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Only when they were done speaking would I snap back... "Are you done?" 'Nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 10:05 PM
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Do you really have abnormally wide hips? Have you measured and compared to statistics? Have you measured you body proportions? If you do, tough shit, but that can be compensated for with exercise and clothing. Also, if you're overweight, it'll seem much worse than it really is. Make the best of what you have and maximise your advantages. It's all most of us can do. The rest is psychological.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:48 AM
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She's admitted one offence, and it's surely only one of many, of which the admitted offence is the least. If you press the issue, she's likely to "trickle truth" you. Basically, if you make it very clear that you don't believe it was "just a kiss", she may admit to "the next level"-offence she committed, hoping that it'll "satisfy" you and that you'll forgive her. Lol. So, if you decide to press it, stick to your guns. She'll likely pull everything in her hamstering and shaming arsenal to misdir…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 01:38 PM
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If you're not already lifting weights, do so. Testosterone boost = Less wimpiness Supercharge your testoboost with some martial arts. I recommend Krav Maga, Brazilian Jiujutsu, or MMA. Makes you crazy confident and non-pussylike in no time. Other than that, just practise enforcing boundaries, and not being a bitch. Like, for one week, practise not saying "please" to other guys. The week after that, practise saying "no". It helps. Addendum: Also, join an arm wrestling club. Seriously. Winning arm…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 01:51 PM
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Reeks of troll. I almost don't know where to begin when describing how disingenuous the OP is. It's concern trolling to put it simply. The post is a red herring, a semantic bait-n-switch and an appeal to consequence, with some shaming thrown in for good measure. Quite well constructed truth be told, but it's no different from shit tests and generic "who do you think you are"-put downs. Example: Sleeping around is fun for about a year or two. "Having a nice body from all that going to the gym is …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 11:36 PM
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Wrong flair. This is hardly red pill theory.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 04:36 PM
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Sluts don't deserve to be loved.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:28 PM
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Kiss me and I might tell you. FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:24 PM
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Standard shit test response methods work fine with this one, such as agree and amplify, ignore and redirect. Basically, you need to convey that you are in your own reality and that you are amused and/or unaffected by her shit test. Sample responses to "Are you a player?": BigTimer5's response was good: "No, I'm actually a weekend-only pimp. This is only Thursday, relax." "Totally." - I'd deliver this one either distractedly (scanning the room for other chicks), or with a cocky smirk. "Player? Ar…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:20 PM
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"Why, do you go out with a lot of players?" Comes across as defensive. Bad response. Addendum: Also likely to trigger anti-slut-defenses.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 03:53 PM
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Kettlebell swings are great for the core and the ass, and you dont bend the knees much doing them, as you mostly swing from the hips.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 08:07 PM
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I had female teachers that gave me grades depending on how much of a submissive ass kisser I was. Shouldnt they give grades based on how alpha you are? I thought they didnt like ass kissers. We're talking middle school and junior high school.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 10:11 AM
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I was being unclear. My point was that they're usually unaware of their shit testing (but they're certainly not unaware of the effects), but that this isn't always the case.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 07:54 PM
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I had female teachers that gave me grades depending on how much of a submissive ass kisser I was. Long story, but I know this because I tested them by altering my behavior and not my performance. Didn't have that problem with any of my male teachers. There are studies that confirm this tendency. I'll link them when I have time.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 09:42 AM
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When she says you're an asshole, supposing she's not being all snarky and passive aggressive about it, you can show her what's what by doing something like this: Lock your eyes onto hers and calmly but confidently approach her. Invade her personal space. Slowly but firmly pull her in close to you, preferably by holding her neck. Don't waver in the eye contact. Don't answer if she asks what you're doing. Keep going and either keep your face dead pan or with a slight smirk. Keep holding her and kn…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 08:12 PM
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Gave it away. Women don't talk like that, they don't even think that way. So unless your "GF" is a transgender, her conscious mind would of never connected those dots and came up with that conclusion. Women are not conscious of their own shit testing, it's done 100% inside the subconscious part of their minds. It's not always subconscious, just like it's not always subconscious when men look at asses and tits. Women seem to often be aware of other women's shit testing of men though. I often hear…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 08:02 PM
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Balls, a willingness to learn, the humility to re-evaluate everything, including onself, a willingness to make hard choices and changes, and a willingness to lose (so that you can win); those are the basics required for TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 12:53 PM
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Girl: I'm different You: Right(...) Don't listen to what they say; look at what they do. Even the most RP women I've met have nuclear powered hamsters. Also, don't argue/discuss with them. At the most, you tell them how it is, but you allow no argument. Amused mastery is the frame you're looking for. Girl: It's difficult being a girl blah dumb bitches all around blah I'm different oh look shiney You: (raised eyebrow) Right... Basically, like with any woman don't take her seriously. Also, bitch i…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 12:40 PM
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Standard shit test responses aren't always suitable. Strong men have integrity. That is essentially the same as having well defined boundaries and enforcing them. When she violates your boundaries, you need to force her hand. It's the only way to kill the behavior before it gets out of hand. While you shouldn't get all emotional 'n shit, by which I mean that you need to stay in control of yourself and not get a hissy fit, you need to make it supremely clear that such shit doesn't fly. Had I been…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:03 PM
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So TRP, according to sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Uh huh, and the title of the OP: I'm seeing too much emphasis on females and not enough on improvement lately. Sexual strategy doesn't include women? Orly. [...] This is bothersome because TRP's goal at it's core is about self-improvement. No, it's about sexual strategy. If your sexual strategy needs improvement, then self-improvement is implied, but an implica…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 03:36 PM
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I work in tech. Almost every single woman I've worked with have been prone to fucking shit up, especially the ones who got into positions of responsibility. Basically, I've observed the following archetypes based on their positions in the hierarchy: The drones - Usually the ones (of the women) who fuck shit up the least, because they can usually only do what they're told. "Good girl"-syndrome is common, so when they fuck up, it's generally through being overly "diligent" - They try to cover ever…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:30 AM
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With regards to the OP and to the following quote: I guess the point I take issue with is "realize we can't change it." I don't think that's correct, I think we can change it, especially incrementally over successive generations and with the development of ideas and the technologies that foster them. First: Things change over time, sometimes dramatically. However, changes to general human behavior aren't usually deliberate; they evolve. This behavioral evolution may make big sudden leaps at time…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:37 PM
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Lol, now that you say it, I see it myself. Thx for the heads up.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:00 PM
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Women do not respect men who do not stand up for themselves. They will not treat you better or go easier on you if you act beta and/or fail to enforce your boundaries. Rather, the opposite is the case. TL;DR: Women will view and treat according to what value they perceive you to have. Act like their bitch and they'll treat you like one.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 01:50 PM
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I really like the OP title. Stealing it kthx.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:30 AM
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I couldn't watch for more than 10 seconds before I nearly hurled. TL;DR please.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:33 PM
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Start of with "The book of Pook". I reread it occasionally. Other than that... Books such as "The Way of Men" by Jack Donovan are important to the RP-mindset, or "inner game" if you will. "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida has a lot of good concepts in it, though it is kinda BP in certain sections. "Models" by Mark Manson has some good shit in it too, though it has sprinklings of blue pill stuff. I'm currently reading "A Thousand Tiny Failures" by Tony D. It is entertaining and is abou…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:23 PM
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IMO, her feelings weren't the shit test per se; the shit test was that she tried to get me to submit to her frame. Had I gotten defensive, a la "how can you be hurt by that?" or something, she would've thought me an insensitive bastard/beta. Had I said "I'm so sorry baby, I didn't mean to hurt you. How can I make it up to you?" I'dve been a supplicating bitch. Had she made a bigger deal out of it than she did, I'dve just said "Get over it." That would've signaled that, yeah, I probably did cause…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:49 PM
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The closest I've come to apologizing to a girl since I took TRP: A plate was pouty due to me doing or saying something I can't remember at the moment. She said as much to me: Her: (Pouty) You upset me when you did/said xyz Me: I didn't intend to upset you, but I did, so that's that. Her: (Grinning hugely) That's how you apologize?!?!? Me: Who said anything about apologizing? Her: (Grinning even more) You're such a bastard! Me: Thank you! It's taken a lot of practice to become this good at it. He…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 05:34 PM
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Good one. Congratz on stopping being a pussy and getting it instead.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 07:24 AM
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That sounds like you're holding out for a good one! I guess I'm pro red pill in that part, manipulation is a big nope for me. Never met a woman who wasn't innately manipulative, but it comes in degrees. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but do practise self awareness. I could be weird but I feel really honored when my bf shows emotions. I know it's tough for guys so that he'll let me see that part of him shows me how much he trusts me. I'm very glad I'm a woman, I have way to many emotions…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 12:43 PM
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I do it with girls I actually like. Licking pussy doesn't have to have a submissive connotation. Tell her to be your good little slut and spread her legs for you so that you can get at what belongs to you. Make her prop up her ass with her hands. Restrain her or bind her. Play orgasm denial games. Put her in contorting positions... Alternative between spanking her pussy and eating it. Tell her that her pussy belongs you and make her beg for it. Talk dirty with a power theme; ask her what she's d…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:32 PM
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This. I started listening to my instincts more and actively suppressed my tendencies to over-think and such when interacting with girls. I see someone I like, I go for her, apologetically, boldly and shamelessly.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:00 PM
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u/to_zions response is good. You wouldn't nearly as awesome as you are now without having gone through the shit you have. This whole deal with demanding recognition for personal struggles is similar to EMO-teens saying "no one even understands meh!". It comes from a place of insecurity and need for validation. It passes though. The stronger you get and the more secure you feel in yourself and your abilities, the less you will feel the need for flaunting your struggles and how you difficult you h…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 10:02 PM
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Though I haven't read it in it's entirety yet, "The Rational Male" is a good book so far. I like "Way of the Superior Male", though it does have certain blue pill tendencies, such as not really acknowledging that women cheat, nor, IIRC, that cuckoldry is surprisingly common etc. It is a bit too fluffy and feely-goody in parts, but the general gist of it is good. The trick is to be aware of reality, harsh though it is, but to conquer the initial ill feelings from that awareness. A lot of those il…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 09:48 PM
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You are shooting yourself in the foot by expecting to find a woman who is already aware of the entitlement gap and all that. They do exist, but are exceedingly rare. Women are followers. They follow the trends in society, and they follow powerful men, specifically the men they percieve to be to most influential and powerful ones in their lives. They cannot help it. It is part of what they are. Women in general aren't interested in understanding things. Not like men are anyways. No, women are cre…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 06:45 PM
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Some of the sweetest girls I ever met cheated. With me. Some of the lovliest girls I ever met did some really callous branch swinging away from their nice guy provider boyfriends, either because they found "better prospects" or because unhaaaaappiness. Currently, at least one of my plates is cheating on her boyfriend with me. You can always trust women to be women. They will act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:41 AM
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Had similar resistance some months ago. The girl tried to friend zone me ("can't we just be friends?"), which I ignored completely. I continued challenging and pushing her limits. Eventually she sort of panicked and got angry, accusing me of not respecting her feelings etc. Meh. I played it cool, didn't respond to what she said and upped and left. Then I ignored the girl completely. No contact what so ever. After about 6-7 days she came back, and behaved like her little episode didn't happen. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:47 PM
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I wonder what the reaction would've been if the inventor had been good looking.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 03:47 PM
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Read up on female sexual fluidity. It's been discussed here lots of times. My take on it; seducing a "lesbian" is similar to seducing a girl who's in a relationship with which she is mostly (but not completely) happy: It's not overly difficult to get the flirting, touching and making out going, but the last minute resistance can be epic, unless she is drunk or in a very emotional/aroused state. Takes a little bit of finesse, decent timing and most of all well calibrated sexual aggression.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:28 PM
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Isolate and escalate. Stop over thinking so much.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 02:10 AM
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Most stanky vj's I've encountered belonged to either somewhat chubby girls (I don't do fat girls), especially those with untrimmed pubes that haven't showered properly, or girls with yeast infections. The one's with yeast infections are the worst. Think old cheese and rotten shrimp. Don't stick yer dick in those, even with a condom, since it's really infectious. If you're unlucky, you can get a yeast infection in your urethra, and not just on yer dickskin/glans. That shit really fucking hurts. N…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 11:52 PM
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Can she trusted? No.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 10:07 AM
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Me and my best friend are alpha as fuck. We are allies and wingmen to each other in the pussy slaying business. We defuse cockblocks for each other, and we do not cramp each other's style. We DHV each other, and we give each other constructive criticism on pretty much everything. Just two weeks ago or so, I wasn't on top of my game, and he assisted me with a figurative "push" in the right direction, and that turned out very nicely. I've done the same for him. Your "friend" is an ass.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 08:29 PM
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So yeah. I think for me the asking is unconscious, but in the moments before he answers it becomes conscious. It's for women and shit testing as it is for men and looking at women's asses; it's usually done on autopilot. It might be deliberate, but usually it only enters the consciousness proper after the fact; "Oh, that's a nice ass" / "haha, he could've bungled that, but his wit makes me feel good".
/r/TheRedPill13/10/13 12:50 PM
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You can't fake that level of stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 05:35 AM
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True dat. I drive fuckloads in my line of work, and the most dangerous drivers I see on the road are women, period. Also, that bullshit feminiats say about men being over representated in car crashes and accidents is just that, bullshit. It's only true on a per driver basis when not adjusted for the fact that men drive loads more than women. When that is taken into account, as it must be, women are the obvious special needs kids of traffic.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 10:32 AM
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I find that something similar applies to most of my life. Periodically, I focus almost esclusivelly on something, and then I reach a point where I feel that I need to focus on something else. One period, I might focus on work. The next I might focus on plates, and yet the next I might go hardcore in the gym. This especially applies to when I'm working on changing myself. That shit takes energy and discipline. Last year, I focused 7 months on getting really buff in the gym, and then I hit some so…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 09:08 PM
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What girls say isn't something anyone in their right mind would take seriously. What girls consciously "want" and "like", is rarely, if ever, what they subconsciously desire and need.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 04:12 PM
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Wall of text. Post a summary. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 04:03 PM
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I like it! Never given a safeword to a girl the first time I fucked her... Gotta try this!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:04 AM
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Bux refers to investment. I can be money, yes, but also time and emotions. You're giving her boyfriend services (emotional support) for free. Just... Stop. FFS...
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:53 PM
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Say what?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:32 PM
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See the bit about Quick 'n dirty and the bit about not being a fucking idiot. I'm not going to write a damn essay where every angle and caveat is covered when the basics suffice.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:31 PM
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Last minute resistance.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 10:27 PM
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1/1750 is men only. 1/9300 is both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 08:54 PM
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that risk is simply unacceptable. Since most here seem to be from the US, let's put the numbers in perspective using US statistics on traffic injuries and deaths I just dredged up. Quick 'n dirty: In 2012, about 1 in 3500 people in the US get reported for rape.' Assuming all the accused are men, that's 1 in 1750. 2010, 1 in 140 Americans got injured in traffic, and 1 in 9300 got killed in traffic. Do you avoid driving because the risk is unacceptable? If you do drive, do you drive way too fast i…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 04:56 PM
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I'm not saying one should be an idiot when it comes to sex. Assange, mentioned earlier in the thread, was an idiot because he sexed a feminist. That's just stupid. You have to filter away the most insane ones. However. First off, trying to filter away all insane chicks is an exercise in futility, because any objective standard, all women are more or less insane. Second, if she's in your fucking bed, she is down to fuck unless you screw up royally, and screwing up royally at this stage tends to c…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 03:50 PM
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Whaddya want? "Enthusiastic consent"? The same shit feminists are saying to their future beta bux? Look, if you want to get laid, you're going to have to deal with LMR a lot of the time. That's just the way it works. Girls aren't guys. Besides, if you're sufficiently alpha, and manage to deal with LMR successfully, you increase the likelihood of the girl actually liking you, by which I mean that you reduce her "regret"; the word "rape" is so denatured today that it also means "the girls regrets …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 03:18 PM
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I'm about 30 seconds away from just leaving when she has the gall to start laughing at how angry I am You've learned how to deal with LMR of that type now, right? For those who haven't, here's a basic strategy. When certain it's not real, try to push through. For example, make it difficult for her to talk by kissing her more intensly. When uncertain, or if it's appropriate to the type of LMR she's putting up, withdraw attention, and stay fucking cool. Do not get angry. She'll come right back at …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 01:43 PM
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What a useless whore. I feel sorry for her future beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 05:32 PM
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Don't talk about red pill with a woman who seems secure enough to talk about it. You will lose and look like an asshole. You're doing it wrong and your frame is wrong. First off, hold off discussing with chicks and complete blue pills until you're certain you've pegged the basics and more. Even after that, you only "discuss" with those who are receptive, or who you want to piss off. Only do it if you stand to gain from it. Has anyone else met someone and you were trying to justify red pill? Wher…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 10:31 AM
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Dancing is an excellent excellent skill to pick up even if you are still at the beginning stages! I tell girls I'm taking salsa dance classes and they light up (its DHV and they get hot for a guy that can dance). This cannot be understated. There are ways to dance at a club that don't just involve grinding. Of course. If you're a competent dancer, you don't start grinding right off the bat. You focus on having a good time and the girl is lucky to be part of that. You do moves that you want, and …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 03:20 PM
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Consider the meaning of try-hard. A person usually of little talent who tries hard, especially through imitation, to succeed, usually to gain fame or popularity. If you think you know a skill and portray yourself as a bigshot at it, despite no prior experience or knowledge on the subject, you're a try-hard. If you actually have devoted time and energy towards learning that same skill, you're not a try-hard. You may still be a learner, but you're not a try-hard. A try-hard is arrogant and has an …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 12:33 AM
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That's converted from kilograms, but I think rogue sells 0,5 lbs plates. Smallest plates i've got are 250grams, and that's roughly 0.5 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 04:05 PM
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okay... What about the street dance course my university is offering? Isn't that more, euh, relevant than salsa? Street dance is solo, and it's good in contexts where u solo dance, but the carry over from couples dances to solo dances is greater than one might think. Couples dancing lets you get closer too. It's another mindset. Besides, teaching a girl to dance up close is a major DHV.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 02:57 PM
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This may be a dumb question, but at what age is it too late to start learning dancing? I'm 25 and I feel like I may be getting tired of clubbing in a few years. So it might be worthwhile in the short term, but in the long term, maybe not as much? I'm 29. When I get tired of clubbing, dance events will be even more attractive, because those aren't like clubbing. Rarely met rowdy or drunk people at those. I know 50 y/o guys who dance the same stuff I do, and they're goooood. Young chicks love them…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 10:55 AM
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Easier to flirt and kiss without, but glasses work too. I use glasses normally, but use lenses when I go out, do martial arts, or dance.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 10:39 AM
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The girls who attend dance events tend to be way fitter than average chicks. The average age of those chicks in my area is about 18-25.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 12:45 AM
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It's playful banter. The frame I set by saying stuff like that is that I DGAF and that I'm dominant enough to belittle her (albeit in a playful way). I love doing that, and coincidentally, most chicks love it when I do that too. I call one of my girlfriends (loosely translated) "pervbaby", and she loves it. She's even started calling me "pervdaddy", and I didn't have to prompt her to do so or anything. (Worth noting here is that I didn't think about or plan the daddy meanie bit. In fact, I didn'…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 12:40 AM
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I did say Daddy, not my name. And my voice is pretty deep. Add unflinching eye contact on top of that, and you've got a girlie who feels small.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 12:29 AM
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Depends on what venues you have availible and/or want to use, and how much time you're prepared to spend learning it. For contemporary western music, like most electronic music, pop, hip hop, etc, I'd say West Coast Swing (1)(2)(3) for couples dancing and Dance Hall for solo dancing. For anything latin, I'd say start with Bachata (1)(2) and/or Salsa (1)(2). You can dance either to anything with a 4 or 8 beat rythm, even stuff like Trance and Goa. If you want to learn something unusal which is re…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 11:53 PM
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My deadlift 1RM is at 396lbs, so that one is pretty much covered.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:26 PM
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It's very good to find a steady dance partner, but when you attend courses, at beginner and intermediate levels, you don't need one, because you rotate couples every five minutes or so.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:09 PM
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Yeah, I did. It sounds cheesy, but I meant every word of it, and IMO that's key. What you say doesn't have to be perfect. If you are congruent it'll usually work out.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:07 PM
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Salsa is a good bet. It can be very casual or very formal.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:04 PM
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Jesus fuck, I hate this notion of trying to impress women like they deserve it or some shit. I don't want the approval of a women, I only want to be respected by them... I understand this, but the hard fact of it all is that if you want women in your life that play to your tune, you're going to have to entertain them or impress them in some way. Lets reverse the proposition: Learning to dance brings value to your life. It's a fun skill, and it's good for your health. Attracting women is an unavo…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 03:22 PM
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By not dancing, you're denying yourself a major DHV. You decrease your opportunities and make it easier for guys who do dance to get the prettiest girls, and mark my words, the prettiest girls are almost always hot for guys who dance well. But if you don't want to, whatever. As long as you're aware that you're missing out on something.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 02:51 PM
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"A glass ceiling still does exist in Australia. We're told it doesn't, but that's a nonsense. It does exist," Buttrose told ABC Radio." Have the retards already forgotten about Julia Gillard, the previous prime minister? Not that she was memorable for anything good, but wtf...
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 12:00 PM
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Check out Elliot Hulse on youtube. That guy knows what he's talking about.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 11:25 PM
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I'm diagnosed with schizotypal personality disorder Ah, I can see how that could have certain consequences for one's life. ...Danish... Ah, a neighbor! I'm Swedish. I was tested for almost everything back in school, but not ADHD, it wasn't a big thing like it is today (I was even tested for mental retardation, but the test showed an IQ of 140). It's interesting that a lot of systemic neurological conditions often seem to coencide with either very low IQ or very high IQ. As for myself, my IQ is c…
/r/askTRP14/09/13 10:59 PM
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The key, obviously, is to get one's priorities straight. I care about what happens to me. I care about what I do. I care about what I think about myself. I care if I live or die. I don't, however, care about what people think about me, and I don't care about what others think about what I think about myself. I also don't care about what others think about what I do... I don't give a fuck if girls think I'm an asshole, and I don't care if people think my opinions are too extreme. But! I don't do …
/r/askTRP14/09/13 09:23 PM
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Stopped putting women on pedestals Stopped giving that much of a fuck about shit I don't really care about in general, and shit I can't affect in particular Stopped taking shit I don't need to take, and the shit I feel I need to take has decreased enormously Started being more selfish Started taking responsibility for myself instead of blaming others for shit that only I can affect
/r/askTRP14/09/13 07:17 PM
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I wish my father had taught me that when I was young, but I've since learned the hard way that women tend to react favorably, though far from always instantaneously, to being put in their places when they get out of line. I made a post in TRP about what a woman on EP wrote regarding this subject. Here are the most relevant quotes: I WANT to win this argument discussion. I NEED to see you’ll stick to your guns. I WANT you to pretend you didn’t see me roll my eyes. I NEED you to not put up with it…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/13 06:55 PM
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15 in Sweden.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 11:00 AM
