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| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness. | Nogoodsense | /r/askMRP | 05/01/16 08:31 AM | |
| 0 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do? | Victim Puke | Nogoodsense | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 01:08 AM |
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| 2 | OnlyFans Will Ban Pornography Starting in October 2021 (to comply with financial partners)Nope. Any sexually explicit content is banned. So no more sex tapes. At best it will be downgraded to soft core style stuff. Artistic nudes etc will be allowed. Anything depicting sex will not. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/08/21 11:37 PM |
| -6 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't histhe implication is that if the man was able to love and care for the son before knowing it wasn't his, he should be able to continue like that even after knowing. It's an argument seeking to devalue genetic links in fathers. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisAn initial cost, but how many women would continue as they have been with the FULL KNOWLEDGE that parental confirmation would be required at birth? I suspect we would see a large increase in abortions or Plan-B use. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisThis is more MGTOW than incel | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisAssuming the presumed father has not been DNA sampled, how would they know that? Blood type might be a tell, i guess. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisTLDR: In the average population, about 2%. In Mexico almost 12% (yikes) But if you suspect your girl's a whore, you're probably right 33% of the time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisyou forgot the link | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't hisfoster parenting, adoption "I'm afraid of marriage because there is no real way to assure I won't get cucked and raise someone else's kid" "Well, how about if you VOLUNTARILY cuck yourself from the start?" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/19 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Welcome to the Desert of The RealUnfortunately I read everything, right up to where he plugged his TShirt design and twitter. I can't tell if that was done ironically or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/16 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get Laidlol why the fuck does this bother you so much bro? god damn. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get LaidNintendo isn't pretending the app is for social networking. And there is nothing offensive or underhanded about them trying to make cash off of their IP. TRP is just realizing that it can be used as a stupid easy vehicle for meeting potential plates with a pre-built-in icebreaker. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Pokemon Go Get Laidyeah winter is going to be a big wet blanket on this whole phenomenon. Niantic/Nintendo need to be very careful with pacing of new content to keep people interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get Laidwhat 12 year olds have access to credit cards to make in game purchases? what 12 year olds are regularly allowed by their parents to wander around at odd hours into new places by themselves? the game is targeted mostly at the college demographic. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Pokemon Go Get LaidPoGo is no more gimmicky than going to a gym/club/bar. it's a social vehicle and a venue targeted at prime demographics (people aged 18 to mid-30s, but mostly college age). Like going to the gym, or your preferred hobby group/club, the context implies that everyone there has a shared interest. so conversation is much easier than cold calling at girls in clubs/bars. also there is no money necessarily involved, and the meeting locations are potentially anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get Laidbeen on TRP long enough to know I'm 22. ah, youth. you gain nothing from getting virtual pokemon (except entertainment, if that's your thing). what you gain from this is an extra social vehicle and venue to meet women who you already share something in common with. it's no more or less useful than going to a bar/club. it's a tool. how you use it, and how it benefits your RP lifestyle, depends entirely on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get Laidwell that's wild speculation if i ever saw it. there is very little reason why they would let players sell in-game items for IRL cash. all sorts of legal problems with that. They will add TRADING pokemon between players, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:57 AM |
| 87 | Pokemon Go Get LaidTFW you realize that this is how Japan will combat it's fertility problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get Laidanother benefit of the PoGo experience is that the key spots are usually culturally/historically/artistically significant. do some reading up on the ones around you before heading out. it's conversation starters that even a brain-dead person could navigate. winter will bring in the era of pokedriving. guarantee it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Pokemon Go Get Laidthe first game-ified one was ingress, yes, run by the same comany that doesn PoGo. before all of this was Geocaching, though, which was around before even smart phones. focuses on wilderness treks and treasure-hunting aspects. so it:s more of an outdoors-y thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Pokemon Go Get Laidno way it's WSB. that group couldn't turn a solid dollar if their lives depended on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Pokemon Go Get Laidand since both you and your target will have phones out and in hand to play, it:s almost frictionless to ask to exchange contact info | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Pokemon Go Get Laidvery unlikely, as it would risk nintendo/pokemon's child-friendly image. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 01:39 AM |
| 13 | A 17 year old protesters gets triggered and falls apart crying when having to face basic logic and facts that men have less rights than women in the US and the Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's disturbing children like her have been brainwashed their entire lives to believe feminist bullshit.trump rally i think | /r/MensRights | 24/04/16 02:55 PM |
| 83 | A 17 year old protesters gets triggered and falls apart crying when having to face basic logic and facts that men have less rights than women in the US and the Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's disturbing children like her have been brainwashed their entire lives to believe feminist bullshit.shit i never thought of it that way..like she was a pampered rich girl with an illegal nanny.. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Help a cunt out.Kim is very thick. I wouldn't deign to call her petite though. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Help a cunt out.thick petite Pick one. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Ran into Plates husband, he may as well fly the Bluepill flag that says "Cuck me"You've mention keylogging before. I can only assume you mean her mobile phone, unless your wife is stupid enough to put incriminating things on the shared family PC. This being the case, what phone does she have an how did you keylog it? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 05:38 AM |
| 3 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitThe elitist posturing from you and OP is hilarious. non members aren't worthy of receiving a full explanation no respect for askTRP posters You're both part of why this whole community gets a bad rap. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 09:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitGot emmmmmmm | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 03:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitIt's fine. Sure. But nothing to write home about. And certainly not "borderline excellent" as OP is trying to claim. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 03:23 AM |
| 7 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitRiiiiight. My history for the past 48 hours sure is a great representative sample. Rock on man. I am a member here. I know the vernacular. I have read all of the sidebar. You aren't being a leader. You're being an ass. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 03:19 AM |
