In this post of mine I'm going to take a look at Lise Bourbeau book '5 wounds that hinder us from enjoying ourselves'. The book is a little bit occult and esoteric but it's a small book and this book contains a great explanation of modern human psychie.

TL; DR:

  1. There is no 'alpha male'. What is called alpha here is a simple man-sadist with lots of issues.
  2. Typical male is a beta male. And that's ok.

Book is great because this girl (Lise Bourbeau) have read all the great psychoanalysts in the world. Then she sit down and wrote what she thinks. I encourage you to read the whole book.

There are 3 common psychoanalytical issues with a Mother archetype (man in modern world):

  1. Masochism and perversion. E.g. wanting to fuck with a mom of yours in vice versa order (pegging). See Venom in Spider-Man. Venom is a creature of perverted lust.
  2. Pride. I would call it toxic pride. Look at any political leader.
  3. Greediness. basically man are much more prone to save many different assets (like money) without any rational reason.

There are 3 common psychoanalytical issues with a Father archetype (woman):

  1. Sadism. Sadistical behaviour. The more suitable word would be Domination.
  2. Betrayal. By betrayal I mean controlling someone through manipulation and deception. Look at typical macchiavellism and psychopathy/sociopathy traits
  3. Envy. Basically women relationships are based on envy. Typical woman would like to be a millionare in order to provoke envy from her friends.

Off course real people are much more complicated and for example some woman have male issues. For example traiditional woman (sadism, betrayal, envy) with a perversion would be called BPD in your language here.

If you are familiar with christian sinistry your heard about another dead sins: gluttony and despairness. Gluttony is a manifestation of perversy. It is the perversion at the root of any addiction (drugs, alcohol) with exception for cigarettes. Despairness is just having depression.

What I want to point out that men and women live more peacefully with their traditional sins. Woman with sadism may hit her children and would be demanding wife for her husband but the male sadist would end up killing people or in more peaceful circumstances going to bars and teasing people there to fight.

Now the conclusion: The so-called ALPHA MALE here is just man with man+woman issues. Typical sadist. Stop worship this shit.

Instead I suggest to use more suitable hierarchy:

  1. Alpha male - A-Type - Leader.
  2. Beta male - B-Type - Follower.

That would make much more sense. Hope you will be well.