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Women want this, to be considered an asset and to be valued this way I would rather say that most women want to "complete" their man and to be indispensable to him etc, and most women seem to act upon that want. However, they need to not be indispensable. If they get what they want, they will be oh so unhappy and unsatisfied, because they're not getting what they need. It's kind of like someone who eats doughnuts, baklava and french fries every day for years and years and doesn't get fat, but wh…
/r/askTRP12/09/13 11:42 PM
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"Oh, well let me explain it to you." I'm curious; how did she react?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 09:34 PM
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If one is new at this, working on solving one's most critical issues, one at a time, before focusing on game, may be the way to go for many. I find that one tends to plateau periodically if one focus on any one thing for too long. At the same time, it isn't worth it to dilute one's attention to much, since that detracts from the quality of one's achievements and improvements. The "cycles of developing" is an apt analogy for how I did it. My cycles tend to be 2-3 months, and I tend to have one pr…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 02:53 PM
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The way that love feels is probably not the way you expected love to feel before you took the pill, though. Indeed. Blue pill love is, if I remember correctly, along the lines of omg-she-is-so-great-and-pretty-and-sexy-and-I-neeeeeeed-her-for-some-reason-which-I-can't-quite-put-my-finger-on-or-vocalize... Hazy memory there, so correct me if I'm wrong. Red Pill love is more along the lines of "Mmmm, this particular girl is not only cute, she adds value to my life too. Good girl..." The difference…
/r/askTRP11/09/13 10:07 PM
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I find that since I stopped worrying about how others view me, I've made a lot of new friends that share my outlook. Back when I was a bit shy, and worried about upsetting others, I had friends who were equally worried. Now, the crowd I associate with is a lot more outgoing and a lot less sensitive. In other words, it's more masculine. We talk enormous amounts of shit, but our discussions have substance. We rib each other constantly, but it's done with good humour. If someone has diverging opini…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 06:59 PM
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You were being a whiny bitch and your "argumentation" consisted of shaming tactics. Of course you're going to get banned.
/r/askTRP09/09/13 12:19 AM
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If you want to really go of the deep end, check out r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide. It's mind numbing.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 02:41 PM
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Yeah. There are several models for that type of relationship. TiH is one of the more known ones.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 02:36 PM
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It's one of my favorite movies :)
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 02:35 PM
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Like that girl mentioned in my post about not taking women seriously: I WANT to win this argument discussion. I NEED to see you’ll stick to your guns. I WANT you to back down when you’ve made tears well up. I NEED you to never never never back down. I WANT to hide any tears from you. I NEED you to be strong enough to face those tears and push on through. I NEED for you to be the only man in my life that knows you can cause the tears AND wipe them away. [...] I NEED you to keep me from walking aw…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 02:21 PM
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I can't remember cuming from a "regular" bj. Add deepthroat and enough saliva to make a mess though... Girls tend to be afraid of choking and of making a mess, which is exactly the wrong mindset when it comes go pleasing me.
/r/askTRP06/09/13 01:30 PM
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Women are trainable, but as with all training, maintenance is needed. Women are little recidivists. Also, they're are so innately insecure that they will always test you.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 02:35 PM
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If you give a woman equality, she will take supremacy. Even the sweetest girls I know that are in "equal" relationships are unhaaaaapy and looking to monkeybranch. They have no respect for their bfs and totally run the show.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 02:26 PM
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I'm referring to the male flair. Doesn't work for me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 11:40 PM
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How does one get that flair? Ticking the tick box in the side bar does nothing for me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 11:13 PM
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I'm pretty sure I didn't invent it. Been using it for a while. And yeah, you interpreted the meaning correctly.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 09:57 PM
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I was just about to say the same thing. It's actually encouraging.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 09:55 PM
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Smart girl. I mean it. Also, like dirty_daves_grundle says, you're making your father and future husband very happy. It's impossible to understate this. My single worst nightmare is to have daughters that turn into sluts, and I know for a fact that most men share this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 09:49 PM
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I actually like this typo. It's like "frivolous + divorce". Wasn't a typo :) Now it's easy and often largely without consequence. For the woman, yes. Negative ones at least. I actually think this is better flaired as red pill example rather than theory I was a bit ambivalent about it, but I believe you're correct. I think it's a good post Thank you
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 09:23 PM
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Very true. If you tries to convince a woman that one is right, you lose, since that is essentially the same as telling her that her opinion matters to you (edit: and in her subconscious, she interprets that as you considering her at least your equal, possibly even your superior, and women as a rule don't respect men that are below them in status). While I think it may be suitable to let her voice her opinion on occasion, if she doesn't present it in a submissive manner, or if she starts bitching…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 09:18 PM
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aaaaand out come the titties. Most women have little else. I sincerely wonder whether these women have any idea what they're protesting. Of course they don't. Women are reactive and responsive. These women are doing nothing other than following that which they perceive as the most powerful authority around. Whether that is the consensus in politics and media, religious figureheads, their daddies or their husbands/boyfriends/whatever, makes little difference. What the message is, is irrelevant. T…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 06:49 PM
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He says: These girls are weak,” he says in the film. They don’t have the strength of character. They don’t even have the desire to be strong. Instead, they show submissiveness, spinelessness, lack of punctuality, and many other factors which prevent them from becoming political activists. These are qualities which it was essential to teach them. She says: We are psychologically dependent on him [...] I say: Girls attaching themselves to an asshole alpha, becoming emotionally dependent and obeyin…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 06:36 PM
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I could've saved shitload of time if I had just used terms we use here to write that message. Tl;dr: Alpha fucks, beta bux Askmen is filled with blue pills though, and they need it spelled out for them in detail. Good post though.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 05:01 PM
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They crave the cock more, but that doesn't mean they will get it. They don't get quality cock served on plate any more. Their needs go unfulfilled in a way it hasn't since they gave up their virginities to the cool kid. And the need changes nature too. They needed sex for validation and to scratch the itch when younger; now they need it to breed while there is still time for their mostly shrivelled gonads, and to purchase safety and provision.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 11:33 AM
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I have an american friend who visited my country some time ago. He said stuff like "oh damn that chick i so hot" about many many chicks, even ones about whom my opinions were more along the lines of "Meh. Too chubby. Average at best. Serviceable dick humidor in a pinch perhaps". The funny thing is that even some of my blue pill friends agreed with me, and only my most miserable bp beta friends agreed with him. The chicks I consider hot made him make funny sounds. Anecdotal, but meh.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 12:00 AM
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There are four men in the room with me looking at the same photo and three of them stated the same opinion I did, but you are right that I shouldn't have answered with an opinion. The answer to your question is no. There are millions of tiny girls in America, myself included. The people commenting on the photo just have different preferences than you. I didn't ask a question. Also, look at the edit I made in my first reply.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 11:39 PM
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She is obviously not tiny but she is extremely pretty and her body is not at all unpleasant even if you don't like bigger girls. I have dozens of female friends who are smaller, but being skinny doesn't mean they are automatically attractive. Everyone likes something different, and every country has tons of variation. This is not an "American" problem. (American female speaking) Women do not get to decide what is attractive in women, any more than men get to decide what is attractive in men. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 11:22 PM
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There is a whiff of troll around here somewhere...
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 08:43 PM
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Beta tears in a phial... Have an upvote. Also, a pimp-five.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 10:29 AM
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Get her a slutty school girl dress or something like that. 30usd or something. That way she'll be happy, horny, and u benefit too. Imho it's pretty alpha as far as real gifts go. Also buy some butt-lube. Edit: If u wanna spoil her, get a jeweled buttplug and make her wear it during the day. Betas are too chicken for that sort of stuff.
/r/askTRP31/08/13 10:23 AM
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This one is too juicy. It's probably a troll, but I've seen similar shit irl, so I'm on the fence about the veracity of this one. I definitely care about him. He is an amazing provider and works very hard to bring home the paycheck. Beta bux... He is clearly with me for a reason. And that reason is that he loves me to death. Dat luv... My boyfriend is in absolute love with me, he has no experience with women so he should be grateful I've stuck around so long. He will have to work his "hard" job …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 08:48 AM
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Learning to dance 101 Step 1: Go to beginner's workshops for lots of different dance styles. I recommend trying Salsa, Bachata, Kizomba, Tango, East Coast Swing, Dance Hall and Foxtrot. Step 2: Sign up for a beginner's course in one of the dance styles. I recommend a style for couples that is newbie friendly and fairly versatile, for example Bachata or East Coast Swing. Tango is probably the most difficult, but you'll learn the mindset you need to lead a dance very well, and your dance body lang…
/r/askTRP29/08/13 10:34 PM
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TL;DR: Dear VA: You're being a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 09:48 PM
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Girl: "How old are you?" Me: "Old enough to be your daddeh" Girl: "So you're what, like 40?" Me: "Only 40? You little flatterer" Or something along those lines. Works well for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/13 08:43 AM
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Aren't they already?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 09:58 AM
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Yes, you're blue pilling. You're taking shit and allowing crappy behavior that no man with self-respect would.
/r/askTRP23/08/13 11:43 AM
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I get this all the time. I just agree and amplify by chuckling a bit and saying something like that I have an image to uphold, or that I've worked very hard to become loud and obnoxious. 9/10 times it works just fine. Don't ever apologise or say you're sorry to hear that though. That would be insta fail.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 06:31 AM
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Girl: "I'm not that kind of girl" You 1: Ignore You 2: If she stops you during physical activities saying that, look up how to deal with last minute resistance. My favorite is to stop everything and freeze her out/ignore her. Satisifies her need for a non-needy male, as well as her anti slut defence algorithm. You 3: "Totally." You 4: "Right." <- Use with caution. Has to be delivered completely deadpan; backfires if not. If your body language and facial expression isn't congruent with your tone,…
/r/askTRP21/08/13 08:33 PM
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The easiest way to increase your proficiency and saying funny/smart stuff is to just talk to people. Go out of your way to find new people who say those sorts of things. Pay attention to stuff they say that you find funny, and then adapt them to your own needs and your own style. You're not supposed to just copy others... Just find the kernel of the funny stuff. It's kind of like building a library at first, and then reducing it to algorithms and concepts. Also, watch stand up comedy on youtube.
/r/askTRP21/08/13 07:53 PM
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Good job! Keep at it. I used to be really fat too. I've lost literally more than 1/3 total weight, and added slabs of muscle. I fucking love it. Still got about 10lbs to go before I'm exactly where I want to be, but that's almost nothing compared to what I've already gotten rid of/converted to muscle. You know you've accomplished something awesome when you've gone from being completely ignored by normal chicks and frowned upon by pretty chicks, to being ogled. Especially sneaky girls go out of t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 10:16 PM
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Careful, I'd say that this analogy smells of misogyny. You're either new to TRP, or you're a concern troll. This isn't a space for sensitive people. No one here cares if something "smells of misogyny", especially not if it's a simple analogy. That fact that you're concerned about it says more about you than the post you commented on.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 04:22 PM
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The book "Sex God Method" has heaps of good ideas on dirty talk and psychological stimulation of women.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 03:49 PM
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I have observed several behaviors in my professional life that speaks against having women in leading positions: They rarely respect those who are lower than them in the hierarchy. Almost all female bosses I've had have been totally uncompromising with their subordinates, and are prone to being snide bitches. They question everything and are completely closed to new ideas IF said ideas come from those who are lower in the corporate hierarchy, especially men. I've rarely experienced such behavior…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:05 PM
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The thought of inflicting real harm on a woman, be it physical or psychological, is a major turn off to me. Consensual rape play is another matter though. Being raped myself? Never fantasized about that, and the thought pisses me off to no end.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 03:21 PM
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Worry less about being a better woman, and more about being a better person. I think the truth is that men and woman have some inherent differences, but the things that make you a good person are not dependent on gender. /u/Duppey's got some good advice, but just straight up be a good person. I'd rather suggest trying to become good at being a woman. Subtle distinction perhaps, but an important one.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 11:25 AM
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Quick summary please.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 11:15 AM
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I'd say you're a concern troll, and that you're uninformed about how healthy power exchange relationships work. There is a fine line between playful swatting for breaking arbitrary rules and abusive hitting for breaking arbitrary rules. What makes you think the rules in healthy power exchange relationships are arbitrary? If they are, you're doing it wrong. Do you also think the subbie never has any say in what the rules are? Heard of "safe, sane and consensual"? If you really do study psychology…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 12:08 AM
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In fact, my husband will say, "If you are bad, then no spankings!" What I immediately thought when I read the bit above: "Good girls get spanked. Bad girls get punished. "
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/13 11:35 PM
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Going to look at your qustions in a bit, but a good place to begin is here: Married man sex life Quick summary of the views espoused there: Beta is ok in a relationship IF it is properly balanced by Alpha. Buy the book(s) that dude sells. I don't agree with everything, but most of it is good stuff, especially for those who feel lost about their relationships with women. Further reading: No more Mr Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:22 PM
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Top comment in cuckold thread paints men willing to let their SOs cheat as "secure." Certain prominent PUAs do it too. I view it as bending backwards to accommodate women. It's kind of like a post I saw where a guy asked what others think about letting their girlfriends butt fuck them with strapons, because he felt it was wrong and not for him. The majority of posters said something to the effect of that he should let her do it and that he was just being backwards and insecure about it... Had a …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 06:00 PM
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Tried it a few times. They hamsterize it every damn time. Examples of responses I've gotten: Flat out denial of relevance: "No, it's completely different!" and when asked why, they usually continue like broken records saying something along the lines of "It just is!" or "There is nothing similar between the examples you use!". Hyper solipsism emotion vomiting aka appeal to emotion: "I feel blah blah blah" Hyper solipsism analogy mode aka red herring: "Once when blah and that made me feel blaaah"…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:07 PM
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Aye. That's exactly how I overcame social phobia. Not the "I'm a bit anxious when I meet new people, and pretty girls make me lose my ability to formulate coherent sentances"-kind, I mean the real kind. It's become part of who I am. Non-girl related example: Today, when I went to the gym, a really beefy body builder with tats all over, including in his face, was hogging the power rack. I approached him and asked him when he was done etc (which is a totally legit thing to ask about at a gym), bla…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 08:07 PM
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This sort of stuff used to shock me. I couldn't believe it. Nowadays... Mildly surprised at the most. The man deserves a pimp five for that pull.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 08:33 PM
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Desensitize yourself to it over time using smaller steps. Don't throw yourself into the fire right away. Start small. For example, chat up waitresses and such, and attend house parties where you know almost everyone save for just a few. Chat with the girls you don't know, and keep it light. Remember, you're not trying to pick them up, you're practicing. This is important, because it gives you a sense of outcome independence. Over time, you'll get more comfortable doing it in new environments and…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 08:14 PM
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Holding the view that sluts are automatically horrible people and that they have no value as human beings would be slut shaming. Not wanting to commit to sluts isn't however, and seems to one of the most commonly held opinions regarding them on TRP. Besides, even if we disregard the fact that men in general have an instinctual aversion towards the thought of committing to a slut, there are many many good reasons to not engage in a relationship with one. This has been covered many times on TRP. O…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 08:07 PM
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A woman tried to slap me once. Blocked her slap, and just stared her down. She looked really tiny.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 07:27 PM
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I can relate. It seems to me that if they find me attractive, they treat me well. If they're also interested in me, they treat me really well. However, I've learned that hell hath no fury as a boss-woman scorned. I don't shit where I eat, but apparently that justified her trying to make me eat her shit... Had the positions been reversed, I would have lost my job in a harassment lawsuit.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 07:23 PM
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Spot on. Also, if you're at least somewhat angular in your face, a shaved head definitely accentuates it. If you've got that kind of face, you can even look dangerous. Every few years, I shave my head during summer. I go from looking sharp and proper, to sharp, proper and dangerous... I'm told that a friend of a friend that I'd only met once, commented that I look like someone "you don't want to fuck with", and that's despite me wearing proper pants and a dress shirt at the time he and I met.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:51 PM
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Cocky smile with raised eyebrow that says you don't give a fuck and that you are wise to her tricks Cocky tone that tells her it didn't actually hurt, and that her attempt to get your attention (regardless of that being the case or not) was childish in a cute but stupid way.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:41 PM
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Downgrade to a cheaper venue then. If you want to get laid fast and easy, aim for slightly sleazier establishments. The women there won't be as pretty, but if your priority is to get laid, then it'll work in your favor. I remember the first time I went to the sleaziest bar/club in the city I currently live in. I stood out from the crowd by wearing well fitting clothes that were colorful, and by not being shitfaced drunk. I also, unintentionally, had an accessory that worked as a peacocking item.…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:28 PM
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My bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 12:00 AM
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If one reveals oneself to others, and they don't respect one's views and choices, it hurts, especially if one revealed oneself in good faith. This is normal. In time, you'll learn to interdict or ignore those words and opinions that don't add value to your life. They can talk, but you will be unmoved. You simply won't care. That's part of developing integrity, in the sense of being sound and whole. Instead, you'll filter out that which is useful, and adapt it to the conditions of your own existe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 11:55 PM
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Are gay men welcome here? Advice for integrating being alpha with being gay?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 10:32 PM
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Cut it. Shaving makes you look the youngest, but cutting really short (machine short) is acceptable if you're older or haven't got a bald top. I had a neighbor who was 19 when he was almost completely bald. He looked old and sickly with his remaining short at normal length. When he shaved it off, he looked 19 again, but more with more gravitas.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:43 PM
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You and your mate are not accepting The Narrative™ and going your own way. Most people fear and resent that. It's not always a conscious conclusion on their part, but you're disturbing the surface of the pond, ruining their circles, and making them question their own choices. You're a threat to their world view. Also, jealousy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 09:34 PM
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The celibacy thing will not directly increase your value as a mate as far as I'm concerned. However... It will likely do you a world of good, and can indirectly increase your value as a mate and as a human being. Why? It'll teach you self discipline. It'll force you to use your time for things that can be as productive as you want them to be, such as learning skills, developing hobbies and making friends with people whom you think might have good influence on you. It'll teach you to take care of…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 09:26 PM
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Damn. Don Draper is badass. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlOSdRMSG_k http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W79t5qxKafw Edit: Can you spot the amusing analogy in the second clip? Edit: Altered phrasing.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 06:12 PM
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So call it water pipe.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 05:56 PM
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ok, i agree a bit there, i wasnt thinking of men--but i think it IS a doormat when MEN do it, but is what youre SUPPOSED to do when women do it The caveats here are "getting disproportionately little (if anything) back" and "taken to irrational/stupid and harmful levels" Getting nothing back and being emotionally drained/harmed is hardly healthy, and surely you don't propose that women are supposed to be harmed in relationships. Sure, most women seem to have a bit of a masochistic streak, and I …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 04:32 PM
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I'd rather define a doormat as a person who willingly sacrifices his or her needs and/or wellbeing for a someone (not necessarily a mate) while getting disproportionately little (if anything) back. Someone who allows him or herself to be used. I know fuckloads of blue pill beta men who are doormats. Addendum; It's essentially selflessness taken to irrational/stupid and harmful levels.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 02:16 PM
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I seem to have placed my initial comment in the wrong thread. The glories of multitabbing...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 01:49 PM
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A. Your husband is only 24. In men, the empathetic areas of the brain haven't fully developed at his age. FTFY. Besides, the usual age cited for the prefrontal cortex to be fully developed is 25ish. Not a whole lot of difference between 24 and 25. If you have sources that support 26-30 in men specifically though, that aren't feminist hearsay, I'd love to see them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 08:14 AM
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I'm a man, but I can relate with the difficulties of coping with the pill and the implications of it. Something I can say about mental strategy is that when going gets tough and the work ahead seems insurmountable, it helps having tangible goals. "I'm not as good as I thought I was" is a painful realisation, but if you have tangible goals and a sound plan of reaching them, you can turn the pain into motivation, nay, hunger. How do you set goals? First you determine a problem, a need, or a desire…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 07:18 AM
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It's somewhat amusing when random internet people come here and throw rants. They must think TRP gives a damn about them and their opinions. Talk about inflated egos.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:10 AM
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Stoya is damn hot, and James Deen is damn sex god.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:31 PM
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Mothers have forgotten that they aren't raising subordinates when they have boys. Well, alpha fathers remind them on a daily basis, but how often are average fathers allow by society to keep his wife in line. The ones that manage their women do so without caring about consequence. It used to be assumed that the males would outrank their mother once they were of age. This built early strong masculine frames in boys. I just need to get to work on that time machine, but distractions. The truth is s…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:27 PM
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Some dude on the internet is angry and vengeful for some reason. The world cares. Also, IBTL.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:23 PM
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In the time before writing, there were no good, steady jobs etc. People barely had clothes, and certainly not Bugattis and multi million dollar accounts. Alpha is all in attitude, behavior and social status, which may or may not be facilitated by things such as having a good job etc. If you've got everything material, you can still be beta as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:20 PM
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Indeed. While the occasional woman is welcome if she is suitably RP already, this is a male space, and the "tone" and "attitude" here is most often way too harsh for the average woman to bear. If a woman can handle it and doesn't try to change it to suit her usually more sensitive tastes more, she can stay.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:10 PM
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They didn't wear protection, her reasoning that she's "allergic to latex" Which is total bullshit. Even if she is allergic to latex, there are non-latex condoms. Which reminds me that I need to refill my non-latex condom stockpile. Levels are getting low...
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 02:41 PM
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The women have their own RP sub: r/RedPillWomen
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 02:27 PM
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Depends upon the context and the intent of what you say. Phrasing is important too of course. Give examples please.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 12:09 PM
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Good stuff... IMHO, it's sort of a rite of passage to stand up to your parents, and the RP extension of that could conceivably be to to put your mother in her place and make it clear to her that she can't control you any more, and if possible even make her respect you. My mother isn't a total bitch, but like most women her behavior will deteriorate if you allow it to do so. Since I took the pill, I try to nip it in the bud. I can't remember the last time she went full bitch mode on me. Can't rem…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 12:04 PM
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(3) fair and reasonable when executed. That seems really really arbitrary.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:05 AM
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Not by itself, that has to do with the personality of the person. Riiight, everyone's a unique little snowflake, and past behavior is useless when it comes to predicting future behavior. Past is past and all... In case you don't get it, I'm being sarcastic. Here's a clue for you: Only bigots believe no exceptions are possible, but only idiots believe everyone is an exception. How? What value? If you don't have an inkling after what I wrote, further explanation will do nothing. I mistook you for …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 12:59 AM
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Amen.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:26 PM
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The so called "double standard" is not that. For something to be a double standard, those it applies to must have identical premises and preconditions. This is not the case with male-female sexual interaction. There are, however, two different standards. Women hold the "sex card", and men hold the "commitment card". Women can get sex VERY easily, but if they indulge and don't hold onto their sex card, they devalue it, not to mention that it increases the likelihood of future divorce. Most men ca…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:19 PM
0