| 5 | [FR] ongoing: hydrostatic testing just created a huge dread fitLocking shower. Pissy mood. Expecting her to deny sex. She's having body image issues and lack of confidence. She isn't feeling dread. If she were she'd be trying to up her appeal by upping the sexiness. Why are you enjoying/amused by this? Shes your second-in-command. She's not your rival that you enjoy watching them lose. Does she exercise? If so, why isn't it working? If not, why not? Step up and help her. This whole post seems petty af. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/16 01:08 AM |
| 56 | Poor chick manipulated into doing porn does AMA, gets called outYep. It bears mentioning that recently another GDP video had a very popular thread on 4chan, which then came to 4chan subreddit, and then traveled around porn subreddits to much fanfare..based on the story that the girl doing it was cheating on her military bf (saw him before and after the shoot and he knew nothing about it). There was TRP-ish rhetoric in the threads. this is marketing. The GDP guys are going meta. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Man has 800 children by meeting women on facebook and donating sperm in motorway toiletsAhhh ok. That makes more sense. I figured something was too good to be true about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Man has 800 children by meeting women on facebook and donating sperm in motorway toilets..what? I mentioned this because many people in the comments here are saying this guy could get raped with child support. I was just pointing out that this is a non-issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Man has 800 children by meeting women on facebook and donating sperm in motorway toiletshijacking top comment to point out what most everybody here seems to have missed from the article. Those children will have no legal or financial claim against the donor parent Unless I'm mistaken, this means no claims to child support to the mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Even spinning multiple plates, I want them all to be exclusive to me.Ah the TRP double standard. It's cool for us to plate girls endlessly, but they're sluts and undesirable if they do the same. No. This is just immaturity and lack of abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Even spinning multiple plates, I want them all to be exclusive to me.I would wager your throwaway username says it all. Jealousy stems from fear that they will leave you for the other lovers. That fear comes from you still basing your self worth on them having sex with you. If they are also having sex with other guys, it devalues what they do with you. Develop abundance mentality. No plate should effect you if she chooses to act in a way that makes you drop her. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill BalanceCurious to know if you use Vulnerability here in the same sense that Mark Manson did in Models? He claims it as a virtue, and one of man's most valuable assets. You seem to be taking the opposite tack here. Thoughts? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 06:58 AM |
| 2 | She's Letting me goFor the clueless, I'll take a stab at what's being implied here: She believes she's the core/leader of the relationship, and that it's her responsibility to make him happy. Not the other way around. e.g. OP never had the reigns. Once he started to try taking them, she realized he wouldn't fit in the role she was comfortable with. ...Is this what you meant /u/Redneck001 ? | /r/askMRP | 07/01/16 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Some sort of Illness or Injury or general not feeling well every daySounds like your SO is psychosomatic with all of this. Fatigue, random pains, habitually taking pain meds + sleeping pills. She's avoiding. Sounds like mild depression and high levels of stress. As stated above, improve yourself. Support her. Don't ignore her. That's just being an asshole. Part of being a leader is empathy and benevolence. If she's worried about being unable to afford tooth care, make it so that worry disappears. Lead the way in getting her fixed. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/16 05:30 AM |
| 22 | [FR] Another day in paradiseWife denied my sexual advances two days in a row. She is sick with a bad cough and runny nose, so I somewhat understand. Eh..."somewhat understand" is needlessly callous. Your boss at work should more than "somewhat understand" you taking a sick day if you have a cold, and should not hold it against you in the slightest thereafter. Being a leader also involves benevolence and empathy. This idea does not get as much airtime in the TRP community as it should. That said, you pulled it back into the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/16 05:18 AM |
| 1 | She's Letting me goLinking to your previous post might be helpful. I don't know the backstory here, so this is all conjecture, but I don't see why you are taking this as a failure. You started improving yourself. Stopped being a whipped beta. Pushed the dread. It wasn't something she was comfortable with. She was used to being in charge, and used to you being predictable. You stopped that. She became uncomfortable. She wanted out of that situation. Why is this bad? If she wants a guy like that, and you don't want … | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Where can I find a better "Reddit"?I regularly browse /r/all, but I have heavily filtered it with RES. Probably 100+ /r/'s I've blocked. AlienBlue has the same functionality with Post-Filters, but it's rather tedious to setup. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 07:27 AM |
| -1 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.Man I'm glad this was posted here. I feel much more well-equipped to execute sexual strategy on women after reading this news story for the Nth time this week. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 06:22 AM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.This is a good summary. The responses I've gotten here have lit up my blind spots. Will be doing something like this soon. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.I agree with this sentiment. Unfortunately banking in Japan is abysmal. Debit cards do not exist as we know them in the USA. ATM cards do, but you can only use them to withdraw cash. No Visa logo that lets you use them like a CC for online purchasing etc. So cash is king still. It's terrible. Online banking is also bare minimum. It's like 1995 here in that sense. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.You're saying "I accept responsibility", then you don't. If a young kid somehow breaks the law, it's the parents' fault for raising the child poorly. They should fix that. But that doesn't absolve the kid from responsibility altogether. You're saying "I don't care about the money" and then you do. This is going to be difficult to convey. I don't care about the money that was lost. I care that money was lost. Where I'm the Go To Guy for finances. Work in progress. Where my family happily comes to… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.We are in the same situation. I travel regularly on business, so she will always have a hand in the finances. It's a joint effort as you describe. The problem was that until recently I had mostly left it entirely up to her. This was a good smack to wake me up, and it's been fixed. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.None of the lost money was hesokuri. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I told her I miss herThis is absolutely the wrong way to think about it. Faking it until you make it is one thing, but lying and pretending you have something you don't - just to impress other people is beta to the max. "Accidentally" texting her is passive aggressive. It's a woman's move. He should not give the illusion of more plates. He should actually get more. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.This is true. For the majority of our marriage I was a drunk captain (often literally), and am just recently retaining control of the ship. However, there is a difference between leading and control. I fully accept that it was my bad for giving her full reigns of the finances, and have adjusted so that it won't happen again. That is leadership. Control would be leaving things as is, lazy as ever, but making her ask my permission before taking large amounts of cash out of the house. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.AFAIK if a wife loses her own hesokuri, she doesnt make a fuss of it, as it was a @secret@ stash to begin with. