I saw Before Sunrise and Before Sunset as a Blue Piller and was enamored by the love between Jesse and Celine. Before Midnight the third installment showed their marriage after 9 years and I watched this as a Red Piller aka realist.

Basically, the marriage is breaking down because Celine is a feminist and Jesse is your typical beta who cant put his foot down.

Let this movie be a cautionary tale to all of you.

Don't marry a feminist. If you have affairs never tell your wife. You and your wife are not equal. You aren't marrying another guy you are marrying a woman. More reason why a woman should be feminine and submissive in every relationship. Watch the movie if you have seen previous movies.

/rant