Dear. God. Eyes. Must. Burn. Them.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:07 PM
2

I know a lot of women who have most definitely cheated, but I know no women whom I could say with any degree of certainty has never cheated. It's not like they go around wearing signs saying "I'm a cheating bitch". Chicks tend to value their reputations.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:05 PM
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If/when he "scores" a post-wall carousel rider, I'm willing to bet money that she convinces him cuckolding is hot, not to mention that it's her "right" as a "womyn"...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 10:57 PM
1

I demand the best, and I give the best. Fair is fair.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:58 PM
16

In attempting to be attractive to women, a man tries to increase their count of sexual partners. Yet he himself does not desire to commit to women with high sexual partner counts? Is he not creating the very thing he shuns? Is he not destroying the very world he wishes to live in? I consider it weeding out women unsuitable for LTRs. Women have agency (though feminism claims otherwise), and they, just like men, have to bear the consequences of their actions. And there are consequences. The way I …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/13 07:50 PM
2

I have studied philosophy (stand alone courses) and engineering (whole shebang). I currently work in tech and R&D, but I'm going to re-school myself to become a psychologist.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:43 PM
3

IF she took care of all the ground service such as cooking (would require me to train her though, since 99% of young women these days are useless at that), cleaning and laundry, and made herself available for sex whenever I wanted it, and behaved herself (no bitching), and didn't date anyone while living with me (I'm not a fan of sloppy seconds and STDs), and took care of her appearance, then I would be ok with it. If a girl wants me to provide her with boyfriend services, she had better provide…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:40 PM
7

While exceptions may exist, every single man I've ever met who had a spouse who was older than him was certifiably blue pill beta, despite staying fit, having a good job, lifting, being popular and having younger girls chase after him, blah blah. My oldest brother is a prime example, and he got divorce raped big time. Why? He wasn't dominant enough with her, and he accepted too much shit from her. The things mentioned above, staying fit etc, do not make you alpha. You can be famous, ultra fit an…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 04:20 PM
1

You could do an orbital strike and text her something along the lines of: "8pm my place tomorrow, dress sexily" Then you go incommunicado. Only time you respond is if she texts the next day and asks if it's still on, in which case you only respond with a "yeah" or something really short to that effect. When she comes over you just grab her, kiss her, and then fuck her, saying nothing for the first 10 minutes or so. If she flakes you do nothing. Nothing! You let her come to you, and you are not a…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:46 AM
3

Look... Generalization is a missunderstood concept. We need it because that's how we learn about the world. One does well to remember though, that only a bigot thinks no exceptions are possible, but that only idiots thinks everyone is an exception. This has been discussed many many times, and is one of the chief objections from new takers of the red pill. The other objections are usually that the red pill is so cynical towards women, and that it's so nihilist (usually not phrased like that thoug…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 11:32 AM
3

Troll.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 10:49 AM
2

You mention nothing that requires marrige.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 05:28 PM
1

Thanks for this! It seems so far off for me but I am hoping to do better. No problem. It just takes reasonably consistent practice. That's all. Adapt what you do for practice to your goals, and don't pass up on spontaneous social interactions. Look for excuses to be sociable. For example, if you're shopping for clothes, and you see a woman considering something you think she'd look good in, you can comment on that, and it might spark a conversation. Seriously. I do this sort of stuff all the tim…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 03:46 PM
2

Why is it important to you to become an extrovert? I want to be in total control of myself. I want to be able to do whatever I want and not be limited by things like how I recharge my batteries etc. Life is short, and I want to make the most out of it. I want to do more and enjoy more, and that requires me to change certain things about myself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 03:16 PM
2

Mhmm. Had a girlfriend who had been raped by her much older cousin as a child. She asked me to slap her around, make her suck me and then pin her down, choke her and dry fuck her until she cried. She said it felt cathartic to experience helplessness and pain with a safe person whom she knew cared about her. Some would judge her for it, but I won't.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 03:07 PM
2

Conversely some women find that kink helps them in the processing/healing process. I'm aware of that this can be the case, but it's not always so. I've encountered women on both ends on the spectrum; from totally depraved to totally frigid.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:51 PM
1

We'll go to a party and I will mingle and outwardly appear to have a good time... And that's where you're going wrong. Baby steps are what's needed. Desensitization over time. I started out doing things like talking with people at buss stops and on buses, doing small talk with clerks, etc. Then I progressed to meeting my friends' friends and getting to know them, and attending house parties where there were just a few that I didn't already know (1 for every 4-5 I already knew perhaps). And so on…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:49 PM
2

However, your mental state and ability to have a healthy sexual relationship is going to be in question. Yupp. I know from experience that women who were abused in their childhoods tend to be unstable and are prone to having major hangups when it comes to sex. Which sucks for me since it is so important to me, especially since I'm a kinkster. I would bring it up when things start to get serious but before they get too serious. He needs to know what happened and how you are handling it now. Yupp.…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:34 PM
1

To me, it's been about three things really: Imagining myself as the person I want to be Consciously altering my behaviour to be more in line with what I want to be (Sort of "faking it until I make it").This takes a keen sense of self-awareness and situational awareness. This requires: Practise practise practise Takes a lot of time. When working on extroversion and sociability, you obviously have to subject yourself to human contact. Why did I do all this? Because I had the need. I used to have s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:25 PM
4

You're experiencing soft dread: Dread and preselection Soft dread
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:18 PM
5

To put a cherry on top, he called my thinking backwards. Ouch.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:07 PM
1

I'm male and I used to be INTJ, but I've worked on my extroversion so much the past ten-fifteen years that I've become an ENTJ. I have access to both mindsets, so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 02:05 PM
4

In the same thread, some posters will express doubt about a woman who claims to have kept her sexual partner number low "Claims" being the operative word. while another would suggest that she is just trying to selfishly use that as leverage to get a higher status guy. If she's lying or bringing nothing else to the table, that's exactly what she's doing. There is rarely any acknowledgement that the woman may have simply done a good thing and resisted this culture of meaningless relationships. Bec…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 01:56 PM
2

See, the 'slut-shaming' double standard is precisely what the problem is. It's not a double standard. Double standard implies identical premises and preconditions for both parties, which just ain't true. It's two different standards. Heaps have been written on this, and I can't be arsed to reiterate. Any claim about what makes a good person should be determined by that person herself You mean "you can't judge me, cuz I think I'm a good person and it's my opinion that matters"? What if you want o…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 01:09 PM
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If she goes, she'll lie and say she didn't cheat on him. Yeah. To be honest, the fact that she's even considering is enough to end it. Because it means that she's bored of his dick. Yeah.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:47 PM
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If he doesn't lay down the law, he's a stupid ass. If she goes anyways and he doesn't dump her, he's a stupid ass.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:03 PM
3

Back in my blue pill days, I remember that with one of my ex gf's, I alternated between treating her with utter disdain (belittling her, insulting her, etc), love (listening to her, comforting her...) and treating her like a dirty sex toy. I wasn't exactlly a paragon of mental health back then (was on anti-depressants and such), so I didn't really give a shit, but damn, despite all the crap I gave her, she still came back for more, each and every time. The lesson didn't sink in until I took the …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:36 AM
3