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.You're points are all good.Locking the doors is definitely in effect after this incident. You say you would have handled it different. How so? Edit to add: Remember that my lack of shock and appall is due to this money not being in my mental calculator to begin with. AFAIKnew it didnt exist until she told me she lost it. That being said. Time is infinitely more valuable than money,m and spending an afternoon at the bank sorting out paperwork is easily worth $500 (two people afterall) of sunk cos… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [Lessons] Decent amount of money lost/stolen due to wife's haphazard handling, and my own laziness.Yeah I know about hesokuri. We don't have that in my household, as all income passes by both of us before being processed as we both sit in front of hter PC and work the excel sheet together. So if she has hesokuri, it's garnished from whatever personal kozukai she didn't use. Which is fine AFAIK. Good info for future people though. The Japanese tradition of leaving house finances up to the (usually non-earning) wife is a pitfall in modern culture for sure. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | ELI5: Amused Mastery?previous commentor provided a PDF so I'm good. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | D. Rose - Sex God Method. Your experiences?PSA for Posterity - Sex God Method is end-game material. Don't bother using it until you're plates/SO/gf/wife is already regularly receptive to sex and you are generally and consistently happy with the ambient mood/status of the relationship for several months on end. If you want to try out new techniques, fine. But don't try to use any of the psychological tricks/methods in that book until you and your SO are already primed and receptive. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting ED having swallowed the pillYour age, diet, and physical activity are very important factors here. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 07:27 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Talk Less. Touch More. Coasting on Raw Discipline for Pure ResultsThat must make for some interesting conversation with new plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 07:17 AM |
| 3 | How to be a friend with RP?While /u/merciless_smelliot is correct, I'd like to add that there is nothing anti-RP about "opening up". Models goes on and on about how vulnerability is one of the most masculine qualities a man can possess. If a guy consistently refuses to engage in meaningful conversation (with anyone, not just women), it implies he can't handle the situation's intimacty, so he reverts to A&A or AM by default in order to "hold frame". The problem is that such frames are spindly af and collapse if he gets int… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Career QuestionSince OP here has already mentioned this to the SO, she will be expecting a followup. He will have to tell her he got passed up. Hello beta-image. He can recover by preemptively explaining how he's either: Indignantly seeking employment elsewhere for similar positions. (Thought this looks butthurt if it wasn't in the narrative before the interview fail). Accepting the intern job, studying the position (also buying career improvement books to read at home), and getting it later. Remember. Women w… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 07:03 AM |
| 2 | I told her I miss herOh her reply to "I miss you" was like 10 upside down smiley emojis. Whatever that means That was her way of expressing her massive disappointment in you. She knows you have a weakness/dependency on her for your happiness. So that means you haven't found anyone else. It's "I see you're suffering. I don't feel the same way so I can't echo your feelings, but I will signal nonverbal empathize instead." Also she's probably thinking "WTF this guy wouldn't commit, but now he's saying he misses me? Can'… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Stood up for an earlier emergency - reasonable or bullshit?So go radio silent for a week or so. Then next time you feel like meeting her, invite her out. Don't mention the car thing ever again, unless she brings it up. And if she flakes twice in a row, next. You will have to (and should) take lead in the end, but make it implicitly clear that flaking won't be tolerated or compensated for. Edit to add: but to forget about her plans? I really don't know what to think. Yes you do. It means the date with you was not priority enough in her mind that she felt… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:43 AM |
| 3 | After 4 years of no contact, this.First time I read this I couldn't tell who was the female. Had to read the comments condemning unskilled use of "k" to figure out which was OP. "Does it kill you to admit that you miss me?" "Want to know what I remember?" (What was your planned followup here, exactly? Before she shut you down I mean) SMH the butthurt is strong, and she can sense it. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Career QuestionThis is a weird question. They let you interview as a hire-from-within candidate, but selected someone else from within? or a new hire? Either way, letting you intern..internally (for a company you already work for)..for a position someone else got is an odd situation. It sounds like they don't think you're ready yet, and want to train you for later conversion. If you get a pay increase, and perform the full role of the position, I don't see why this is a problem (for you). It seems weird that t… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:33 AM |
| 3 | ELI5: Amused Mastery?Hot damn this is a great comment/source quote. Is this book in the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What would you do?..? Tell Jason. Christ OP. Way too long for a simple simple solution. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:54 AM |
| 8 | Close friend flirting with my plateplate "cheating" Choose one. Also does your BP friend know you're fucking her? And no, you didn't "win". Your BP friend submitted, and your plate/gf got the attention she wanted. From you, from BP-guy, and your RP-friend. She was the center of attention. And you still fucked her in the end. She won. Hope you're more coherent when you've sobered up. You sound like a drama queen right now. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:42 AM |
| 8 | I excessively, irrationally worry about pregnancy. Not sure how to stop.If you see pregnancy as a catastrophe, and you already use condoms AND pull out...then only next step you can take is to get snipped. And if even THAT doesn't assuage your worries, I imagine you could have your balls completely removed? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:37 AM |
| 6 | How to pretend to be interesting/have interestsHijacking top comment to summarize, so other people can avoid wasting time on this thread: ITT: 75 (currently) comments trying to help OP, and OP shoots each and every one of them down. OP a 26-yo programmer who hates his job. He is clearly depressed (nothing makes me happy, nothing is interesing), is currently in therapy, refuses to follow his therapist's advice, and refuses to take meds to help with it. He is not trying. He is entitled. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Insecure about my SMV because of my receding hairlineDo they care about looks? Yes, but much less than guys care about womens' looks. Status is always more important than looks. Status is reflected in your clothes, health, income, and social interactions. Work on those. In the mean time, look up haircuts for men with thinning hair. Hint: most of them involve very short cuts. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 07:15 AM |
| 11 | Repostarrroommmma.......Have Yourself a Very Red Pill Christmas!Trying to politicize things during holiday visits is not a good look. Why on earth are you getting into these kinds of conversations anyway? NGAF and doing your own thing is much more TRP than this kind of evangelism. You might want to try /r/mensrights/ This is their bread and butter, not ours. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/15 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Getting no likes on tinder. What the fuck is going wrong?Let's not forget the oily skin, stubble, and T-shirt, cliche geek irony glasses..this photo screams "lonely and lazy" | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Question about Abundance MentalityWell if nothing else, you definitely have "abundance mentality" down. However, you seem to be completely ignoring the larger sexual marketplace, and your place within it. As for when persistence becomes over-investment..it's case by case, and basically when you CARE about the result more than she does. If you don't care, there is no investment. Repeat until she hard no's you. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What cultures do you think have the most/least hypergamistic women?ITT: humblebrags and anecdotes. Nothing more to see. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Any successful stories from the people who lives in Southeast Asia?Not sure what you're asking. Success with what? Spinning plates? Swapping from BP to RP? As a general statement, I believe Asian countries to be more conducive to RP theory. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:16 AM |
