lie until there is indisputable evidence to the contrary.  Never listen and/or take a woman's words at face value.  That is for bluepillers.  Instead, determine why her particular emotional state caused her to vomit up such nonsense. If a woman said she was raped or abused, say where's the police report?  Where is the conviction?  Yeah...not there.

'He was emotionally abuse' = He didn't concede to my frame and worship my poonhole.

'He physically abused me' = We had consensual sex and he didn't want me afterwards (but he wanted my best friend who is younger and hotter!)

'He beats me when he's drunk' = I throw a fit when I get wasted, throw shit at him and end up tripping on my face and that's his fault so you can clearly see this injury is from his violent nature.

All bullshit.  Women don't openly complain to other people about such nonsense, only lesser cucksoymales because they will always hashtag: believeallwomen.  Women that complain to betas are looking for sympathy, cash, and hypergamous Beta Bux insurance so she can keep on trying to lock down that 'abusive' man that gives her amazing orgasms and dangerfeelz and really just doesn't concede to her frame because he acknowledges that his woman is only good for sex and her PhD doesn't mean shit to an Individual man in an intersexual relationship.  Her ego can't simply settle for a beta.  She chooses to abuse herself in all her hamstering.  PetSmart stock soars as the shitty pellet food is dispensed at record speeds.

Even if there was blatant evidence of physical abuse, men and women are eeequuallll remember??  You shitlord.  If a woman can't physically beat a man, that's her fault.  She wasn't empowered enough.  Unless she's one of those bigass lesbo firefighters that used to be a man then maybe she has a shot.

Always question them and never concede the frame.