For some they really want a nuclear family. I'm following my uncle's example in this: He's got a beautiful woman (she's like 45 but can compete with many 30 year olds) and two sons, 21 and 19. She's really submissive to him and adores him. She's constantly doing things for him, and she visibly loves it that way. He doesn't have to ask her to do things, he just tells her what he wants. If he wants steak for dinner, that's what it'll be. If he wants coffee, she can usually tell by just looking at …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 01:14 AM
2

And... The point is?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:51 PM
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I see this all the time. It seems to start at between 26 and 29, but the panic doesn't seem to set in until they hit 30-32, depending on how hot the girl is to begin with. I know a woman who hit the wall at about 25 due to obesity. Now she's 33 and can't get a date to save her life. I know another who's 32, but who's stayed in shape; she starting to realize that she's hit the wall, and seems to have laid of the carousel for the most part to focus on finding a mate... Through internet dating.....…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:47 PM
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Seriously... Why in the name of all that is... Was going to write "holy", but I changed my mind... Why in the name of all that is not retarded do men still agree to become married? I mean, ffs, the writing on the wall is not just legible, it's written in neon with fucking braille underneath it, and the message is played repeatedly through massive speakers in case anyone missed the damn sign!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:19 PM
1

I find it easier to add muscle while lean-ish rather than fatty. Never been completely lean/ripped (yet), but it seems my body works better without much of a belly.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:11 PM
1

Why is this posted here? Smells like spam.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:16 PM
2

It didn't all come at once. Trying to discuss anything with her whether it was about GMO's or politics always led to how she "felt" about the entire issue while she ignored facts. One conversation in particular stands out. She tends to get increasingly hostile as a conversation progresses and she'll start to make personal attacks (ad hominem to the fullest degree). Run of the mill female solipsism. That is why I rarely discuss abstract matters with women any more. Currently, I know only one fema…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 11:27 AM
1

As someone who's been really obese and then lost that overweight and put on slabs of muscle, I concur with the OP. "It's all about game, money, blah blah" is indeed the male equivalent to fat acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 11:16 AM
2

Shouldn't have the "RP example"-flair. "Useless shit"-flair would be more appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:56 AM
0

Yeah. Mom is grandma's only daughter and has 5 brothers. Grandma had a sister and 4 brothers. Dad has a sister, but grandpa had like 6 brothers and no sisters. Me, I've only got brothers. And so on. General ratio of sons/daughters in my familytree is between 2 to 1 and 3 to 1.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 11:16 PM
0

I'm just looking at the family tree. Fuckloads of sons, but very few daughters.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 08:26 PM
2

I'm getting kids. Eventually. Going to catch myself young woman who is preferably virgin when I feel good and ready. She's going to have to have a very strong submissive streak, and she's gotta love kids and the idea of having many of them. I'm talking at least 4. The Y is strong in my family, so I expect to have many sons, though I would be okay with daughters too. They would be raised Red Pill. The boys would learn to be strong and manly in all things, and the girls would learn to be strong in…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 08:09 PM
2

I give my love to life by making the most of it. I'm constantly improving myself and working towards my goals. I intend to share myself and my achievements eventually, by starting a family and by becoming a Red Pill psychologist. (Currently stuck in technical R&D, which I allowed myself to be influenced into choosing by my parents, stupidly...) What makes me feel alive... Learning new things, and my hobbies; dancing, martial arts, sex... The world seems so transparent to me since I took the Red …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 07:56 PM
8

You did read The Misandry Bubble in the sidebar? The Red Pill refers, of course, to the Matrix where you can either take the Red Pill and wake up and see the world as it is without filters that protect you from the pain of harsh truths, or you can take the blue pill and go back believing whatever you want. The Red Pill is about seeking the truth, especially in the context of sexual politics and male-female interactions. The Red Pill does not care about whether or not these truths hurt as fuck, b…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 07:49 PM
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The Duck of Truth has spoken. Heed the words of the Duck of Truth, for to do otherwise is to invite terrible calamity. Edit: The truth of the Duck of Truth is almost as mighty as that of the Chair leg of Truth On a more serious note... While my sense of humor is... Weird... I never seize being amazed by how humorless some most people are. Not only is the duck telling the truth, it is also funny. Cuz it's a duck telling the truth.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 07:04 PM
0

You missed that I used the word "too".
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 11:27 AM
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I realized this after I lost a shitload of excess body fat and packed on muscle. At some point, women started checking me out in not so subtle ways. I mean sure, I probably radiated more confidence and blah blah, but when women you barely know comment on and ask if they can touch your biceps, you kind of realize that there's something else going on too...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 10:47 PM
3

Summary: Let's blame men for everything, including the behavior of women + shaming.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 10:39 PM
4

Well, considering I'm the one who wanted to be in the open relationship... No one here is surprised. and had only been in open relationships before... No one here is surprised. while he'd been in monogamous ones... No one here is surprised. (though felt they were lacking) Riiight.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 09:09 PM
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Run of the mill female solipsism: "Your entire philosophy is wrong because [insert personal anecdote], and [insert hamstering], and it makes me feel [insert emotions]. Also, [insert shaming tactics] and [insert straw man]". Your post is fully 3/4 about you, and that's being generous. You. Not TRP and whatever you have against it. Can you wrap your mind around how self-centered you are?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 09:00 PM
3

In fact, it becomes annoying to have girls bugging you with their "worries" or wondering how you're doing. In the former case, that's what a Mom does; in the latter, if she were putting out, she'd know. I can relate to this. I mean, damn, it's even annoying when my mother bugs me about how I'm doing etc. It annoys me to no end when she tries to "fix" my problems and "problems", even though she has heaps of them herself.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 01:59 PM
7

Troll.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 10:41 AM
6

There are other factors than money and status that vary between individuals, and some are subtle. Looks and fitness are two factors, obviously, but other stuff like smell affects mate choice too. I've heard girls say that they "really liked that guy, but he didn't smell nice". Human mating is complicated and the selection criteria aren't always obvious. Game focuses on what a man as an individual can control, or at the very least affect. The rest is up to circumstance and timing and the targets …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 05:56 PM
7

I've used this. It works.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:11 PM
4

I pictured a dude riding to battle with a gigantic dildo lance.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:09 PM
4

Hoes gonna be hoes.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:06 PM
5

‘I don’t trust you,’ he said, muttering something about women claiming to want a career, but underneath wanting to start a family. I called his bluff and told him there was no way I would want a baby with him, given he didn’t earn any money. Yet the truth was, I had hatched a plan that many will doubtless find shocking. ... I resolved to steal his sperm from him in the middle of the night. Called his bluff ey? More like she's doing the bluffing. Edit: Followed by blame shifting to him. Go hamste…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:02 PM
2

My pleasure!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:58 PM
5

Thanks OP, I needed a good laugh :) I laughed so hard reading this my eyes are all fucked up now.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:57 PM
2

I understood that, and I should have stated that more clearly. I'm just developing the thought a bit. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:54 PM
0

To me, smartness has more to do with actual application of the brainpower you have, than actual intelligence. A person may be quite average in actual intelligence, but high in creativity, out of the box thinking, initiative and independent thought. I work in R&D and I've got a few female colleagues who are both very pretty and intelligent (as in above average IQ), but I wouldn't call any of them smart... I'd rather describe them as naive and conformist thinkers with few original ideas. If they'r…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:49 PM
8

I don't even want to think about all the AFC beta shit I've done. I'm disgusted by those memories. Atleast I now know I was stupid and lacked testicular fortitude. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 09:14 AM
30

Greetings Morpheus.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 11:15 PM
5

Any dichotomy that reflects what's being described works, though the subtexts are different for each one.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 08:48 PM
2

I'm pretty sure.. That was a very bold and assertive statement. Not.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 07:22 PM
7

Can any of you guys imagine going up to your girlfriend and going "Why did you let me skip the gym today?" Not even the most beta men I know would ever even get the idea to blame his GF for not going to the gym. I'm 100% certain of this.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 07:19 PM
2

Region locked.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 06:20 PM
3

She will sometimes, if left to her own devices, do bewilderingly stupid shit ...prevent her from acting against her own self-interest. My model demands that you as a man is in control, and that you as a man stays ahead of the game. So yeah. If you rely entirely on your woman's good sense to guide her actions... That would be stupid and irresponsible.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 05:30 PM
3

Aye, exactly so, and that fact that men on average contribute way more to state coffers than women.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:54 PM
8

Athol Kay uses the metaphor Captain and first officer. I like it too.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:53 PM
3

Praise (Atomic-)Jesus for Schopenhauer ;)
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:52 PM
1

Was that sarcasm?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:47 PM
18

More like children, in the sense that they're dependent. Whether they like it or not, women depend upon men and masculine entities (like the state) for their survival and welfare. You don't let a child rule your life. If you do, things will turn to shit faster than you can say "oh fuck".
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:34 PM
2

Some women are so overwhelmed by life's responsibilities and the expectations put upon them by feminism that they need and crave a firm hand to hold onto, and it's not necessarily related to the age of the woman. They both want and need to be little. They don't feel safe otherwise. They need a "daddy" who can protect them from the world and lead them bodily and emotionally through life. Some of these women want/need it 24/7, while others reserve it for the bedroom. It's really a flavor of submis…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 04:28 PM
4

Also, being fit is attractive in a primal way. This goes for both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 03:59 PM
3

No problem. Bros gotta watch each others' backs. I thought of something when writing my last reply. Made a post about it here.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 03:56 PM
7

It is really hard, but if you feel that you start losing frame, have a line to which you can fall back, like the one I suggested: "You fucked up. It is over, and that's the end of it." Do not reason with her or try to make her see sense. That's giving in to her frame and it validates her point of view. You must do your best to shut off any and all sympathy for her when you do this. She is the one who has wronged. Remember, she is a female. Her mind is more or less locked in solipsism, which mean…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 03:10 PM
3

Tiny example of the positive effects of not asking permission in the context of meeting girls: Yesterday I was out with a new friend meeting some of his friends. I was mostly ignoring the girls and speaking shit with the guys. When I wasn't ignoring the girls, I was mostly teasing them. One of them started trying to get my attention. She got herself a drink and told that it was a "very manly drink", and I just said "I'll be the judge of that" and took the glass from her without asking and had a …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 02:44 PM
8

Dump. Tell her that you know of her breach of fidelity and that it is unacceptable to you. If she tries to hamster you, just say that she fucked up and that she has no right to complain about anything any more due to that. If she continues to hamster, just stay the course and say that she fucked up and that there is nothing more to say. No further justification is needed. Do not validate anything she says which attempts to place the blame on you. Do not react to any emotional outbursts or emotio…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 02:35 PM
1

Dominance trumps dick size for most women. Learn positions that make it feel bigger. Also, get a "Vedge" from Liberator (google it). It's awesome for positions that allow for dicking that feels more for the girl.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:49 AM
1

Been investigating that lately actually. I see potential.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:26 AM
1

No problem bro.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:25 AM
3

I know, I know, I'm a greedy and selfish fucker. Literally ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 10:19 PM
1

I'm stealing this one.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 09:23 PM
5

Heartiste has mentioned the regression thing multiple times. Example: It’s no coincidence that women regress to a child-like demeanor when they are with their lovers. The best of childhood is innocence, joy and carefree vivacity. That is what a good man does for a woman who loves him. A woman who is constitutionally incapable of this girlhood regression is not worth loving. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/03/10/she-wants-you-to-help-her-be-less-independent/ Edit: I love it when women regress…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:44 PM
2

IMHO, the "JK take it" bit was good, but the sorry bit was out of place :) Awesome post though. I love it when women do my dishes.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:42 PM
1

Read it. I like it. The stuff I use from it works really well too.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:34 PM
1

The first time I went animal on a girl, I manhandled her onto her belly, pinned her with my body and a hand on her neck, and stated that "I'm going to make you into my little slut". She whimpered like a little girl, and despite her still being clothed, I could feel her clench. She squirted for the first time that night.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:33 PM
3

I'm not a fetishist. I'm more of a kinkster. I've got ADD. That means I'm very easily bored. Same goes for sexing. As a result, I'm quite creative and open minded when it comes to sex, with some hard limits of course. I only do hetero. I'm never submissive, and I don't do scat or illegal things. I also refuse sharing women with other men. I'm into various flavours of BDSM, like SM, DS, DDLG, bondage, etc etc. I love doing physically creative things, and I especially love going things with women …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:22 PM
3

I was angry too. I've lost most of my youth and childhood, and about half of my adult life, to depressions, social phobia, poor health etc. I was angry as fuck. Then I realized that the vast majority of the people who have affected my life in one way or the other have no clue themselves. What made them fare better than me was a combination of circumstance and bad luck on my part. I could have done things better, and I could have made better choices, this is true, but I didn't have the means and …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:01 PM
3

It gets better. Your feelings are normal. Because I had no role models in life Then choose someone who isn't part of your life. Some fictional character, some famous manly man or whatever. Use that as a crutch until you get your bearings again. Then become your own role model. I'm serious. I've got... Roughly half a role model in my life. Well, no. He's more of an inspiration than a role model. The man is blue pill, but he is alpha and he has made something of himself. He knows stuff and has com…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 07:32 PM
5

Last night my girlfriend of 3 months said she's loves got the gina tingles for this other guy she's known for years Fixed that for her. What? I'm not sure what to do or how to feel. And there you have it. Bob the Beta doesn't even know how to feel when his girlfriends admits that she wants to gobble some ex lover's man glue. I'm with you OP, "Poor bastard". Myeah... Poor stupid bastard is so needy and has oneitis so bad he is unable to heed his basic instincts ("this feels fucked, so I'm gonna G…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 07:05 PM
2

I haven't seen her latest stuff. Are you referring to something specific?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 06:59 PM
1

Jealousy prompts mate guarding behaviour which is useful if done right Not really. Animals in the wild have always been able to slip away from protective mates. Even scientists observing wild animals were unaware of the female infidelity until DNA testing started becoming prevalent. That's like saying penicillin isn't useful because people can still die from infectious disease despite having been given it. If medicine isn't applied in the right way at the right time, it won't work, and it's the …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 03:21 PM
2

hate for whores, hate for men who date whores, hate for men who don't have any social skills and therefore can't date whores. Why care? That's either a straw man or you've missunderstood TRP. TRP detests that society and women lie to, use and abuse men and give them nothing in return for their sacrifices. Most here wanted to be good men, but got screwed for it. Why bother with being all nice and cooperative when you get screwed for it? I get why they'd be bitter, especially if errors made/their …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 01:22 PM
3

Being angry at something isn't going to make it better, in the same way as being jealous isn't going to keep your SO from cheating on you. Jealousy prompts mate guarding behaviour which is useful if done right. Remember that emotions are evolved responses to some evolutionary pressure. In this case, the behaviour which jealousy triggers may counteract the risk of infidelity. Read "the dangerous passion". While it is blue pill in parts, it has some relevant points. I think what this guy was sayin…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 11:30 AM
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Every time I look at female ads on dating sites, I'm struck by how entitled the vast majority of women there are. It's sickening. What's even more sickening is the amount of replies they get.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 07:42 PM
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Awwww, 'dose poor wimminz being fooled and ravaged by dastardly manbearpigs... Bah. "Take advantage of"? That's a red herring if I ever saw one. You write about them as if they've got no agency and aren't even people. Begone, white knight.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 06:48 PM
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"You're not a man!" Sometimes, I'm a complete animal. * stares the fuck out of the bitch *
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 01:53 PM
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Both. It's a self-reinforcing spiral down into the gutter.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 01:00 PM
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Times 50? That means a 27y/o female would have had 550 partners, which means more than one new partner every week since she was 16. Surely the 0 is a typo. Or she went to college.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 12:07 PM
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Its not a beta to tell a girl you have been dating for a while that she screwed up. Your just being honest. People make mistakes. True enough, but the "date" was a huge shit test from the looks of it, not a mistake. She's screening for beta, and he ticked the beta boxes. You're a bit purple pill, I think, but don't worry about it; if blue pill is like being drunk and stupid, purple pill is like being hung over. Clarity in the form of the red pill will come.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 11:53 AM
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Stupid brainwashed people will be stupid brainwashed people. Any sympathy I might have felt for them when they become spinsters, unhappy single mothers or when they end up in relationships they're not happy in, is crushed by the fact that they're sheeple who think they're empowered. They deserve what they will get.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 10:50 AM
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Words of wisdom right here.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 09:58 AM
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Wouldn't date her. Might be fun company etc, but I wouldn't "girlfriend" her. Isn't there an old adage that says something to the effect of "you can have fun with sluts ex-whores, but you can't turn one into a wife"? I can think of so very many reasons why not to date a 41y/o (supposedly) ex whore, and only about... One reason why I should, and which one that is should be rather obvious. An ex-whore isn't necessarily a bad person, but she sure as hell isn't relationship material for any man with…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 09:56 AM
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You can still tease them and flirt a bit with them. It's kind of like a carrot to them. I tease my female friends and manhandle them a little bit (like picking them up in my arms and spinning them around, slap their sunburned backs and asses, move them around physically etc). They know I don't take them too seriously, and they know I'm not in any way afraid of offending or losing them. It's good fun, and they respect me insofar as they seem capable. They certainly respect me more than they do th…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 10:46 PM
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You're probably in a grieving process for wasted potential and time. I'll suck ass for a while. It did for me anyways. I hadn't cried since I was a preteen until I took the red pill. So anyways... It's important that you forgive yourself for having been a chump all, or at least most of your life. It WILL get better. It'll take time, but shit, you've got the rest of your life left to rock it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 06:44 PM
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We made the cut? That's awesome! :D * does victory dance *
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:39 PM
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I mentioned to a female friend that I had cleaned my car earlier that week. This conversation ensued: Her: "Oh! Could you help me clean mine?" ("help me") Me: "Hmmm..." (Frowning all seriously n shit) Her: Looking at me expectantly Me: "What do you offer in return?" Her: "I'd be really grateful!" Me: "AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!" (My eyes literally started to tear up) Her: "What's so funny?!" Me: "You're going to have to do A LOT better than that!" (still laughing) Her: "Alright... I'll make you a c…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:21 PM
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And they also hamsterize it to that they're doing their partner a favor by not telling, and by how haaaappy they are when they get what they neeeeed.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 03:45 PM
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"bring the movies" Bring lube
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 04:32 PM
1