| 3 | You ever been to the strip club here?Without a photo I can't be sure if she qualifies...but it's possible she works there and wants to know if you're a former client? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:12 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a FWB who tries to be too assertive in bedSGM already assumes you are Alpha and she sees you as such. SGM should seriously be the VERY LAST BOOK people on the TRP path should read. Reading it and trying to implement it while you're still mid-way results in nonsense like OP. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | No kiss?Pentecostal? Ugh. And yeah. If that's the case, then to here kissing is just a hair-breadth away from fucking. That's why she's keeping you at bay. To be fair though, many women have this reservation. Once they open themselves up to any physicality, they can find it hard to put limits. Tingles are unstoppable, etc. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:54 AM |
| 3 | I'm a medical student but I want more out of lifeThis isn't a BP/RP issue. There is nothing BP about providing a valued service that potentially saves lives. It sounds like you've misinterpreted RP Theory somewhere along the way. RP doesn't mean being a solipsistic asshole only looking out for himself. It's about being a leader. Leadership necessitates empathy. But if that's where you find yourself now, and for the foreseeable future; then yeah, switch careers. I would hate to have to put my life in the hands of someone with this attitude. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Question about Abundance MentalityYou will be able to game the girls you deserve. Just because you can game her does not make her "easy". Girls you are unable to game are either above your level, or not compatible with your MO. Use this as a barometer to measure your progress and your true intentions. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:26 AM |
| 3 | people who look down on youYes. Eventually you will do something that forces them to change their opinion of you. But really, you should be NGAF about other people's opinions of you. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Post hookup textingThe other commenters here are correct. NO response needed. Let it simmer. But. It's possible she just doesn't like talking about sexy time outside of sexy time. Or doesn't like being "evaluated". I've had girls in the past who were just shy like that. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:19 AM |
| 2 | How did I handle this?You did everything right, but you also seem to be avoiding the question purposely to the point of being obnoxious. "You seem less interested." "Yeah that kiss wants a word with you". ....What? What is that even supposed to mean? What was your intent here? Were you trying to hint that she was a bad kisser? That you were expecting more and are disappointed? I have no clue what you're after here. And very good chance neither does she. "So what did you mean?" "(avoids question)" "Don't avoid the que… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:10 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm ruining my relationship of 5 years.Negatory. She's hoping he'll man up and move the fuck out of her parents house. That is 100% of the problem here. Her earning more than him is another problem. Sure the guy has his new business he's starting, but he should be making stable money elsewhere while it grows. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 05:31 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm ruining my relationship of 5 years.to move in with my girlfriend and her parents. First problem. You're not married. Is this in the plans? Is there a date set? Do you think her parents are 100% cool with this, if there are no plans? Do you think they're not giving her a few raised eyebrows about it on the sly? so we could buy a house in the near future instead of paying off debts immediately. Second problem. *"We decided to save up in order to take on more debt, instead of handling the debt we already had." * Also, why are you ta… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 05:29 AM |
| 5 | The validity of texting logistics only?If she's attracted to you, and you fucked her well. It doesn't matter if it's months. She won't forget you. She may CC (you're spinning plates, too, after all), but she will come back to you. If she doesn't...so? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 05:12 AM |
| 3 | You never say "sorry"OP. Holy shit dude. She's abusive. Flat out. No further explanation needed. I hope she doesn't do shit like that in front of your kids. Regardless of the kids gender, seeing that going on is NOT going to set good examples of behavior for the future. Regardless, I assume she wasn't always this way. And she became this way because you never manned up and took control of the household. So now she has to. And she's clearly not happy about it. Her hitting you, and knocking shit off tabletops and expe… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 05:07 AM |
| 7 | You never say "sorry"The captain doesn't explain things to the first mate. Clearly OP is NOT the captain of his household. The wife is and she's sick of it. She doesn't like the position, never asked for it, and holds it begrudgingly because OP won't do it himself. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 05:03 AM |
| 3 | STFU FuckupWell if STFU was your goal, you achieved it. but as others have said here, STFU is a response when she's attacking you with shit tests. She wasn't shit testing (at first). She was venting her stress. You shutting up and listening was the right thing to do. Women very rarely want to have their problems fixed for them. They want to be listened to and commiserated with. am I being too smart for you with medical terminology etc, Not a shit test, but offensive. You could call her out on that. maybe I… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingThe thing is it's not "for a few months". It's at best a few years. And that's if you are constantly a blessed Saint the entire time afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingNow you're making sense. All of this is correct. But admitting it and trying to keep the relationship normal is a failed strategy from the start. Everyone here saying "don't confess" assumes OP plans to be monogamous with this girl from now on. He hasn't said anything to the contrary. After all. True TRP would be saying "well, why did you cheat? Figure that out. Maybe you aren't ready for having a kid with a girl you've only been DATING (not married) for 1.5yrs? Are you ready for THAT? Doesn't s… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingHonor is a moral concept. Not a a strategic one. You're the one posting in the wrong sub. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingI have never seen that in TRP. We criticize them, naively, for hypergamy/CC, and for being unclear/uncertain of their own motives/desires. I say "naively" because all of this is their nature. Their body agenda. Women do not confess (inconsequential) mistakes because doing so would be counterproductive to their overall strategy. Well ok. They would admit it if they were ok with losing the guy. After all they cheated because he wasn't a valuable enough partner. Same should hold true for men. We do… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingWhat part about this strategy is hypocritical? TRP does not expect women to confess their mistakes. TRP expects that women will make mistakes (cheat) if you put them in the situation that allows for/encourages it, and expects fully that they will hide it as best they can. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?General rules here: Don't ask when she's free. Don't cancel or alter your plans to make room for her (even if she doesn't know about it; it's bad precedent) Don't feel a need to reply immediately to her latest text. Give it a couple of hours, or a day. Then hit her with your next available time slot. "On Saturday" is still a bit too vague, because it says "my entire Saturday it wide open", the subtext here is "because I have a very boring life with no other plans". "Saturday afternoon" is specif… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 12:22 AM |
