Alright so asking TRP some tactical advice dealing with this girl.

background: military aged male in good shape with a good profession.

Backstory: Been trying hard with this girl for a while now and recently discovered through trp that what i was doing was completely beta and very providerish.. we have a history of being friends, having a good time together and occasionally messing around near second base. the behavior i have shown her goes completely against my self respect and my normal game. quite honestly i'm ashamed of it..

Situation: past month been ignoring her and doing my own thing, spinning other plates and expanding my game. in this time i've ignored her "i hope your doing well!" texts and other bs attempts to get my attention. any replies i give her are short and also informing her that i'm out having fun doing my thing.

recently i txt if she wanted to go out for drinks on friday night. she replied she had plans but could stop by if i was out somehwere. i told her i would let her know but never did. that friday night i go out with my friends and run into her at the bar we are at. shes with another dude and i briefly say hi to her as i pass by on my way to the bar. 5 min later she walks up to me and starts talking, leaving her out of shape date at the booth they were sitting in, asking how im doing and what not. i dont show much interest and continue talking to my friends about the plans we have to check out a party after this bar.

girl goes back to the booth and i continue drinking and discussing plans with my friends. 20 min later the girl is back telling me shes leaving. i tell her to have a goodnight and we hug. as i turn back to my friends i notice she is still standing there. i give her an awkward look and she puts out her hand and i shake it giving her an even more awkward look. she laughs and asks for another hug. i give her one and then she grabs at my abs and tells me she loves me before turning and leaving. her fat date is watching this the whole time..

next day the girl and i make plans to meet up at a bar after she gets off work. that night im having a good time at a sorority party and begin receiving texts from the girl telling me when shes gonna be at the bar. i ignore them. next day i get a text from her asking where i was lastnight? i tell her i was at a party and didnt make it. she responds with a "haha nice"

my question for redpill is where would you go from here? im still interested in this girl but im not down to play any beta games with her anymore. the situation i described is very different than the normal behavior ive shown her. ignoring and straight blowing her off were un heard of for me until lately.