Ditto.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 11:49 PM
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You mean the enunciation exercises? I've got 6 pages filled with tongue twisters and classical texts (Shakespeare etc) that I try very hard to do at least in part every morning. 5-10 minutes every morning. Also, I do neck and throat exercises at least once a week or so, and I stretch my neck and throat regularly. While it's mostly incidental, weight training adds bulk (and testosterone) which adds to my vocal depth and resonance. Stretching (after every gym session) and massage (once a month) re…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 10:59 PM
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I think my biggest problem was that when I felt rejected I was MEAN to him I think you're onto something here... My libido is strong, but sometimes I'm just too tired, and bitchery doesn't exactly make me horny. If anything, it makes me even more turned off. Look, I understand that women feel bad when they're rejected sexually, especially since a woman normally are the ones doing the sexual rejection. Some women, especially the prettiest ones, can't seem to wrap their heads around even the thoug…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 06:38 PM
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Remember, if you are a quality woman FTFY. In my experience, and IMHO most RP-men would agree, that a huge portion of women assume they're quality women when in fact they have nothing of value to offer except their bodies, and sometimes not even that. Too many assume they're worth the best when in fact they're worth almost nothing, and certainly not the commitment of a quality man. That's called entitlement, and it's toxic. It's hypergamy gone wild. In my experience, most women have otherworldly…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 05:38 PM
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Has your husband been in any bad accidents too? If not, then consider that it is pretty ironic when you, who has been in accidents, is trying to control his driving. Also, as I said in another comment in this thread: I'm a way better driver if I'm not distracted all the fucking time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 05:20 PM
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As it turns out, some people just drive better when the passenger isn't yapping at them! I've been saying that I'm a way better driver if I'm not distracted all the fucking time for years. I'm both the literal and figurative way. Seriously, once, a passenger actually grabbed the steering wheel while I was driving because he (yes, a he) thought I was going to do whatever he thought I was going to do, which I wasn't. Nearly collided with another car. I very nearly beat the shit out of him, and he …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 05:14 PM
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When you stop dropping weight despite having a caloric deficit, you're probably experiencing a "weight loss edema". You're still losing excess fat, BUT your fat cells are filling up with water instead. That can take weeks or even months to correct itself if you are very overweight. Increasing the caloric deficit will not help. You can however, get rid of it by doing any, or a combination, of the following: Get more potassium in your diet, or reduce the amount of salt Use a sauna. Sweat contains …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 05:00 PM
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Periodic fasting has helped me lose 12kg in the past year, and even more the past 2 years. I do 16h fasting and 8h eating about 5-6 days a week. It's almost impossible to get too much calories when you eat like that, supposing the food you eat isn't too sugary or fat. When it comes to composition of the food I eat, my macro distribution is roughly iso, and the fat distribution is focused on unsaturated and poly-unsaturated fats, though about 1/4-1/3 is saturated due to the amount of beef I eat. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 04:48 PM
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There was a post in r/redpill concerning gay men and TRP: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1em28z/advice_for_integrating_being_alpha_with_being_gay/ TRP isn't concerned with statistical outliers, but IMO, there's no reason why TRP shouldn't work for lesbians as long as there is sexual polarity between them. IMO that's must be the basis for upon which any healthy LTR is built, no matter the sex of those involved. To put it in non-gender terms: If you put two submissives together, not m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/13 04:28 PM
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Particularly masturbation to porn dulled my energy and ambition. Masturbation in itself made it easier for me to fall back to PMO, but just looking at porn and resisting the urge to masturbate worked well when it came to upping my self discipline. Made it easier to resist the urge. Still dulled my energy etc, but it was helpful when I tried to stop masturbating. More discipline for the people.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 04:02 PM
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When I went noFap, my voice started getting smoother, deeper and more forceful (loud but steady and controlled) within two weeks or so. After about a month, girls I've known for a long time started to look weirdly at me (they were fascinated) I spoke, and later I started getting comments from girls (both friends/acquaintances and new girls) that they like my voice and (I shit you not) that I speak really well. Even guys tell me that I "speak well". This is probably also due to me doing enunciati…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:58 PM
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Sometimes raging bitch hamsters at work can't be stopped by anything other than anger and conflict. I know this from experience. The greater the hamster and the higher in the hierarchy she is relative to you, the harder you're going to have to push back for there to be any effect.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:10 PM
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She wants a guy who is dominant in bed because she is so sexy that he can't resist fucking the hell out of her. Partly, but mostly because he's dominant in his own right.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:03 PM
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No (Carnivore with muscles and body of a weightlifter (fat and strong)) I approve of this. I fucked a bit with the guy's head regarding vegetarianism. He was a regular little scrawny faucet for platitudes and said stuff like "you are what you eat". I interjected with "If you are what you eat, and you eat a vegetarian, are you then vegetarian?" He didn't think it was funny, but who cares.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 10:03 PM
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I don't discuss with feminists anymore. I barely acknowledge them. If they attempt to engage me in hamstering conversation about something that feminists like to hamster talk about, I ignore them. If they insist, I usually give them a "you can't be serious"-look and then ignore them some more. If they insist further, I might say "don't go there", and that's it. No more.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:57 PM
1