| 1 | "How old are you"A pressure flip is when you redirect the conversation to focus on HER actions when she's trying to pin you down about yours. In this case you would have to somehow turn the topic to her age, or flip it by saying something like "Look, no matter how old I am I'm not gonna be your sugar daddy. Is that what you're after? ;)". Dodging a question is just that - dodging - and nothing more. It's the move of a woman who's insecure about her age. Asking someone's age, in and of itself, is lame and boring.… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Texting with this girl and she just me "a nice guy". How do I not fall into that trap or is it doomed already?This may be an unpopular opinion. Being seen as "a nice guy" is not a death knell...UNLESS THAT'S ALL YOU HAVE GOING FOR YOU. I spent years plating girls while being called "sweet", "nice", and "different from other guys". They confided in me. I advised them when I was able. And I was laid like tile. No commitment with any of them, and none of them asked questions or tried to pin me down. How? Because in addition to being "nice" I was also attractive, flirty, and had a leading position in my soc… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 08:31 AM |
| 1 | If your dick's not in her mouth, it doesn't matter what comes out of her mouth. Also, don't be that guy offering to send her an Uber at 3amMan if a post ever needed a TLDR, this was it. Good lessons, total crap-formatted story.5/10 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:09 AM |
| 4 | "How old are you"Seriously? Every comment here so far is giving advice how to dodge the question like a bunch of women in their early-30s-oops-i-mean-25-teehee. WTF? This is a sad display. Men are rarely disqualified for being TOO OLD. Passed up for being too young? Maybe, if a woman hitting the wall is looking for someone to settle down and get beta bux from, she's going to avoid a youngster, but who cares? Young women like older men because of the social status, life experience, money, and stability they provi… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 07:43 AM |
| 2 | "How old are you"As a former bartender that watched this shit go on night after night, people dodging the question with "Guess my age" is obnoxious as hell. Especially when men do it. Just say your fucking age, man. Jesus. The rationale behind this kind of dodging is wanting to be safe and putting the pressure back on them. It's the same bullshit mentality that encourages people to "not tip their hand" by showing interest in the other party when flirting-but-trying-not-to-look-like-you're-flirting. Asking your a… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Was this a shit test? And did I fail?Redditor for 6 years, and this is your second comment? In a sub you clearly don't understand? Wow. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 07:31 AM |
| 6 | “Im not that easy“AM - arch brow, chuckle, kiss her. A&A - "Of course! Obviously I'm only talking to you because you're a virgin and saving yourself for marriage." Flip - "Aw shit, really? That's not what I heard at all." (while grinning) (alternatively "huh. You sure throw mixed signals then", cue hamster spinning) | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 07:00 AM |
| 3 | This is the complete picture, showcasing the irony of the ad on the right: "No more, no less: equality"Unfortunately society can only advance at the pace of its slowest members. We still segregate bathrooms where possible, after all. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/15 06:05 AM |
| 3 | This is the complete picture, showcasing the irony of the ad on the right: "No more, no less: equality"Good point. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/15 05:34 AM |
| -5 | This is the complete picture, showcasing the irony of the ad on the right: "No more, no less: equality"Same thing in Japan. To be fair, Japan DOES have a bad tendency of perverted drunk dudes groping girls. Especially when it's rush hour and you literally are packed in like sardines. Girls can have trouble knowing who is groping them, and can't get away. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Field report, active dreadNot sure if you understand what "main event" means. Nothing in your story sounded anywhere near divorce-level arguments. She was bitching. Like a teenager who doesn't want to do chores anymore. That's all. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/15 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Comfort test -> Shit testIn addition to all of the correct comments elsewhere here that address your technique in handling this particular situation, I would like to address what your wife was trying to tell you. I'm sure many will disagree with me here, but I don't even think this was a shit test. It comes off more as your wife was failing to accurately communicate a concern/desire (surprise, surprise), and being incredulous that you aren't able to decipher it all. I have no idea how far along the MRP awakening you are… | /r/askMRP | 16/12/15 07:48 AM |
| 3 | The Christmas Season & The Family AlphaGood stuff. First time hearing of this site. Will check it out more often. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/15 07:14 AM |
| 22 | LPT gives Blue Pill advice on "What to do when your partner has a crush"My favorite gem about this post is hidden a ways down in the comments. (cannot link unfortunately) Someone goes through his post history and finds that "he hasn't told his wife that he's actually a female in a males body" and "my wife is a little worried I'm gay" but "I'm 98% into women" so it's all ok. Dear god. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?That's the wrong way to approach it. You don't 'wait for her'. You move on to other girls and let her play catch up if she wants. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?Very possible she's backburnering you. She's interested, but not THAT interested, and probably has other guys occupying her time right now anyway. Soft next. Don't bother with her. Talk to other girls and hang out having fun with them. Post shit like that on your snapchat. This demonstrates higher SMV and will illicit reactions from her and any other girls seeing it. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?Small talk is just playing coy and making an excuse to text her. TRP Theory will tell you that text should be logistics only. So give it a bit of time. Then message her asking her out. "Hey, hope you've been well. Let's get coffee at X time on Y day." or if you have plans made already, regardless of her, but wouldn't mind her joining you... "So I'm going to X_event this Y_weekday. Why don't you join me?" Do not ask when she's free. Do not open you schedule for her. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:22 AM |
| 4 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?dinner for a first date is too much investment, it's far too much time to be forced to spend with someone brand new, it can be expensive, and it welcomes the "who pays" issue. Invite her out for coffee or drinks, of even better for a walk. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?Often if a women goes silent on texts, it's because whatever you just said to her gave her little room to continue the rapport in a normal way. "hope we didn't distract you too much!" ..is a rather odd thing to have to respond to. "no not at all!" - comes off as if she really wanted to talk to you more, and even if this were the case, she doesn't want to SEEM NEEDY "yeah actually it was a bit much but wahtever" - aloof, rejecting you, when actually she probably has a spark of interest in you. Bu… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to properly maintain frame?Ex. 1: Wife/Plate comes over after work and is complaining about how shitty her job is and boss doesn't respect her... You are her rock. You listen. Don't try to fix her problem. Just listen. Comfort her if she's really upset. Ex. 2: Wife/Plate begins verbally attacking you because she SUSPECTS you of fucking other women... (You never implied to the PLATE you were exclusive; your WIFE on the other hand you made a vow too) Plate - A&A and AM. Wife - If she's suspecting you, she has a reason to. I… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:51 AM |
