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[–]projectself9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
The double venue is absolutely a good strategy. It makes one date "feel" like two or three. It increase familiarity, and increases comfort. I like that I have a go-cart track close by, because if things are going well at a first venue I can bounce there for a 20 minute visit, because who doesn't want to drive a go cart after 3 beers? It is fun, and with fun comes feelz..
Then I tell them I need to jet home to "let my dog go pee"... I say it in a "the evening is over" kind of way, and they do not want the evening to be over. Walking away at the emotional height of the evening is quite powerful.. Tell them they can join and catch a beer.. so they join, most times driving their own car following me.. logistics.
[–]oolery0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At first I objected to the "water my dog" thing but in reality it is the most subtle neg I have ever seen. Your dog will live. You know. She knows. You haven't been on a four day bender up to this point, unless you have been. It'd be cool to maybe go back to her place and fuck her, but you're just not feeling the vibe. You're making up excuses to bail after all that rapport built up. Well, she knows her pussy is fucking important! And then, just when you were about to slip out the back, she gets you! And then you slip back into the back.
[–]1v1crown1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya my usual strategy in any date is to ask a girl back to my place to watch a movie. How is that not what every guy does? I honestly can't remember a time they have said no...
[–]honorableRP1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Exactly. In my first field report I discuss how handling transportation ended in me getting laid. I also had a ready home which aided in the night going very smoothly.
[–]NeoreactionSafe-2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's funny in reading this how much it reads like a guy pursuing a drug habit.
I think you need to remind yourself that there is a bigger picture too.
A life entirely devoted to getting your (sex) fix isn't all that great.
I'm not saying you shouldn't have sex like a monk mode MGTOW, but some balance in life is important.
[–]BlackMwoyo0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sound like A Beta. I can tell you buck.
[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No, never married, but had enough sex over my lifetime to not feel a dependency about it.
I'm older too... 55... so a totally different place in life.
I recently fucked a 28 year old, but she was fat, so it wasn't so great. The funny thing is that I realized over the course of my entire lifetime I had never fucked a fat chick. Lesson learned... fat chicks aren't that great for sex. But at least I've done just about every category now. (all races, every body type)
You will discover as you age that the focus on sex declines with age because your testosterone declines. After 50 the question becomes more about physical condition than anything else. There are a lot of 30 year olds who are in worse physical shape than me at 55. But that being said I still would like to improve (or maintain) my condition at all times. Lifting is great, but after 50 just exercise of any kind is important.
[–]sup3r_saiyan -5 points-4 points-3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro i don't mean anything by this but you're giving white women WAY too much credit. All i used to do was make sure my boy JJ wasn't working the next morning and i could use his place. Tell her "i'm starving let's go" and bang. If she says 'can my friend come too' then you get her one of the boys
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