When I read "What is alpha at its very core?" I immediately thought of this: What is best in life?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:41 PM
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Are you Swedish? Did you like dressing in pink shirts at the time? Have you studied philosophy? Were you a vegetarian with a muscle mass similar to that of a 12 y/o girl at the time? Did you have really bad skin and long lanky hair?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:20 PM
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There's a character in Boston Legal. Bernard. He's a whining beta. He doesn't like anybodies "tones." Anyone judging him or talking to him is talking in "tones" There was this guy once who complained about my "tone". I asked him if he was a sissy. Made him have a hissy fit, which kind of confirmed my suspicion.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 08:59 PM
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How about you calm down as well, and deal with it like an adult.... She doesn't want to do it, let her, it is her life and choice of lifestyle. Here Yeah, you need to accept her choice to be fat. He can accept her choice to be fat and then get himself a new woman, but that's not what the poster meant of course, since that would likely be, err, anti-feminist or some bullshit like that. Gotta love hamsters. Not a lot of meat on them, but they are crunchy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 08:55 PM
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One girl looked like she was going to cry. I would have paid to see that.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 09:49 PM
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Makes sense from an evo psych perspective for women to want to change men into something they don't want and then dump them and get a new man for the next baby. Different fathers = larger genetic spread in their offspring = greater likelyhood of genetic propagation. It's an adaptation. What one needs to realise about those is that they: May or may not be the best in an envionment that is unlike the one in which they developed May be good for genetic propagation, but bad for the individual (and/o…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 09:29 PM
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That stops applying the moment you bring birth control into the equation. No, because contraception is a modern invention that hasn't been around long enough to negate instincts.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 09:23 PM
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The answer is: Because there are different standards for men and women, and that is because they have different preconditions ans limitations. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are they gatekeepers of commitment. There is nothing admirable about a woman having loads of sex with many men, but there is something admirable about a woman who can get and keep the commitment of a high quality man.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 10:36 PM
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My teasing is almost never planned, and I find that the more spontaneous it is, the better it works. Sexual teases that are decidedly ambiguous are usually the best. Plausibly deniable yet obviously sexual. Like twisting what a girl said about hotdogs and (bread) buns to that I like "putting thick sausages in buns" and "eating juicy hamburgers" and that I like " buns without any thing on them" but that I also "like splahing gravy on buns". The innendo and tension was palpable after this particul…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 10:16 PM
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Did you read my whole post, or did you just react to that phrase? I'm pro trp and evo psych, but the fact remains that theories are abstractions. The abstraction of evo psych seems to fit best with what I observe though.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/13 06:18 PM
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I'm ambivalent about BP friends. Today, one of them said he couldn't do xyz because "the government" (his LDR girlfriend) was visiting him for a few days. I mean, ok if one wants to spend time with an LDR GF one doesn't see too often, but calling her "the government" (and he wasn't even joking) just makes me cringe. I try to spend more time with my RP friend (one) and my purple pill friends than the BPs. When I do spend time with BP friends, I try to "rub off" on them a bit, but with mixed resul…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 10:30 PM
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Exactly what my gut reaction was too: She's projecting and she's trying to sabotage the OP's progress. Female social matrix 101: A woman who starts standing out from her friends or alleged friends, who increases her status or who is simply more lucky, rocks the boat and upsets the status quo. This isn't looked upon kindly most of the time by other women, since it means losing relative status. Talking behind backs, backstabbing and subtle or not so subtle sabotage often follows. I can't count the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 09:55 PM
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It's cute. I could make a few dozen more of those. My cat is male and does a few things that one could anthropomorphize to both men and women, but my brother's cat, which is female, is veeery girly. She does lots of things all the time which I anthropomorphize as woman behaviour. Not a very smart woman, granted, but then again, she is a cat.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 09:32 PM
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I was always the typical "good girl." Sooo... Good girls whore themselves, slut it up in general, get "involved with a bad crew" and do drugs... Riiiight.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 10:50 PM
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It will get worse. I can only recommend to every European to keep their options open. Short of a real revolution the current path leads to civil war. Yupp.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 10:44 PM
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Late to the thread cuz off work traveling. I'm not surprised. Manson has been discussed here before: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dyrqs/mark_manson_bashes_the_manosphere/ I wrote the following that time: Manson makes some valid points in his book "Models", but he is a bit of an idealist (understatement) and many of his writings, esp on the so called "madonna whore complex" seem tailored towards justifying his own behaviour and/or philosophical/ideological leanings. Essentially, h…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 10:41 PM
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Exactly. SD is bound to get atleast 10-15pc next election, which is double or triple what they got in the last election. However, the propaganda against SD is dense, and being open with being an SD voter can cost your job and social life, and more. You can get you harassed by "anti-fa" groups.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 12:34 AM
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It adds layers of sophistication. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 02:36 PM
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I damn well wouldn't be surpriced :-)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 02:35 PM
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That's what the MSM would have people believe. When you look at actual studies done on the subject, it' clear that about 2/3 want at least less immigration, or even stopped immigration, from crap countries.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:28 PM
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I'm a bit of sex nerd, and I've discovered shitloads on my own, but I've also read a lot. The most important thing one needs to know about reading sex related stuff though, is that only experience allows you to differentiate between the good and the bad stuff, and there is way more bad stuff than good stuff imho. More stuff for people who want some pointers: The worst thing one can do imho, apart from being a total pussy who hesitates and who asks permission, is to follow scripts or to be a tech…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:19 PM
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Don't be daft. You take it too literally.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 12:09 PM
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The instagram stuff was just a pretext for the riots. It was mostly done by ethnic minorities with the usual anarchist/communist support AFAIK. Source: I'm swedish and I keep up to date with non-MSM news sources.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 11:40 AM
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Does sight correction count?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 11:35 AM
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And they probably don't even consider it cheating, since women seem to view males they're not attracted to as non-sexual beings (best case), or wallets/servants/creeps (worst case?), and you ooooobviously can't cheat on those. (hamsterbation)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:20 AM
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I agree. In this context, since she obviously doesn't tingle for her BF, "Is he with another woman?" insinuates, to me at least, that he probably isn't and couldn't, and that he therefore isn't alpha enough to give her tingles, and that any release he is getting is with something non-tingly, like WoW.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:11 AM
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I love the dark side. Anger is energy. Controlled anger is power. It is the stuff that lets me get off my ass when world weariness gets to me. "Why bother?" says part of me. "Well, fuck that, " says angry me, "I'm going to the gym."
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:50 AM
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I'm thinking bout the continuing lies. She's obviously trying to "manage" you with her lies. The lies are the surest sign that she isn't contrite at all. It is likely that she is afraid of losing you, but that is irrelevant. The lies outweigh any possible "positive" intent. She cannot be allowed to "manage" you. Nothing but complete submission to you, absolute contrition and total transparency is sufficient. Even that might not be enough. How could you ever trust her again? Also, what other thin…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:42 AM
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First an anecdote: I first learned that women respond well to dominance with my first GF. She was giving me a BJ and couldn't get me off, and I got a bit frustrated. What I did surpriced even me at the time: I grabbed her hair and removed her from my dick and told her to rub herself against my thigh while I jacked off. She complied and started riding my thigh while I went to town on my dick and fondled her tits roughly. She went insane when I also called her a good girl for being obedient. Gave …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:06 AM
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Lol! I'll humor you: What are daddies? Protective
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/13 10:50 PM
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Classy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 12:35 AM
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Google this: Polygamous societies are more violent
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 09:54 PM
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Two words: Cognitive dissonance. If it is challenged, it'll push back. Merely poking or even beating it with a stick doesn't work. You need to annihilate it. It needs to hurt. Sharp sticks...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 09:51 PM
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I read somewhere that only 1-2% of the adult women in a given population are as strong or stronger than the average adult male in the same population. That's almost 3 standard deviations. Also, athletic differences between men and women: http://www.livestrong.com/article/347443-athletic-differences-between-men-women/#page=1 Ladies... Men tend to find women's lack of physical strength endearing. Arousing even. I know it makes me feel all daddylike. Enjoy men's strength. Marvel at it. Isn't it swe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 09:15 PM
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Google non-alcoholic drinks and learn a few recipes. Then you can instruct bartenders on how to do then. Chicks will be curious, cuz so few drink those. They're more fun than just cola, though that's a good option. Cranberry juice or pomegranate juice is good too. A bonus is that you won't get beer breath.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 08:18 PM
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I use FB to: Stay in the loop on what parties and events are being planned by my friends and acquaintances Repost anti-feminist messages. A few people in my general proximity have actually rethought things because of the stuff I post. FB has it's uses. I understand it's easy to get too deeply entangled, and if that happens it might be a good idea to remove it, but if one can stay on top of it, it's just a tool.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 07:47 PM
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I'd be interested in more material on sigmadom. While I've worked hard to become more extroverted, my basic nature is more introverted. I used to be a clear INTJ (Myers-Briggs) but I've worked so much on my extraversion that I'm swinging between INTJ and ENTJ. I work well in groups when I want to, but I'm usually outside of the hierarchy in a weird inexplicable way. I recognise the hierarchies from an intellectual POW, but I don't feel them like others seem to do, and I have no innate respect fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 10:38 AM
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Even if there was no evolution, the observations that have lead to TRP would still have been made. In fact, I know Christian men and women who understand TRP, but for entirely different reasons. Exactly. Observations exist independently of the theories you use to explain them. Besides, explanations have different levels: You've got a bunch of observations that lead to the conclusion "Women tend to not be aroused by supplicating behaviour". That conclusion is in and of itself an explanation as we…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 08:34 AM
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I can vouch for his suggested answer to the "I have a boyfriend"-shit test: "right" It works very well for a lot of other situations as well, especially where the girl is trying to sermonize or something. "right" delivered completely dead pan can have really amusing effects.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 09:05 PM
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True dat. I feel less pressure than before, and yet, I get more and better shit done.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:16 PM
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Meant to write "likely", not "highly likely". The thing is, there are exceptions to pretty much everything, though I've never encountered this one. There are lots of fake unicorns, but I'm not willing to dismiss the possibility entirely. Even if you've only ever seen white swans, you'd be taking a logical risk by assuming that all swans are white. They aren't. The overwhelming majority are though. Addendum: It is therefore reasonable to say that" swans are white", just as it is reasonable to say…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 06:09 PM
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It is likely that such cases exist. (edited) Highly likely that such cases exist. I've seen this IRL atleast once. Both claimed to be feminists, and yet he treated her like a maid and she was very happy. Likely a case of "this feels good and gives me tingles, and since it feels soooo right it must be feminism because feminism is right"-hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 05:57 PM
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I'll have to disagree with the rest of these lot. Seriously, if someone is legitimately struggling and asks you for help, and you have the ability...they're not trying to fuck with you and test you, they want your help, because you're a more capable person. But that's not the case here. Don't change the scenario. I wouldn't bend to the will of the two other women, as said, but if the carrier did ask, I would. If she was indeed struggling and asked on her own in a polite and submissive way, I'd c…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:43 PM
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Petite means small. If you're 5'2" tall and 5'2" wide, you're short, but you ain't small.
/r/askTRP25/06/13 04:44 PM
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TL;DR Become shameless.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:36 PM
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Also, Wikipedia. OP demands studies that supports evo psych, yet links to Wikipedia. Do that in a paper at a proper university and see what happens...
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 04:20 PM
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and if she does ask "can you help me with this", just say "No." Why? Why not? She doesn't need help, and he's obviously not feeling inclined to enable their laziness. Besides, if an individual or a group tries to manipulate you into doing something for them, telling them to adjust their behaviour and then declining them is a powerplay that essentially says you're not dancing to their tune and that you decide who gets your favour, not them.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 04:12 PM
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"I was talking. Please don't interupt." Look her square in the eyes when you say it too. Women have a hate/love relationship to being called out for their bullshit. Eventually, you'll get more respect. If the others do interject some bullshit, just ignore them. You're in the right, and they're just white knighting. "Yes." or "Exercise is good for her." if you want to be a bit more ballsy. "She's a big girl, she can ask herself." is also good, and if she does ask "can you help me with this", just…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 01:31 PM
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What you write reflects my view of TRP. TRP isn't a cookie cutter solution. In much the same way there there are no real, lasting and healthy short cuts when it comes to getting rid of overweight, TRP requires hard work. It isn't pleasant. In fact, it's downright painful, but you better off when you've implemented it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 08:02 AM
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I'm not getting married, but I do want children, so I'll reinterpret "marriage" to "deciding if a woman is the one I want to build a family with". The answer is yes. Cohabitation lets you see others in their natural environment, so to speak. Lets you see how well you work together when you've got nothing preplanned, when either or both of you are bored, stressed, really tired, etc. Quite simply, when you're not at your best. That's important knowledge. Lets you know what disgusting habits your m…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 07:23 AM
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My main effort currently goes into getting fit at the gym, making more male friends (5 new friends in the past year), and learning new skills, such as dancing and martial arts. Eating right is sorted since a few years back. I'm optimizing this bit, but not in the way one might expect. My problem is time. I've got a lot of stuff to fit into my schedule, and cooking takes time. Solutions? Several: Technical: Pressure cooker: Allows speedy cooking of stews, perfect rice, and very speedy home cooked…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:43 AM
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I originally meant rape but my brain decided to put the word abuse in there because imho redpillers have an abusive mindset and it was on my mind while writing the post. Your redpillers brigaded me yet I did not complain to you. You are just scared now because people find your opinion wrong and so you're clawing at the small cracks of mine. Jesus... That's impressive hamstering...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:26 AM
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the fact that the male point of view is taken into account at all This is spot on. The idea that women might want to improve themselves for men is absolutely crazy talk to them. They see it like a slave trying to work harder for his owner. They do not recognize women as people, but as slaves. That might be the conscious thought, but as for the feelsies, I'd flip the analogy: " The idea that women might want to improve themselves for men feels absolutely crazy and degrading to them. That would be…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 02:04 AM
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He does a lot of commentary that isnt in the slides. The main point are verbatim though, and that's a good thing duebto the length of the clip if you want to jump around a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 09:31 PM
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This doesn't really mean anything unless you have or are willing to put together evidence that there's some bias in the academic community. This is perfectly googleable. Google "Liberal bias at universities". Not unless there's some evidence that suggests something significant in the context we're talking about, and so far there isn't. Do you have a dog? Are you aware that dogs come in different "breeds", and that these have different characteristics? For each breed, there is a baseline. Individ…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 12:30 PM
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It's not that it goes against the paradigm of the blank slate, there are plenty of accepted ideas that have been accepted for a long time that go against the blank slate. And these are mainly in the "hard" sciences, like biology, neurology, etc. Psychology and sociology are decidedly soft desciplines, and the soft disciplines are dominated by the sort of people who want to believe that "everyone is equal" blah blah. If you accept evolution, you have to accept that genetic heritage, sex and biolo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 07:58 AM
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The first part of your title is false. EP is controversial though. Why? Because it goes against the paradigm of the blank slate. This is easily googled. Read Stephen Pinker's "The Blank Slate" for a proper intro to Evo Psych and for a good explanation as to why it is superior to the paradigm of the blank slate which currently rules the soft faculties at universities, the media, and politics.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 07:07 AM
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This is a very bitter reality check for those who put women on pedestals and who believe they're angelic little victims. This should be in the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:57 AM
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It's not always about women whoring around Mostly it is. Accidents happen Sure they do, but mostly they don't. Because they're "accidents"... With all the different kinds of birth control available today, from the regular pill, IUDs, patches, the-day-after pills, etc for women, AND condoms for men, which women who don't want to get knocked up and/or who feel STDs aren't badges of honor have both the right and the responsibility to demand men wear, women have pretty much no excuses. The likelyhoo…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 01:43 AM
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The reaction from women is always overwhelmingly positive. This. Women do mostly react very favorably to "proper" clothes. I don't wear suits (not suited to my lifestyle, no pun intended), but I do make an effort to look good you know, with proper shirts and pants which fit my body shape, well cared for skin shoes etc. It happens fairly regularly that random women approach me and compliment me on my style. Last one was a few weeks ago, and she said "it's so rare with well dressed men (she emphas…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 08:25 PM
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My father married my mother when she'd already had my oldest brother by another man. Would I follow my father's example? I'd rather castrate myself. Even though my family is reasonably functional today, this whole thing's been the cause of so many problems that in all likelihood would not have come up otherwise. For reasons which are too complicated and too long to state here, it especially screwed me (the youngest sibling), and I'm still dealing with the fallout to some extent. My mother's mist…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:36 PM
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"That's definitely a point for you" Everything I do is a point for me. That's an awesome "agree and amplify"-comeback :-)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 07:11 AM
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Poor kitty :/ (The cat, not the girl) Funny how she calls the girl you hooked up with "the replacement slut". That implies she herself is the original slut. Is she smart enough to realize that she's calling herself a slut?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:11 AM
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Really amusing story :) Good for you. Has she tried anything else? Scorned hamsters entertain me.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:48 AM
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Something which always confuses me, and which I haven't bothered to look up because I don't really care, is the "trans man" / "trans woman" terminology. Which is which? Which is male to female, and which is female to male?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:03 AM
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If the girl is sincere, I view this more as flirting than a shit test. A raised eyebrow is good (kudos to dropit_sphere). Agree and amplify is also good ("Yeah, you know I'm awesome babe"). If, however, she says something like "that's definitely a minus point for you" in a serious or at least somewhat serious way, that's when it becomes a proper shit test. Last time a got this one, I just laughed at her and ignored the ensuing mini tantrum. IIRC she pouted for a bit ("why don't you take me srsly…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 12:49 AM
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Then those 20% 80% look real good. As providers. FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 11:51 PM
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If she wasn't attracted to you, she wouldn't feel wanted, because as far as I can tell, to a woman, the feeling of being wanted only counts if she's wanted by a man she's actually attracted to. If a woman isn't attracted by the man who wants her, she'll feel indifferent at best, and disgusted or even hostile at worst. That means little or no sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 10:11 PM
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But since he is no longer interested, ruined chances with her doesn't affect him. Besides, I'm not convinced that they're ruined; if she is a genuine little princess, she'll love the drama and she'll love him for not supplicating. If she does think he did it out of jealousy, and she starts blabbing about it to other women, I'd bet a cent that they'd focus on the part of the story where he ditches a 9. It's bound to make them curious about him, and that's just good for him.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 09:39 PM
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That wouldn't be good. For whom? For him? In what way? For her? I don't think he cares to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 08:27 PM
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Being completely blind to their own bad behavior.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 07:08 PM
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They want a challenge. Someone they need to chase after. I suspect that's mostly projection on her (and other women's) part. Gawd knows women like drama.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 06:22 AM
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Does he actually specify what "male privileges" he thinks he lost? Only skimmed it, but I couldn't see more than a passing reference to said privileges.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 02:00 AM
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Read Athol Kay's "The married man sexlife primer". It's about the red pill in the context of LTRs. It'll answer most, if not all of your questions.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 09:39 PM
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Did it several times about 10 years ago, and the result was INTJ. Done it 2 times the last year, and the result was ENTJ.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 02:26 PM
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Dunno. The closest thing I can think off is "lesbian bed death", wherein the girls "become best friends" and lose the tingles. That's one explanation anyways. How related ghis to female hypergamy is debatable.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 04:41 AM
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Must've been gut wrenching. Good for you that it worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 04:07 AM
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This. What women need to remember is that while women posses the sex card, men posses the commitment card. If a woman gives away her sex card too readily, it loses value. Same goes for men who give away their commitment card too cheaply. So while it is normally a man's job to build the initial attraction and demonstrate his value, it is the woman's job to secure the commitment card of a high value man. The best way for a woman to secure a high quality commitment card is to have a really valuable…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 04:00 AM
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I don't know if I need to love my husband. Fair enough. Is this something you would tell him? I really want a solid companion I can respect and enjoy spending years together raising children. My point stands. Don't lie. To lie is to deny him agency. To lie is to steal his right to self-determination. If you lie, you will never be able to respect him. A sidenote: The only kind of man who doesn't care if his woman lies to him, is the kind of man who doesn't care about his woman. Also... This is al…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 03:03 AM
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Women have different stages in life which are related to their biological natures. In these different stages, they tend to look for different things in a mate. All women pine for high status men, which is the alpha factor. There is also the comfort and provision, or beta factor. When women are young, they generally don't feel they need as much of the latter, but as they age, that need increases. In my experience, most reasonably normal and healthy girls tend to start feeling the urge to nest at …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 01:14 AM
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I've adopted a lot of beta behavior growing up but that didn't stop me from getting laid in high school. I used to think this was the case for me too, but after some introspection, I realized that in most cases, I wasn't acting particularly beta the times I did get laid. I did see myself as a nice guy, and I mostly was, but the times I did screw girls, I had what I now recognize as asshole game. A few times, I did get "lucky" though. Like with girls on the rebound etc. I'm in college now where a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:48 PM
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You are welcome.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:32 PM
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Someone else said this too, so I'm curious. Where does status come from if not from wealth? What are the characteristics of "status"? In the time before writing, a man's status was hardly decided by his possessions. Picture prehistoric humans running around naked on the Savannah, without any Lamborghinis, PHDs or Saville row suits for as long as the eye could see. How would a man display his status then? Through social competence, dominance, skill, bravery, and physical ability.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:28 PM
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If you lie, either by commission (standard lie) or by omission (withholding the truth), you are denying the man agency. That is one of the most serious acts of disrespect you can subject a man to. Besides, how on earth would you ever be able to respect a man if your first act was to deny him the right of choice? If you deny him the choice, you cannot EVER claim to love him. You would be using him solely for you own selfish reasons. What kind of person would that make you? There is a fair amount …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:22 PM