| 6 | Date wouldn't give me a blowjobGood for her. Let her go on not having sex. Not your gf. Not your issue. Not everyone is going to be compatible with your situation and MO. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Date wouldn't give me a blowjobThis seems like a LMR and/or hamstering to me. Getting an STI from a getting/giving a blowjob is very very rare. "My sexual history? For a blowjob? Well, I showered before we met up today. That good enough? Also, did you brush your teeth? I wouldn't want to catch anything..." AM it. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:36 AM |
| 5 | [Mod] Make the community worth a fuck by not acting like a cunt.same for askmrp A few very toxic senior posters in there that fit the exact profile OP is denouncing here. (original comment autoremoved for linking.) | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?That's fine advice. Thanks. I wasn't genuinely asking about her feelings. It was more of a tease and way of trying to slide back into a soft approach for sex. Probably not the best way to go about it. Will be reading Sex God Method for more pointers on things like this. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Yeah I get that now. I was making moves way beyond the level of my understanding of TRP. Will check the comment. Thanks. Edit: actually I'd read that comment before. It's brilliant. Wish I had that in my head on Saturday. Oh well live and learn. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 04:53 PM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Hi prof. Was hoping you'd shed some light. Thank you! "Freeze out" for fucking vs "take away" for bitchfixing was enlightening. As for the ominous conversation. Do a Ctrl+F for "valid point" in the comments here to find my exchange with Sepean. That comment and its parents explain the resolution after this morning. Things turned out well. I don't think she is cheating or even wants to. Then again, how would I know either way? I've taken OI about that and verbalized as much to her directly. Key l… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 04:51 PM |
| -1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Thank you for the insight about the books. I am not a pushover even in the marriage. If I were we wouldn't have nearly blown apart so many times. If anything in the past I've been rather overbearing/demanding with my wife. Just not good about the whole consciously building attraction with concerted effort thing. So yeah. Even Less so outside of it. Still, in the first few chapters NMNNG mentioned "nice guys often have flawed fathers, and at some point seek to live their lives 180* the opposite o… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Tried pressing on. Wrestling. Tickling. Etc. all good fun. Make out for a bit but it's strictly just kisses. Goes on for about 20 with repeated 'soft no'. Eventually she says it's because she still has some unresolved feels from the past few days. Very well. I disengage. "Are you mad?" "No". Kiss on forehead. "Thank you". She hugs into me. So I let her talk. Just sat and listened. "When you left the other night. Where did you go?" I told her. No biggie. Nothing to hide. "In the past I used to wa… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?You're probably gifted with a reasonable amount of charm, looks, and intelligence so you're used to things working out ok for you with very little effort. More or less yes. But I am not content with being good enough as I naturally have been thus far. writing like you're hardcore red, holding frame and lifting and main event is right around the corner. Not at all. I'm the first to admit I haven't read shit except about 100 top posts and the wiki/blogs. And have next to no clue what I'm talking a… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 02:35 PM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?3 days almost complete silence? Yes yes I know it's a war. Long road. Change Won't happen soon. Worry about the long term etc. But if 3 days silence can result in a near main event. How do I go about withdrawing in a way that you would deem worthy of the title? | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 12:17 PM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Well. Fwiw she's wanting to cuddle but soft no for sex. Ho hum. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 12:13 PM |
| 0 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Please see my exchange with /u/Sepean elsewhere in the comments here. I give an update on what happened after I got home from work. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 12:08 PM |
| -1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Good points. In addition to the barbell I also use the lighter plates as free weights for weighted cardio. I add push-ups and planks to failure as well. I know I need to get more structured workout plan. I am only 3 days in though. It will come with time. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 10:52 AM |
| 2 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Thank you for the comments. The day has gone by. Radio silence. no idea what she's doing. Picked up kid from daycare and went home. Wife greets us at the door. Kid had bitten wife in the morning and refused to apologize. I talked sense into him on the way back so the first thing he did when he saw her was to apologize. "You talked to him?" "I did. He remembered on his own as well" While I'm still unloading stuff in the foyer she's kneels down hugging/greeting our son. Looks up to me with outreac… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 10:49 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Understood. But how can STFU be used to pass a comfort test (if that is, indeed, what I'm dealing with)? Silently hold her? Listen to her concerns? Ask her opinions? STFU and No-DEER seem to put this kind of thing off-limits. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?While you're on point about some of it, you're off by a mile on others. I agree with the magazine interview being feminist propaganda. "Men who work, raise the kids, AND help around the house! what bliss! See? More men should be like this!" blah blah. I agree that Japanese culture is traditionally very patriarchal, but recently has begun to see feminist leanings and supportive of effeminate men. Women take care of household finances. Husbands get a monthly allowance that the wife dictates. This … | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 05:31 AM |
| 0 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?That makes sense. I wonder what her perception of my SMV really is lately, since quitting the bar and focusing just on the family. For 4 years she saw and knew i was high SMV. She knew what comes with that kind of job and lifestyle. On multiple occasions she indirectly stated (even in group settings) she would turn a blind eye to anything that happened as a result and isn't bothered by it (plates, etc). Said she didn't expect to be my only girl, but did expect to be #1 and that nothing outside s… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?English is my first language. Not hers. Our interaction is 90% in Japanese. Lately I have been trying to change that by speaking more English, especially in "serious discussions". I will get on reading the sidebar books. Hopefully I can find ebook versions. I have been silent and not including her in anything I do alone or with our son, but I haven't been sullen. Just distant. Aloof. Unconcerned about her. She probably sees this as butthurt/sullen due to how I was in the past. To summarize, my f… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 04:40 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Thank you. This is starting to feel helpful. As for her going to the reunion. I told if she wants to go, she should go. I also told her that I'm not interested in going, and only found fault with how she handled the discussion because it was disrespectful. She's stated she would be fine with me going with her, but since that also requires our son to come, it's off the table. This is why she never told me about the "family invited" aspect of it; because it wasn't an option in her mind. As of now,… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?The most recent fight was this morning. It's noon now. What is my next step? Stfu lift? Extend olive branch? Do something fun and be jovial towards her without correcting the overall tone, and just hope for the best? in addition to seeming schizophrenic that also seems to let her completely off the hook. About the trust issues. Far too involved to put into a comment. I'm working on a separate post just for that. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 04:01 AM |
