Being aloof

Archwinger · 2014-01-20T22:02:01+00:00

This only works if she's attracted to you anyway for other reasons (good looks, nice body, she knows you have money and/or a good job, she's seen you demonstrate high status, etc.)

Just not engaging or minimally engaging with a girl on its own isn't going to keep her up at night wondering why you're so aloof and mysterious and why you weren't drooling at her. She has to already be into you, at least a little bit.

ivesaidtoomuch · 2014-01-20T23:45:44+00:00

It's my go-to strategy in a social group setting where you'll see the girl regularly just by virtue of having the same friends. I almost always manage to hook up with the hottest or almost the hottest girl in our groups by simply acting normal/cool, talking to everyone, and treating the hot girl the same way as the ugly ones and the dudes.

It's a terrible strategy in a more short-term setting like a club or bar.

MagicGainbow · 2014-01-20T21:18:57+00:00

Effective.

2014-01-21T02:42:10+00:00

This has been why every girl who's "fallen" for me has fallen. Although, I'm usually aloof cause I'm not interested in anything past a hook up. I think it has to be 100% genuine aloofness though. But hey, fake it til you make it right?

Linoran · 2014-01-21T02:41:58+00:00

Yeah, I use this strategy. But it's not as effective when you're out on the town.

Title	Being aloof
Author	VioletFractal
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	January 20, 2014 8:19 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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