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12 men is a lot for a guy to swallow, but honesty is important in a relationship. Uhuh. I would try to avoid the question. If he asks, look down bashfully like you are too modest to talk about sexual things. Lies of omission are still lies. To lie is dishonest. I smell small furry creatures.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:05 PM
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Giving a lowball that is discovered to be false makes you a liar. FTFY.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:54 PM
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There were, give or take a few, 83 sentences in the OP. All in all, there were 12 "me", 39 "my" and 78 "I". Compare that to the roughly 12 or so references to your partner or a partner (indefinite form). Just saying. A few comments on what you wrote: TRP seems to promote male promiscuity and cheating TRP is about rejecting the lies that have been foisted upon (primarily) men. What the individual does after that is up to him. Unfortunately my position at work puts me in a strange place for dating…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:57 PM
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Some people here seems to have misread the post; he is not advocating physical violence.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:18 AM
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Perhaps I should have added the caveat "If he wants to keep her, in order to minimize the risk of divorce rape..."
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 12:31 AM
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"Discuss it with her" my ass. He needs to manhandle her down onto all fours and punishment-fuck the shit out of her while making hand prints on her hypergamous ass, shock and awe beast style. If he doesn't assert his authority and manhood, her hamster will gather momentum and BAM! Cuckolded.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 10:59 PM
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So where is responsibility here? It's the picking. Woman makes the picking. She must have the best man. Woman has to pick the biggest and the most ripe fruit of the man tree. Problem is that somewhere along the way this knowledge was considered restricting and was replaced with things that are barely related - careers, equality, sexual liberation, money and stuff like that. So, in the end, rather than picking the best fruit, women are trying to bite all the fruit on the tree, the green ones, the…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 01:22 PM
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I'm sure the guy would have helped her if she'd been honest with him. Instead, she chose to lie and to be totally cruel. Slag. It's almost funny how so very many women automatically resort to lying and omitting facts instead of just being honest. It can be about so very small and irrelevant things too, it's flabbergasting. Relationship management through deception, that's what it is. I think it's instinctual to some degree, but I also think it comes from some sort of fear of not having things fl…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 07:56 PM
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Yeah. They grasped some basic things, like the fact men and women are different and that equality is bullshit, but they have lots of blue pill views.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 02:50 AM
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I've got about... Two purple pills in my life. One will stay purple for the foreseable future, and the other is moving towards red with me carefully nudging him, albeit slowly. I want a red pill gang.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 12:35 AM
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Does her condition cause her behavior? No. Does it influence it? Yes. Is her being on the carousel more understandable? Yes. Is it less of a serious issue? No. FTFY. I agree with the rest.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 12:18 AM
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I made a post about something similar to this a couple of days ago. I wondered if there is somewhere, some forum or something, where you can get into contact with other red pillers for irl get togethers. I wanna form a "the way of men"-type gang. Is it kosher to advertise for people like that directly on the sub? I mean, it is sort of red pill related.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 12:00 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. The OP gave me the impression that using the word would get you banned, independent of context.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 03:15 PM
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Regarding the first point: Not even when refuting what opponents of TRP say? Not even when joking or being sarcastic? Not even when quoting? Or are you only referring to claims of TRP being that?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 03:04 PM
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I see a cute little girl, I want to believe the best in her, but then I realized shes banged like a million dudes with no remorse and I just feel horrendous. I'm still struggling with this a bit myself, but it's getting less difficult as I come to terms with it. It's been a loooong fight... A slut isn't necessarily a bad person, and you can still enjoy her company and her charms. Just don't bond with her. It is sad, but one has to protect oneself emotionally and financially. Maybe its the unders…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 02:28 PM
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Virgins aren't suited for ONS-romps. Yet.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 01:45 PM
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Mark thinks that a man who objects to the thought of having a long term relationship with a promiscuous woman is a weak, sexist beta with a scarcity mentality. He completely ignores the myriad good reasons for avoiding LTRs with such women like the plague, and he seems to think that overriding and reprogramming your instincts regarding that is a good idea. To put it bluntly... Sure, the guy knows how to pick up women, and he does have some good advice on that point. However, I personally wouldn'…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 01:34 PM
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Aye. I enjoy watching Farage in the EP, ripping eurocrats new assholes like there's no tomorrow. The problem with idealism is it ignores pragmatism, the essential ingredient behind social cohesion. I've been saying this for years and years. There's nothing which is more dangerous than idealism. Lenin, Pol Pot, Hitler, Mao... They were all idealists in their own ways. Fuck, even Bin Ladin was an idealist. Like the old saying goes: The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 01:19 PM
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Nah, they can't, but a degree in neuropsychology is atleast another 2 years of education I think, which done at half rate while doing clinical work. Still less time, easier and cheaper than becoming a psychiatrist
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 07:50 AM
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forgot to mention that yeah
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 07:47 AM
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I'm Swedish. This is old news. I quite sure this wasn't implemented and that it wasn't even voted on in the council. It caused quite an uproar among the plebs. The media elite and many politicians were "surpriced" by the harsh reactions IIRC. Go figure. One thing that has to be understood about Sweden is that while the political caste and the MSM are almost completely radical feminist and socialist, the general public is not. It's not wonder that the newest party in the Swedish parliament, which…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:49 PM
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My view: Currently, women have all the reproductive rights, and men have none, or nearly none. If you have no rights, or nearly no rights, then it stands to reason that you should have no (or nearly no) responsibilities either. If women want men to take any responsibility for children that are proved to be theirs, it is only fair if men are given reproductive rights too. (Addendum) Sucks for the kids, but it's their stupid mothers' fault for being irresponsible. Implementing something like this …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:36 PM
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Awesome. Going to watch. Thx. Edit: Watched it. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:23 PM
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Yeah. I dislike it when people say cookie cutter things like that. Sure, a lot of crap is one's own fault, but far far from everything. The trick is to realize that the shit other people cause for you, is almost always still your own damn problem. It's not my father's fault that he got IRS taking him to court for years frivalously, but it was still his problem, and he had to deal with it. It is not my fault that most women are unfit for an LTR, but if I want an LTR, it is still my damn responsib…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:20 PM
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Yah. Cognitive dissonances tend to need to implode under real world pressure before they're done away with.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:04 PM
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Hilarious! I think she likes us. We probably remind her of her last 30 boyfriends. Complete ass holes :) That made me LOL for real :)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 11:03 PM
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Cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 10:36 PM
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The "problem" is not the emotions behind her actions. The real problem is that she's not voicing her grievances/insecurities directly, in a functional and productive manner. Instead, she being disrespectful and passive aggressive. She's not saying "I love the way you rape fucked me the other night, but it also made me feel vulnerable, so I need some reassurance." Instead, she's testing him in a dysfunctional manner. If he is strong and has integrity, he will not tolerate disrespect. If he become…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 10:20 PM
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Yeah, and she is blue pill. I hate it when people drop unqualified statements, buzz words and platitudes like "communication" and "respect". Most of those have no idea what those concepts actually entail. Take respect for example: If you let a kid do whatever it wants to do, you may be "respecting the kid's right to self-determination", but you are also damaging the child by not teaching it limits, proper behavior, etc. You're not respecting what the kid is (a child), and you're not respecting t…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:43 PM
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No problem bro
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:31 PM
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Yeah. What Serenity writes is essentially the shit that gets flogged in Cosmo. If the stuff that is written in Cosmo actually worked, divorces, cheating and unhappy relationship wouldn't be nearly as common as they actually are.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:05 PM
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Rage is a legitimate response to the shit you've gone through. Rage is good. Rage is energy. Rage is testosterone. Rage lights a fire under you ass and gets shit done. Rage is focus. Use it. You've woken up. You've seen the glitches in the matrix. There'll be pain, oh there'll be pain... And it's only started. There is no going back, but do you know what? You're all the better for it, because this pain is transitory. Your old pain was the slow pain of death by decay. The pain you're going throug…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:10 PM
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I like that you're honest about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:03 PM
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Passive aggressiveness is the primary way females fight and/or disrespect others. It is a fair assumption. However, that is besides the point. If she's behaving like a bitch and insults you or disrespects you, you're shooting yourself in the foot by being "reasonable" and by "talking" about it. It. Does. Not. Work. Period. She'll respect you more if you actually call her out for it. You know why? Because disrespectful behavior is shit testing, and shit testing is fitness testing. She needs to kn…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 06:48 PM
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To dominate is not to instill fear. It is to be very assertive. Edit: Also, if you want a woman's respect, you need to demonstrate dominance when she gives you shit. Otherwise you're going to get walked on all over.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 06:36 PM
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You do not reason with passive aggressive behavior. If you think anything else, then sure, go to [r/Relationships](www.reddit.com/r/relationships) or something instead.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 06:33 PM
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This is key. If she disrespects you, call her out the second she does it. If you're among other people, take her to the side. Keep your frame strong, and stand your ground. If she tries to make it about you and your behaviour, do not buy into her frame. It's about her being a bitch and nothing else. If she's got real grievances/insecurities, she needs to approach you with respect and humility. If she does that, you reward her with attention and praise for going about it in a way that pleases you…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 06:14 PM
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You need to balance beta behaviour, such as showing vulnerability and cuddling her, with alpha behavior, such as teasing and manhandling her. Young girls, especially pretty ones, need more alpha treatment. Don't take the shit she says or does seriously. Tease her. Slap her ass. Manhandle her when you have sex. Don't ask for permission; just do. Don't ask if she wants to have sex; just go for it. If she says no, insist, but if she deffo doesn't want, just say "ok" and ignore her. Play Halo or som…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:28 AM
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I'm not sure about the going rates in the states, but where I live, a psychologist specialized in ADHD and neuropsychology can make the equivalent of about 300k a year.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:49 AM
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Thx.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:40 AM
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If it's any consolation, it's not a unique situation you're in. Lots of red pillers were there before taking the pill. God knows I was.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:37 AM
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I recommend "the book of pook" and "the married man sex life primer" for starters. They cover the core concepts of masculinity vs femininity. When you've read those, read "bang" and "daybang" by roosh for practical stuff. KrauserPUA, Roissy/heartiste and RationalMale are must reads too.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:34 AM
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You know of the alpha/beta dichotomy, right? Well, a beta orbiter is like a little dog that patiently waits at his masters table, being all attentive and nice, while secretly (maybe even to himself) hoping for scraps.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:25 AM
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I understand your problem, but again, she is responsible for her own behavior, not you. You can't "save" anyone from themselves unless they want to be saved, and that bit has to come from within them. (Addendum: Psychology 101: Therapy is useless unless the patient actually wants to be helped. Same applies here.) This is hard to swallow, I know. If you abstain from an opportunity because "it's the right thing to do", you're doing her a "favor" she didn't ask for and which will not benefit her, b…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:53 AM
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I'm not even going to read that. I've cringed enough today already.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:07 AM
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Rofl :) Oh, and by the way: Supposing she genuinely made a mistake, she'd also be contrite. I'd reassure her that I forgive her, but that she needs to be more mindful in the future, in a stern, but not unkind, patriarchal sort of way. Make her feel like a silly, thoughtless little wifeygirl, you know. I might add, that if she starts bitching, then her game is up, and I'd treat it like a disrespectful shit test and just dominate her.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:04 AM
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If she questions you, just be like, OH I CHANGED MY PLANS. THAT'S OK RIGHT? That's just passive aggressive. It's what bitches do.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:46 AM
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They did agree though, that if her plans changed, she would call him. She didn't. I'd say: "You did agree to call me if you wanted to change the plans. You didn't." - This is where she realizes that she's fucked up. "I've had a very long week, and I was really looking forward to spending this weekend with you." - This is where she realizes that she's hurt me, and that she herself misses out on something due to her mistake. "Since spending the entire weekend together isn't an option anymore, I'm …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:42 AM
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Concise and clear. +1
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:18 AM
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Have you considered that you might have more guilt and regrets if you pass up on opportunities than if you took them? I used to pass up on opportunities like that. Some sort of, I don't know, convoluted "honor" or whatever. Do you know what I realized? Two things: I was afraid of actually taking the opportunities that presented themselves to me. I was afraid of intimacy, even though a lot of these happened after I had lost my virginity. I'm only a man. In the grand scheme of things, I'm not that…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:13 AM
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Something as simple as: Do no harm. Not necessarily related to this girl stuff, but what if someone deserves harm? Generally speaking, if I believe this action is causing someone else harm, then I don't want to do it, even if it benefits me. Not because I'm worried about her eternal soul, but because I feel bad if I don't follow my own code of honor. And who will thank you for your chivalry and "honor"? Not her, that's for sure. If someone wants to be "led astray", and it benefits you, then why …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:44 AM
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False comparison. You're comparing an addict to someone who isn't. Her sexuality is her responsibility, not yours. It's not like she's a mindless drone you know.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:30 AM
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Couldn't be arsed to read. Too long, and I'm too tired from blasting my body at the gym. Could someone give me a one or two sentence summary please?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:21 AM
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Really? Where? I don't know of any country where that's the case so it would be interesting to know.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 11:16 PM
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Gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 06:26 PM
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You mean if she wasn't arrested, I hope? Or am I misunderstanding you?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:56 PM
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You can make a killing as a psychologist if you specialize (in a smart way) or start your own practise, and especially if you do both. Some areas get you 2-5 times more than Joe Average psychologist.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:26 PM
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I wonder if this is going to end up on r/PussyPass.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:19 PM
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Girl rides the cock carousel In the girl's mind, guys become little more than cocks with wallets ??? PROFIT! Obviously, to feminists and blue pillers, number 3 is "man up, and wife her up". Also, asking that she differentiates between you and all the other guys she fucked is just misogynistic.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:08 PM
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Your argument is basically "either you have it or you don't". What if you have it but haven't discovered it or learned to use it? Behaviour and personailty ARE affected by genes. Twin studies confirm this. However, my understanding is that genes define the interval into which our behaviors fall. While they're specific to individuals, they're naturally affected by your gender and group heritage. Upbringing, societal pressures, etc, affect where in our behavioural intervals we end up. We can also …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 04:50 PM
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Don't Chase Women - JerryLaVigneJr @ 1:14 <- I literally LOLed :)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 04:24 PM
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the fact that men now write in this manner illustrates the feminization of men. So very true. It's like watching little dogs wait patiently at their master's table and then becoming overjoyed when they get some scraps.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 04:15 PM
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I think it's appropriate to give weight to people's positions based on their experience in a field. You're supposing that people who write here have little experience. False supposition. In many cases, that's true for those who've just started the red pill, though it's not always the case. Other's are very experienced. Do you consult teenagers for career advice? If the teenager in question has relevant experience or talent, then yes. So why would you take advice about women from inexperienced me…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:55 PM
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Circumstantial ad hominem: "They're young so their arguments are invalid."
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:11 PM
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Reading this made me cringe... You've got some work ahead of you, and I imagine that the pain has only just started. The pain is good. It is weakness leaving your mind.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:57 PM
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I think you're missing or missreading somthing.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:23 PM
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That's fucking rape!
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:18 PM
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Why wouldn't they? The point is that they shouldn't be very promiscuous if the want their future LTRs to last, and their children to have a stable upbringing. If they've got reason to lie it's already too late. Shit's statistically (very) likely to happen independent of whether they lie or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:07 PM
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Despite sex being awesome, a lot of guys are pretty upset about not being husbands and fathers. A bunch of sluts to fuck hardly seems like a fair trade, but we'll have to make do. This is sooo very true. I know I am.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:38 AM
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I was having a red pill light talk with a female friend, regarding male and female relationships, and I told her that most men prefer girls with as few previous partners as possible for LTRs. Being female, she immedietly asked "so what are girls supposed to do? Lie?" I wasnt fazed by her instantly considering lying as the best way to act upon this info. It was expected. Because she's a reasonably normal woman. I knew that for her to accept this as fact, I had to convey that I wasn't judging her,…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:34 AM
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Some really awesome comments to that post. Can't copy paste example though, cuz I'm on my phone.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 03:07 AM
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I've been saying something similar for years. Men's perceived quality of life seems by and large to be a function of how well they do, or in other words, how well they perform. Women's perceived quality of life seems by and large to be a function of the quality of their relationships.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:59 AM
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That'd be interesting.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:58 AM
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Really amusing :) Did you meet her again? What was her attitude towards you then, if you did?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 01:50 AM
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The Red Pill is about reality. A gold plated turd is still a turd you know. There is usually more than one way to deal with something: MGTOWs are making some very valid observations, though I personally do not agree with the way they're acting upon them. It's still valid though, if you look at what they aim to achieve. PUAs/game adhearants have other goals than MGTOWs. They make some valid observations too, and what they do with those observations is congruent with their goals. I view it as a sp…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 12:32 AM
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I immediately interrupted by saying "Well, that sounds really boring. [turned to my roommate] So what movie do you want to see?" Solid gold. Gotta try that.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 12:21 AM
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Evo psych 101: Men strive to differentiate themselves from other men. Overt conflict is natural, expected, and generally no big deal. Women strive towards consensus within the group/matrix. Overt conflict is to be avoided at all costs. Those who rock the boat are pushed over the side. Conflict is to be done as covertly and as passive aggressively as possible. Unless someone rocks the boat.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 12:04 AM
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I'd love to see judgybitch or redpillwifey post here. And girlwriteswhat Veggie [...] I think this sub benefits from her input. Yeah, I agree on this. As long as the posters here stick to their guns and the sub isn't pussified (like MensRights), feminists, females who can't take the heat, and other people with sand-in-vagina syndrome and butthuritis, will be either stay away or be scared away.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 11:41 PM
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I recognize this from my job. There are two females who completely work their asses off and get nothing in return for it, and yet they're completely devoted. The worse things get, the more they try to make it work, despite it leading nowhere, and fast. It's like the asshole boyfriend who treats his girlfriend like shit, and she loves him all the more for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:30 PM
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I would... I'm not even going to say it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 08:27 PM
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They're complaining that men who buy sex view it as a commodity. Isn't that what most women do on some level? Ie something they use to get what they want? In this case money?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 06:40 PM
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Regarding AVfM... I used to read AVfM avidly, but then I sort of stopped, without noticing that I'd done so myself. I've spent some time reading the latest articles and... What crap. AVfM used to be good stuff! God damn pussification...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 05:01 PM
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Regarding that Kristina Hansen video: First off... While I love women (annoying, destructive and childish though most of them are), they suuuuure love drama, and this chick is no exception. On some level, she's probably going "OMG, I don't like the way those MGTOWs are influencing MY men, so I must discredit them ASAP! Because they're MINE!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4BNbHBcnDI IIRC I saw some youtube clip where girlwriteswhat bitch slapped Kristina pretty good. Can't remember which though…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:44 PM
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You're going to have to be a bit more specific. What opposing views are you referring to? Examples?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 12:03 AM
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Sure. I've spent most of the day on this subreddit and reading various links that people have given me and thinking about their comments. Genuinely trying to understand the best that I can. My takeaway at this point is that plenty of TRP guys are angry. Angry that they aren't in a relationship or that they've been passed over. Angry at "sluts" who "change their mind" once they "hit the wall" and decide to "settle" with them. Angry at being "forced" to be providers. And understandably angry at th…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 10:54 PM
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Absolutely. Avoiding the worst nutcases is paramount.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:47 PM
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Done. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:46 PM
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This is part of why I think it's a useful tool. Assuming the girl isn't a complete nutcase, a safe word takes the pressure of doing things.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:46 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:43 PM
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It looks like we're both worrying at the bone, n'est-ce pas? We are replying to each other. Perhaps it is pointless but perhaps we are getting a better idea of what the other person thinks? I've certainly learned something from your comments and I'd hope you wouldn't continue to reply to mine if they're ridiculous, unhelpful, repetitive, whatever. Fair enough. But what is my point? Good question. My point is that you can't have very exacting expectations and then be surprised when no one meets t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:31 PM
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I've had multiple instances of women, post hoc, having wanted me to go ahead despite "Noooooooesies!!!1" etc. The link illustrates the annoying tendency of women to want men to be mind readers and to "just know". My take on it is, use a safe word. "But it makes it less fun and less real!" Bo fucking ho. (Please suggest a suitable flair for this post)
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:14 PM
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So what is your point? What are you trying to convince me of? Is your point "you can't know, so wife up a slut"? Or is your point "sluts are worth wifing up because history doesn't affect who we are and what we do in the future"? Those are the only two points I can see that you're trying to make, and I accept neither. The second I reject outright, and the first I reject insofar as I won't wife a slut up, though I am aware of the fact that I can't be completely certain. I'll do my damn best to av…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 07:59 PM
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This is going to be a bit of a rant, but meh... I can't tell a number, this is true, but in this context an actual number is irrelevant. You seem to assume that sexual history doesn't affect future behaviour. Again, look at the divorce post I linked. Past behaviour DOES affect future behaviour. This is a fact. Therefore, if you know HOW past behaviour affects future behaviour, you can deduce past behaviour to some extent from observations of current behaviour. Does she give of slut vibes? Next. …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 07:37 PM
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This is why I give girls a safe word. Some complain that it "takes the fun out it", but hey, you can't have everything in life.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 06:49 PM