| 0 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?I mentioned leverage in the sense that "she sought to use my actions to justify her doing the same thing". The guy she fell for was newbie Alpha. We settled before marriage. I went a bit BP. Things start going south. Find her lying and break up. Go back to Alpha mode but still newb. After a few months of spinning plates we get back together. Marry soon after. Tons of external problems that were mostly my fault. For 4 years post marriage I ran my own bar and was very high SMV. But it wasn't direc… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 03:31 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?I understand it is a long road. But if I cannot assert myself effectively (due to low SMV, past BP nature) about her bad attitude, how can I attempt to demand she not go to the reunion if I'm not with her? She expects me to apologize for refusing to put up with her bad attitude. How do I respond to that? Laughter and AM seem the prescription here. But how would that actually play out? STFU & lift for the past 3 days has led me to this point. Maybe I'm doing it wrong? Does STFU and withdrawing at… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?It's a long post so I understand if you TLDR, but that is exactly what I've been doing. Wife is not seeking to repair. She seeks to escalate. How is this handled? OI + stfu, lift? Is it ok to extend an olive branch? To say "yeah maybe it was wrong about the reunion party"? All I've read says no and no. So I'm at a loss. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 03:02 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?I understand the bleak picture and the trajectory should things not improve. Things are not fun. This is why I'm on AskMRP. Asking for help. My understanding of MRP theory is if your wife acts out, you withdraw attention until she makes amends. This is what I've done. I am stfu, lifting, and focusing on me and my son. But she is not caving or seeking to repair. She seeks to escalate and withdraw herself, as seen in this morning's exchange. She stated today she doesn't think she did anything wron… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 02:59 AM |
| 1 | First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do?Yes, I get the idea. I am asking about implementation. Elaborate? | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 02:06 AM |
| 2 | What do you do for work? What do you recommend for a career?Taught ESL before marriage just for the VISA. Got married, and VISA from that. Dropped ESL. Managed a bar for 4 years. That shot my SMV through the roof, but was toxic to the marriage in general and ultimately became untenable once we had a kid. Dropped the bar when I was scouted for luxury goods international marketing/sales position. Involves regular travel, but lets me have a normal lifestyle otherwise. Income has not gone up significantly for 6 years, since I have switched careers and starte… | /r/askMRP | 10/11/15 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Don’t waste your time. When in doubt, force her to act or move onSounds kind of butthurt and passive aggressive. Better is Minimal response. Logistic texts only. Set a date to meet if you're interested. If she is too, she'll work with you to make it happen. If she stalls, she's not interested she just wants validation and orbiters. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What's the diffrence, doing chores and leading?That's the gist of it. The delivery and tone are more important than the content. You should be smirking or grinning with an obvious tone of sarcasm and facetiousness in your voice. She should giggle at the answer. If she asks for details, make them as exaggerated as you like. It doesn't matter because you aren't answering her question. You're telling a completely absurd story and a joke at the same time. Your entertaining her. What you should not do is mention anything related to reality. "Yeah… | /r/askMRP | 09/11/15 04:12 PM |
| 3 | What's the diffrence, doing chores and leading?Remember. Never DEER. Giving details is explaining. Make a joke out of it. Nothing NOTHING to be gained by your wife hearing about women hitting on you when she's not around. Too much room for hamster imagination. Even though this is effective dread (that she seems to want to apply in herself??), it feels too unreliable for me. If you are out together and women are hitting on you that's different. Then she sees it and your SMV raises via pre-selection. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/15 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What's the diffrence, doing chores and leading?"Do girls hit on you?" Is a shit test. Weirdly phrased, if she's being giddy about the idea, But a weirdly phrased shit test nonetheless . Either way don't give a definite answer. Agree and amplify. "I literally had to escape to the men's room to get the women off me" | /r/askMRP | 09/11/15 03:40 PM |
| 2 | What's the diffrence, doing chores and leading?Doing fairly split chores is not a problem. Some think doing manly chores is preferable: Fixing things, doing work outside, upgrading the house, or anything dirty or smelly. while leaving the wife to do inside chores (cooking cleaning laundry child rearing). The problem is that these are not sexual currency. They are BB material so you can't hope to get sex from them. More to the point, All of these are merely logistical problems that must be solved by someone just to keep the household in order… | /r/askMRP | 09/11/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meRead both posts. Coincidentally, when I first walked out on my wife after unacceptable attitude, I also went to get a massage late at night. Not a shady massage place. Just a normal one that's open late. She never asked where I went. Just bitched that I woke the baby up on my way out and it took her an hour to get him back. To sleep blah blah. I just STFU. Took care of the kid. Did household duties. Bought weights. Started lifting. We've barely spoken since aside from logistics. She didn't even … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Lifting and good hygiene is all you need to slay. Don't listen to the trolls who say otherwiseThat..doesn't even come close to making biological or physical sense. Edit: never mind. Read "they" as "you" at first. Redacted. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on me"You know that's untrue. You're conveniently ignoring the rest of my interactions with you every day just so that you can say that. If that's your way of saying that being with you should be enough without us having sex, it's not. That's not what I signed on for. A relationship without sex isn't a relationship anymore. That's a roommate situation, and I'm not okay with that." This feels like DEERing to me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meHow were the "F me or F you" convos botched? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meAfter a bit more consideration I think her "stop mid-BJ" was a shit test and he had good reason to react even more distant than "forehead kiss and leave". "Unbelievable", no forehead kiss. Just walk out. Like out of the house. Don't come back until you're sure she'd be asleep. Or hell, get a hotel. Let her REALLY hamster it up. She needs to know what she did was unacceptable, not merely "bad but tolerable". After that he should STFU for as long as it takes for her to feel dread enough to apologi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meOddly this is the cycle my wife and I have been following for about a year now, and I've been acting BP af the whole time. Now that I'm starting on TRP I hope this gets better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meI think his reaction is textbook OI. The forehead kiss is demeaning. Like father to child. He's not getting butthurt over the hard no. He just leaves. Maybe he's not STFU or using any other dread tactics. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Punishment and RewardsThat all makes sense. All you can do at this point is work on being awesome to build passive dread. Lift. Earn. Manage your family and household. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/11/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Confusing Bedroom SituationIn the case STFU is minimal conversation? Single word replies, mumbled acknowledgment, etc? No initiating conversation in your own? Surely you aren't just not saying a single word outright? | /r/askMRP | 07/11/15 12:06 PM |
