Sometimes men will ask the question:

"How much does x matter?"

"What about y"

Well, it matters in the context of a big ol formula. That formula is Yin and Yang.

The Foundation of sexual attraction is sexual dimorphism. (For those who haven't been paying attention in their evo psych studies, sexual dimorphism is the contrast between male and female, most often referring to physical traits) We are not most attracted to androgynous women, we are attracted most to women who are living caricatures of femininity. Women are not attracted to androgynous beta males, they are attracted to men who epitomize masculinity.

So yes, height plays a role, musculature plays a role, tone of voice plays a role, your level of facial hair, your dick length, your torso to leg length ratio, your 2D:4D ratio, your Testosterone levels. How you conduct yourself. It all adds up.

While some of these may or may not be in your favor, adjustments can be made. Yin and Yang are the opposing male and female energies, and the energies must find their equal in nature to be balanced.

Male and female are opposite, and are attracted to their equal in health and sexual dimorphism.

Health is displayed in things like genetic health, such as facial symmetry, as well as more subtle things like your skin, its tone / rosiness, etc.

That 6' 2" Ripped college Football star? He's not the exact epitome of masculinity, but he is certainly on the far end of the male spectrum. Logically, he will be paired with his equal in sexual dimorphism and health. Status is also playing a role here, but status is a concern of the masculine. Who the alpha male is, is far more important than who the alpha female is.

The 5' 7" blonde cheerleader with curves in all the right places, flawless skin, and a voice that hurts your ears sometimes?

She is with her equal in health and sexual dimorphism.

That is the be all, end all.

Yin and Yang must balance, and you will end up where you belong in natures quest for equilibrium. You will end up banging and LTRing girls who are your equal (or less, via hypergamy) in health and sexual dimorphism.

You may pine for a relationship with the most yin, feminine woman you have ever met, but it cannot work unless you are her equal in yang. Contrast is one of the foundations of beautiful and deep experiences, which is why society focuses on members of our species who are at the extreme ends of yin and yang. Brad Pitt, Katy Perry, Football players and cheerleaders. But the contrast between you and her will not be balanced, her Yin will be far stronger than your Yang, and you will be burned, cheated on, or have your alpha behavior left untolerated. With your equal, or your lesser, you hold the cards, and can form a harmonious and pleasant relationship.

This is all that matters. It does not help to be short, it does not help to have a high pitched voice, it does not help to be skinny,

BUT WHAT MATTERS IS YOUR TOTAL LEVEL OF MASCULINITY, THE LEVEL OF YANG YOU BRING TO THE TABLE. You can make up for a lack of sexual dimorphism in one area with another.

You can offset unmasculine characteristics through game, and anything else which makes you more masculine, or allows you to feign being so. Game is make up for males. It is a feigning of masculinity which is not there, just as Make up is a feigning of beauty which is not there. The difference is that over time, game changes the man inside. Game allows a man to at first fake the hallmark behaviors of a masculine man, but eventually to become him.

Become the most Yang male you can, and you will acquire the most feminine woman you are capable of acquiring.