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Thank you for the links. I'm still curious how you're going to rule out women who have been too sexually active for your tastes. You'll only date virgins? I'm not trying to troll here, I'm genuinely curious how you'll be able to tell how many partners a woman has had. Surely not based on her age?! Lets suppose I don't get a virgin (or a fake virgin) then, for the argument's sake. First off: Men aren't complete fools. We are capable of learning from experience. Women may be sneaky, but men, espec…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 05:57 PM
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Hunh. Well I think that's part of the problem! You can have your partner checked for STDs to rule that out. Some STDs are undetectable if they're in an inactive phase. The baggage can be ruled out by only dating women who come across as stable and have a good head on their shoulders and a low tolerance for drama and bullshit. You don't really believe this, do you? Besides, google "alpha widow". Also, look again at the page regarding divorce risk in relation to female number of pre-marrige sex pa…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 05:23 PM
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Depends upon how good of a person you consider yourself to be.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 04:36 PM
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My "advice" was completely unhelpful and patronizing. Sorry about that. Apology accepted. And I see what you're saying about confusing attraction with what you want in a partner you already have. Good. I still stand by the idea that there are plenty of us out there looking for nice or beta guys. Those are the guys who seem to end up with women in the long run when we've passed our "bad guy" phase. Google "women hitting the wall". It'll hurt, but it's also true. Hint: It's not about sudden maturi…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 04:35 PM
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Google female solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 04:16 PM
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I get your point. I can't imagine how frustrating receiving that message on a day to day basis must be. It's worse. It's downright damaging before you learn what things are really like. Perhaps similar to the women must be sexy but not slutty And what gender hates sluts, hmm? Ain't men. Men love sluts. Or more specifically, men love fucking slutty women. The vast majority of us just don't want a relationship with a slut though, and we have so gooood reasons for it that it's become instinctual. W…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:56 PM
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Just... Ugh... Disgusting. Won't last.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 06:46 PM
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I could barely focus on what he said because his voice was so annoying. Other than that; run of the mill man shaming and straw men in abundance.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:43 PM
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It's not for myself, though I find it an interesting subject.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:28 PM
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"OMG! A MAN is having the lime light all to himself, with no woman sharing (hogging) it! Quickly, throw rocks at him!"
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 01:42 PM
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Close. I would advocate using meditation to clarify your core values and sense of self respect, and then doing what you suggest. That's sound. I've read that piece of advice on TRP before. Perhaps it would be a good idea to collect the advice and links pertaining to healthy ways of dealing with emotions and ask that they'd be put in the sidebar. Now who's saying feelings don't matter? Cute. Couldn't resist ribbing you a bit :P You're right to keep those separate. In practice, a lot of "red pille…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 01:03 PM
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Of course it will, assuming that's actually the case! You can't be happy if you're wrong about where happiness comes from! It may not make you happy immediately, but it will open a door where there once was none. I agree somewhat in the philosophical sense, but in reality, deluded or even insane people can be pretty damn happy. The answer to that question might not even matter, as it already seems we're talking about different things. The middle way is not between "telling the truth without comp…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 12:55 PM
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Why doesn't TRP promote the handling of that fallout? You sound like one of those guys who advocate meditation for coming to terms with (and accepting) that your wife wants an "open marrige". The appropriate handling of such a situation, if it is unacceptable to you, is to not accept it, and then take action in a way that is compatible with your core values and your sense of self-respect. Besides, venting, discussion and reading up on things are a legitimate ways of handling emotional fallout. "…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 12:40 PM
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1) Learning the truth about women and life has nothing to do with being willing to suffer abuse from people who barely know what they're talking about, and clearly still have emotional issues from the fallout of learning this stuff. Firstly, I'd say having emotional fallout from realizing that you've been lied to all your life is normal. TRP allows the venting of that fallout. Secondly, you're going to have to qualify the bit about "barely know what they're talking about". If the world is fucked…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 11:44 AM
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Facts are not venomous. They may be "vaccinous." They may hurt to hear, but ultimately they benefit you. There's no malice in a vaccine. There's no malice in a fact. It doesn't have to be spoken maliciously. Objectively, I agree, but the subjective recipient of a truth may disagree. "Everything you hold dear and that which you base your worth as a human being upon, is false" may be true, but it won't make you happy. People have and do kill themselves for less. I'm not a fan of "false compromise"…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 11:24 AM
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People don't hate TRP because it's so controversial that it pisses everyone off. People hate it because most people who believe it act like assholes about it. I contend the exact opposite for the first sentance. The second sentance is probably true though. Then again, telling the truth does make you an asshole in the eye of most people, since the truth tends to hurt. That's pretty much the definition of an asshole: Someone who hurts others through the use of words.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 11:17 AM
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Strawman followed by misdirection and smugness. That's how a man lectures another man? Right. Edit: That being said... While I agree that you don't have to venom coat, some facts ARE venomous... I'm not a fan of "false compromise". The middle way is not necessarily more true or appropriate just because it's the middle way. Edit2: That emotion kung fu was good stuff. Nothing new, but good none the less.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 11:01 AM
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This is an extremely good point. I have a hard time imagining that a normal guy would want to kick out hisbgf after 3 weeks UNLESS she went into must-secure-beta-provision-bitch-mode and tried to control him. THAT seems really likely though.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 10:16 AM
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Personally, I thought TRP had a bad rep due to it being very non-pc. Calling new people fucks may be a little over the top, but meh... This isn't a female dominated space where the feelings of everyone and their cousin needs to be taken into consideration so that sand-in-vagina syndrome can be avoided.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 09:57 AM
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While all women are hypergamous, there are those who haven't been destroyed by it (yet?), and who is smart and humble enough to realize, or who can be made to realize, that her nature isn't angelic. I've met a few. That kind of woman is one I might consider having a family with when I'm ready in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 03:11 PM
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Good article. That stuff about substitute competition was probably not too far off the mark. A similar conclusion is made in thd book "the dangerous passion" which is about jealosy. Ok book, though there is a lot of white knighting in parts of it. Some of the conclusions and points are rather iffy due to that and some blue pill "truths" that masquerade as data. Personally, I'd say the cuck-fetish is a maladapation from an evopsych point of view. Going sperm warrior mode if your mate has strayed …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 03:03 PM
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Marriges tend to be arranged there, this is true, but it is also true that the groom and/or his family must usually pay a dowry for the bride. I've read that 5-20k USD is common. In Islam and traditional Arab culture, women are essentially chattel. What does demotivate poorer betas to be productive is that they're more likely to be unable to get wives, because they're a) poor and b) men are allowed multiple wives, which means that the ones who are rich enough to afford them are going to cause fe…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 02:06 AM
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Like in Sweden then... The ironic thing is, when this shit was implemented, prostitution moved underground, which gave pimps and gangs and shit more power over the prostitutes, since it was no longer overt... Which meant greater risks and more abuse for the prostitutes. Protecting women my ass. Oh, and the same goes for male prostitutes, who apparently are greater in number than female ones. But bad things can't happen to men. Only women. And ya know, as long as the intent is gooood and fluffy a…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 12:53 AM
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There is a difference between ribbing each other and insulting each other. Someone who is, supposedly, your friend, does not cockblock you or speak for you. That's just insulting. Edit: The talking for you bit would've been ok in certain contexts, like "my bro here'll have a beer on me, cuz he's the most awesome lady killer I know" or something like that. Cockblocking is not ok though. That dog-thing is borderline insulting, and the tits thing likewise. It is context dependent, but those types o…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 06:09 PM
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If I read this correctly, she's cheated on you twice? Before I start bashing on her, I'd like to ask you what the fuck you were thinking when you didn't kick her to the curb after the first time she cheated. Fixed that for him.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 01:17 AM
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“Ah yes, Frank Sinatra. He met me once y’know?” That made me lol for real
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 11:16 AM
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Same here.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 04:01 PM
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This. I especially like girls who are into arts and crafts, like sewing. A girl who likes to sew her own clothes is cheaper to maintain too.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 11:01 AM
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Nowadays I usually just look at feminists with a you-can't-be-serious frown, shake my head and sigh, and then I try to ignore them. If they get huffy I just say that I'm not going to lower myself to her level, or something to that effect, and that I'm not going to "discuss" anything with her because it would be meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 02:23 AM
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Greece, Rome and Egypt would probably disagree. Are said civilizations still around? I should probably add "lasting" to my claim though.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 05:05 PM
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I like how you kept the dominant frame and didn't get distracted by that respect crap. The respect he's refering to is superficial. In fact, when you dominate him and order him around, you're respecting his deeper, more submissive nature, and that is worth more to both of you and your relationship than superficial fluff like "equality"...
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 12:02 PM
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Yeah. Look at non-monogamous cultures in Africa and the east. They're either savages or just stagnant and primitive. Monogamy is a compromise between polygamy and hypergamy (harems), and it is a prerequisite for proper civilization. Just look what's happening in the west now that the institution of monogamy (marrige) is failing... The notion that something is right because it is natural, or wrong because it isn't entirely natural, is called the naturalistic fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 02:53 AM
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Sort your body out. Eat clean, do weights. "Leangains" is good for maintaining or increasing muscle mass while losing fat. I lost 27lbs fat just last year doing Leangains. Stop with porn and masturbation. Makes a huge difference for your aggression, willpower, energy and libido. Seriously, stop porn and masturbation, or at the very least minimize it. Learn real skills. I suggest martial arts and dancing. Your condifidence will go through the roof when you become proficient enough at martial arts…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 06:06 PM
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While I prefer females to be submissive in bed, I occasionally let them take the lead. Let is the operative word here. If they get too full of themselves, I reel them in physically and demonstrate that them leading in bed is only possible when I allow it. And they like it. A guy letting a girl lead is not the same as the guy being submissive either. To quote a homosexual friend who was a fan of Machiavelli: "Contrary to popular belief, men are the ultimate arbiters of sex and pretty much everyth…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 05:50 PM
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You might be able to say "tell me what you want," because that comes as a dominant order for her to tell the truth. But if she isn't talking with her mouth then do the 90/10 to let her talk with her body. "Show me what you want. Show me what you need."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 07:45 AM
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Dude! That's verbatim what a female friend said!
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 11:26 PM
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She is riding the carousel at such a rate as to eventually go flying off it, whilst squirting copiously. Thanks for the mental picture, lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 10:15 PM
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I'll do the first one: "Because to men, a key is a device to open something. For women, it’s a weapon we hold between our fingers when we’re walking alone at night." And yet, men are at least three times more likely to be assaulted than women are.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 06:28 PM
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The nice thing is that women's tastes are also facile and change more easily then mens'. Very very true. I read a description of this phenomena which had it down to that women are, by their very nature, geared towards embracing the views and interests of the most influential males in their lives, which optimally are their mates. Evo-psych wise it makes sense, since women aren't and haven't ever been truly independent in our evolutionary history. Being physically little, fragile, weak and slow ov…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 07:48 PM
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Can't be arsed to google it, but I'm thinking: Subjective sensation: If it feels big, it must be big. (Addendum: So make her feel small in relation to you. Manhandling, picking her up and carrying her, have her arm wrestle you with both arms...) Size in relation to guys visual appearance: skinny guys look bigger. Had a friend in high school whose dick I saw in the showers after gym class. It looked massive, so I asked. 6,5 it turns out, so upper end of normal. You don't wanna be fat with bushy g…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 11:11 AM
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Not unreasonable, but I've read that girls are prone to overestimate the size of penises too. Personal experience supports this. Had girls who thought I was almost 8 inches, when in reality I'm 6,3 inches. Not like I was about to ruin their illusions.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 10:26 AM
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this is a potential arms race though. things could escalate from here. she will observe and dissect your reaction to her comment with her girlfriends and they will come up with new ways to probe your boundaries. more shit tests of a more complicated level. This is one of the reasons for me to prefer to actually call girlfriends out when they're being obnoxious, rude, bitchy, or whatnot. If you play games, they are damn likely to escalate, and who wants that? If you call them out instead, they'll…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 09:10 PM
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I wasn't disrespecting her, I did nothing to her to make her cry. Her tears are just her way of trying to make me crack, cause it stopped once she saw I wasn't feeding into it. Just using vulgar language period isn't needed. And I'm not her father to tell her how to behave. I want her to make those changes to her behavior at her own will. Which is why I took away what she loves most, attention. When you act right you get Mr. Nice guy when you act up you get Mr. Serious Simple as that my brother …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 06:08 PM
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good luck saying that to my girl lol, and I'm not the type to use curses when speaking with my lady cause it just get me more upset. I think it would be very disrespectful to call my girl a bitch and she would definately have escalated it and it would have ended up with me apologizing cause I couldnt control my mouth I didn't say I'd call her a bitch; I said I'd call her behaviour bitchy, which it was. That is not disqualifying her as a human being, it's disapproving of her behaviour as being ru…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 05:51 PM
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I tend to agree with those that say your selfdescribed behavior is passive aggressive. Personally, I'd not acknowledge her comment at all and not even look at her. If she pressed the issue I'd say "I'm ignoring you because you're behaving like a bitch/ being rude / acting unacceptably / whatever." Amplification of masculine authority could be done by calmly invading her personal space and staring her in the eyes. If she got upset at me for calling her behavior bitchy, or if she was snide or rude…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 05:25 PM
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Been taking the red pill for a few years, but only recently started using reddit. I'm here for much the same reasons as others: Tired of women antics, feminism, political correctness... trp writers provide a lot of food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 11:15 PM
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That would make a very good preface to what I wrote. Btw, I'm assuming feminazis who need to be taken down harshly, not just a few pegs, but a whole damn ladder. Those are the sort of females I've heard this particular thing from before.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 03:51 PM
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"Men don't pursue me romantically because they are threatened by a strong independent woman." Lol, next time I hear that I'm going to say: "No they're not. The real reason men don't pursue you is that they don't find fat aggressive warhogs attractive..." And if she didn't rush off all huffy, I'd add: "Stop being fat, put on some proper makeup and clothes, and soften up, by which I mean 'don't be fat aggressive ugly bitch' and you just might some male attention too. Did I say stop being fat? "
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 02:31 PM
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Also, read http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dg19x/the_book_of_pook/ This. Pro tip.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 08:17 AM
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Start doing research into manly pursuits, and then engage in them. Like building your body and doing martial arts... That way you get into contact with manly men, and then you can sort of let their behaviour rub off on you. If you can get into a male friend-gang, and phase out your dependence on femme friendships, you're set. Addendum: Do stuff that raises your testosterone levels and I promise it'll be easier. Testosterone = hightened agression + less bitchyness + more toughness + greater asser…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 12:50 AM
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I've been integrating "not asking" for some time. It's really difficult due to prior programming, but I'm getting better at it. In my experience, girls are SIGNIFICANTLY less likely to flake if there isn't a hint of uncertainty or questioning.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 10:55 PM
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Lol, evilly awesome flirting that. Or should I say "flarting"?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 10:26 PM
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I don't generally. Normally I just laugh accusers in their faces and called them "sweet cheeks" if female(ish) and "fag" if "male". When the accusation is implicit rather than openly stated, and the individual asking/saying isn't screeching, I may humor them with an explanation if I feel like it or if there is something to gain by doing so. Good standard explanations can be found here: http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/the-catalog-of-anti-male-shaming-tactics/
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 10:17 PM
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That, or a master.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 09:55 PM
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I know where you're coming from. My oldest brother and I had an almost non-existent relationship for almost 20 years due to his controlling bitch of a wife. Our relationship was so bad that I considered disowning him more than once. When things fell apart and it turned out that she had been cheating on him for probably 15 years, I decided that, fuck, blood is blood, and offered to help him with the move etc, and we sort of reconnected a bit. Our relationship is by no means as strong as it should…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 07:38 PM
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I've given up on trying to talk with my brothers. It hurts having discissions about women and relationships with them because they're getting shafted by the women in their lives, and they just won't listen. Probably because I'm the youngest. Dad won't get shafted by mom though. He ain't perfect, but he's not a pushover when it counts and he's got a bit of asshole game. I've realized that I probably can't save my brothers from themselves... And I grieve that.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 11:29 AM
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That reminds me of this clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY2TC4R2TbI Hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 02:59 PM
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Pro-tip 1: Read "The Willpower Instinct" by Kelly McGonigal and do the exercises. It actually helps. Some of the exercises in it are very applicable on quitting porn, like this: When the urge comes, always try to wait 15 minutes before indulging. While waiting, do something that will make it more difficult to indulge, like going out for a walk, or do something which kills the urge by giving some other type of satisfaction, like hitting the gym. If you blast yourself at the gym, you'll be too tir…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 12:42 AM
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Basic conversations skills, like using observations and finding jump off points in your conversation goes a long way. By observations, I mean observing the other persons behaviour, "vibe", etc, as well as environmental things. That gives you opportunities to build rapport. Example: Girl seems happy and energetic. Me: "Wow, you seem happy and energetic today. That makes me curious as to why." Girl: Shines up even more "Yeah, it's been a really good day because blah blah blah" Note 1: Girls want t…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 12:06 AM
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A summary that actually says something would be nice.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 11:09 PM
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I agree completely, obviously :) You can take the idea of complimenting choices as far as you want to too. A couple of years ago, I spontaneously gave a girl a "para-nuclear" compliment. I say "para-nuclear" as opposed to "apocalypse", if you're familiar with the PUA-concept of an "apocalypse opener". If you want to force a girls hand into either accepting you or rejecting you, this is a viable route. Anyways. This is what happened: I was sitting at a table with a bunch of female acquaintances, …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:19 PM
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My view is that while compliments aren't to be showered upon a female, because doing so devalues the compliments and you along with them, the key is in the congruency between the compliment and the intent behind it. If you compliment a woman with a supplicating intent, she'll pick up on it aaand you're friend zoned, game over. If your intent is congruent with the compliment, like for example... Say you're dancing with a chick, and she does something really cool which you appreciate, like... Pull…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 02:09 PM
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I interpret the OP as: "I'm starting to come around, but could you gents here at TheRedPill give me the proverbial kick in the ass to go all the way? The consequences of what I actually want and need to do are daunting. Tally ho." Just do it. It'll probably suck for a while, but in the long term you're guaranteed to be better off.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 01:32 PM
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The change is not instant. It requires work and awareness of one's own behaviours, thoughts and feelings. Remember that mistakes and relapses are only such when you don't learn from them and when you do not strive to correct them. I've failed, a lot, and I still occasionally do, but it's a lessening problem. My confidence is skyrocketing, as is my intergrity and sense of identity. It feels like I'm bringing out my true nature, and as such, I don't have to "fake it until I make it" anymore. It's …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 01:01 PM
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For something to be a "double standard", the parties affected by it must have the exact same preconditions. If the preconditions are not the same, it cannot be a double standard. Instead, it becomes two different standards. I think I read it on theRedPillRoom, and I thinks it's apt: Women hold the key to sex. Men hold the key to commitment. I would add the caveat "Assuming it's consensual" to both statements. Let's call the keys "the sex card" and the "relationship card". If a woman gives away h…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 08:12 PM
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The way I see it, just hooking up with a girl who has had too many cocks isn't really a boner killer for most men. Unless she's a complete skank that is. Sexing skanks is, to me, tantamount to smearing a CDC petri dish of mysteries on my dick. Tried it once when I was young and blue pill. Boils on yer junk and pissing razor wire isn't my idea of fun. Not wanting to have an LTR with a promiscous female is self-preservation, not insecurity. You've already been pointed to info on why LTR's with pro…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 07:20 PM
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I value knowing that a woman has an acceptable history IF I consider having a future with her in it. It's as simple as that really. A virgin would be preferable, but a small string of losers would be acceptable. I want the emotional bond with a future life partner to be adamantine, and if she's ridden the carousel or had alpha cock that bond is likely to be weaker than it could be. My SMV is going up, like skyrocketing, and I see no reason for settling for damaged goods. Harsh perhaps, but so wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 11:18 PM
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Manson makes some valid points in his book "Models", but he is a bit of an idealist (understatement) and many of his writings, esp on the so called "madonna whore complex" seem tailored towards justifying his own behaviour and/or philosophical/ideological leanings. Essentially, his position seems to be that if you judge a woman unfit for a serious relationship due to her past, you're a bad person and/or needy and/or operating from a scarcity frame. Bullxxxx if you ask me. He gives of white knigh…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 10:21 PM
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Example of shit test that I won: While dancing with a chick on a dance course (bachata) , I half turned her so that her ass was against my groin and I put my hand on her belly. I accidentally touched her boobs when placing my hand on her belly. Her: Could you put your hand a little lower, cuz you did some boob touching there. Me: Oh really keeps hand where it is Her: Yeah, it's usually considered bad manners to do boob touching when dancing with girl. Me: Who's claiming I've got good manners? fl…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 09:23 PM
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I own the book. I'd say that it's targeted towards those who have just started on the red pill and self improvement. It's short and to the point. Little in it was new to me, but the value of it is that the relevant points are collected and presented in an accessible way with little, if any, bullshit. I bought it mostly for the sake of getting an additional perspective, so to speak. Even though I learned little new from it, I don't regret buying it, for the above mentioned reason (broadening one'…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 03:35 PM
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"Dating women with children?" No.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/13 04:35 PM
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"I can have any guy I want right now!" and on another occassion "I can > do whatever the fuck I want!" A couple of years ago I would've wimped out on that sort of crap. Now, I'd day something along the lines of: "You know where the door is. Grab your shit. Don't come back." And that's not something I'd just say either. It'd be how I would feel about it too. She'd have to supplicate her ass off, with her ass (and more), for me to even get close to entertaining the notion of possibly considering l…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 08:39 PM
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"At the same time though, if you have to lie about your SMV, you're not truly being alpha, you're just a beta pretending." Are you refering to outright lies intended to increase SMV, like lying about material wealth? If not, are you referring to practicable behaviors which increase attractiveness, like setting healthy boundaries, or perhaps seduction techniques (which are quite possible to internalize) like push-n-pull, kino, etc? If you're referring to the first, which I'm assuming, I'd say tha…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 10:53 PM
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"I just watched you circle this bar and pick up on every girl in here. If I'm the last girl you want to talk to, then no thanks." Cute. Speshul lil' snowflake needs to believe she's moh' speshul than the other snowflakes before she gets pumped 'n dumped, which of course is something that mysteriously "just happens".
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 10:11 PM
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