| 1 | All you want me for is sexDevelopments afterward? | /r/askMRP | 07/11/15 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Punishment and RewardsHer restoring contact comes from a form of very soft dread. It's her minimal maintenance efforts like the monthly starfish. If she doesn't do even that minimal amount you have a valid reason to stray. So she does it. Problem with this is it always puts the ball in her court. And you're both miserable until SHE decided to give in. I think a better approach here is to go radio silent while also doing whatever chores is agreed should be done. (This process is a whole other issue). Do them, but do t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/15 03:25 AM |
| 1 | You won't know when she cheats.They have this exact thing in Japan. Other interesting Japan facts: A man has grounds for divorce if his wife won't have sex with him. A woman has grounds for divorce if her husband won't provide for the family. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Feels like by the time you take the pill, it is too late for the most of us to really enjoy the experiences.general rules for dating age range. Dating younger: ((age/2)+7) Dating older: ((age*2)-7) If you're 34yo man wanting to date younger women...17+7 = 24 is about where your low-end range should be for LTRs. You can plate as far down as you like. If you're an 18yo college female CCrider: 18*2-7= 29 is max age for LTR. You can CC ride any man who will take you, and most of them will. Older men have more connections/knowledge/money - all to your benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Feels like by the time you take the pill, it is too late for the most of us to really enjoy the experiences.Divorced? Or starting TRP marriage mode? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Attraction is Simpleliterally over 100 articles and you cherry pick one that supports your insecurities. Ok man. Keep on keeping on. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | You are the Deal or No Deal BankerGood post, but that was Snoop's line | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Attraction is SimpleFor the butthurt | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Another animation, Briffaults Law: All relationships are transactionalThis is purely aesthetic, but the "hand drawing everything in" gimmick is..well gimmicky. Just have the images appear on screen, fade in or whatever. Waiting for the whole thing to "get drawn" before the film can progress is a bit tedious when it has to be done for everything that comes on screen. Aside from that, great video; great explanation. "Nice guys = emotional slut" was a new concept to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Don't tell women bad newsThis is clearly an extreme viewpoint not to be used for ltr. This is for plates you aren't emotionally invested with and can drop at A moments notice | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 09:18 AM |
| -1 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?Yeah that's pretty much my life. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 02:13 PM |
| -3 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?Its an attraction thing. Either they've already friendzoned you and don't find it intimidating to touch you, or they want to fuck you and this is their kino. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:24 AM |
| 1 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?girl grabbing hand and escalating kino on first date...yeah ok buddy..if OP is already that good looking and high value he wouldn't be here asking these questions (disclaimer edit: aside from that your advice is solid) | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:37 AM |
| 49 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?Directions unclear, started playing war with my french fry soldiers. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:34 AM |
| 6 | UMichigan girl sleeps with star football player. Gets Chlamydia. Decides to sleep with him again. Gets Chlamydia.Seriously. I would like to see a photo of this nutjob. That was probably the fittest dick she'll get in her life. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Man wonders why his 'experienced', 32 year old wife, won't perform sexually like she did with previous boyfriends.Don't feel bad dude. It faked me out too. I spent a few good moments trying to rationalize why such a sub would exist. A place for RedPill women to give advice? Play devils advocate? Was trying to figure it out while reading OP..and it made it difficult to discern what tone I was supposed to read it in. haha | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 03:57 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend continues to make me proud.I'm guessing self employed in some kind of seasonal industry. With a hefty backup fund. He can just say "nah we'll skip this year". | /r/MensRights | 11/09/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Saw these guys at Dragon*ConIt's ironic that this terribly formatted wall of text rallies so hard against dozens of studies that it claims to have an agenda, when their own writing very CLEARLY has an agenda itself. Example: This also suggests a mechanism for what has often been noted informally (and complained of by women), that circumcised men are more goal-oriented about sex. Getting to orgasm is more important than any pleasures to be had on the way. Circumcised men commonly say that there is nothing wrong with their s… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/15 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Saw these guys at Dragon*ConLet's limit the discussion to "quantifiable (that is, physical) negative effects on grown men who were circumcised at birth and did not have a botched procedure". Sources? Stats? | /r/MensRights | 09/09/15 07:24 AM |
| -4 | Saw these guys at Dragon*ConSettle down bud. I didn't say MRA leaps on circumcision BECAUSE Fems harp about female circumcision. I'm saying the two things are seen as parity in the eyes of their respective movements, despite the male version having no REAL negative effects. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/15 07:14 AM |
| -7 | Saw these guys at Dragon*Con"babies are being unnaturally violated against their will!" edit: but really, I think this is MRAs answer to Feminism's railing against "female circumcision" (removing the clitoris of young girls, as is done in some African cultures). "If women can complain about that, we have every right to complain about this. This is OUR issue!" Even though most men, who aren't trying to go out of their way to be offended by things, don't give their status as cut or uncut a second thought, as can be seen by t… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/15 05:43 AM |
| 0 | 20/M and a kissless virgin.Made out for the very first time. UPDATE!!Desperation doesn't give people blank checks to be inconsiderate to normal social boundaries. OP didn't say the neighbor was OK with it, knew about it, or was even a friend of his to begin with. For all we know he took advantage of the trust of a relative stranger for his own advantage. | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 12:04 PM |
| 6 | 20/M and a kissless virgin.Made out for the very first time. UPDATE!!Given that OP is 20 and probably lives with his parents AND/OR has little respect for the things other people actually earned for themselves, having never done so himself I would not be surprised by this in the slightest. | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.not sure if you know what coercion means. there was no coercion in OPs story. The judge just threw out the prenup because he decided to believe the woman's word. Nobody forced (coerced) him. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Even with the new minimum wage proposal of $15/hour. A full time worker makes about $20k after taxes etc. Not exactly a comfortable lifestyle in most parts of the country. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.As he stated, if she gets married again his alimony is forfeit. If she then divorces the next husband, then yes, she would possibly get it from that guy. Not from two guys at the same time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 04:15 AM |
| -3 | What we are all aiming for (X-post from TrollXChromosomes)someone sidebar and/or sticky this. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/15 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Man kidnapped and gang-raped by 3 women. These are the top comments on the Facebook article about it.(that was several sentences) | /r/MensRights | 08/06/15 06:41 AM |
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